should i be pissed?

[itsjustadrian]

alright here's what's going down. this whole week i haven't seen my girlfriend. we usually see each other about every other day so it's not something i'm used to. i tell her that i want to see her today earlier in the week, but she goes and makes plans to go to the movies. normally, i wouldn't care however, she's going to the movies with some of her other friends and this guy. i don't really care if she hangs out with guys without me, but this guy has done some shit in the past to make me speculate things like grabbing her boobs "on purpose".

should i pissed right now? or am i just overreacting?

[TheFallOfDan]

Do you know for a fact that they've been in the same general area more than once? If so then just ask her in a private conversation "hey whose that?" and if her response seems fast paced and energetic there may be something going, It's all about the way she talks about him...

but dont be pissed right now. my ex used to hang out with 2 guys and i got real upset and confronted her about, then she told me they were gay...the next day i didnt have a girlfriend cause i was "too jealous"

[EmoPunkerGirl]

huuh. coming from a girl.
well i am not your girlfriend but if my boyfriend told me that i would respect that.
if she doesen't I'm sorry but it may be time for a new girlfriend...
and you should be pissed!!!

[mogley]

goto the movies with her..give the guy evil stares every now and than. and just make it clear that shes your gf to him by like kissing her and shit. and its okay to be like pissed or jealous, all guys get that way.

[fromwithin]

screw her friend and get revenge. say "it just fell in".

[Jason Tate]

Ask her about it.

[itsjustadrian]

well, the thing is i know the guy. he's a sarcastic son of a bitch and talks shit about me behind my back. i know that she wouldn't do anything with the guy but that's not what's pissing me off.

am i in the right to be pissed off that she's hanging out with this guy instead of me?

[EmoPunkerGirl]

screw her friend and get revenge. say "it just fell in".



hahaha!!!!

[mogley]

well, the thing is i know the guy. he's a sarcastic son of a bitch and talks shit about me behind my back. i know that she wouldn't do anything with the guy but that's not what's pissing me off.

am i in the right to be pissed off that she's hanging out with this guy instead of me?


she probably means nothing by it. but its natural for you to feel pissed/jealous in a situation like this

[Jason Tate]

well, the thing is i know the guy. he's a sarcastic son of a bitch and talks shit about me behind my back. i know that she wouldn't do anything with the guy but that's not what's pissing me off.

am i in the right to be pissed off that she's hanging out with this guy instead of me?
how do you KNOW she won't do anything with him? as the sarcastic son of a bitch that usually talks shit about girl's boyfriends behind their back - I promise you it works more often then it doesn't.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

she probably means nothing by it. but its natural for you to feel pissed/jealous an a situation like this


that's true too.

[myaimistruex3]

well, the thing is i know the guy. he's a sarcastic son of a bitch and talks shit about me behind my back. i know that she wouldn't do anything with the guy but that's not what's pissing me off.

am i in the right to be pissed off that she's hanging out with this guy instead of me?

I wouldn't worry about it for now. All guys get jealous or protective. If it continues, talk to her about it.

[TheFallOfDan]

Yea you should definatly be pissed, call her as about the situation. Dont just stay on ap.net all day!

[itsjustadrian]

yeah, i'll mention it to her when she gets back in. i don't want to sound like an overprotective fuck.


btw. thanks all of you. i just needed to make sure i wasn't overreacting or anything like that.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

No problem dude.....

[TheFallOfDan]

Your in no way being overprotective, its only natural.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

totally

[1moreandimfree]

did she not invite you to the movies with her

[boysdontcry17]

alright here's what's going down. this whole week i haven't seen my girlfriend. we usually see each other about every other day so it's not something i'm used to. i tell her that i want to see her today earlier in the week, but she goes and makes plans to go to the movies. normally, i wouldn't care however, she's going to the movies with some of her other friends and this guy. i don't really care if she hangs out with guys without me, but this guy has done some shit in the past to make me speculate things like grabbing her boobs "on purpose".

should i pissed right now? or am i just overreacting?

this is serious shit
have a talk with her
a serious talk

[itsjustadrian]

well, her friends and her have known this guy for some time now. and they wanted it to just be an outing with themselves so i didn't want to intrude.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

If that's how she's gonna be you deserve to "intrude"

[xvszero]

It probably depends on whether her friends or her want this guy with them.

Either way you can't accidentally grab a girls tits. Was this tit grabbing before she was dating you?

[EmoPunkerGirl]

If It was it doesen't matter as much.....
does it??

[itsjustadrian]

she wanted to invite him as they were all in the school newspaper staff together.

and the tit thing happened before she was dating me.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

Ohhh does she like him.
and you should still be protective sometimes that let's her know you care.

[absentmindedx]

Just ask her about the guy. You know you trust her so don't get all worked up about it.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

Yup.........

[Freud]

why dont you go to the movies too

[concretedetail]

Yup.........


emo.punker.girl.

what a name...

[bigmike]

Nope.
You shouldn't get pissed at all. You should go to another music webzine's message board and ask those complete strangers for advice.

You know, like getting a 2nd opinion from a different doctor.

[theESCO]

Hang out with said guy and put the fear of god in him, works every time. Just subtly let him know you're not to be fucked with.