Asking a girl to prom

[Erik the Orange]

So...

My school's prom is in three weeks, and everyone is getting to the point of finding someone to go with. There's a girl I really want to ask, we've been friends since early middle school and we get along well. She has a great sense of humor and is really fun to be around, and I know for sure no one else has asked her to prom. Yet. I want to ask, but I have a fear of rejection. Any advice/tips?

[Hamlet]

Just ask her. Seriously.

No dumb mixtapes, no stupid notes, no text messages, no getting a friend to ask her, no rose petals or any of that bullshit.

"Hey. Would you like to go to the prom with me?"

It's that simple.

She either says yes, and you go to the prom and hopefully have a great time.

Or she says no, and you feel like shit for a while but you'll get over it.

Yes, you will be nervous as fuck. Yes, I know it's terrifying.

But if you want to have a chance with any woman, you're gonna have to suck it up, take a risk, and say the words.

Godspeed.

[Smash Adams]

Don't ask her, tell her you're bringing her to prom, and threaten violence if she says no, chicks dig that

[maxvsmaradona]

Hamlet knows his shit.

[Erik the Orange]

Just ask her. Seriously.

No dumb mixtapes, no stupid notes, no text messages, no getting a friend to ask her, no rose petals or any of that bullshit.

"Hey. Would you like to go to the prom with me?"

It's that simple.

She either says yes, and you go to the prom and have a great time, or she says no, and feel shit for a while but you'll get over it.

Yes, you will be nervous as fuck. Yes, I know it's terrifying.

But if you want to have a chance with any woman, you're gonna have to suck it up and say the words.

Godspeed.

Thanks! I was definitely wasn't planning on a mixtape or anything, and I'm definitely nervous, but I'll take my chances. Have to, I guess.
I had a friend ask a girl over Facebook- not the best way to do these kind of things

[Hamlet]

Yeah. Plan B is to put superglue on your hands and grab her. You'll be inseperable.

[xapplexpiex]

This kid in my graduating class ripped off his shirt in front of this girl and he had "go to prom with me" spray painted on his chest. Badass.

[ace1112]

Yeah. Plan B is to put superglue on your hands and grab her. You'll be inseperable.

and as soon as the charges are dropped, the burning sensation goes away, and the skin on your hands grows back, you're home free

[himynameiszack]

This kid in my graduating class ripped off his shirt in front of this girl and he had "go to prom with me" spray painted on his chest. Badass.
I was of thinking of proposing that way. She said yes, right?

[xapplexpiex]

I was of thinking of proposing that way. She said yes, right?
wut. Seriously?

And yeah.

[sargentlgfuad]

ask her plain and simple. however, if she begins to say no, tell her "just kidding, i already have a date." and laugh in her face.

[Jennurna Gray]

Forget about her. Take me.

[sargentlgfuad]

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[3wotkris]

Ask her with your penis. Seriously can not fail.

...You are bigger than this girl right?

[whiterussian]

Tell her no one else wants her and you're her only option. Make her feel cheap too. Chicks love it.

[Auals]

So...

My school's prom is in three weeks, and everyone is getting to the point of finding someone to go with. There's a girl I really want to ask, we've been friends since early middle school and we get along well. She has a great sense of humor and is really fun to be around, and I know for sure no one else has asked her to prom. Yet. I want to ask, but I have a fear of rejection. Any advice/tips?

Hamlet's advice is the best, plus, three weeks to prom and you're all just starting to find dates? WTF dude? If she's still not got a date it's because she's WAITING for someone to ask her, maybe it's you, take your chance man.

I don'tk now about your school but everyone at my school had their prom dates set at the start of the year...

[RushAndAPush]

I need to do this but i'm a wussy.

[Numero10]

Whip it out, that's my solution to everything.

Or ask her real laid back so it doesn't seem like you care that much

[Forever.Zero]

Seriously, if you guys have been chill friends for that long then just flat out ask her without being nervous or putting pressure on her,.

[more heart]

Just ask her. If you two are close and she doesn't have a date yet, I have a good feeling that she'd say yes and go to prom with you. I think girls prefer to go to prom with guys they know well anyway.

[RushAndAPush]

I'm in a similar situation except the relationship i have with this girl consists of saying "hi" in the halls.

[3wotkris]

I'm in a similar situation except the relationship i have with this girl consists of saying "hi" in the halls.

Plenty of girls hook up with guys they have never met before in bars and whatnot, it's a fairly similar situation, only without alcohol I suppose. In short, just cos she doesn't know you doesn't mean she'll say no. Do you have any mutual friends or anything?

[Chris92]

Yeah. Plan B is to put superglue on your hands and grab her. You'll be inseperable.
Wait a second...aren't you the expert cyber-stalker?
Haha...

[roughroads]

Just straight up ask her;
If she says no, drink your problems away.

[yayitsjoe]

do you like this girl? if not, i don't see where the nerves would come from.

[blotto]

Just ask her. Seriously.

No dumb mixtapes, no stupid notes, no text messages, no getting a friend to ask her, no rose petals or any of that bullshit.

"Hey. Would you like to go to the prom with me?"

It's that simple.

She either says yes, and you go to the prom and hopefully have a great time.

Or she says no, and you feel like shit for a while but you'll get over it.

Yes, you will be nervous as fuck. Yes, I know it's terrifying.

But if you want to have a chance with any woman, you're gonna have to suck it up, take a risk, and say the words.

Godspeed.

fuck. i wish you were my friend in high school so you couldve told me these exact words.

[luvsickcatalyst]

So...

My school's prom is in three weeks, and everyone is getting to the point of finding someone to go with. There's a girl I really want to ask, we've been friends since early middle school and we get along well. She has a great sense of humor and is really fun to be around, and I know for sure no one else has asked her to prom. Yet. I want to ask, but I have a fear of rejection. Any advice/tips?

Yeah, last year (Junior year)'s prom was the first year I ever went to one of my school's big dances. I figured I had to go since I was getting closer to the end of high school, plus I had a friend I had gotten to know over that year who I really wanted to ask. My suggestion is just ask her as simply as possible. "Will you go to prom with me?". That's it. In my case, her and I ended up asking each other at the same exact time and it was a little awkward.

Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm also getting the sense you like this girl more than as a friend. I only say that because you described her pretty warmly and you're really afraid of being rejected. I only say this also because I liked the girl I asked last year and really related to what you wrote about her and how I felt about my date. If I'm right, be calm about it (easier said than done, I know) Walk the line between just letting things happen at the dance and trying to take things into your control. Like I ended up weeks after the prom trying to be more obvious with how I liked this girl and it ended up being really awkward and her thinking that we should only be friends. Just be nice and you normally are with her and, if the moment feels right enough (because you never get that perfect, cinematic moment where you can kiss her as the music swells), just say it. And don't overthink it either.

Hamlet knows his shit.

Hahahaha, Hamlet goes psychotic, sees ghosts, repels and leads to the demise of Ophelia, and eventually dies in a sword fight. If there is that much drama at any high school, I would just leave the school.

[deFobbed14yrs]

fuck. i wish you were my friend in high school so you couldve told me these exact words.


did you make a mixtape and give it to a girl and she said no???

[de1337ed]

Just ask her. Seriously.

No dumb mixtapes, no stupid notes, no text messages, no getting a friend to ask her, no rose petals or any of that bullshit.

"Hey. Would you like to go to the prom with me?"

It's that simple.

She either says yes, and you go to the prom and hopefully have a great time.

Or she says no, and you feel like shit for a while but you'll get over it.

Yes, you will be nervous as fuck. Yes, I know it's terrifying.

But if you want to have a chance with any woman, you're gonna have to suck it up, take a risk, and say the words.

Godspeed.

well put. /thread.


Forget about her. Take me.

Forget the OP. I'm here.

[Joe DeAndrea]

Screw the "just straight up ask her" - think of something cool. I initially was going to do that but when I realized that I never see her in school, I thought I'd write her a letter/note and put it on her car; worked perfectly. A more thoughtful idea is going to mean more to a girl, at least.

[brenByah]

You have to just do it. That's all there is to it.

For my Senior prom I called the girl in the middle of class and asked her. All of my classmates were watching........and so was her mom (my teacher whose class i made the call in). You just gotta go for it.

[troubledbyinsects]

Just walk up to her and ask. If she says no, say something like "good, i didn't even fucking want to go with you anyway." and slap her across the face. Girls like it when you're violent with them. Also, make sure you swear a lot. Girls like tough guys. Teach her who's boss, yanno? And if she says yes, proceed to forcefully take off her pants and have sex with her in the classroom/hallway wherever.

[Joe DeAndrea]

Just walk up to her and ask. If she says no, say something like "good, i didn't even fucking want to go with you anyway." and slap her across the face. Girls like it when you're violent with them. Also, make sure you swear a lot. Girls like tough guys. Teach her who's boss, yanno? And if she says yes, proceed to forcefully take off her pants and have sex with her in the classroom/hallway wherever.

lol I don't know why I'm not in this forum more often.

[kerropi]

Oh goodness. What grand advice from all these boys.
Just ask her, but think about how likely it is that she will say yes, to save you both embarassment.

[PerfectChaos337]

I thought Prom wasn't punk though?

[Hamlet]

fuck. i wish you were my friend in high school so you couldve told me these exact words.

lol if I was high school age I wouldn't have been able to tell you anything. Back then I knew ZERO about the opposite sex. It's almost embarrassing thinking about who I used to be... nerdy, shy, and totally clueless.

[Akissforher]

Just ask her. Seriously.

No dumb mixtapes, no stupid notes, no text messages, no getting a friend to ask her, no rose petals or any of that bullshit.

"Hey. Would you like to go to the prom with me?"

It's that simple.

She either says yes, and you go to the prom and hopefully have a great time.

Or she says no, and you feel like shit for a while but you'll get over it.

Yes, you will be nervous as fuck. Yes, I know it's terrifying.

But if you want to have a chance with any woman, you're gonna have to suck it up, take a risk, and say the words.

Godspeed.


Do this.

[Hamlet]

Just walk up to her and ask. If she says no, say something like "good, i didn't even fucking want to go with you anyway." and slap her across the face. Girls like it when you're violent with them. Also, make sure you swear a lot. Girls like tough guys. Teach her who's boss, yanno? And if she says yes, proceed to forcefully take off her pants and have sex with her in the classroom/hallway wherever.

http://memegenerator.net/Joseph-Ducreux/ImageMacro/560587/Joseph-Ducreux-in-the-manner-of-an-employer.jpg

[HometownHero]

Forget about her. Take me.

You didn't think I would see this. I saw this. How could you :-(

<3 you still

[flask]

did you make a mixtape and give it to a girl and she said no???

im guilty of this.

[blotto]

did you make a mixtape and give it to a girl and she said no???

haha nooooooo, just too big of a wuss to talk to girls i was interested in

[Sloth7]

Here's your key to doing well with the ladies:


http://cdn.wg.uproxx.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/dennis-system.jpg

[muzicislife31]

Just do it!

[CheckeredFloors]

She's going to say no, don't embarrass yourself.
Just take your sister/cousin

[xcloud66x]

I thought Prom wasn't punk though?

punk goes crunk

[Scrandon]

Forget about her. Take me.

Your crap is getting really old fast.

[isntnikione]

So...

My school's prom is in three weeks, and everyone is getting to the point of finding someone to go with. There's a girl I really want to ask, we've been friends since early middle school and we get along well. She has a great sense of humor and is really fun to be around, and I know for sure no one else has asked her to prom. Yet. I want to ask, but I have a fear of rejection. Any advice/tips?


Let us know how it goes !!

Good luck! :]

[the seventeenth]

Yeah. Plan B is to put superglue on your hands and grab her. You'll be inseperable.
Make sure it's her boobs though, or the entire plan falls through. ha

[Erik the Orange]

Just ask her. Seriously.

No dumb mixtapes, no stupid notes, no text messages, no getting a friend to ask her, no rose petals or any of that bullshit.

"Hey. Would you like to go to the prom with me?"

It's that simple.

She either says yes, and you go to the prom and hopefully have a great time.

Or she says no, and you feel like shit for a while but you'll get over it.

Yes, you will be nervous as fuck. Yes, I know it's terrifying.

But if you want to have a chance with any woman, you're gonna have to suck it up, take a risk, and say the words.

Godspeed.

Seriously, if you guys have been chill friends for that long then just flat out ask her without being nervous or putting pressure on her,.

Just ask her. If you two are close and she doesn't have a date yet, I have a good feeling that she'd say yes and go to prom with you. I think girls prefer to go to prom with guys they know well anyway.

Yeah, last year (Junior year)'s prom was the first year I ever went to one of my school's big dances. I figured I had to go since I was getting closer to the end of high school, plus I had a friend I had gotten to know over that year who I really wanted to ask. My suggestion is just ask her as simply as possible. "Will you go to prom with me?". That's it. In my case, her and I ended up asking each other at the same exact time and it was a little awkward.

Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm also getting the sense you like this girl more than as a friend. I only say that because you described her pretty warmly and you're really afraid of being rejected. I only say this also because I liked the girl I asked last year and really related to what you wrote about her and how I felt about my date. If I'm right, be calm about it (easier said than done, I know) Walk the line between just letting things happen at the dance and trying to take things into your control. Like I ended up weeks after the prom trying to be more obvious with how I liked this girl and it ended up being really awkward and her thinking that we should only be friends. Just be nice and you normally are with her and, if the moment feels right enough (because you never get that perfect, cinematic moment where you can kiss her as the music swells), just say it. And don't overthink it either.

Best advice in the thread! Thanks for all the input!

Screw the "just straight up ask her" - think of something cool. I initially was going to do that but when I realized that I never see her in school, I thought I'd write her a letter/note and put it on her car; worked perfectly. A more thoughtful idea is going to mean more to a girl, at least.

I thought about doing someething like that, but wouldn't that make me look desperate? I mean, she's in a good 3 or 4 of my classes, so I would have time to ask in person.

[Erik the Orange]

And I'm going to man up and ask her early this week. I'll post in this thread how it went. ;-)

[troubledbyinsects]

http://memegenerator.net/Joseph-Ducreux/ImageMacro/560587/Joseph-Ducreux-in-the-manner-of-an-employer.jpg
lol

[Jennurna Gray]

Forget the OP. I'm here.
Of course, :)
You didn't think I would see this. I saw this. How could you :-(
<3 you still
It's an open relationship. You'll always love me.
Your crap is getting really old fast.
lolwut
My crap is getting old fast? May I ask what crap I'm giving YOU? Because nothing, I don't think, I've ever said has been directed towards you.

[zachff]

Grab the bull by the horns and the bear by the balls and just do it

[terror_91]

Roses are red
Violets are blue
I've got your family
Let's go to prom.

[superdork]

The just ask her advice is great. Because chances are that she is dying for someone to ask her, and most girls won't say no to a date if they don't have one yet for prom. And if you've known her for a while and gets along with well, there isn't that awkward factor of being with someone you don't know.

[Pudge Halter]

Just ask her. Seriously.

No dumb mixtapes, no stupid notes, no text messages, no getting a friend to ask her, no rose petals or any of that bullshit.

"Hey. Would you like to go to the prom with me?"

It's that simple.

She either says yes, and you go to the prom and hopefully have a great time.

Or she says no, and you feel like shit for a while but you'll get over it.

Yes, you will be nervous as fuck. Yes, I know it's terrifying.

But if you want to have a chance with any woman, you're gonna have to suck it up, take a risk, and say the words.

Godspeed.

All true.
Also, women love spontaneity. Or, so I've heard. I may just be generalizing about women. It's a bad habit of mine.

[alltimehoe93]

Hamlet's advice is the best, plus, three weeks to prom and you're all just starting to find dates? WTF dude? If she's still not got a date it's because she's WAITING for someone to ask her, maybe it's you, take your chance man.

I don'tk now about your school but everyone at my school had their prom dates set at the start of the year...
That's what I was thinking, almost everyone had their dates for my prom months ago and our prom's in early May.






And to the OP, good luck, I like the ripping the shirt open with "go to prom with me?" on the chest option.
ahah.

[Yellowcard2006]

You are probably in the friend zone. I'd expect a no.

[deFobbed14yrs]

im guilty of this.

did she say yes??

and i think it's sweet. but only like if you know the girl, like are friends with her or something.

[alltimehoe93]

Here's your key to doing well with the ladies:


http://cdn.wg.uproxx.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/dennis-system.jpg
hahaha words of wisdom. I love Dennis.

[richter915]

Don't ask her, tell her you're bringing her to prom, and threaten violence if she says no, chicks dig that
winnnn

[flask]

did she say yes??

and i think it's sweet. but only like if you know the girl, like are friends with her or something.

she said no haha.
yeah we were friends at the time so she let me down pretty easily but i still felt like an ass afterwards.

[terror_91]

she said no haha.
yeah we were friends at the time so she let me down pretty easily but i still felt like an ass afterwards.
At least you got hayley williams to write on your AP profile though. That's pretty fucking ace.

[flask]

At least you got hayley williams to write on your AP profile though. That's pretty fucking ace.

thanks for pointing that out for me because i had no idea that was there haha

[Scrandon]

lolwut
My crap is getting old fast? May I ask what crap I'm giving YOU? Because nothing, I don't think, I've ever said has been directed towards you.

Oh God, just your whole 'Internet slut' act. And I know it's not directed toward me, it's still just annoying to read in every damn PL.

[terror_91]

thanks for pointing that out for me because i had no idea that was there haha
I knew you didn't, it's why I posted it. It was only two days ago and you hadn't written back. I'm pretty jealous haha.

[terror_91]

Oh God, just your whole 'Internet slut' act. And I know it's not directed toward me, it's still just annoying to read in every damn PL.
Don't read it then.

Fuck me, people complain about the silliest shit with the easiest fucking solutions.

[allthewaysaid]

Is she cute? Because if she's not, then you have time to plan this shit out, but if she is cute then just go to her house right now and ask her before someone else beats you to it.

[HometownHero]

Of course, :)

It's an open relationship. You'll always love me.

lolwut
My crap is getting old fast? May I ask what crap I'm giving YOU? Because nothing, I don't think, I've ever said has been directed towards you.

If you say so.... :bluesad:

[Scrandon]

Don't read it then.

Fuck me, people complain about the silliest shit with the easiest fucking solutions.

Definitely a possibility, might have to start.

[terror_91]

Definitely a possibility, might have to start.
You complain about something, I give you the fucking answer to the problem and then you "might have to start"? You will be posting in 2 days time about the same old bullshit.

Do what I tell you or fuck off.

[himynameiszack]

wut. Seriously?

And yeah.
Sarcasm, silly. :rolleyes:

[flask]

I knew you didn't, it's why I posted it. It was only two days ago and you hadn't written back. I'm pretty jealous haha.

haha just write something on her wall. she seems cool about replying to most people. im not even a paramore fan i just asked her what her favorite mewithoutYou album is.

[Nick Le]

lol I don't know why I'm not in this forum more often.
why i love lurking PL, haha

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why have I never seen this? Lol at TMac.

[friskycurtain]

She's going to say no, don't embarrass yourself.
Just take your sister/cousin

LMAO

[JCSurf27]

prom was a waste of time. Everything that happens after prom is what makes prom good.

[Jennurna Gray]

Oh God, just your whole 'Internet slut' act. And I know it's not directed toward me, it's still just annoying to read in every damn PL.
I thought I was toning it down. If you think I'm bad here...

Block my posts, then. It's easy, you've been here long enough to know how.

[Jennurna Gray]

If you say so.... :bluesad:
Don't cry, Kyle! Just because I'm married to like 6 different people doesn't mean that you're not my favorite.

[rhinitus]

I asked a girl to prom by building PROM w/ huge 2x4s, bringing them to a baseball field and laying them up against the backstop, dousing them in gasoline, showing up unannounced at her house and telling her to get in the car, and then lighting them on fire with roman candles. Fire department showed up and everything, that shit was blazing. I was, of course, long gone by then.

Cool to find a girl/go to a school where people don't do elaborate shit though. It's nerve wracking.

[SmeezyBeezy]

get a boombox, get "jesse buy nothing, go to prom anyways" by hellogoodbye. Find her, turn the song on, loud, do a dance, pop the question,

[terror_91]

haha just write something on her wall. she seems cool about replying to most people. im not even a paramore fan i just asked her what her favorite mewithoutYou album is.
I just want to ask her if she is ok with me being inside of her.

[terror_91]

I thought I was toning it down. If you think I'm bad here...

Block my posts, then. It's easy, you've been here long enough to know how.
I think you need to tone it up...

with pics...

naked pics...

[Jennurna Gray]

I think you need to tone it up...

with pics...

naked pics...
Pat.

[terror_91]

Pat.
Lol'd.

[showmethefever]

I was going to go with the "fuck it, I'll just straight up ask her," but I didn't. I ended up going to her dad's shop where her and her friends were working on decorations for ASB and I took this baseball and wrote "Prom?" on it with my name. It was corny as fuck and not my idea, but hey, it worked.

And so it doesn't sound so random, I play baseball and she'd gone to a couple of our games.

[Jennurna Gray]

Lol'd.
At your name?

[terror_91]

At your name?
Just reminded me of my friends where I say something outrageous and they reply with just "Pat..."

[tommyishere]

My prom was yesterday, it was fucking awesome.

But I just straight up asked the girl, and you should probably get on it because you will have to get your Tux, flowers, etc..

[HometownHero]

Don't cry, Kyle! Just because I'm married to like 6 different people doesn't mean that you're not my favorite.
I get freaked out when people use my name here hahaha

[Scrandon]

You complain about something, I give you the fucking answer to the problem and then you "might have to start"? You will be posting in 2 days time about the same old bullshit.

Do what I tell you or fuck off.

You don't fucking know me, kid. Hop the fuck off.

[ChelseaRiane]

Oh God, just your whole 'Internet slut' act. And I know it's not directed toward me, it's still just annoying to read in every damn PL.

I was just going to say something exactly like this. She's so annoying. She's in every fucking thread. I bet she doesn't give two shits about any topics being discussed, she only cares about what internet boy she can turn on the fastest.

[deFobbed14yrs]

she said no haha.
yeah we were friends at the time so she let me down pretty easily but i still felt like an ass afterwards.

i woulda said yes. well only if they were good songs.

[Scrandon]

I was just going to say something exactly like this. She's so annoying. She's in every fucking thread. I bet she doesn't give two shits about any topics being discussed, she only cares about what internet boy she can turn on the fastest.

Thank You! I was really fricken surprised when everyone defended her, but idk it's just the same thing over and over and just some stupid act. Oh well- what can ya do...

[flask]

i woulda said yes. well only if they were good songs.

i dont remember what was on there. definitely circa survive, explosions in the sky, and some gaslight anthem. i dont remember what else. she said it wasn't that she didn't want to go with me. she couldn't go at all. this wasn't prom btw, it was winter formal.

[deFobbed14yrs]

i dont remember what was on there. definitely circa survive, explosions in the sky, and some gaslight anthem. i dont remember what else. she said it wasn't that she didn't want to go with me. she couldn't go at all. this wasn't prom btw, it was winter formal.

oh, so she was "busy" lol

[terror_91]

You don't fucking know me, kid. Hop the fuck off.
Please, I know enough of you to realise that you're an idiot.

[ChelseaRiane]

Thank You! I was really fricken surprised when everyone defended her, but idk it's just the same thing over and over and just some stupid act. Oh well- what can ya do...

They all defend her because she probably sends them nudes. I learned to ignore her though hah

[Scrandon]

Please, I know enough of you to realise that you're an idiot.

Wow I love how you tell me to ignore people, yet you butt into conversations and hate on people. Take your own advice bro. pce

[aerofan11]

They all defend her because she probably sends them nudes. I learned to ignore her though hah
They defend her, to get in her good books, hoping that she will eventually send nudes. But it won't, cause she'll be only teasing. :-)

[ChelseaRiane]

They defend her, to get in her good books, hoping that she will eventually send nudes. But it won't, cause she'll be only teasing. :-)

Hah thats a good theory! She's gotta go though, the internet tease act gets old fast

[Jennurna Gray]

Just reminded me of my friends where I say something outrageous and they reply with just "Pat..."
Oh, I do that. Or I'll just be like 'Oh, you...'
I get freaked out when people use my name here hahaha
Get used to it, I hate using SNs.

[Jennurna Gray]

Wow I love how you tell me to ignore people, yet you butt into conversations and hate on people. Take your own advice bro. pce
Maybe you should take your own advice? I don't do anything to intentionally bother you, and I apologize if my being an 'internet slut' or whatever annoys you, but it's who I am, I guess, and that doesn't concern you.

[HometownHero]

Oh, I do that. Or I'll just be like 'Oh, you...'

Get used to it, I hate using SNs.

It's okay that you are an internet slut. Don't worry

[Jennurna Gray]

It's okay that you are an internet slut. Don't worry
lol, well I didn't expect YOU to mind.

[ChelseaRiane]

Oh for the love of god.

[terror_91]

Wow I love how you tell me to ignore people, yet you butt into conversations and hate on people. Take your own advice bro. pce
I love how post on a public internet forum and think it's a private conversation. I love how you claim to be a catholic but when it comes to turning the other cheek, there is nothing. I love how you use bro and peace, dude.

[Scrandon]

I love how post on a public internet forum and think it's a private conversation. I love how you claim to be a catholic but when it comes to turning the other cheek, there is nothing. I love how you use bro and peace, dude.
You got it, chief.

[RushAndAPush]

Time Is Running Out :(

[Erik the Orange]

UPDATE:

I asked, face-to-face, during school in the hallway between classes. She said she was planning on just going with a group of people, but I could go with the same group.

Fuck prom. Fuck my life.

[Hamlet]

UPDATE:

I asked, face-to-face, during school in the hallway between classes. She said she was planning on just going with a group of people, but I could go with the same group.

Fuck prom. Fuck my life.

First of all, well done on asking her straight up.

Second of all, fuck.

Any chance you could change her plans? Or was she just saying it to let you down easy?

[Erik the Orange]

Fuck.

Any chance you could change her plans? Or was it just an easy way to reject you?

Well, the kicker is that the group she's going with is a group of a bunch of my friends too, so it was about the most ambiguous answer I could have gotten, not sure what to do now. I tried to be confident and everything, I guess my best just wasn't enough

[terror_91]

UPDATE:

I asked, face-to-face, during school in the hallway between classes. She said she was planning on just going with a group of people, but I could go with the same group.

Fuck prom. Fuck my life.
I'm sorry dude. Well done on asking her straight up though. That was the best way to do it and unfortunately, this time, it didn't work out.

[RushAndAPush]

UPDATE:

I asked, face-to-face, during school in the hallway between classes. She said she was planning on just going with a group of people, but I could go with the same group.

Fuck prom. Fuck my life.I really respect that you had the courage to ask her. I don't even think i could ask the girl i want.

[Erik the Orange]

I just don't know what to do next? Ask someone else? Go with that group? Not go to prom altogether?

[alliegator16]

I think you should still go. Prom can still be fun without a date.

[Erik the Orange]

I probably should, but right now I just feel way down in the dumps. I need a day to just get my self-esteem back up and then figure out what to do.

[Hamlet]

Well, the kicker is that the group she's going with is a group of a bunch of my friends too, so it was about the most ambiguous answer I could have gotten, not sure what to do now. I tried to be confident and everything, I guess my best just wasn't enough

Hmm. This is a long shot but you could try again and be specific about taking her as a date. If this fails, then tough luck. Doing the group thing is total friend zone material.

Do still go to the prom though, even if you are going stag. You never know what could happen there, or at the afterparty...

[phil19]

UPDATE:

I asked, face-to-face, during school in the hallway between classes. She said she was planning on just going with a group of people, but I could go with the same group.

Fuck prom. Fuck my life.

that brings back the memories

[kerropi]

I probably should, but right now I just feel way down in the dumps. I need a day to just get my self-esteem back up and then figure out what to do.
Well done dude for just asking her. I think you should go regardless. Is there someone else you want to go with? Also, you will probably end up hanging with everyone once you get there anyways. Maybe just go with that group? What's the harm?...
Although, we don't have prom here so I cant give full advice in this dept.

[ChelseaRiane]

UPDATE:

I asked, face-to-face, during school in the hallway between classes. She said she was planning on just going with a group of people, but I could go with the same group.

Fuck prom. Fuck my life.


Good job :) And thats better then nothing, right?

Still go with her, who knows what will happen once you're there

[alix.xo]

Just ask her. Seriously.

No dumb mixtapes, no stupid notes, no text messages, no getting a friend to ask her, no rose petals or any of that bullshit.

"Hey. Would you like to go to the prom with me?"

It's that simple.

She either says yes, and you go to the prom and hopefully have a great time.

Or she says no, and you feel like shit for a while but you'll get over it.

Yes, you will be nervous as fuck. Yes, I know it's terrifying.

But if you want to have a chance with any woman, you're gonna have to suck it up, take a risk, and say the words.

Godspeed.

genius.

[RushAndAPush]

Well my school prom is today. It's far too late I know but would it have been possible to ask a senior to go even though I'm a junior?

[terror_91]

Well my school prom is today. It's far too late I know but would it have been possible to ask a senior to go even though I'm a junior?
Nope. It's illegal.

[Joe DeAndrea]

Prom's tonight for me too. Gonna die in my tux in the heat.

[RushAndAPush]

Nope. It's illegal.Are you being sarcastic? Because if you are I can't tell.

[troubledbyinsects]

Are you being sarcastic? Because if you are I can't tell.
He's dead serious, it's 100% illegal. Depending on the state you live in, it's punishable by law in some cases.

[troubledbyinsects]

Oh, and prom is stupid

[RushAndAPush]

He's dead serious, it's 100% illegal. Depending on the state you live in, it's punishable by law in some cases.Ok you just went over the edge. I Demand The Cold Hard Truth...please.

[troubledbyinsects]

Ok you just went over the edge. I Demand The Cold Hard Truth...please.
Why the fuck would I lie to you?

[RushAndAPush]

Why the fuck would I lie to you?Entertainment? I don't know your motives.

[troubledbyinsects]

Entertainment? I don't know your motives.
I'm not one for entertaining.

[terror_91]

Are you being sarcastic? Because if you are I can't tell.
Of course not. It can get you jail time depending on the circumstances.
I'm not one for entertaining.
He's not one for entertaining.