I'm tired of waiting.

[frenchatticus]

When am I going to meet a cute girl who's into the same weird shit as I am

[introduction]

Depends how weird. The way I see it, the weirder your shit gets, the longer you'll have to wait. Furthermore, if you're lookin for a hot girl, the time you wait doubles.

[frenchatticus]

Not weird at all according to AP.net standards. Just someone who enjoys good music and movies, and doesn't take social status too seriously.
But that's way more uncommon than it ever should be, this generation was better when I was in the single digits.

Note: Any time someone fits my criteria, they aren't cute. Or maybe I'm excessively picky.

[fishguts182]

Not weird at all according to AP.net standards. Just someone who enjoys good music, movies, and doesn't take social status too seriously.
But that's way more uncommon than it ever should be, this generation was better when I was in the single digits.


sounds like we are waiting for the same thing, alot of girls here take social status way too seriously

[zion the lion]

I never get what people mean by social status.

[frenchatticus]

I never get what people mean by social status.

Not social classes or anything, but just people labeling groups the way they do.
I'm not trying to be with a girl who only feels like she fits in with jocks and pretty girls.
And I'm not trying to be with a girl who thinks she only belongs with scene kids.
Or any group that pre-judges people who aren't like them.

edit: not saying that all jocks, pretty girls, or scene kids don't accept people who look and dress differently or have different interests. just saying that when the group consists solely of the same cookie cutter person throughout, it tends to be more judgmental to outsiders.

[zion the lion]

Not social classes or anything, but just people labeling groups the way the do.
I'm not trying to be with a girl who only feels like she fits in with jocks and pretty girls.
And I'm not trying to be with a girl who thinks she only belongs with scene kids.
Or any group that pre-judges people who aren't like them.

edit: not saying that all jocks, pretty girls, or scene kids don't accept people who look and dress differently or have different interests.

Oh I get it. I gave that whole I want to be popular/fit in/be in a clique or whatever thing up when I was 12. But then again I left school so I guess I forgot about all that stuff.

[Sloth7]

Don't focus on it. A lot of the time, things happen unexpectedly when it comes to romance when you're not expecting it. Spend your time doing what you enjoy and what makes you happy and things will happen when they're supposed to.

[vivatoto56]

I think it depends on your weight. Almost solely.

EDIT: I see you have 500 Days of Summer as one of your favorite movies. I take it Zooey Deschanel is where this question originated?

[phil19]

these girls dont come along very often, and when they do, they just want to be your friend

[zion the lion]

these girls dont come along very often, and when they do, they just want to be your friend

Or they're not pretty enough. I've seen it happen with my friends its so weird.

[phil19]

Or they're not pretty enough. I've seen it happen with my friends its so weird.

in which case, he'll just want to be their friend

[LikeSwingSets]

Not weird at all according to AP.net standards. Just someone who enjoys good music and movies, and doesn't take social status too seriously.
But that's way more uncommon than it ever should be, this generation was better when I was in the single digits.

Note: Any time someone fits my criteria, they aren't cute. Or maybe I'm excessively picky.

I'm extremely picky too and faced exactly the same problem, I struck VERY lucky meeting someone who'd been through more or less the same things as me and turned out to be a right weirdo too.

Do you mean you're looking for someone you can have PROPER fun with without feeling like they'll look down on you for being stupid/making a fool out of yourself?

Because that's what I needed, you'll find her eventually :)

[rosielikesyou]

Most people will cling to those labels at that age. Unfortunately high school is kind of a quagmire of social status based groups. Wait 'till you get to college!

It was actually pretty opposite for me though, all the guys here are hipsters. I've met like, one dude who's into my music. Sad.

[Auals]

When am I going to meet a cute girl who's into the same weird shit as I am

17? Still in higshchool? Going to college? If you're heading to college soon you'll someone. Just don't expect to find them by doing the same things you normally do. Spread out a little.

You'll find them. Or, if you're super lucky you'll realise that someone you already know is exactly that but you friendzoned them YEARS ago and didn't think about it.

Mindfucks. They do actually happen.

[zion the lion]

in which case, he'll just want to be their friend

Its funny but guys at that age (and probably any age) are pretty shallow and friendzone the girls that are perfect for them.

Its funnier that I'm saying "guys that age" even though we're the same age.

[Pawan1993]

these girls dont come along very often, and when they do, they just want to be your friend
How I agree with this. I like this girl who is/was my friend but now it's gone awkward as in we don't talk at all pretty much and this was like a month after I started liking her which was a month after we became friends.

[nebs19]

Your all so young, Stop worrying about that shit you got lots of time to meet cool girls who are into the same stuff and aslo stop concentrating on finding girls into the same stuff. If you find a girl whos not who you like you can always introduce her to things you like and vica versa. its more interesting that way.

[Jennurna Gray]

Go to new places where there could be new people and be friendly.

Or go to a show in Kenosha, WI... I can guarantee you'll meet someone there... ;]

[Hamlet]

When am I going to meet a cute girl who's into the same weird shit as I am

What the fuck, dude.

If you've read any of my serious posts you'll know what I'm about up in here.

Girls, jobs, success, whatever you want in this world, is not just going to fall into your lap.

If you want it, go out and get it.

[phil19]

How I agree with this. I like this girl who is/was my friend but now it's gone awkward as in we don't talk at all pretty much and this was like a month after I started liking her which was a month after we became friends.

yeah it sucks. it always seems to be the way. but trust me, its worth having girls like this in your life if only as friends.

[rawr!itschelc]

When am I going to meet a cute girl who's into the same weird shit as I am
It depends how bad you want one, what you are looking for and how bad you search.

It's simple enough =P

[JCSurf27]

What the fuck, dude.

If you've read any of my serious posts you'll know what I'm about up in here.

Girls, jobs, success, whatever you want in this world, is not just going to fall into your lap.

If you want it, go out and get it.

Agreed 100%

[terror_91]

Maybe you are a douchebag.

[Whalejaw]

Your all so young, Stop worrying about that shit you got lots of time to meet cool girls who are into the same stuff and aslo stop concentrating on finding girls into the same stuff. If you find a girl whos not who you like you can always introduce her to things you like and vica versa. its more interesting that way.
Best post right here.

[argg_xo]

Go to new places where there could be new people and be friendly.

Or go to a show in Kenosha, WI... I can guarantee you'll meet someone there... ;]

nice and discrete jenna, good job!
btw, how is the tour de hawt guys fund coming along?

[saysmydoctor]

I never get what people mean by social status.
Sound it out.

[XxCambiaxX]

Go to new places where there could be new people and be friendly.

Or go to a show in Kenosha, WI... I can guarantee you'll meet someone there... ;]


Well play, comrade, well played

:clap:


i'll join you in kenosha (:

[frenchatticus]

I think it depends on your weight. Almost solely.

EDIT: I see you have 500 Days of Summer as one of your favorite movies. I take it Zooey Deschanel is where this question originated?

haha well I was just thinking about all this on my own, but definitely thought of 500 days when it came to wording it

[geebee889]

these girls dont come along very often, and when they do, they just want to be your friend


I feel like this is the situation I get stuck in. I find a guy who likes everything I do, but he only wants to be my friend. Fuck.

[frenchatticus]

Go to new places where there could be new people and be friendly.

Or go to a show in Kenosha, WI... I can guarantee you'll meet someone there... ;]

sounds quite intriguing haha

[drevans18]

17? Still in higshchool? Going to college? If you're heading to college soon you'll someone. Just don't expect to find them by doing the same things you normally do. Spread out a little.

You'll find them. Or, if you're super lucky you'll realise that someone you already know is exactly that but you friendzoned them YEARS ago and didn't think about it.

Mindfucks. They do actually happen.

yeah, completely agree. happened with my last girlfriend (we ended up dating for over a year). i'm at college now and i think this is happening to me right now haha. but opinion: does that give you a better chance or a worse chance?

and mindfucks. they're real.

[SLoT]

Not weird at all according to AP.net standards. Just someone who enjoys good music and movies, and doesn't take social status too seriously.
But that's way more uncommon than it ever should be, this generation was better when I was in the single digits.

Note: Any time someone fits my criteria, they aren't cute. Or maybe I'm excessively picky.
You mean you can't find someone who likes good music, movies, and is cute. You live in Orlando. Obviously, you're the problem.

[frenchatticus]

haha my bad

[de1337ed]

What the fuck, dude.

If you've read any of my serious posts you'll know what I'm about up in here.

Girls, jobs, success, whatever you want in this world, is not just going to fall into your lap.

If you want it, go out and get it.

Hamlet always speaks sound wisdom. OP, listen to his words.

Go to new places where there could be new people and be friendly.

Or go to a show in Kenosha, WI... I can guarantee you'll meet someone there... ;]

BE RIGHT THERE!

[new_arbiter]

Unless you're a recluse, you probably have the opportunity to meet them all the time.

Regardless:

W4m0tIo2Hqs

[Auals]

yeah, completely agree. happened with my last girlfriend (we ended up dating for over a year). i'm at college now and i think this is happening to me right now haha. but opinion: does that give you a better chance or a worse chance?

and mindfucks. they're real.

Same. Personally I think it gives you a better chance. A much better chance. I have my own reasons for saying it but I think the best way to explain it is that if you are that naturally comfortable with someone, especially if it's someone you've been good friends with for ages, they already know you. Plus, they trust you, they know your faults, and if you're so close that they're one of your best friends then they probably think your faults are actually kinda awesome :p

The downside is always the break up though... I mean, especially in the late teens, early twenties, it's not fun. I know me saying that is a little bit precocious considering I'm only just 20 but still, losing someone you seriously connect with is never fun.


Oh and; Mind fucks, fo rizzle ma nizzle.

[aimee<3]

Not weird at all according to AP.net standards. Just someone who enjoys good music and movies, and doesn't take social status too seriously.
But that's way more uncommon than it ever should be, this generation was better when I was in the single digits.

Note: Any time someone fits my criteria, they aren't cute. Or maybe I'm excessively picky.

Well I listen to good music. I like good movies, I can pretty much watch anything thats interesting. I could careless how people look at me or what they think about me. I'm very out going and have fun. And not to sound self centered or whatever you wanna call it I think I'm cute lol.

But I know what you mean, it's the same way for me. The guys that I like are either gay or they have a girlfriend already. Or their personality is awesome but they arent atractive. (Not saying I go by looks)

[yourface88]

alrite man, first off youre only 17. give it some time. but if youre just waiting for things to work out for you, then you are contributing to the problem. if you dont like how things are, do something about it. sitting around holding a pity party is no the way to get what you are looking for. get out and about and put your face out there and dont blame the world. have fun with life

[lmorris956]

Someone already suggested something similar, but I wanted to mention something that happened to me that might be relevant. Last year, this girl started hanging out with me and my roommate (she was into my roommate at the time, but later learned what a horrible, horrible mistake that was). I already knew her a little bit because we were in a play the semester before that, but I didn't pick up any feelings at the time. However, as I got to know her, I really started falling hard for her, and we ended up in a relationship for a brief time.
The relevant part of this is that on the surface, we're not really similar at all. She likes some of my music and I like some of hers, but our tastes don't overlap a whole lot. Ditto with movies. I'm really straight-laced and she's fairly "wild." However, that didn't matter to us. We were so close to each other because of who we are as people, not because of our tastes. The reason we broke up wasn't because of a personality clash, but because of the efforts of another guy. Even now, I feel that of the girls I know, I stand probably the best chance of a long-term relationship with her than with anyone else.
If she doesn't share your tastes, don't immediately write her off. In my experience, it didn't matter. I introduced her to some of my interests, and it was so great whenever she later ended up liking them too (Firefly was particularly gratifying). Though you may think that things do or do not work well on paper, things aren't that simple. Hope this helps.

[evvandflow]

youre 17 and youre tired of waiting?? X-)

[phillipjacob]

the moment that you stop waiting is he moment that it stops.

that might not make much sense to some people
but think bout it

[alix.xo]

Your all so young, Stop worrying about that shit you got lots of time to meet cool girls who are into the same stuff and aslo stop concentrating on finding girls into the same stuff. If you find a girl whos not who you like you can always introduce her to things you like and vica versa. its more interesting that way.
exactly! why would you want to be with someone who is exactly like you are? my boyfriend and i liked totally different things when we met, but now i listen to Us3 and love to work on my car, and he sings along with DCFC in the car and will go horseback riding with me. the point is to grow and change together, not be the same from the start, talk about blah.

[xAnti-Violentx]

Ah, we're all tired of waiting believe me. I have quite a few interesting guys around me and I'd love to be with them. But usually I just end up fooling around with them or if anything serious happens it only lasts for a rather short time.
I just want someone who will stick around for a while. I also believe it's mostly my fault that things last for only a short time. God knows, I'm even too tired to think about that.

[Jennurna Gray]

nice and discrete jenna, good job!
btw, how is the tour de hawt guys fund coming along?
:P
It would have been enormous... That is, if I hadn't spent it all on alcohol this past weekend... Oops.
I'll make it up, promise. How's your's looking?
Well play, comrade, well played
i'll join you in kenosha (:
You have no idea how excited I am to see a fellow Wisconsinian on AP. I've only seen three, and they've all lived in Madison. Where is it that you live?
sounds quite intriguing haha
Oh, it will be. I wonder how many AP kids would go to a Kenosha show... There's one this friday, but it's Chase Coy, lol.
I'll be sure to post all about the next good one, though. Hahaha.
BE RIGHT THERE!
That^^
You're invited.

[argg_xo]

:P
It would have been enormous... That is, if I hadn't spent it all on alcohol this past weekend... Oops.
I'll make it up, promise. How's your's looking?

Hhahaha, mine is good right now, but I'm going to Chicago in 10 days, that will probably change after that. I approve of the reason you spent your fund on though, its a decent reason.

[Jennurna Gray]

Hhahaha, mine is good right now, but I'm going to Chicago in 10 days, that will probably change after that. I approve of the reason you spent your fund on though, its a decent reason.
Mmm, chicago. Make sure to eat a hotdog, <3
But we could be drinking alcohol with the hot aussies and koalas, had we saved our doh.

[argg_xo]

Mmm, chicago. Make sure to eat a hotdog, <3
But we could be drinking alcohol with the hot aussies and koalas, had we saved our doh.

That's on my list of things to eat, which is just a chicago style hotdog and pizza, lol
hawt aussie's and european boys could have been buying us drinks, then we could have really saved some bucks

[Jennurna Gray]

That's on my list of things to eat, which is just a chicago style hotdog and pizza, lol
hawt aussie's and european boys could have been buying us drinks, then we could have really saved some bucks
Oh how I miss chicago's hotdogs. Good thing we have a Trolley Dogs, otherwise I'd go mad.
And they will! Someday. All my hopes and dreams are now resting on those two syllables... someday.

[ace1112]

these girls dont come along very often, and when they do, they just want to be your friend

very true

[superdork]

Well, the waiting thing hasn't been working over on this end either...

Last boyfriend i had, I really met through friends. We hung out a few times in a group, eventually traded numbers, found out we had stuff in common, hung out on our own together... and eventually started dating. He's in the grade ahead of me, so i really didn't know a lot about him, and same with him about me. Yeah, we liked some of the same things, but not every thing. That made him more interesting.

And for looks: don't try to hold out for someone who is absolutely perfect. the beauty comes in imperfections.


Of course, I've been single since he dumped me for some other girl.... so I might not be the best person to be offering advice....

[the seventeenth]

Warped Tour?

[takemyhand]

Whoa! Are you telling me you're already 17 and you haven't found the perfect girl for you yet? Damn, you better get to it.

[EasySkankin]

gotta love ap.net wisdom :-)

[wall e]

I got lucky with this actually, and found someone pretty who was just like me. But now that's over, and I will just wait for the next I guess.

[aerofan11]

Waiting gets you nowhere i'm afraid. I tried the waiting game, and got nothing out of it.
You have to talk to girls (or boys) and get to know them. I did, found someone i like, now i have to find the confidence to ask her out.

[phil19]

I feel like this is the situation I get stuck in. I find a guy who likes everything I do, but he only wants to be my friend. Fuck.

very true

yep. shit sucks alright

[ace1112]

Warped Tour?

this is excellent advice absolutely can't wait

[paigen]

Note: Any time someone fits my criteria, they aren't cute. Or maybe I'm excessively picky.

If you're picky, still give the other person a chance if you have a lot in common. I start finding people more attractive after I have talked with them for awhile about similar interests.

[the seventeenth]

this is excellent advice absolutely can't wait
haha, I try.

[ace1112]

If you're picky, still give the other person a chance if you have a lot in common. I start finding people more attractive after I have talked with them for awhile about similar interests.

i start finding people more attractive after about the 3rd shot

[paigen]

Hahah completely agree

[Carolina.Alex]

Oh I get it. I gave that whole I want to be popular/fit in/be in a clique or whatever thing up when I was 12. But then again I left school so I guess I forgot about all that stuff.


You have a story for everything

[frenchatticus]

alrite man, first off youre only 17. give it some time. but if youre just waiting for things to work out for you, then you are contributing to the problem. if you dont like how things are, do something about it. sitting around holding a pity party is no the way to get what you are looking for. get out and about and put your face out there and dont blame the world. have fun with life

I wouldn't say I sit around and wait for something to come to me. I mean I'm always out hanging with my friends, and I have a lot of school friends so I'm not shy there or anything. I'm just saying there's literally no one who interests me.

[frenchatticus]

youre 17 and youre tired of waiting?? X-)

Not literally, but it'd be nice to have someone around.

[frenchatticus]

Warped Tour?

bitches are sweaty

[BreakTheNews]

Your 17, just party and have fun, dont get too serious with girls right now..thats what i do, i have had girlfriends and its too soon i think. better to just do what you want and fool around with different girls while ya can

[zion the lion]

You have a story for everything

And you're very attentive. Except that's not exactly a story is it dickhead? Nope its more like a comment. fucking amazing isnt it?

[geebee889]

yep. shit sucks alright


It does indeed.

[blotto]

When am I going to meet a cute girl who's into the same weird shit as I am

fuck man, i wonder the same thing every day

[tkamB]

Keep me searchin' for a heart of gold...

[Pawan1993]

yeah it sucks. it always seems to be the way. but trust me, its worth having girls like this in your life if only as friends.
Haha yeah. She's an awesome friend though :) Now if only they knew how we feel...

[shandosaurus]

Waiting on the same in a boy.

[phil19]

Haha yeah. She's an awesome friend though :) Now if only they knew how we feel...

haha mine does know how i feel and is so awesome she still wants to be my friend.
good luck with your lady

[pound121]

for starters you are 17. you most likely have a long life ahead of you to meet people. why worry about finding a girl. just have fun and don't bother. i mean if you meet a girl and she fits perfectly by all means go for it. but don't be searching everywhere. when it is your time it will happen. i know i may be the same age as you so you might not want to listen to me. but trust me as long as you keep an open mind you'll do fine. and i really like what you said about this generation was better when you were in single digits. just sayin

[XxCambiaxX]

:P
It would have been enormous... That is, if I hadn't spent it all on alcohol this past weekend... Oops.
I'll make it up, promise. How's your's looking?

You have no idea how excited I am to see a fellow Wisconsinian on AP. I've only seen three, and they've all lived in Madison. Where is it that you live?

Oh, it will be. I wonder how many AP kids would go to a Kenosha show... There's one this friday, but it's Chase Coy, lol.
I'll be sure to post all about the next good one, though. Hahaha.

That^^
You're invited.


I know! i can't find anyone from WI!

i live at the bottom of the state- like directly south of Madison by 40 minutes or so...

I haven't been to Kenosha in ages; an organization of Kenosha show is in order, i believe

[frenchatticus]

Your 17, just party and have fun, dont get too serious with girls right now..thats what i do, i have had girlfriends and its too soon i think. better to just do what you want and fool around with different girls while ya can

not my style

[Forever.Zero]

I found my soul mate inside a tub of peanut butter. We're still together

[Avalanche1]

I know! i can't find anyone from WI!

:wave:

[Ilovetheunknown]

When am I going to meet a cute girl who's into the same weird shit as I am
You're not gonna want to find someone exactly like you, it would get boring fast.

Personally, I'm just looking for someone who can deal with all the "weird" things I'm into and maybe will learn to appreciate it.

[Forever.Zero]

You're not gonna want to find someone exactly like you, it would get boring fast.

Personally, I'm just looking for someone who can deal with all the "weird" things I'm into and maybe will learn to appreciate it.
It's hard to appreciate a fish fetish.

[Ilovetheunknown]

It's hard to appreciate a fish fetish.
you have a fish fetish?

[Forever.Zero]

you have a fish fetish?
YOU have a fish fetish.

[Ilovetheunknown]

YOU have a fish fetish.
OMG I didn't know this about myself.... wow.... maybe I should go buy a fish?

[Forever.Zero]

OMG I didn't know this about myself.... wow.... maybe I should go buy a fish?
Always here to help. A fish? sure. But there's already one under your bed.

[Ilovetheunknown]

Always here to help. A fish? sure. But there's already one under your bed.
Really? there is? When did a fish get under my bed and for how long has it been there. and wait.... how do you know that? Have you been hiding under there?

[Forever.Zero]

Really? there is? When did a fish get under my bed and for how long has it been there. and wait.... how do you know that? Have you been hiding under there?
I'm part gypsy. Seeing the future is sorta my thing.

[Ilovetheunknown]

I'm part gypsy. Seeing the future is sorta my thing.
Interesting to know, I'll keep that in mind next time I need my future predicted.

[Forever.Zero]

Interesting to know, I'll keep that in mind next time I need my future predicted.
I'm all about being handy...sorta.

[Jennurna Gray]

I know! i can't find anyone from WI!

i live at the bottom of the state- like directly south of Madison by 40 minutes or so...

I haven't been to Kenosha in ages; an organization of Kenosha show is in order, i believe
Ah, not far from me then. Are you in Walworth county?

[Thesleepingwell]

Gheez I'm 24 and I've often asked that question waaay to often.
But heck at 17 you can afford to be paitent.

Lookng for a girlfriend who has a lot in common with you doesn't always work wonders.

[Carolina.Alex]

And you're very attentive. Except that's not exactly a story is it dickhead? Nope its more like a comment. fucking amazing isnt it?

Wasn't being a dick, just pointing it out. And I guess it'd be more like an anecdote :shrug:

[zion the lion]

Wasn't being a dick, just pointing it out. And I guess it'd be more like an anecdote :shrug:

Well do me a favor and stop pointing things out, and its hardly an anecdote

[XxCambiaxX]

Ah, not far from me then. Are you in Walworth county?


Actually Rock CO is where i reside :)

We should get an AP van of Wisconsinites to go to lollipolooza
:highfive:

[Forever.Zero]

I'm tired of waiting...for the weekend

[Jennurna Gray]

Actually Rock CO is where i reside :)

We should get an AP van of Wisconsinites to go to lollipolooza
:highfive:
Definitely. In a few months, my dad is donating his kidnapper van to me, sounds like a great ride. Of course, it'll be pimp'd as shit when I get it.

[XxCambiaxX]

Definitely. In a few months, my dad is donating his kidnapper van to me, sounds like a great ride. Of course, it'll be pimp'd as shit when I get it.

Nioce!

My friend and i were going to just sleep in our rape van in Chicago (:

I will drop everything- this is happening!

:excited:

[Jennurna Gray]

Nioce!

My friend and i were going to just sleep in our rape van in Chicago (:

I will drop everything- this is happening!

:excited:
Hahaha, I cannot wait.
What's your name, btw?

[Chancetobe]

<3 500 days of summer.

Anyway, ditto. I would like to meet a guy who is into the same wierd shit I am.

[XxCambiaxX]

Hahaha, I cannot wait.
What's your name, btw?


Me either (:

Magnolia Mae would be the name, by the way-
Sorry I didn't mention it before

[ohmygawditsgab]

I'm with you. All the guys that like me, aren't ever my type. I've met guys that seem to be perfect fits for me, but then they get distracted by other girls, that seem to be bad matches for them. Then the high number of guy friends I have is just becoming astronomical and they're all either taken, haven't thought of me like that, or don't know how to make a move. Awesome.

[Avalanche1]

I'm with you. All the guys that like me, aren't ever my type. I've met guys that seem to be perfect fits for me, but then they get distracted by other girls, that seem to be bad matches for them. Then the high number of guy friends I have is just becoming astronomical and they're all either taken, haven't thought of me like that, or don't know how to make a move. Awesome.

Make a move on them then.

[Jennurna Gray]

Me either (:

Magnolia Mae would be the name, by the way-
Sorry I didn't mention it before
Oh my, your name is absolutely darling. I'm Jenna.

[worthwaiting]

When you haven't had anyone like that in your life then it's easier. But after you have had someone you thought was perfect for you and lost it and don't seem to find anyone who could be as good as him, then it starts to get real frustrating.

[Sean Rizzo]

When you haven't had anyone like that in your life then it's easier. But after you have had someone you thought was perfect for you and lost it and don't seem to find anyone who could be as good as him, then it starts to get real frustrating.
this thread title + your username = massive win.

EDIT: immortalized.

http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f132/Prince_of_Light/Other/tiredofwaiting.jpg

[worthwaiting]

this thread title + your username = massive win.

EDIT: immortalized.

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Haha. I didn't think about it myself.

I guess my username obliges me to be more positive than my previous post: people don't get frustrated, someone out there is worth waiting.

[Sean Rizzo]

Haha. I didn't think about it myself.

I guess my username obliges me to be more positive than my previous post: people don't get frustrated, someone out there is worth waiting.
You have to look though, otherwise you won't get very far.

[terror_91]

Haha. I didn't think about it myself.

I guess my username obliges me to be more positive than my previous post: people don't get frustrated, someone out there is worth waiting.
All your username means is that you have to continually post in this thread.

[ohmygawditsgab]

Make a move on them then.
I know I should. It's just easier said than done.

[Avalanche1]

I know I should. It's just easier said than done.

Yea, it is. I feel the same way.

[framebyframe]

Foreverrrrr. I have the same problem though. All the guys I like or who like me only care about partying. While I do like partying sometimes, it would be nice to have someone to watch good movies with, go to good shows with, or talk to about things other than drinking with.

[tottivillarossi]

Foreverrrrr. I have the same problem though. All the guys I like or who like me only care about partying. While I do like partying sometimes, it would be nice to have someone to watch good movies with, go to good shows with, or talk to about things other than drinking with.
You're hanging out with the wrong crowd then. I refuse to believe that someone cannot meet a guy who isn't obsessed with getting drunk.

[framebyframe]

You're hanging out with the wrong crowd then. I refuse to believe that someone cannot meet a guy who isn't obsessed with getting drunk.

Yeah probably. But I also want to meet someone who is interested in the same type of music and movies as me.

[Sean Rizzo]

You're hanging out with the wrong crowd then. I refuse to believe that someone cannot meet a guy who isn't obsessed with getting drunk.
Seconded. Props to you. :thumbup:

[superdork]

When you haven't had anyone like that in your life then it's easier. But after you have had someone you thought was perfect for you and lost it and don't seem to find anyone who could be as good as him, then it starts to get real frustrating.

so very true. My ex was essentially what i would have asked for if i had been given the chance to fill out an order form and get him. And not only does it suck when you can't find the one who is as good as them, but it also sucks getting over them. When the break up comes, those things that you loved and shared with them will just end up reminding you that you're not together anymore....

[holybatmon]

You know what they say about "It always happens when you least expect it"???

Bullshit.

[bung]

It's because you're ugly and weird.

/thread

[MegSo]

You know what they say about "It always happens when you least expect it"???

Bullshit.



not entirely. i met my boyfriend, who i've been with for roughly a year and a half, in a grocery store. we talked about peanut butter and fluff and ak3. we soon figured out that about two years before that, we'd had a random conversation about a rather epic show that had just happened. random encounters can produce wonderful things. i think that when you're really looking for it, you end up focusing too much on finding EXACTLY what you want in someone and not finding someone who instead has most of those things and maybe a few things you weren't expecting.

[terror_91]

You know what they say about "It always happens when you least expect it"???

Bullshit.
You gotta go out and get it if you want it.

[Manicapathy]

It's been kinda like this with me.

http://demotivatorsblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/patient_bear1.jpg

Waiting politely while slowly losing your shit.

[holybatmon]

You gotta go out and get it if you want it.

True! But I'm generally a hard person to get along so hey hey....

I dunno. I figure that to be with someone you need to be able to deal with them at their worst, and vice versa. But I just haven't met someone that intrigues me all that much yet.

[Sean Rizzo]

True! But I'm generally a hard person to get along so hey hey....
why?

[tottivillarossi]

True! But I'm generally a hard person to get along so hey hey....

I dunno. I figure that to be with someone you need to be able to deal with them at their worst, and vice versa. But I just haven't met someone that intrigues me all that much yet.
You'd date a person because they "intrigue" you? Genghis Kahn intrigues me, but I wouldn't dare fucking date him.

[holybatmon]

why?
Always fighting crime in Gotham

You'd date a person because they "intrigue" you? Genghis Kahn intrigues me, but I wouldn't dare fucking date him.

You wouldn't?? Would be different.

You know what I mean. "I like to drink. I like to sleep" isn't exactly my idea of a person I wanna spend more than minimal sober time with.

[Sean Rizzo]

Always fighting crime in Gotham
you so wish.

[tottivillarossi]

Always fighting crime in Gotham



You wouldn't?? Would be different.

You know what I mean. "I like to drink. I like to sleep" isn't exactly my idea of a person I wanna spend more than minimal sober time with.
Are you hoping for someone a little more like "I like to collect toenails"?

[terror_91]

True! But I'm generally a hard person to get along so hey hey....

I dunno. I figure that to be with someone you need to be able to deal with them at their worst, and vice versa. But I just haven't met someone that intrigues me all that much yet.
Yeah, I know what you mean. I've only met one girl like that and she is at university. She is a million times cooler than me and so cute. It makes me feel like shit every time I think about her because I know it will never happen.

[holybatmon]

Are you hoping for someone a little more like "I like to collect toenails"?

Maybe little animal skulls. Or, like, eyeballs in jars and shit.

[XxCambiaxX]

Oh my, your name is absolutely darling. I'm Jenna.


aww, thanks, but i can't really take credit for it (:

i've always liked the name Jenna, but i don't think i know anyone else with it.

Congrats on being the first (:

[Jennurna Gray]

aww, thanks, but i can't really take credit for it (:

i've always liked the name Jenna, but i don't think i know anyone else with it.

Congrats on being the first (:
I like my name, but your's wins, hands down. And of course you can take credit, you may not have choosen it, but you're the owner, and you flaunt that shit. :)
I love being first, haha

[XxCambiaxX]

I like my name, but your's wins, hands down. And of course you can take credit, you may not have choosen it, but you're the owner, and you flaunt that shit. :)
I love being first, haha


Thanks much, yo.
"if you're not first, you're last!"


Sorry, i couldn't help myself

[Jennurna Gray]

Thanks much, yo.
"if you're not first, you're last!"


Sorry, i couldn't help myself
Hahahaahahahaha.




Thoroughly enjoyed this.

[littleblackcher]

Don't focus on it. A lot of the time, things happen unexpectedly when it comes to romance when you're not expecting it. Spend your time doing what you enjoy and what makes you happy and things will happen when they're supposed to.

totally agree :) you need to get out there and do what interest you, what's your passion, and along the way you will find someone who will share the same interests, or if you prefer weird stuff xxx