i've been dating this girl for like 8 months

[KillMeTheKing26]

and sometimes she makes me want to kill people.

lots of people.

it's always about her problems, and you bring up maybe a problem you're having and it's "oh. :[[ it'll get better, i promise. my history homework is really bugging me"

STFU.

i've got issues too. a lot more important than history homework.

so i try and tell her this.

but she's one of those types that has self esteem issues. (shes a really gorgeous girl though!)

"you're right i guess i suck and i'm an awful girlfriend wah wah wah wah wah"

STFU that's not what i said.

i don't know what to do.


how do i get a message to her without her getting all upset with herself?

[parallelism]

sometimes she makes me want to kill people.

lots of people.

it's always about her problems, and you bring up maybe a problem you're having and it's "oh. :[[ it'll get better, i promise. my history homework is really bugging me"

STFU



Tell her that.
If she gets pissed, punch her in the stomach and tell her that you're cheating on her.
Then just run away.


Seriously, though... that's a tough one. When you have a problem, just tell her that it's important and that you need her support. When she's got problems, convince her that it's not the end of the world. If she's still intolerable, then you've gotta just dump her dude, because if you can't stand her she's not worth much more than a quickie.

[KillMeTheKing26]

Tell her that.
If she gets pissed, punch her in the stomach and tell her that you're cheating on her.
Then just run away.

Seriously, though... that's a tough one. When you have a problem, just tell her that it's important and that you need her support. When she's got problems, convince her that it's not the end of the world. If she's still intolerable, then you've gotta just dump her dude, because if you can't stand her she's not worth much more than a quickie.

its not that she's intolerable, it's that it just bugs me when you're trying to have a serious conversation and it's interrupted by "omgggg my favorite movie is on tv!"

lyk OMGZZ!!

[parallelism]

its not that she's intolerable, it's that it just bugs me when you're trying to have a serious conversation and it's interrupted by "omgggg my favorite movie is on tv!"

lyk OMGZZ!!

Haha, then I suggest you go with option a.

[bobbo8]

After awhile you start to get bored of the same person. Try to change things up and make your relationship more exciting. She may just be getting bored or you might be too.

[xvszero]

Get a message to her?

The only message you need to send to her is she is dumped.

[aolsux]

Haha, then I suggest you go with option a.
a for anal

[ForeverInADay]

a for anal
hahaha i love this forum.

[TgE ARTdamage]

Get a message to her?

The only message you need to send to her is she is dumped.

And then date her best friend.

[normalgene]

Ahh girls like this drive me fucking crazy. They need a slap in the face that there are real problems out there that are greater than having a shitty hair day. Unfortunately you can't really do that to them....They have to find this out on their own. If you really can't deal with this girls bullshit then I suggest packing up your stuff and moving on down the road.

[ndtitr]

Who cares if she is gorgeous, she sucks according to this thread. DO IT w/ her and leave her.

[livethesounds]

Whenever she complains tell her to give you head. if she dosent shes not a good girlfriend. then break up with her.

[meliisssaaaa]

try to maybe change the subject when she keeps talking about HER problems. if she doesnt get the picture and still annoys you to death then i say you should probably find someone more tolerable and less self absorbed.

[TheByrus]

i say you post newds of her, then break up.

[fcknazisympathy]

i say you post newds of her, then break up.

n00dz, yay

[fromwithin]

a relationship is all about communication as well as give and take.

[TheTrooth]

n00dz, yay

:woot: for n00dz