What shall I do in this situation?

[cuidado]

I went to the gap yesterday to buy some shit. There was this maaaaaaaaaaaad cute girl working. We chatted it up really briefly and she told me she was 3 yrs younger. Not a big deal....but yeah I guess I "planted the seed". I wanna go back to return something and also to ask her out. I went today again but she wasn't there. Should I keep going back everyday until I see her?

[Jennurna Gray]

You 'planted the seed' at the Gap...

I lol'd a lot more than I should have.

[TROKyle]

Gaps open on Memorial Day?

[zachff]

Nah you shouldn't keep going back. You should just go back now and camp your creepy ass outside the front of the store with a lawn chair and a fake mustache until she comes into work next Monday then say, "Oh fancy meeting you here." Meanwhile she can be thinking to herself, "Who the fuck is this guy, I talk to 200 strangers a day in this job."

[Hamlet]

Did you get her name? If so, the least stalkery thing you can do is ask people working there if they know her and what shifts she works.

[cuidado]

Nah you shouldn't keep going back. You should just go back now and camp your creepy ass outside the front of the store with a lawn chair and a fake mustache until she comes into work next Monday then say, "Oh fancy meeting you here." Meanwhile she can be thinking to herself, "Who the fuck is this guy, I talk to 200 strangers a day in this job."

Yeah dude I'm sitting in front of the store with binoculars right now. How did you know??

[cuidado]

Did you get her name? If so, the least stalkery thing you can do is ask people working there if they know her and what shifts she works.

No. And even if I did that would be going way too far lol. Yeah that'd be maaaaaaaad creepy. I mean I gotta return something anyway so I might as welllll go back in tomorrow.

[zachff]

Yeah dude I'm sitting in front of the store with binoculars right now. How did you know??
The typical new users of this website skew to a very specific demographic.

[Hamlet]

Ooh! Is her name on the receipt of the thing you bought?

[cuidado]

Ooh! Is her name on the receipt of the thing you bought?

Hah! I didn't think of that. Either way I wouldn't go in and ask when she's working....

[TROKyle]

Did you sign up for a Gap Card at least?

[yayitsjoe]

Gaps open on Memorial Day?

i lol'd. a lot.

[TROKyle]

i lol'd. a lot.

My girlfriend works @ Gap and she had Memorial Day off and she works every Monday. Who knows though?

[UnderclasHero]

Nah you shouldn't keep going back. You should just go back now and camp your creepy ass outside the front of the store with a lawn chair and a fake mustache until she comes into work next Monday then say, "Oh fancy meeting you here." Meanwhile she can be thinking to herself, "Who the fuck is this guy, I talk to 200 strangers a day in this job."

Lol I like your idea the best

[cowboychris88]

its her job to be nice to customers

[schaft]

its her job to be nice to customers
Though grammatically wrong, this is incredibly right. Your "planted seed" was her "getting a commission".

[ayerock]

its her job to be nice to customers

Probably this.

But honestly what would be the harm in going back and asking her out?

[aerofan11]

What the hell does "planted the seed" mean?

[cuidado]

Though grammatically wrong, this is incredibly right. Your "planted seed" was her "getting a commission".

Yeah possibly true, but like the below poster said...whats the harm? WHATS THE HARM MANNNNN???

[mymusicismylife]

Yeah possibly true, but like the below poster said...whats the harm? WHATS THE HARM MANNNNN???

Restraining order?
Getting tossed out of the store?
Legal trouble for stalking a minor?
Getting beaten up by her biker boyfriend?

Just some ideas.

[Scrandon]

You shop at the Gap. I lol'd

[Clockwork00]

When I was a waiter, I was nice to everyone. For the tips. Not the cock.

[drevans18]

Did you get her name? If so, the least stalkery thing you can do is ask people working there if they know her and what shifts she works.

and yet, this is still extremely creepy.

[drevans18]

You 'planted the seed' at the Gap...

I lol'd a lot more than I should have.

haha me too. but, he's trying. even though he described her as "mad cute", he's still a champ for wanting to and actually having the nut sack to go back and ask her.

[2's&3's]

you didn't exchange names or numbers, yet you planted the seed. you are grasping.

[ilikesound93]

You shop at the Gap. I lol'd

:-d

[Jennurna Gray]

haha me too. but, he's trying. even though he described her as "mad cute", he's still a champ for wanting to and actually having the nut sack to go back and ask her.
The fact that he even had the thought to go back every day until he finds her is fucking odd.

OP, you missed your chance. Get over it and find a another chick.

[DanTGD]

Yeah possibly true, but like the below poster said...whats the harm? WHATS THE HARM MANNNNN???

Restraining order?
Getting tossed out of the store?
Legal trouble for stalking a minor?
Getting beaten up by her biker boyfriend?

Just some ideas.

She could be a dude, how sure are you she was a girl?

Also, from the above reasons, you can add "being the idiot who thought a store clerk doing her job was coming on to you."

Did she give you any signs?

[fflash]

I went to the gap yesterday to buy some shit. There was this maaaaaaaaaaaad cute girl working. We chatted it up really briefly and she told me she was 3 yrs younger. Not a big deal....but yeah I guess I "planted the seed". I wanna go back to return something and also to ask her out. I went today again but she wasn't there. Should I keep going back everyday until I see her?

She was an angry amount of cute?
bro.

[drevans18]

The fact that he even had the thought to go back every day until he finds her is fucking odd.

OP, you missed your chance. Get over it and find a another chick.

well every day is definitely WAY too much. maybe a week later, go back once and if you have no luck, then forget it. but every day? hmm... thats the start of early onset pedophilia.

[drevans18]

She was an angry amount of cute?
bro.

i lol'ed at this. i'm not even sure why...

[ilikesound93]

Oh yeah, and OP--you missed your chance. If you were flirting, you should have asked for her number then. But she was probably just being polite. Because she's working. Ba doop bop bop...

[Jennurna Gray]

well every day is definitely WAY too much. maybe a week later, go back once and if you have no luck, then forget it. but every day? hmm... thats the start of early onset pedophilia.
Yeah, that's a smarter approach. Someone should seriously help him before it's too late.
And I'm not referring to the girl situation, but rather his life as a whole

[drevans18]

Yeah, that's a smarter approach. Someone should seriously help him before it's too late.
And I'm not referring to the girl situation, but rather his life as a whole

aw. thats mean.
but a little true...

[Jennurna Gray]

aw. thats mean.
but a little true...
:shrug: He needs you, kid.

[cuidado]

Yeah, that's a smarter approach. Someone should seriously help him before it's too late.
And I'm not referring to the girl situation, but rather his life as a whole

Nah I don't need help, I'm just gonna camp out in front of the store instead.

[markhimself46]

Holy crap. I can NOT believe there is a thread about this. The same exact thing happened to my friend. Except it was American Eagle. He is infatuated with this cute girl there, who he claims "was diggin' him" (she asked if he needed help with a size...). Same situation. He keeps going back in to see if she's working. He ended up Facebook creeping her and saw that she is 3 years younger. (He's 21, she's 18). But he has no idea how to talk to this girl. I also just realized I don't have advice, just kind of thought it was a weird coincidence haha.

P.S. DIED laughing at the "Gap's open on Memorial Day" hahaha

[tottivillarossi]

you didn't exchange names or numbers, yet you planted the seed. you are grasping.
He's gonna fuck the seed.

[cuidado]

He's gonna fuck the seed.

I like the quote under your user name. Good shit.

[Jennurna Gray]

Nah I don't need help, I'm just gonna camp out in front of the store instead.
Okay, so:

[schaft]

Holy crap. I can NOT believe there is a thread about this. The same exact thing happened to my friend. Except it was American Eagle. He is infatuated with this cute girl there, who he claims "was diggin' him" (she asked if he needed help with a size...). Same situation. He keeps going back in to see if she's working. He ended up Facebook creeping her and saw that she is 3 years younger. (He's 21, she's 18). But he has no idea how to talk to this girl. I also just realized I don't have advice, just kind of thought it was a weird coincidence haha.

P.S. DIED laughing at the "Gap's open on Memorial Day" hahaha
http://imgur.com/KICVU.jpg

[cuidado]

Okay, so:

Wait...so you think its odd that the thought even came into my head to go back to a store where there was a cute ass girl who I could possibly ask out? Why is this strange?

[Jennurna Gray]

Wait...so you think its odd that the thought even came into my head to go back to a store where there was a cute ass girl who I could possibly ask out? Why is this strange?
I don't think it's odd that you wanted to go back, just that you were going to go back EVERY DAY. It's a little much, I mean, don't you think?

[cuidado]

I don't think it's odd that you wanted to go back, just that you were going to go back EVERY DAY. It's a little much, I mean, don't you think?

Did I say that? If I said that...I was exaggerating.

[markhimself46]

You should go back in and return something/purchase something else. If she's working, definitely see if she wants to hang out. If she says no, then she's obviously gay.

[cuidado]

You should go back in and return something/purchase something else. If she's working, definitely see if she wants to hang out. If she says no, then she's obviously gay.

I like your reasoning. Yeah I do have to return something actually...miiight as well go back.

[Ryan Rumsey]

The typical new users of this website skew to a very specific demographic.

Give me a break.

[will_to_burn]

Go back into the store a week from when you first went, assuming she has regular shifts.

[saveferris]

You shop at the Gap. I lol'd
What's wrong with the Gap?

[zachff]

Give me a break.
Break given.
Also, http://www.contentandmotion.co.uk/wp-content/upload//2010/01/Picture-7.png

[cuidado]

Break given.
Also, http://www.contentandmotion.co.uk/wp-content/upload//2010/01/Picture-7.png

I'm not a new user. I've been a member since 08 but recently made a new account bc I forgot my password. I did the password recovery thing but it didn't work.

[zachff]

I'm not a new user. I've been a member since 08 but recently made a new account bc I forgot my password. I did the password recovery thing but it didn't work.
Again, like I said, I was being sarcastic anyway.

[terror_91]

I'm not a new user. I've been a member since 08 but recently made a new account bc I forgot my password. I did the password recovery thing but it didn't work.
Fuck what everyone else has said. It's not creepy at all. Just have a peek in everyday (try not to get seen so that you aren't actually creeping everyday) and say hello and start speaking. At the end of the day, asking her out means that you won't be able to shop there (AWKWARRRRRRRRD) if she says no. So do it.

[roughroads]

I met the nicest stripper yesterday, i really think she was into me

[drevans18]

:shrug: He needs you, kid.

who doesn't?
:-)

[drevans18]

What's wrong with the Gap?

yeah... fuck that. my mom buys my clothes from the gap.

[2's&3's]

I met the nicest stripper yesterday, i really think she was into me

got a good laugh out of me

[cuidado]

I met the nicest stripper yesterday, i really think she was into me

OMGGG no wai!

[Chris92]

You 'planted the seed' at the Gap...

I lol'd a lot more than I should have.
+1

[schaft]

I met the nicest stripper yesterday, i really think she was into me
Was she crying? Heard that makes it better.

[Jennurna Gray]

Did I say that? If I said that...I was exaggerating.
I'd hope so. What was your previous username?
+1
+2
Oh, fuck.
who doesn't?
:-)
You seem like a cool cat, however I do find something wrong with this next quote, vv
yeah... fuck that. my mom buys my clothes from the gap.

[roughroads]

Was she crying? Heard that makes it better.

I'm past the whole crying thing, unconscious is where it's at.

[cuidado]

I'd hope so. What was your previous username?

+2
Oh, fuck.

You seem like a cool cat, however I do find something wrong with this next quote, vv

thestrokeslp...or thestrokes1lp i forget. I didn't post THAT much.

[Ryan Rumsey]

Break given.
Also, http://www.contentandmotion.co.uk/wp-content/upload//2010/01/Picture-7.png


I don't have enough posts to know what this means.

[jmirand1]

What the hell does "planted the seed" mean?

I think it's a 40-Year-Old Virgin reference.

[Jennurna Gray]

thestrokeslp...or thestrokes1lp i forget. I didn't post THAT much.
Hmm, I don't recognize you.
Nice to meet you now anyway.
I don't have enough posts to know what this means.
Don't feel bad, neither do I.

[Ryan Rumsey]

Hmm, I don't recognize you.
Nice to meet you now anyway.

Don't feel bad, neither do I.

Glad im not the only one.

[UnderMyDreams]

Restraining order?
Getting tossed out of the store?
Legal trouble for stalking a minor?
Getting beaten up by her biker boyfriend?

Just some ideas.

If any one of these happened for asking a girl out, I would laugh my ass off.

[cuidado]

Glad im not the only one.

It's actually a "sarcasm punctuation mark". I guess I have too little posts to know what it means...

[drevans18]

You seem like a cool cat, however I do find something wrong with this next quote, vv

haha i only wrote that for someone to comment... but nobody did.

[Sean Rizzo]

haha i only wrote that for someone to comment... but nobody did.
Someone needs attention to feel good about himself. haha.

[drevans18]

Someone needs attention to feel good about himself. haha.

i thought we were friends?? don't throw me under the bus like that.

[Sean Rizzo]

i thought we were friends?? don't throw me under the bus like that.
I'm jokingggg. lol.

You mean you don't like being run over by a bus? =P

[Sventhegreat]

Was she crying? Heard that makes it better.

I prefer a stage past that. It's the wimpering stage, where they physically can't cry anymore.

Good stuff.

[crimsonandclovr]

I went to the gap yesterday to buy some shit. There was this maaaaaaaaaaaad cute girl working. We chatted it up really briefly and she told me she was 3 yrs younger. Not a big deal....but yeah I guess I "planted the seed". I wanna go back to return something and also to ask her out. I went today again but she wasn't there. Should I keep going back everyday until I see her?

Nah you shouldn't keep going back. You should just go back now and camp your creepy ass outside the front of the store with a lawn chair and a fake mustache until she comes into work next Monday then say, "Oh fancy meeting you here." Meanwhile she can be thinking to herself, "Who the fuck is this guy, I talk to 200 strangers a day in this job."

idk.. i guess it depends on how you carry yourself. if you give off that creepy vibe, then she'll want you to stay away. but if things really went as well as you say they did, then i say at least take a peek now and then. i think it's cute. plus, it'll be an adorable story months/years from now. "remember when you kept checking up on me at the Gap? you were an adorable dork." ;)

you better be mad cute though. :D

[cuidado]

idk.. i guess it depends on how you carry yourself. if you give off that creepy vibe, then she'll want you to stay away. but if things really went as well as you say they did, then i say at least take a peek now and then. i think it's cute. plus, it'll be an adorable story months/years from now. "remember when you kept checking up on me at the Gap? you were an adorable dork." ;)

you better be mad cute though. :D

I mean it was a short conversation. Basically I asked her if some shirt I was contemplating buying looked ridiculous....then at the checkout we kinda just exchanged some info like she asked me where I work and go to school and shit. Nothing too crazy. What would you think is the creepiest way I could go about this? haha

[Sloth7]

Go back into the store a week from when you first went, assuming she has regular shifts.


This is actually a really good idea. I used to work at a retail clothing store, and they tend to stick to regular shifts every week. Scheduling is usually just copy & pasting the previous week's days/hours.

[Sventhegreat]

idk.. i guess it depends on how you carry yourself. if you give off that creepy vibe, then she'll want you to stay away. but if things really went as well as you say they did, then i say at least take a peek now and then. i think it's cute. plus, it'll be an adorable story months/years from now. "remember when you kept checking up on me at the Gap? you were an adorable dork." ;)

you better be mad cute though. :D

Haha what a girl!

Totally agree though.

[silent_platypus]

What the hell does "planted the seed" mean?
^Watch the movie The 40-Year-Old Virgin.

It goes something like this.
-You approach
-You get a conversation going
-You plant the seed
-You keep watering the seed
-Soon enough the seed grows into this beautiful, amazing tree
-Then... you FUCK the tree!

Logged in the bro code.

[AndrewIcex]

If only she knew you were creepin' about her online, I think you would have it in the gap bag.

[phil19]

she's not going to suck your dick

[drevans18]

I'm jokingggg. lol.

You mean you don't like being run over by a bus? =P

Depends what kind of bus.

[drevans18]

If only she knew you were creepin' about her online, I think you would have it in the gap bag.

You sir, have officially been deemed "Champion" of this thread by me.

[crimsonandclovr]

I mean it was a short conversation. Basically I asked her if some shirt I was contemplating buying looked ridiculous....then at the checkout we kinda just exchanged some info like she asked me where I work and go to school and shit. Nothing too crazy. What would you think is the creepiest way I could go about this? haha

it's really not about what you do.. it's how you do it. and unfortunately, part of it really just depends on how you look. if some sketchy looking guy started checking up on me, i might be weirded out. but if you look normal and charming, then hey, i'm all for it!

and someone said something about asking around when she works - yeeahh let's not do that. haha i agree that's a little too much..

i was at staples a few weeks ago and the same exact thing happened to me with this guy at the register. asked me about school, and we realized we were both psyc majors etc etc. it was a nice conversation and he was obviously interested...... because he asked for my facebook after ringing up my stuff. now that was kind of weird...

one more thing - about your conversation. ok don't take this the wrong way but she sounds like she was just being nice. maybe a little nicer to you than to other customers, but i wouldn't read much into it. but maybe it is enough to at least come back and have another conversation with her. :) i know girls can be hard to read/understand sometimes, but sometimes you'll know if she's even a little bit interested. (was she?)


Haha what a girl!

Totally agree though.

hahaha i'm a sucker for cute "how did you meet" stories.

[geebee889]

its her job to be nice to customers


This. I work in retail, and I don't even know how many times I've been asked out because guys thought I was flirting with them. I was not flirting, I was being nice and trying to get you to buy more shit.

[samsara]

Abortion

[allthewaysaid]

This is what you do.
You go back to the store ask for her name and now that you know her name you stalk
the shit out of her, you know like the usual stuff like harrasing her, showing up at her house, walking constantlly by her store, calling and hanging up the phone.

Good luck, buddy.

[introduction]

use facebook. now it's even easier to invade her privacy!

[Mosh]

you "planted the seed inside Gap"

...am i the only one who gets that?

[drt_33]

you "planted the seed inside Gap"

...am i the only one who gets that?

yeah you would be if you had a time machine and went back to the beginning of the thread