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mantipede
06/01/10, 01:32 PM
Given your age and gender, what's the oldest person you'd sleep with? Or date? A friend and I were talking about it and I figured I'd ask a bunch of people I don't know.

EDIT: I didn't mean how young would you go. The question is about how old would you go?

Jennurna Gray
06/01/10, 01:52 PM
Your thread rules, bro.

awwgereee
06/01/10, 01:57 PM
Mind over matter. If you don't mind, it don't matter.

spunkmastaflex
06/01/10, 02:02 PM
if there are wrinkles, avoid her tinkle

sorta rhymes

the seventeenth
06/01/10, 02:03 PM
Watched Parks and Recreation and it was, in this case, their age, minus fifteen plus seven (ex. 29-15=14+7=21) for it not to be too weird.
If you love her/him, it wouldn't matter; but if you're that type of person there you have it.

zachff
06/01/10, 02:04 PM
Old enough to pee, old enough for me.

zachff
06/01/10, 02:05 PM
If there's grass on the field, play ball.

If not, play in the mud.

Hamlet
06/01/10, 02:05 PM
Watched Parks and Recreation and it was, in this case, their age, minus fifteen plus seven (ex. 29-15=14+7=21) for it not to be too weird.

There's no point in saying "minus 15 plus 7", when you can just say minus 8.

Are you referring to the "half your age plus seven" rule of thumb perchance?

zachff
06/01/10, 02:06 PM
Or for the crass members out there: old enough to bleed, old enough to breed.

StephenYoung
06/01/10, 02:06 PM
I'm 17, I'd sleep with a girl between the ages of 15-19.
I wouldn't go to 20, but that's because it's a whole new decade. If I were wasted, I'd do it though.

zachff
06/01/10, 02:07 PM
There's no point in saying "minus 15 plus 7", when you can just say minus 8.

Are you referring to the "half your age plus seven" rule of thumb perchance?
That is exactly what he is referring to. However, that rule doesn't really go into effect until you're at least 28.

zachff
06/01/10, 02:09 PM
I'm 17, I'd sleep with a girl between the ages of 15-19.
I wouldn't go to 20, but that's because it's a whole new decade. If I were wasted, I'd do it though.
That is one of the dumbest things I've read in a while. If some really attractive 22 year old was hitting on you at a concert you'd say, "Sorry ma'am, you're too old for me?"

Give us all a break, 20 is not 40.

Laural666
06/01/10, 02:09 PM
Haha. I wont even start. Where are all the assholes at?

StephenYoung
06/01/10, 02:13 PM
That is one of the dumbest things I've read in a while. If some really attractive 22 year old was hitting on you at a concert you'd say, "Sorry ma'am, you're too old for me?"

Give us all a break, 20 is not 40.

Get real, if we're talking about girls I know personally, who who I would know, then that's my range. If a girl five times my senior started hitting on me, I'd be more than likely to be scared. Also, why the fuck would a 22 year old want to get with a 17 year old?
20 isn't 40, but it still isn't in the teens.

zachff
06/01/10, 02:15 PM
Get real, if we're talking about girls I know personally, who who I would know, then that's my range. If a girl five times my senior started hitting on me, I'd be more than likely to be scared. Also, why the fuck would a 22 year old want to get with a 17 year old?
20 isn't 40, but it still isn't in the teens.

Why would a 30 year old want to bang a 25 year old? What the fuck are you saying, other than you need to grow a pair. When you go to college at 18 are you not going to nail a hot 22 year old senior if she's into you at a party?

And also, if a girl was "five times your senior" she would be 85.

mantipede
06/01/10, 02:19 PM
Whoa whoa whoa, no, I meant OLDER than you, not younger.

StephenYoung
06/01/10, 02:19 PM
Why would a 30 year old want to bang a 25 year old? What the fuck are you saying, other than you need to grow a pair. When you go to college at 18 are you not going to nail a hot 22 year old senior if she's into you at a party?

And also, if a girl was "five times your senior" she would be 85.

30 year old banging a 25 year old? Either you're an idiot or you don't get the concept that age gaps between partners will grow. 17 and 23 is not even close to 30 and 25. Why should I grow a pair? Because I wouldn't be comfortable doing a girl much older than me? i'm sorry we don't all slut ourselves out, and I doubt that any 22-23 year old that shows interest in someone as young as I am is worth doing anyways. And I am in College, so yes, I've been to plenty of parties, and no, I will not hit or, or reciprocate lust from someone that old.

yayitsjoe
06/01/10, 02:20 PM
i dated a girl two years older than me when i was a freshman, and now i'm dating a girl two years younger than me who's a junior while i'm a senior.

awwgereee
06/01/10, 02:20 PM
Originally Posted by StephenYoung
Get real, if we're talking about girls I know personally, who who I would know, then that's my range. If a girl five times my senior started hitting on me, I'd be more than likely to be scared. Also, why the fuck would a 22 year old want to get with a 17 year old?
20 isn't 40, but it still isn't in the teens.

Why would a 30 year old want to bang a 25 year old? What the fuck are you saying, other than you need to grow a pair. When you go to college at 18 are you not going to nail a hot 22 year old senior if she's into you at a party?

And also, if a girl was "five times your senior" she would be 85.

get owned.

flask
06/01/10, 02:21 PM
Why would a 30 year old want to bang a 25 year old? What the fuck are you saying, other than you need to grow a pair. When you go to college at 18 are you not going to nail a hot 22 year old senior if she's into you at a party?

And also, if a girl was "five times your senior" she would be 85.

:lol:

I mean, if you're 17, and a 20yo girl wants to bang you, thats like.....a whole new set of numbers. nevermind that she's only 3 years older than you. ITS A NEW DECADE.


As a 20 year old, I would probably go no younger than 18.

mantipede
06/01/10, 02:24 PM
:lol:

I mean, if you're 17, and a 20yo girl wants to bang you, thats like.....a whole new set of numbers. nevermind that she's only 3 years older than you. ITS A NEW DECADE.


As a 20 year old, I would probably go no younger than 18.

Reread the thread.

Given what I put in the topic, I don't get how everyone automatically went younger. The topic was how much older. So, as a 20 year old, would you sleep with a 40 year old?

StephenYoung
06/01/10, 02:25 PM
:lol:

I mean, if you're 17, and a 20yo girl wants to bang you, thats like.....a whole new set of numbers. nevermind that she's only 3 years older than you. ITS A NEW DECADE.


As a 20 year old, I would probably go no younger than 18.

And I'm not down for a girl three years older than me.

I'm sorry I'm not some superstud who will fuck anything that chases him.

Smash Adams
06/01/10, 02:26 PM
I think 5 years, maybe 10 if she was really hot
-the only person here who can read

<*)))><
06/01/10, 02:26 PM
If she is old enough to eat a happy meal she is old enough to be a happy meal.

mantipede
06/01/10, 02:28 PM
I think 5 years, maybe 10 if she was really hot
-the only person here who can read

You're a saint (for the reading part...I think I'm in the same boat with you about age, though I've seen some hot 40 year olds).

spunkmastaflex
06/01/10, 02:31 PM
30 year old banging a 25 year old? Either you're an idiot or you don't get the concept that age gaps between partners will grow. 17 and 23 is not even close to 30 and 25. Why should I grow a pair? Because I wouldn't be comfortable doing a girl much older than me? i'm sorry we don't all slut ourselves out, and I doubt that any 22-23 year old that shows interest in someone as young as I am is worth doing anyways. And I am in College, so yes, I've been to plenty of parties, and no, I will not hit or, or reciprocate lust from someone that old.

yes those ages are pretty different and yes a 23 year old hitting on a 17 year old boy is pretty creepy... but dont tell me if she wasnt smoking hot you wouldnt? and being on the older end of the 23 to 17 is much much much worse than being on the younger end. it would be a compliment as a 17 year old that a 23 year old wants to bang you

barkingincision
06/01/10, 02:32 PM
w/in 5 years older.

.invisible ink.
06/01/10, 02:34 PM
wow, the reading comprehension in this thread makes me think a lot of people did really shitty on their SATs. That being said, the oldest guy I'd sleep with would probably be around 42 or so. 40s are a bit older than I would generally prefer but there are definitely exceptions to every rule.

StephenYoung
06/01/10, 02:41 PM
yes those ages are pretty different and yes a 23 year old hitting on a 17 year old boy is pretty creepy... but dont tell me if she wasnt smoking hot you wouldnt? and being on the older end of the 23 to 17 is much much much worse than being on the younger end. it would be a compliment as a 17 year old that a 23 year old wants to bang you

Well, obviously I'd be on the better end of that, being younger and all, but I still don't feel comfortable with it. But hey, if I was drunk I guess anything can happen.

Laural666
06/01/10, 02:42 PM
If she is old enough to eat a happy meal she is old enough to be a happy meal.
You would say that.

mantipede
06/01/10, 02:44 PM
wow, the reading comprehension in this thread makes me think a lot of people did really shitty on their SATs. That being said, the oldest guy I'd sleep with would probably be around 42 or so. 40s are a bit older than I would generally prefer but there are definitely exceptions to every rule.

Just for context to the question, how old are you?

Also, love your avatar.

ace1112
06/01/10, 02:45 PM
as old as 21

FabiLBLAHblah
06/01/10, 02:48 PM
As far as dating goes, I probably would not date anyone who is 10 yrs. or more older than me. Sleeping with someone much older is a whole different thing. I would definitely make exceptions though.

.invisible ink.
06/01/10, 02:49 PM
Just for context to the question, how old are you?

Also, love your avatar.

old enough for it not to be uber-creepy but young enough for it still to be a stretch.

thanks about the avatar. :)

<*)))><
06/01/10, 02:55 PM
You would say that.
Well xtheaudition got banned so I have to.

mantipede
06/01/10, 02:56 PM
old enough for it not to be uber-creepy but young enough for it still to be a stretch.

thanks about the avatar. :)

Hmmm, secretive, I see. Haha, no worries, I'll make my guesses.

Also, do you have that EP? I can't find that or E.S.P.E.P. anywhere.

Kroger Marx
06/01/10, 02:58 PM
old enough for it not to be uber-creepy but young enough for it still to be a stretch.

thanks about the avatar. :)

28?

mymusicismylife
06/01/10, 03:00 PM
28?

It's impolite to ask a girl her age dude.

.invisible ink.
06/01/10, 03:00 PM
Hmmm, secretive, I see. Haha, no worries, I'll make my guesses.

Also, do you have that EP? I can't find that or E.S.P.E.P. anywhere.

have fun with that! i don't really like my personal info on the internet for everyone to see.

yes, i do. feel free to PM me and I'll possibly hook you up if you're lucky.

28?
nope. don't bother to continue to guess, i'm not going to confirm anything.

It's impolite to ask a girl her age dude.

thank you. :)

flask
06/01/10, 03:00 PM
3 years older

the seventeenth
06/01/10, 03:04 PM
There's no point in saying "minus 15 plus 7", when you can just say minus 8.

Are you referring to the "half your age plus seven" rule of thumb perchance?
Yeah, fail on my part.

ayerock
06/01/10, 03:06 PM
I am nearly 17 I'd say 15 is the lowest. As for highest, I'd say 100 is probably too old

Scrandon
06/01/10, 03:12 PM
Maybe like 17-22? I don't really know...

.invisible ink.
06/01/10, 03:13 PM
Given your age and gender, what's the oldest person you'd sleep with? Or date? A friend and I were talking about it and I figured I'd ask a bunch of people I don't know.

EDIT: I didn't mean how young would you go. The question is about how old would you go?

you never answered your own question, how old would you go?

cuzimlefthanded
06/01/10, 03:17 PM
I'm 17, I'd sleep with a girl between the ages of 15-19.
I wouldn't go to 20, but that's because it's a whole new decade. If I were wasted, I'd do it though.

That is one of the dumbest things I've read in a while. If some really attractive 22 year old was hitting on you at a concert you'd say, "Sorry ma'am, you're too old for me?"

Give us all a break, 20 is not 40.

Get real, if we're talking about girls I know personally, who who I would know, then that's my range. If a girl five times my senior started hitting on me, I'd be more than likely to be scared. Also, why the fuck would a 22 year old want to get with a 17 year old?
20 isn't 40, but it still isn't in the teens.

My last girlfriend was 5 years older than me, with me at 19, her at 24. Never seemed weird.

mantipede
06/01/10, 03:18 PM
you never answered your own question, how old would you go?

In terms of one of those do-this-tell-your-friends-forget-it-happened nights of sleeping with an older chick, I could see going 40. But it couldn't be a woman with $20K of plastic surgery. And with dating, I like older chicks, so in an extreme case, I'd say I could go to about 30-35.

Roboman
06/01/10, 03:19 PM
It's impolite to ask a girl her age dude.

Buuuuuuullshiiiiiiiit.

drevans18
06/01/10, 03:22 PM
That is one of the dumbest things I've read in a while. If some really attractive 22 year old was hitting on you at a concert you'd say, "Sorry ma'am, you're too old for me?"

Give us all a break, 20 is not 40.

i was going to say the exact same thing.

Sean Rizzo
06/01/10, 03:33 PM
i was going to say the exact same thing.
It's a lot easier to have a wide age range when you're in your 20's than it is when you're a teenager.

rhinitus
06/01/10, 03:33 PM
35. OK maybe 40. Depends on how drunk I am.

2's&3's
06/01/10, 03:34 PM
in the right situation and with a high level of attraction...40, no problem.

rhinitus
06/01/10, 03:34 PM
In terms of one of those do-this-tell-your-friends-forget-it-happened nights of sleeping with an older chick, I could see going 40. But it couldn't be a woman with $20K of plastic surgery. And with dating, I like older chicks, so in an extreme case, I'd say I could go to about 30-35.

looks like you're not going for an interesting story...

mantipede
06/01/10, 03:36 PM
looks like you're not going for an interesting story...

Touché, haha.

Maybe up to $10K...

DanTGD
06/01/10, 03:40 PM
Age doesn't really matter in terms of one night stands, if you're drunk and presented with the choice of a fucking ugly girl the same age or a 40 year old that looked like jennifer aniston, you know who you're going to pick.

In terms of relationships, The majority have been younger but that's not something I go for, it's just how things work out, my current girlfriend is two years younger than me.

EvilZeppelin
06/01/10, 03:42 PM
Given your age and gender, what's the oldest person you'd sleep with? Or date? A friend and I were talking about it and I figured I'd ask a bunch of people I don't know.

EDIT: I didn't mean how young would you go. The question is about how old would you go?

Sweet avatar.

Shakriel
06/01/10, 03:56 PM
Probably around 5-8 years older than me.

drevans18
06/01/10, 03:56 PM
It's a lot easier to have a wide age range when you're in your 20's than it is when you're a teenager.

yeah i guess so. my age range is probably quite large. i just wonder how young i'd be willing to go. have to at least have a license for consideration... but even that could make me feel a little weird.

Lirr168
06/01/10, 04:18 PM
Jennifer Aniston is 41, right? If so, put me down for 41.

foisol
06/01/10, 04:25 PM
40's to sleep with... dating I probably wouldn't date anybody older than 29

xsandwichesx
06/01/10, 04:26 PM
I'll bang a 40 year old. There are tons of them out there who are attractive. Even 50 in some cases.


But dating I'd have to say 6 or 7 older than me.

livingalive626
06/01/10, 04:44 PM
hypothetically, i would do a 40 year old if she were really hot, and does not look like she is too, erm, damaged (im 17)

2's&3's
06/01/10, 04:44 PM
I'll bang a 40 year old. There are tons of them out there who are attractive. Even 50 in some cases.


But dating I'd have to say 6 or 7.

http://www.dangerousminds.net/images/uploads/pedobear.jpg

Ryan Rumsey
06/01/10, 04:47 PM
Uh. How old is Jennifer Aniston?

Edit- Forget this post. I just saw like 3 others just like it.

Echo Park
06/01/10, 04:50 PM
Im 23, i would date up to a 25yr old chick knowingly. If i met a girl and we hit it off and she happened to be older than that and I couldnt tell, then whatever.

saveferris
06/01/10, 04:56 PM
How old is Betty White? However old she is would be my age limit

UnderMyDreams
06/01/10, 05:14 PM
Watched Parks and Recreation and it was, in this case, their age, minus fifteen plus seven (ex. 29-15=14+7=21) for it not to be too weird.
If you love her/him, it wouldn't matter; but if you're that type of person there you have it.

I came in here to post this. Awesome. hahahaha

terror_91
06/01/10, 05:16 PM
That is one of the dumbest things I've read in a while. If some really attractive 22 year old was hitting on you at a concert you'd say, "Sorry ma'am, you're too old for me?"

Give us all a break, 20 is not 40.
QFT

xsandwichesx
06/01/10, 05:32 PM
http://www.dangerousminds.net/images/uploads/pedobear.jpg
6 or 7 years older than me. I can tell you didn't read the thread...

terror_91
06/01/10, 05:34 PM
6 or 7 years older than me. I can tell you didn't read the thread...
Come on bud, it did read like that haha.

xsandwichesx
06/01/10, 05:37 PM
Come on bud, it did read like that haha.
I edited it. Problem solved ha.

2's&3's
06/01/10, 05:40 PM
I edited it. Problem solved ha.

it was horrible schtick..sorry about that.

phil19
06/01/10, 05:43 PM
dont think i could go much past 27.

CobraLucha
06/01/10, 05:49 PM
I am nearly 17 I'd say 15 is the lowest. As for highest, I'd say 100 is probably too old

This dude knows what's up. WOOOOOOOOOO

Chris92
06/01/10, 05:55 PM
I don't care ass long as she's cute and she's willing.
I'm flexible on the cute.

klawansie7
06/01/10, 07:55 PM
i've only dated 2 yrs older than me at most, i was a sophmore and he was a senior (in college). it was pretty difficult, acutally. we were at very different stages in our lives -- he had already had multiple internships and a job lined up for after college, while i was still getting used to living on my own.

after college, ie in the real world, i think i'd go maybe 10 yrs at max.

tyramail
06/01/10, 08:09 PM
i'm 21 and i would probably only go a few years older, definitely no more than 30.

showmethefever
06/01/10, 08:17 PM
Does it look like I give a fuck?

Roton7
06/01/10, 08:20 PM
I'm 13 and what is this

crimsonandclovr
06/01/10, 08:41 PM
i'm 21, so i think that oldest i'll date someone is 27.. MAYBE 28.

Clockwork00
06/01/10, 08:42 PM
Well, doing it with someone over 18 means I couldn't be accused of rape. That's a plus.

apsterling
06/01/10, 08:47 PM
I'm 17, maybe I'd go to 20. Depends on different circumstances I guess.

evvandflow
06/01/10, 10:22 PM
no older than 12

showmethefever
06/01/10, 10:50 PM
Just flip the digits in your age, so no older than 71 for me.

bwhitevc
06/01/10, 11:22 PM
never really thought about it but...

sleep with = 40
date = i think 35ish tops right now. all depends on the person.

rosielikesyou
06/02/10, 12:32 AM
I probably would not go over maybe 23 or 24 this point, beyond that's kind of creepy and weird. But that's the general dating pattern in a lot of social psych studies: girls tend to go a decent amount older compared to a very limited amount younger, while the inverse happens with guys, and the gaps get wider with age.

Hamlet
06/02/10, 12:40 AM
I probably would not go over maybe 23 or 24 this point, beyond that's kind of creepy and weird. But that's the general dating pattern in a lot of social psych studies: girls tend to go a decent amount older compared to a very limited amount younger, while the inverse happens with guys, and the gaps get wider with age.

Yeah I was just about to mention this, you can even notice it in the replies here.

I'd go max 27, minimum would be university starting age (18 or 19 depending on when they were born). Dating someone still in high school would just be ewww.

tkamB
06/02/10, 12:51 AM
Sleep with well 40 would be pushing it, unless she was famous of course. For dating, max would be 23-24. Older than that and it would be hard to stay together since they are in the get a stable job/get married phase and I'm still in the fuck the world/don't ever want to settle down phase.

reesa
06/02/10, 02:21 AM
no more than 28. but it really depends.

Laural666
06/02/10, 09:41 AM
Well xtheaudition got banned so I have to.
Oh shit, what did he do?

<*)))><
06/02/10, 10:35 AM
Oh shit, what did he do?
Posted pictures of Hayley Williams naked.

Jennifer Scott
06/02/10, 10:41 AM
Sex isn't dating.
So typically you could have sex with anyone who was attractive enough to have sexual feelings for. (even if they are 10 years or more older than you)
Dating is different because then you get into personalities and maturity and stuff that sex really, has nothing to do with.
Typically a sexual attraction is outward appearance.

Not saying you can't be attracted to a personality, but I honestly have never had the thought of "wow he is so nice to my grandma, I really want to have sex with him."
Its more like, "I wouldn't mind dating him"

Laural666
06/02/10, 11:32 AM
Posted pictures of Hayley Williams naked.
There are pics of Hayley Williams naked on the internet!!
Where?!

allthewaysaid
06/02/10, 11:47 AM
I'm gonna go with 40 nothing older than that.

xxemo_kittyxx
06/02/10, 11:51 AM
I'd set the barriers at fifteen since I'm not 20 yet and 30 somethings seem legit enough. As for dating age, I trust the mental age more than the chronological age.

<*)))><
06/02/10, 11:56 AM
There are pics of Hayley Williams naked on the internet!!
Where?!
just google it.

Laural666
06/02/10, 11:58 AM
just google it.
I did, i can't find it, all i can find is news articles about it.

livingalive626
06/02/10, 07:31 PM
I did, i can't find it, all i can find is news articles about it.

yeah its next to impossible now. but it was definitely there a few days ago =]

June_Bug
06/02/10, 08:41 PM
No older than 30, but I dont think it would matter if I feel in love with the person.

whoaisame
06/02/10, 08:54 PM
When I was 23 I met my ex girlfriend, she was 17 at the time. We went out for 3 years. Everyone was cool with it, but there were some people that questioned it of course. I don't regret it for one second, even though it didn't last. Age really doesn't matter if it's the right person. Best 3 years of my life.

splitsecond
06/02/10, 09:35 PM
eleventy

aradiantsunrise
06/02/10, 09:36 PM
I will keep it on the down low.

zion the lion
06/02/10, 10:05 PM
Right now at my age (17 going on 18) I'd be comfortable dating someone who is 45...I dont know what the oldest would be.

de1337ed
06/02/10, 11:00 PM
Right now at my age (17 going on 18) I'd be comfortable dating someone who is 45...I dont know what the oldest would be.

One of my friends married, at the age of 18, a 48 year old.

$$$$$$$$$$

zion the lion
06/02/10, 11:06 PM
One of my friends married, at the age of 18, a 48 year old.

$$$$$$$$$$

I would too!

But thank you for helping me find my age limit.

A7XXX
06/02/10, 11:10 PM
I do like mature guys but 30 is my limit. Anymore than that and we wouldn't have anything in common to talk about

overdrive91
06/03/10, 01:14 AM
+- 2 or 3 years. Anything past that is abit dodgy for me at this age.

samsara
06/03/10, 01:21 AM
For me 25. So 6 years older than me.

seraph1214
06/03/10, 01:39 AM
I'd probably go for a girl in her mid 20s.

HelpMeSleep
06/03/10, 03:33 AM
30? I'm thinking ten years.

MegSo
06/03/10, 06:16 AM
I wouldn't date anyone more than 7 years older than I am. My boyfriend is 7 years older than me, and even when I was 16 and he was 23 (sigh), we still didn't run into any problems between the two of us.