What's the significance?

[sweetforever]

As of late, I have been thinking about my ex gf. I don't know why, I just keep thinking about the times we spent together and all the memories we had together. Add to this, I've been having dreams with her in them, in which, in the dream, she wants to try and work things out and get back together with me. Also, she wished me a happy birthday after the last time we talked, I told her I was going to stay out of her life. Another thing, I've been debating whether or not to ask to her to hang out or do things (i.e. go to movies) since we're both home going to community college.

Can someone please tell me what all this means? Do I still like her? Do I wanna be back with her? It's driving my crazy. Any help or advice or suggestions would really help.

[Stupendous_Man]

Would getting back with her be a good idea? Why did the relationship end?

[sweetforever]

relationship ended cause I was away at school and she was home going to school. I never spoke up about things that were bothering me bout our relationship. SHe said we never had time to talk to one another.

[jusscali]

do it. you didnt end on bad terms, and things dont jsut go away when life gets in the way. i think its a good sign and you should definitely go for it.

good luck

[jaimej]

Do it only if you really didn't have any serious issues with your relationship and you think it's possible.

[sweetforever]

Everyone I've talked to said I should not try it and move on. But its hard enough for me to even talk to her, she was "that" girl for me. I don't know, I'll still contemplate it for the next few days. Plus, shes going to see the guy she was with over the summer at school on Saturday. ALthough, she did tell me that they were just friends now, but you never know

[Swim]

I would give it a chance if you think it might work out

[livethesounds]

im a little worried for you if you need people on a website to tell you how you are feeling....

[jaimej]

Carpe diem, broseph.

[rolewiii]

You have to account for what she wants to do, first of all. Just don't act pathetic or make a big deal about it, and definately don't make a big deal out of her seeing that guy. "They" tend not to like when the ex's do that.

[sweetforever]

im a little worried for you if you need people on a website to tell you how you are feeling....
I wasn't asking them to tell me how I felt. I was asking for their opinions on the matter, hence the title of the thread

You have to account for what she wants to do, first of all. Just don't act pathetic or make a big deal about it, and definately don't make a big deal out of her seeing that guy. "They" tend not to like when the ex's do that.
oh I'm not making a big deal out of it, I was just putting it out there. Supposedly, the only reason shes going up there is cause he's been begging her to. Last I heard, they ended on not that good of terms. but oh well.