A Question Reguarding Band Members...

[motionwm]

So a new kid moved to school recently. We became friends pretty quick, and have been jamming at his house a bit. We finally decided to start a band, and recruited a couple more friends.

Now it's homecoming, and this guy asks out one of my friends (that's a girl) and I'm look "Cool, they'll like each other". I care about this girl alot (as a friend) and she tells him she'll go to homecoming as friends but that she doesn't want to date. He buys her a mum and her ticket still, then comes to me and a few other dudes bragging about it. I feel like he's being wierd, then later that day I'm walking with him to a class in the halls and some girl stops and says hi and she'll see him later.

He says to me "I'm gonna make out with her for like three hours at homecoming." I didn't know what to say, so I was like "What about (the girl he asked)?". He says "Dude, you KNOW I'm not getting any from her. Just don't tell her."

That night I sent him an e-mail saying I didn't want to be in the band and it wasn't for me. I haven't said anything to him beyond that yet, but this dude really pissed me off. I dunno what to say to my friend (the girl) because just tonight she told me she really didn't want to go with him, but she said yes not to be mean. I was debating telling her what was said, but she left to go to the dance. I'm not going myself (Yeah, I'm an anti-social loser) so I feel really wierd...

[Stupendous_Man]

That's not anti-social. I know what you're talking about. Temporary friendship cause' you were still feeling it out. Now you've seen his true colors and it's nowhere near appealing. It's happened to me before too.

I would've thought less of him too after that comment, btw.

[FondestMemory]

there wasn't one question in all that. the thread title is very misleading.

[boysdontcry17]

there wasn't one question in all that. the thread title is very misleading.

the bastard is trying to trick us

[boysdontcry17]

So a new kid moved to school recently. We became friends pretty quick, and have been jamming at his house a bit. We finally decided to start a band, and recruited a couple more friends.

Now it's homecoming, and this guy asks out one of my friends (that's a girl) and I'm look "Cool, they'll like each other". I care about this girl alot (as a friend) and she tells him she'll go to homecoming as friends but that she doesn't want to date. He buys her a mum and her ticket still, then comes to me and a few other dudes bragging about it. I feel like he's being wierd, then later that day I'm walking with him to a class in the halls and some girl stops and says hi and she'll see him later.

He says to me "I'm gonna make out with her for like three hours at homecoming." I didn't know what to say, so I was like "What about (the girl he asked)?". He says "Dude, you KNOW I'm not getting any from her. Just don't tell her."

That night I sent him an e-mail saying I didn't want to be in the band and it wasn't for me. I haven't said anything to him beyond that yet, but this dude really pissed me off. I dunno what to say to my friend (the girl) because just tonight she told me she really didn't want to go with him, but she said yes not to be mean. I was debating telling her what was said, but she left to go to the dance. I'm not going myself (Yeah, I'm an anti-social loser) so I feel really wierd...

hhahahaha, thats awesome
dude, you sound like a fucking pussy
srsly, man the fuck up

[Branevember31]

hhahahaha, thats awesome
dude, you sound like a fucking pussy
srsly, man the fuck up


not if its his best friend

[boysdontcry17]

not if its his best friend

you again?
that's it
we have to fight

[motionwm]

Dude, she is one of best friends. That's the thing.

[Melissa Johnson]

Dude, she is one of best friends. That's the thing.
Why don't you tell her, that way she can kick the dude in the balls then go with her as a friend? She obviously doesn't want a "date" but it's usually nice not to fly solo either.

[ForeverInADay]

Dude, she is one of best friends. That's the thing.
You're only mad about what he said because you want in her.

[xvszero]

Um... I never did the homecoming thing but I was under the impression that if people are just going with each other to have someone to go with and they both know nothing is going to happen they don't have to stick with that person the whole night, and can go get action elsewhere and its no big deal.

Either way he sounds lame.

Reminds me of this one guy I met up with to jam and talk about a potential band. He was new to the area. Things seemed to be going alright, we were into similar music, he was an excellent guitarist... then he starts talking about how he met this one girl recently and said something along the lines of "its been a whole week and the bitch hasn't given it up yet, I'm pretty frustrated, you know what I mean?" I said something like "nah not really, I avoid girls" and then left and never spoke to him again.

[I am all talk]

You gave up on the band!?!? You guys could make it huge.

[motionwm]

I don't think I'd want to spend exstensive amounts of time with this dude...

[Stereo Mike]

You gave up on the band!?!? You guys could make it huge.
Haha

[boysdontcry17]

You're only mad about what he said because you want in her.

probably

[mht]

looks like that kid is the josh scogin of your band, good call leaving