ranting and raving

[Greg]

okay i'm sorry but please give me some feedback on this shit.

okay 2 things happened yesterday thaty confused the hell out of me.

1.this girl i was talking told me she was having a good day. and we talked for a bit. then eventually she left. her away message said something like "going somewhere to cry, i hope i die" so i was all like "hey what's wrong, is there anything i can do etc..." she never responded to me. what i want to know is why did she lie to me? why did she say her day was good when obviously it wasn't i dunno.

2.the girl that i asked out a couple months ago that i am now finally starting to get over randomly IMs me. she's all like yea "my summer has been boring" and "i hate summer caus ei always feel like i lose friends" like is she tryign to tell me she still wants us to be friends? btu idunno if i even want to. it might be better for me to just get away from her so i dont have any new feelings for her again. but maybe she misses me as agood friend. but it kills me to be just a friend. so if she is afraid of losing me i must be more than just a friend right? or actually more than just a normal friend. i dunno.

i'm so confused and pissed off at the world right now. so yea laugh or try to help. just respond. at least it would entertain me if you all you did was make fun of me.

[SayNo2daBunny]

well damn, those girls to hell!! uh not really just j.k

[Ronin]

Originally posted by Greg
okay i'm sorry but please give me some feedback on this shit.

okay 2 things happened yesterday thaty confused the hell out of me.

1.this girl i was talking told me she was having a good day. and we talked for a bit. then eventually she left. her away message said something like "going somewhere to cry, i hope i die" so i was all like "hey what's wrong, is there anything i can do etc..." she never responded to me. what i want to know is why did she lie to me? why did she say her day was good when obviously it wasn't i dunno.

2.the girl that i asked out a couple months ago that i am now finally starting to get over randomly IMs me. she's all like yea "my summer has been boring" and "i hate summer caus ei always feel like i lose friends" like is she tryign to tell me she still wants us to be friends? btu idunno if i even want to. it might be better for me to just get away from her so i dont have any new feelings for her again. but maybe she misses me as agood friend. but it kills me to be just a friend. so if she is afraid of losing me i must be more than just a friend right? or actually more than just a normal friend. i dunno.

i'm so confused and pissed off at the world right now. so yea laugh or try to help. just respond. at least it would entertain me if you all you did was make fun of me.

1. Girls do this all the time. They're a confusing lot, I wouldn't take it personally.

2. STAY AWAY FROM HER. If she really wants you back as a friend, she'll end up telling you straight out, but even then you should be wary. Girls, for all intents and purposes, are insane. You can't decipher their intentions, so don't try. Error on the side of caution.

[SayNo2daBunny]

Originally posted by Ronin
1. Girls do this all the time. They're a confusing lot, I wouldn't take it personally.

2. STAY AWAY FROM HER. If she really wants you back as a friend, she'll end up telling you straight out, but even then you should be wary. Girls, for all intents and purposes, are insane. You can't decipher their intentions, so don't try. Error on the side of caution. agree.

[Greg]

Originally posted by Ronin
1. Girls do this all the time. They're a confusing lot, I wouldn't take it personally.

2. STAY AWAY FROM HER. If she really wants you back as a friend, she'll end up telling you straight out, but even then you should be wary. Girls, for all intents and purposes, are insane. You can't decipher their intentions, so don't try. Error on the side of caution.

1.okay. but the thing is she would tell other people she was having a bad day . then she'd lie to me. eh whatever.

2.yes they are definently insane. and i pretty am staying away. and i'm actually hoping in a bad way that she and i wont be friends at the end of the summer.


god i hate myself

[theused_FSF]

1. LOL, ohhhhhh i love you greg, it's sooooo fun

2. ohhhhhhhhhhhhh the laughter hurts, hahahahahahahahahahahaha

[hot damn!]

for tradition's sake:

www.livejournal.com

[Greg]

Originally posted by theused_FSF
1. LOL, ohhhhhh i love you greg, it's sooooo fun

2. ohhhhhhhhhhhhh the laughter hurts, hahahahahahahahahahahaha

yes yes i know.


and i would probably forget my password to livejournal so i dont want it

[Suprhatch614]

Originally posted by Greg
okay i'm sorry but please give me some feedback on this shit.

okay 2 things happened yesterday thaty confused the hell out of me.

1.this girl i was talking told me she was having a good day. and we talked for a bit. then eventually she left. her away message said something like "going somewhere to cry, i hope i die" so i was all like "hey what's wrong, is there anything i can do etc..." she never responded to me. what i want to know is why did she lie to me? why did she say her day was good when obviously it wasn't i dunno.

2.the girl that i asked out a couple months ago that i am now finally starting to get over randomly IMs me. she's all like yea "my summer has been boring" and "i hate summer caus ei always feel like i lose friends" like is she tryign to tell me she still wants us to be friends? btu idunno if i even want to. it might be better for me to just get away from her so i dont have any new feelings for her again. but maybe she misses me as agood friend. but it kills me to be just a friend. so if she is afraid of losing me i must be more than just a friend right? or actually more than just a normal friend. i dunno.

1. The first girl may have been lying to you for one of two reasons that I can think of (keep in mind I have a penis and am probably way off on both of these) Either it has something to do with you and she can't talk to you about it, or she doesn't feel like you are a close enough friend to confide in.

2. Ok I'm going through this second part right now....here's my advice and this is first hand experience....stay away, stay away stay away. Ok this is how it's going to go...you've finally gotten used to staying away and feeling normal without her. Then she's going to say she misses you or something along those lines totally out of the blue...you're going to debate whether you should talk to her and let her back into you life, (and this is what happened to me) I remembered all the good things about being around her, and none of the bad, and the bad that I allowed myself to remember, I decided was outweighed by all the good (which some of it was made up by myself) So anyway, the first month or two is going to be awesome, and you're going to be thinking thank god i did this, this is great...and then everything that went bad the first time slowly starts to repeat, and believe me, you'll see it coming, but you won't care, you'll think wait I know what's about to happen, so you can avoid it, well you can't...That's just how shit is...and then when everything totally falls apart the second time, it feels even worse cuz you have the knowledge that you are the one that let it happen again, where as the first time you may have been blind to it, this time you knew it was coming and you still let it happen....so I repeat stay away....sorry for the length, but I just thought I'd relay some personal experience to try and save you some problems in the longrun

[hot damn!]

Originally posted by Greg
yes yes i know.


and i would probably forget my password to livejournal so i dont want it :) the first girl u mentioned sounds like she just wanted some attention

second girl...well be aware of her. she might just want you around so she feels loved....girls are ridiculous like that.

[Ronin]

Originally posted by Suprhatch614

2. Ok I'm going through this second part right now....here's my advice and this is first hand experience....stay away, stay away stay away.

listen to this man
he just impressed me with his solid advice

[Greg]

Originally posted by Suprhatch614

2. Ok I'm going through this second part right now....here's my advice and this is first hand experience....stay away, stay away stay away. Ok this is how it's going to go...you've finally gotten used to staying away and feeling normal without her. Then she's going to say she misses you or something along those lines totally out of the blue...you're going to debate whether you should talk to her and let her back into you life, (and this is what happened to me) I remembered all the good things about being around her, and none of the bad, and the bad that I allowed myself to remember, I decided was outweighed by all the good (which some of it was made up by myself) So anyway, the first month or two is going to be awesome, and you're going to be thinking thank god i did this, this is great...and then everything that went bad the first time slowly starts to repeat, and believe me, you'll see it coming, but you won't care, you'll think wait I know what's about to happen, so you can avoid it, well you can't...That's just how shit is...and then when everything totally falls apart the second time, it feels even worse cuz you have the knowledge that you are the one that let it happen again, where as the first time you may have been blind to it, this time you knew it was coming and you still let it happen....so I repeat stay away....sorry for the length, but I just thought I'd relay some personal experience to try and save you some problems in the longrun

thank you. sadly i will stay away. and hopefully i'll be fine.

[Suprhatch614]

seriously, first two weeks are going to suck, just make sure you stay busy doing anything (once again here is where a job would come in handy) the more time your doing shit the less time you have to think about missing her, I thought about the girl in my life everyday for about 3 months straight, and then every other day, and by the time she emailed me out of the blue, it was down to like every now and then randomly, so believe me, it get's better....for a more visual analysis of your situation....watch the movie swingers with john favreau and vince vaughn

[MaybeOneDay]

Originally posted by Greg
1.okay. but the thing is she would tell other people she was having a bad day . then she'd lie to me. eh whatever.

2.yes they are definently insane. and i pretty am staying away. and i'm actually hoping in a bad way that she and i wont be friends at the end of the summer.


god i hate myself

dude, don't say you hate yourself. life's fucked up. don't take anything personally. just look on the positive side for everything.

[Greg]

thanks everybody. you guys are awsome.

[FishAlotNBePunk]

ask the second girl out.

[irapedyourkid]

Originally posted by Greg
thanks everybody. you guys are awsome.
they both think you're gay, that's why they want to be friends.

[evil zach]

Originally posted by FishAlotNBePunk
ask the second girl out.
completly ignore seth...just fuck her then nevr talk to her again