Devin!

[Greg]

umm hi. anyway. you said that being the girl's friend is wrong cause it's sneaky. what do you mean by that. i have never just been nice to a girl so i could ask her out or whatever. for example the last girl i asked out i became friends with her in september or so.(although i knew her in 4th grade i had moved and hadnt seen her since) we became real good friends. then i just felt my feelings grow stronger. so i eventually asked her out. i just need to know cause it';s been bugging me now. how is that being sneaky? i didnt plan it to be that way. and if you mean it differently explain cause i'm confused.

[BustaNutz]

Could that maybe have been done as a PM?

[Greg]

no

[devin]

Ok, I was a bit vague, so I will explain.

If you meet a girl, and you think you would like to date her, you have to act accordingly. If you just want to be friends with her, then be her friend. These are different things. A lot of people make the mistake of becoming friends with every girl they meet. Sometimes, friendships do turn into more, sometimes.

I said it was sneaky, because it is sneaky to mislead someone. It's no better to become friends with a girl to get yourself in a position to date her, then it is for a girl to flirt with you so you'll be her friend. Everyone complains when they get led on, but most people think it's ok to deceive someone about their motivation for a friendship. I haven't followed your love life long enough to know if you're guilty of this. I am just letting you know that is not an effective method.

[Greg]

ok i understand what you're saying now.

i've never done that. i just became friends with her because she was cool. and then shit happened and now i hate msyelf. well whatever. lata.