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Ilovepoprock
10/26/06, 05:00 PM
So, i think my girl has intimacy problems.

When ever we fool around she gets really depressed afterward and it KILLS it.

And i always feel guilty because she feels bad about, and i feel like i should have stopped it or something.

Anyone ever have this problem?
boysdontcry17
10/26/06, 05:36 PM
keep your cock in your pants unless she tells you not to
(easier said than done)
LostSymphonies
10/26/06, 05:45 PM
it's alright, i havent seen my gf in a two months and she doesnt care
Rebs
10/26/06, 05:51 PM
Meh, I'm not as bad as your girl, but I've always been fairly unaffectionate.
Exsanguination
10/26/06, 06:32 PM
sometimes, people that have been sexually abused, develop problems with intimacy.
ForeverInADay
10/26/06, 07:39 PM
I had that problem. We broke up two weeks ago.

Good luck.
xvszero
10/26/06, 07:40 PM
What is she like 15?
TgE ARTdamage
10/26/06, 10:25 PM
i've never had that problem.

i've always had the problem of being exhausted and the girl wanting to go for round 3.
Shellular
10/26/06, 10:29 PM
i've never had that problem.

i've always had the problem of being exhausted and the girl wanting to go for round 3.
you better not fall asleep. :-)
Jesus P. Christ
10/26/06, 10:53 PM
Ah Jesus' mom had intimancy problems.

Shes still a virgin. :rolleyes:
TgE ARTdamage
10/26/06, 11:18 PM
you better not fall asleep. :-)


i'm sure i can handle you ;-)
ForeverInADay
10/27/06, 10:14 AM
Ah Jesus' mom had intimancy problems.

Shes still a virgin. :rolleyes:

i hate your fake profile so much. its not funny.
love_american_style
10/27/06, 10:23 AM
you better not fall asleep. :-)

love yo avatar
outofhope
10/27/06, 10:24 AM
she's cheating on you.
love_american_style
10/27/06, 10:25 AM
when you say fool around do you mean you guys were fucking?
we are cured
10/27/06, 12:30 PM
maybe the dirty sanchez isn't for her.
FASSWcore
10/27/06, 01:12 PM
well that's just odd.
BridgesFolly
10/27/06, 02:52 PM
She either doesnt feel comfortable with how sexual you guys are, gets really scared that she could get pregnant, or is cheating on you.
unwritten
10/27/06, 02:59 PM
She either doesnt feel comfortable with how sexual you guys are, gets really scared that she could get pregnant, or is cheating on you.

hahaha, wow.
apoemtothedead
10/27/06, 03:19 PM
She either doesnt feel comfortable with how sexual you guys are, gets really scared that she could get pregnant, or is cheating on you.
Um, what happened to leaving?
ForeverInADay
10/27/06, 04:02 PM
She either doesnt feel comfortable with how sexual you guys are, gets really scared that she could get pregnant, or is cheating on you.
Or she just isn't a sexual person at all.
the midas touch
10/27/06, 04:54 PM
She felt nothing the whole time. I'd cry too.
mogley
10/27/06, 05:07 PM
Ah Jesus' mom had intimancy problems.

Shes still a virgin. :rolleyes:

i hate your fake profile so much. its not funny.

i agree.
Ilovepoprock
10/27/06, 06:39 PM
when you say fool around do you mean you guys were fucking?

we havent had sex. she just jacked me off.
Ilovepoprock
10/27/06, 06:41 PM
the annoying as shit part is that she always comes onto me. Then she'll do one of two things.

1. Get me REALLY turned on and then decide she doesnt want to do anything (i've been blue balled three times)

2. Start jacking me off ro something of the like, then half way through get hesitant, either stop or do it half heartedly, then get really depressed.

If she just didn't wanna do anything sexual, i would be cool, but she always gos part of the way then slows down. AND MY BALLS CAN'T TAKE IT!
TheLetGo
10/27/06, 06:48 PM
Girlfriend + Vodka = Problem all better.

don't forget a hairtie for when you push her head down, and make sure you tell her, "dont forget to cup the balls."
BridgesFolly
10/27/06, 08:45 PM
i thought you were supposed to gently massage the balls?
fatweasel
10/27/06, 09:17 PM
most likely the problem is a lack of sexual chemistry...dont bother about trying to do physical shit with her....just build the sexual chemisty...and dont satisyfy her at all...dont touch her, try and fuck her, eat her...kinda like a reverse phsyc thing...kinda
AlyssaAsthenia
10/27/06, 09:27 PM
i agree.
:efu:
~black&white~
10/27/06, 10:17 PM
the annoying as shit part is that she always comes onto me. Then she'll do one of two things.

1. Get me REALLY turned on and then decide she doesnt want to do anything (i've been blue balled three times)

2. Start jacking me off ro something of the like, then half way through get hesitant, either stop or do it half heartedly, then get really depressed.

If she just didn't wanna do anything sexual, i would be cool, but she always gos part of the way then slows down. AND MY BALLS CAN'T TAKE IT!


perhaps ur too small in the pants...?
~black&white~
10/27/06, 10:34 PM
Ah Jesus' mom had intimancy problems.

Shes still a virgin. :rolleyes:

do u think ur funny?
Ilovepoprock
10/27/06, 10:51 PM
perhaps ur too small in the pants...?

do you think you're funny?
~black&white~
10/27/06, 10:53 PM
..yes..
lietolive
11/01/06, 08:32 PM
wuts blue ballin?
yourneck
11/01/06, 08:37 PM
the annoying as shit part is that she always comes onto me. Then she'll do one of two things.

1. Get me REALLY turned on and then decide she doesnt want to do anything (i've been blue balled three times)

2. Start jacking me off ro something of the like, then half way through get hesitant, either stop or do it half heartedly, then get really depressed.

If she just didn't wanna do anything sexual, i would be cool, but she always gos part of the way then slows down. AND MY BALLS CAN'T TAKE IT!

wow that sucks...have you talked to her about it? I'm sure she doesn't want to cause you pain. If this always happens, just don't let her get you turned on or start jacking you off.
Narcissm
11/02/06, 12:33 AM
just dont do anything with her for a while. i agree with the guy who said that it would be better to just leave it...reverse psychology. but to be honest dont listen to my advice.i no fuck all about this problem having never experienced intamacy "issues".

good luck- frustration sucks!!!
ndtitr
11/02/06, 06:45 AM
How about get a new gf? Or a hooker?
ForeverInADay
11/02/06, 10:49 AM
just dont do anything with her for a while. i agree with the guy who said that it would be better to just leave it...reverse psychology. but to be honest dont listen to my advice.i no fuck all about this problem having never experienced intamacy "issues".

good luck- frustration sucks!!!

That's a bad idea. I did that thinking it would resolve itself and what not, but we just drifted even further apart and now we're "just friends", which is totally something I don't want to be.

Just talk to her.
BridgesFolly
11/02/06, 10:57 AM
That's a bad idea. I did that thinking it would resolve itself and what not, but we just drifted even further apart and now we're "just friends", which is totally something I don't want to be.

Just talk to her.


you sir, have not sent me one single pm while i've been away


i cried.
sweetforever
11/02/06, 11:08 AM
hey bridgesfolly :wave:
ForeverInADay
11/02/06, 11:23 AM
you sir, have not sent me one single pm while i've been away


i cried.
haha I know :-(

I've been busy and when I haven't been busy I've been trying to sleep because I haven't been recently. forgive??
BridgesFolly
11/03/06, 05:29 AM
hey bridgesfolly :wave:

hey love!

haha I know :-(

I've been busy and when I haven't been busy I've been trying to sleep because I haven't been recently. forgive??


i suppose... :-(
lietolive
11/05/06, 07:37 PM
hey when a guy blue balls on you, does that mean he want u or wut?!
ForeverInADay
11/05/06, 07:54 PM
hey when a guy blue balls on you, does that mean he want u or wut?!
hei, wen a gurl dun tipe pruoperli, dsoe dat men shi dum er wha?
FourdyOz
11/05/06, 07:55 PM
dump that psycho.