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GotToLoveIt
10/29/06, 07:36 PM
Well I need advice on a relationship issue....so if u are going to bitch about how u hate these kind of threads don't read on.


Ok well...my bf or whatever u want to call him decided to go on a break. The reason for a break is from both sides. His reason for a break is that he felt like the past 2 weeks when we would talk that I was mad at him, which I wasn't. And then my reasoning for the break was last weekend he got completely wasted and made-out with 3 different girls in one night. Remind you he wasn't a drinker at all, and didn't start drinking like that until that weekend. I guess what I'm wondering is if he decides he wants to get back together should I take him back. Cus our relationship was really good until the last 2 weeks.
angelusdomini
10/29/06, 07:38 PM
don't take him back.

in fact, next time you see him end the whole think.

being under the influence is not an excuse for making out with 3 girls while you're in a relationship. Its not like you completely lose control of your actions.
[Alea]
10/29/06, 07:47 PM
What a man-whore. Forget about him.
absentmindedx
10/29/06, 07:52 PM
This guy sounds like bad news. Don't take him back.
FondestMemory
10/29/06, 07:54 PM
on his 'break' he's gonna be banging numerous chicks.

if you want std's, take him back. if you don't, get a start on moving on as soon as possible.
angelusdomini
10/29/06, 07:55 PM
on his 'break' he's gonna be banging numerous chicks.

if you want std's, take him back. if you don't, get a start on moving on as soon as possible.

i love it how people talk about STDs on this site... always makes me lol
[Alea]
10/29/06, 07:56 PM
Find a quirky guy, not usually everyone's first pick but they are very faithful.
PaulsRightNut
10/29/06, 07:59 PM
if my boyfriend made out with 3 other people while on a "break" i would not take him back
Slaytus
10/29/06, 08:00 PM
1. Fuck him
2. Take off condom when he finishes
3. Stick condom in his mouth
4. Leave


my friend did this only he did it to his gf and as he was leaving told the mother what her daughter had just been doing. Made me laugh.
ForeverInADay
10/29/06, 08:07 PM
haha wait...you weren't mad at him because he basically cheated on you three times in one night?
If you weren't mad at him, then I don't necessarily think you care about him that much, so why bother?
GotToLoveIt
10/29/06, 08:13 PM
haha wait...you weren't mad at him because he basically cheated on you three times in one night?
If you weren't mad at him, then I don't necessarily think you care about him that much, so why bother?
I was and still am mad him for cheating on me...
I've even cried over it because I really care about him.
ForeverInADay
10/29/06, 08:20 PM
The reason for a break is from both sides. His reason for a break is that he felt like the past 2 weeks when we would talk that I was mad at him, which I wasn't.
then what was this about?
FondestMemory
10/29/06, 08:33 PM
I was and still am mad him for cheating on me...
I've even cried over it because I really care about him.

you shouldn't waste time crying over it because he clearly doesn't care about you.
GotToLoveIt
10/29/06, 08:36 PM
then what was this about?
He got a couple comments on myspace where girls were calling him babe and one of him he called her babe. So I asked him what was up with that. He assumed I was mad about that. And then the weekend of his homecoming he had promised me that we would go out that night because he didn't want to go to his homecoming. But he decided to go to a college hockey game instead and I said something to him. I was dissappointed but not mad. And again he took it as me being mad.
bluecrunchy
10/29/06, 08:40 PM
my ex girlfriend did basically the same thing. anyone who cheats isn't worth wasting your time on, no matter what the circumstances.
aolsux
10/29/06, 08:46 PM
you got to take your relationship in through the backdoor ;-)
ForeverInADay
10/29/06, 08:47 PM
He got a couple comments on myspace where girls were calling him babe and one of him he called her babe. So I asked him what was up with that. He assumed I was mad about that. And then the weekend of his homecoming he had promised me that we would go out that night because he didn't want to go to his homecoming. But he decided to go to a college hockey game instead and I said something to him. I was dissappointed but not mad. And again he took it as me being mad.

oh. well you should still dump him because he cheated on you, and the drinking thing isnt really an excuse since....he still cheated on you.
TgE ARTdamage
10/29/06, 10:17 PM
i get wasted all the time and never make out with chicks.

mostely because i know i'm probably the least attractive man alive when i'm drunk and i smell like beer and liquor.
GotToLoveIt
10/30/06, 02:04 PM
I don't know what to do cus he wasn't much of a drinker until about 2 weeks ago, and I think a lot of that has to do with the people he has been hanging out with. He changed schools for hockey and so now he hangs out with the hockey guys at his school who are known to be major drinkers.
FondestMemory
10/30/06, 02:10 PM
I don't know what to do cus he wasn't much of a drinker until about 2 weeks ago, and I think a lot of that has to do with the people he has been hanging out with. He changed schools for hockey and so now he hangs out with the hockey guys at his school who are known to be major drinkers.

doesn't matter. he made out with three different girls while you were together. who cares about the drinking?

i mean, if you're ok knowing that if you stay with him he positively will cheat on you again, then go for it.

and if he's caving into peer pressure that easily with the drinking, what do you think he's gonna do when the guys from the team are hounding him to nail a chick after a game?

seriously, he's a waste. he will cheat on you again. move on. save yourself the trouble. he's not worth it.
ndtitr
10/30/06, 03:59 PM
Dude sounds like a scumbag my vote goes to not taking him back regardless...
ForeverInADay
10/30/06, 04:11 PM
doesn't matter. he made out with three different girls while you were together. who cares about the drinking?

i mean, if you're ok knowing that if you stay with him he positively will cheat on you again, then go for it.

and if he's caving into peer pressure that easily with the drinking, what do you think he's gonna do when the guys from the team are hounding him to nail a chick after a game?

seriously, he's a waste. he will cheat on you again. move on. save yourself the trouble. he's not worth it.
definitely.