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bigweener
06/23/03, 06:37 AM
ok, i know a lot of people who tell their gf's/bf's they love them. I dont think people actually know what it means. Think about it.... people who are married and mature love eachother, not your silly little high school crush. Maybe I'm wrong, but people over use that word much too much. Or I've just never experienced it. What do you think?

theused_FSF
06/23/03, 06:42 AM
yeah it is over used, my sister can be with a guy for like two days and she'll start telling him she loves him just because "it is cool"

i waited until i knew it was love with my g/f, i never been so sure about anything

BleedingMe
06/23/03, 06:43 AM
I think your right. I've never told some stupid high school boyfriend that I loved them. The first time some guy said that to me I freaked out, I thought he was crazy! I've never said it back, and this has happend more than once. I'm not into love right now, I'd rather be with more than one guy.

bigweener
06/23/03, 06:43 AM
Originally posted by theused_FSF

i waited until i knew it was love with my g/f, i never been so sure about anything

thats understandable.

Doolittle
06/23/03, 06:44 AM
ignorance > love

kidinthecorner
06/23/03, 06:44 AM
Originally posted by theused_FSF
yeah it is over used, my sister can be with a guy for like two days and she'll start telling him she loves him just because "it is cool"

i waited until i knew it was love with my g/f, i never been so sure about anything
I made a sig. Nice.

asubtledaggerx
06/23/03, 06:45 AM
I think people use the word love way to loosely. Some people say it just so they can hear their bf/gf say it back, which is really stupid. I've never been in love..and I'll never say it until I know I truely am.

theused_FSF
06/23/03, 06:46 AM
Originally posted by kidinthecorner
I made a sig. Nice.


well, it was pretty damn funny

ms y o o n
06/23/03, 06:46 AM
it is overused
and i cant stand it!
kids 2 years younger... its so lame.. bla blai l ovey ou i love you but they dont know shit

BleedingMe
06/23/03, 06:46 AM
Thats the way to be.

Doolittle
06/23/03, 06:47 AM
Originally posted by krazee_k0rean
it is overused
and i cant stand it!
kids 2 years younger... its so lame.. bla blai l ovey ou i love you but they dont know shit

you dont know shit either. how old are you 16? shut up becuase you dont know what the fuck youre talking about either

bigweener
06/23/03, 06:48 AM
Originally posted by krazee_k0rean
it is overused
and i cant stand it!
kids 2 years younger... its so lame.. bla blai l ovey ou i love you but they dont know shit

ya i agree.

BleedingMe
06/23/03, 06:50 AM
Some people use the word love to get someone in bed.

ms y o o n
06/23/03, 07:06 AM
Originally posted by Doolittle
you dont know shit either. how old are you 16? shut up becuase you dont know what the fuck youre talking about either

hmmm i dont think you know what you're talking about

i think its lame dumbfuck

Doolittle
06/23/03, 07:08 AM
i always know what im talking about. i win, you lose.

ms y o o n
06/23/03, 07:14 AM
Originally posted by Doolittle
i always know what im talking about. i win, you lose.

i dont think so
okk lets just finish it off with

'i love you'

Tom Foolery
06/23/03, 07:27 AM
I think it's definitely used without caution or validity way too often. This is why I refuse to say it to someone until I actually mean it. Seeing as how I've never been in love, I've never said it to anyone other than my platonic soulmate.

Frodo
06/23/03, 07:32 AM
yeah it annoys me when people overuse the word. i've never said it to anyone yet, i think i might be soon :eek:

wasted
06/23/03, 07:38 AM
Originally posted by coheed&cambria
yeah it annoys me when people overuse the word. i've never said it to anyone yet, i think i might be soon :eek:

your avatar is awesome! i saw that movie for the first time this weekend, it's great.

i do think that people use the word too loosely. sometimes people don't know exactly what they are feeling, so they just use "love" to make things easier. i've never told anyone i've loved them, and hopefully i'll be sure of it when i do.

Frodo
06/23/03, 07:40 AM
Originally posted by wasted
your avatar is awesome! i saw that movie for the first time this weekend, it's great.



heh thanks, i saw it last night for the first time too. its probably my favorite movie now, im going to rush out and buy the dvd this week.

wasted
06/23/03, 07:47 AM
yeah, it's definitely one of my favorites.

Clarett'sGreyGoose
06/23/03, 10:02 AM
don't you people know anything, love doesn't exist!!


....heh, now that i think about it, one of the last g/f's i had told me she loved me, and i didn't say anything back, and she just started staring at me, expecting me to say it back, so i obviously asked what she was looking at, and she wanted to know why i wouldnt say it back, and begged me to say it. so i told her. and then "her heart was broken" when i dumped her like a week later....stupid broad, shouldn't have forced me to say nothing i didn't want to.

wasted
06/23/03, 10:08 AM
Originally posted by PlaysWithFire
don't you people know anything, love doesn't exist!!


....heh, now that i think about it, one of the last g/f's i had told me she loved me, and i didn't say anything back, and she just started staring at me, expecting me to say it back, so i obviously asked what she was looking at, and she wanted to know why i wouldnt say it back, and begged me to say it. so i told her. and then "her heart was broken" when i dumped her like a week later....stupid broad, shouldn't have forced me to say nothing i didn't want to.

heh. why are people so stuck on having them say it back? if they love you, they love you; if they don't, they don't.

Clarett'sGreyGoose
06/23/03, 10:09 AM
Originally posted by wasted
heh. why are people so stuck on having them say it back? if they love you, they love you; if they don't, they don't.

....the question i have asked myself many a time.

ifeelused
06/23/03, 10:29 AM
love is bullshit until your older and can understand it more.. cuz most of the time you think your in love, and that the person loves you back . but all good things come to an end and then it just hurts so much more.

thats why i've become such an unloving person :)

Tom Foolery
06/23/03, 10:48 AM
Originally posted by PlaysWithFire
don't you people know anything, love doesn't exist!!




I'm beginning to think this is true.

cheez mastah
06/23/03, 11:08 AM
Originally posted by I_speak_ghetto
I'm beginning to think this is true.

Doolittle
06/23/03, 11:44 AM
where is greg when there is a thread like this?

kevin
06/23/03, 11:45 AM
Fat Camp

Fobika!
06/23/03, 11:51 AM
hahah aww

Doolittle
06/23/03, 11:52 AM
no its more like hahahhahahahaha

imnotyoustar
06/23/03, 03:20 PM
love... how can anyone be in love in high school? they havent had the experience or even been with enough people to know what love is! "I love you" is used soo often in relationships with people that dont mean it at all. The thought of even loving someone this age makes me laugh.




___________

she says love is for fools who fall behind

-Fuel

Pawn Scum
06/23/03, 07:10 PM
its funny, me and my g/f were talking about this a week ago. I told her that "love" is used too loosely and that i pretty much gave up on love ever existing and she gets all over dramatic and crap saying things like if never loved her why would i say it back to her. I may seem like a jerk, but I tell her its basically because she expects to hear it back. I have no clue what love is, and i dont know if its real.

RUFiOOOOOOO
06/23/03, 07:31 PM
I've never told a girl that I loved them. I have never really been in love even if i may have thought so at the time. I really REALLY LIKE my crush at the current time, but I don't love her..yet.