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devin
07/02/03, 06:30 PM
...because it's not.

As some of you may have noticed, I've been gone for about 10 days. That's not that long when you think about it, but at the rate I was posting, it is ages. I wanted to actually live a bit before I started working, so I felt that a vacation from the boards would be good for me. Well, now and then, I would check on the place, and it was not pretty. I saw nothing to inspire me to return, but I figured I would just do it anyway tonight. Then I read the now infamous thread of Renewed Future. And that was really just the last straw for me.

Here's the way I saw the thread: RF came in and asked if other people here like hardcore. That's pretty understandable to me. I know that some people have to wander over here for some reason other than the news and features. I know that I did. I believe that if he had said "Does anyone here like (insert genre here) instead of that shitty, screaming hardcore stuff," he would have hardly received any hatred. I really think it hits a little close to home when people come here and insult pop-punk. It's valid to wonder if people like anything outside of a very narrow slice of music here though. Just a week ago there were a half dozen different Brand New threads on the first page here. Maybe that sort of thing flies in the reviews section, but in general? When was the last time that a poll or tournament didn't have Thrice, Brand New, TBS, Finch, or TSL as a winner? I have gotten more than my fair share of adoration and respect here, so I don't feel I'm stepping out of my place by saying anything.

The closed-mindedness of the average board member's musical taste is bad enough, but that thread just completely devolved into a lynching. I was disappointed that Laura forgot that only a month ago she was on the receiving end of an unfair fight. In case you don't remember, a lot of people here didn't like how freely she posted pictures and asked people left and right to be here boyfriend. I defended her, not because I thought they were entirely unfounded accusations, but because I thought it was too early for so many to judge her. As it turns out, she's very well-liked here now. Why was RF jumped on? Because he expressed an opinion on music. If we flamed everyone here who said negative things about bands, this board would be empty. I know about the "we flame newbs to toughen them up" defense. But, that's horseshit in this case. While Brandon made a decent reply, he felt the need to follow it up with a physical threat. When one person is on the wrong side of an unprovoked 8-1 flame, then I don't think the admin/mod should step in and try to intimidate the guy with his size. The argument is especially flawed because he was banned. After carefully reading that thread, he was not the deserving one for that honor.

That wouldn't have pissed me off so much if it didn't remind me how much I differ in taste than the majority of the board. I've recently been posting more at another board. The people there have really impressive knowledge of music. Sure, you can fault them for praising the obscure a bit too much, but I'd rather people err on that side of the line. They are also able to back up "this sucks" with coherent criticism. Oh, and there's a much better sense of humor on that board. Sorry for making it sound like I've found a better lover, but it's a more suitable place for me.

Finally, I'm really tired of having 15-year olds make inane comments about punk. I don't consider myself the ultimate judge of punk and I hate to label, but kids who use the word ought to educate themselves. Find out how it actually started what it was actually about, not what you read on a sticker. I'll even help out, try "Please Kill Me" or "England's Dreaming." I bring this up because I saw 7-12 year olds at my camp singing along to Good Charlotte and Simple Plan. It made me realize the path most people followed to ap.

So, this isn't exactly goodbye. I'm not giving any shoutouts. I'm not asking for pleas to stay or invitations to fuck off. I'm just telling you why I think this board isn't all that interesting to me anymore. I'll still be around and post occasionally, but never at my old rate.

FishAlotNBePunk
07/02/03, 06:35 PM
*claps* :D

Fobika!
07/02/03, 06:47 PM
uh...

the_champ_is_here
07/02/03, 07:10 PM
I just read that thread for the first time... I think that Brandon is becoming a nazi.

Zack Attack
07/02/03, 07:13 PM
that guy was banned? just for expressing his fucking opinion? thats such bullshit.

FishAlotNBePunk
07/02/03, 07:22 PM
it is.

Tom Foolery
07/02/03, 07:38 PM
Originally posted by OffBasil
I just read that thread for the first time... I think that Brandon is becoming a nazi.

I've noticed this as well...

Doolittle
07/02/03, 07:43 PM
Originally posted by devin
The closed-mindedness of the average board member's musical taste is bad enough, but that thread just completely devolved into a lynching. I was disappointed that Laura forgot that only a month ago she was on the receiving end of an unfair fight. In case you don't remember, a lot of people here didn't like how freely she posted pictures and asked people left and right to be here boyfriend. I defended her, not because I thought they were entirely unfounded accusations, but because I thought it was too early for so many to judge her. As it turns out, she's very well-liked here now. Why was RF jumped on? Because he expressed an opinion on music. If we flamed everyone here who said negative things about bands, this board would be empty. I know about the "we flame newbs to toughen them up" defense. But, that's horseshit in this case. While Brandon made a decent reply, he felt the need to follow it up with a physical threat. When one person is on the wrong side of an unprovoked 8-1 flame, then I don't think the admin/mod should step in and try to intimidate the guy with his size. The argument is especially flawed because he was banned. After carefully reading that thread, he was not the deserving one for that honor.

i said almost the same thing (or attempted to anyway) to brandon earlier today. (thank you for completely ignoring me and cutting me off at every given opportunity and not allowing me to finish my thought. especially only to do so and then pretend as if it never happened.)

ultimately i know that regardless of what was just said about him, he will most likely approve of your post and praise it because he hasnt the ability to come with a decent thought of his own (no offense).

FishAlotNBePunk
07/02/03, 07:50 PM
yeah, to put it straight forward, this forum is getting rediculous.

Tom Foolery
07/02/03, 08:08 PM
Brandon has a problem with speaking for all of us in his posts, when in reality, most of us disagree with him on several issues. I respect that everyone has their own opinion and I just wish he'd speak for himself instead of dragging us all into it (i.e. when he posts things like "No one here likes you," when it's actually only himself and a few others who dislike the person).

I'd suggest anger management classes.

Descendent
07/02/03, 08:11 PM
and the winner of this thread it Finch... or was it Brand new? or Tsl?

Alex Djaferis
07/03/03, 12:22 AM
my post counts have declined dramatically lately...from like 10 a day to like 4 or 5 a day. this board is gettin a bit annoying. its just to pass time now.

wasted
07/03/03, 02:04 AM
stuff like that is bullshit. many of times people have came here wanting a good discussion, and what they were given is a beating instead. when this happens, i desperately want to say something to these people and tell them how immature they are acting, but i don't, because i know that they'll just turn on me, because i guess i'm still a "newbie" or whatever. half of the time i'm hesistant to reply to ANY thread because i never know who's going to flame me for whatever simple, opinionated statement i made.

i've thought about leaving this place also, but i've met a few really great people, and i guess that sort of makes things better.

i hope you still remain posting here devin, even if only from time to time, because i really enjoy reading your stuff, and you make this place worth coming to.

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 03:09 AM
wow, look at all the people hating on Brandon now. im not turning into a fucking nazi. and seriously devin, did you think my "physical threat" toward's that renewed future guy was true ? did you actually think, for one second, that i was going to get neph to drive a golf cart through that guy's house ? wow, lighten up.

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 03:15 AM
Originally posted by OffBasil
I just read that thread for the first time... I think that Brandon is becoming a nazi.

that's your opinion....aren't you afraid i might ban you for expressing it ?

nope. don't be. you people make it sound like i'll ban any person who steps into this forum with an opinion, that disagree's with mine. i didn't plan on even banning that guy in the first place. even ask cole, i told her directly on aim that "I'm not going to ban him". But it kind of suck's when you get about 10 people on aim asking you to have him removed. If you'd like I could unban him so you could all praise him ?

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 03:20 AM
Originally posted by I_speak_ghetto
Brandon has a problem with speaking for all of us in his posts, when in reality, most of us disagree with him on several issues. I respect that everyone has their own opinion and I just wish he'd speak for himself instead of dragging us all into it (i.e. when he posts things like "No one here likes you," when it's actually only himself and a few others who dislike the person).

I'd suggest anger management classes.

You know, i might have thought about taking that post into consideration, but you just completely contradicted yourself. If you're going to make a post saying I have a problem with speaking for more than just myself in my post's, then don't do exactly what you just accused me of in your post.

You just said "When in reality, most of us disagree with him on several issues". Is that speaking for yourself and yourself only ? I think not. Before you accuse me of something, try to not do the same thing in your acquisation. What you just said spoke for "most" of the board, as you put it. Since you have a problem with me speaking for more than myself when it come's to opinon, and that post is YOUR opinion, don't you think you should have voiced it as YOUR OPINION. and not have spoken for the majority of the forum. case closed.

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 03:50 AM
*bump*

i want her to see that last reply

DriveTBSthru
07/03/03, 04:06 AM
r u trying to be special?

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 04:08 AM
Originally posted by DriveTBSthru
r u trying to be special?

me ?

no. i just want to i_speak_ghetto to see my reply to her. if you read it, you'd see i turned the situation around on her completely. she has no right accusing me of doing something she disagree's with if she's going to turn around and do the same thing.

ms y o o n
07/03/03, 04:20 AM
ok
i said it LONG LONG time ago. this place is like school. cliques and stupid shit like that.
people are lower than others and bla bla bla. and devin imgonna miss you, but have fun!
and i realized that i haven't posted that much either.. the board has changed from when i first game. maybe it was me? haha anyways whatever, its just a place to come when im bored

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 04:24 AM
the board hasn't changed at all. some day's its fun. some day's its boring. sometime's lots of people post. sometime's barely anyone post's. you get my drift ? you just gotta stick around. lot's of people seem to have the idea that this board has changed. in all honesty, it's no different than from when it was over a year ago when i joined. with everyone leaving and cutting back the amount of post's a day i don't see how anyone can expect this place to get better.

charly horse
07/03/03, 04:36 AM
this is what i think:

personally i like a lot of different kinds of music.... i dont just listen to punk music . . . i do and i will admit this like pop punk music . . .and heaven forbid i like good charlotte . . . theyre music isnt all that bad . . . i also like avril lavigne . . . its about the music . . . not the image . . and thats what we mostly talk abouton here . . . i dont think avril is punk one bit . . but i like her music . . . i like a lot of different music than all of you guys . . and im alaways afraid to say that i like good charlotte or that i like avril or christina because you guys will flam me and be like . . . ."avril is SO punk" yada yada....t hats why most the time i refrain from making posts directed towords music. . .. and hannah is right this is like a high school . . . but i like high school so i come back . . . yea i dont know what else to say sooo yea

kevin
07/03/03, 04:40 AM
Originally posted by MaybeOneDay
the board hasn't changed at all. some day's its fun. some day's its boring. sometime's lots of people post. sometime's barely anyone post's. you get my drift ? you just gotta stick around. lot's of people seem to have the idea that this board has changed. in all honesty, it's no different than from when it was over a year ago when i joined. with everyone leaving and cutting back the amount of post's a day i don't see how anyone can expect this place to get better.

You don't ban people for voicing their opinion. It just doesn't work like that. Even if the guy is talking shit to you and you don't agree with him. You are just a Mod man, remember that.

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 04:45 AM
Originally posted by kmtpw21
You don't ban people for voicing their opinion. It just doesn't work like that. Even if the guy is talking shit to you and you don't agree with him. You are just a Mod man, remember that.

WRONG! i am not just a moderator, but an administrator as well. haha im just playing around, don't take my sarcasm seriously in that first sentence.

anyways, like ive said, i didn't ban him just on my choice and my choice alone. i got a couple emails, and many people on aim tellling me or asking me to ban him. i thought i'd be doing the board a good deed by banning him since so many people requested it. but i guess not. im just here to try to make this a better place. if what i did was a bad choice and/or was wrong, im sorry.

kevin
07/03/03, 04:46 AM
Well maybe it was a good chioce. I just got done reading the thread and he seemed pretty ignorant.

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 04:47 AM
Originally posted by kmtpw21
Well maybe it was a good chioce. I just got done reading the thread and he seemed pretty ignorant.

It's all about opinion on a situation like this. Some may feel that what I did was the right thing to do, and other's may hate me for what I did.

charly horse
07/03/03, 05:11 AM
well i guess you did what you had to do brandon

theused_FSF
07/03/03, 06:26 AM
who were the ******s that asked you to ban him??? no one should be banned for posting their opinion, especially when it comes to music... not everyone that comes on here is going to like Brand New, Finch, TSL, etc., and some will express their hatred for those bands a little differently than others but they have that right, Amber tells me all the time how much she thinks The Used sucks, but i dont think she deserves to be banned for it, thats just her opinion...maybe he didnt have to be such a bitch about it, but that can be excused

Greg
07/03/03, 06:27 AM
Originally posted by alsublimereject
well i guess you did what you had to do brandon

BustaNutz
07/03/03, 06:40 AM
The problem with this board is everyone is scared to actually share their opinions. Devin does it regularly, and he is seen in a good light, so what he says is accepted and generally agreed with. The kid you just banned, he did the same, and you banned him. For the entire time I've been here (5 months) it seems the only people who have the confidence to express their opinions are the ones who can defend themselves and don't mind taking some flak for it.

The people who express their actual opinions and sentiments on the board are:
Devin
Colin (Ronin)
Greg
Cole
Amber
Brandon (to an extent)
Bill
and the guys in the politics forum (Justin, Matthew, Zach, Cal, Yeat)

The rest of you will follow the masses, and agree or disagree in accordance to everyone else. That's what makes this board so dull at times, there's no debate, no arguement of an intelligent nature. Sure there is arguement, but it always deteriorates into name calling and stupid threats. I've never seen a discussion about music that didn't involve the aforementioned few that had any semblance of intelligence.

This is my opinion, do with it as you please.

theused_FSF
07/03/03, 06:43 AM
BOING!!!

Greg
07/03/03, 06:58 AM
i guess that's kind of a compliment. thanks!:)

ifeelused
07/03/03, 07:05 AM
i guess no one saw what i said in that thread at all.. jesus

i answered his damn question. i thought it was funny the way he got everyone so worked up

ifeelused
07/03/03, 07:10 AM
also.. i dont think everyone should act like Devin was the first to say anything about this.. there were a lot
-me
-cole
-bill
-byron

i think others also

theused_FSF
07/03/03, 07:11 AM
i wasnt even here while the convo thread happened... i got here at about the 4th page, but i read the thread and i dont think he should have been banned

ifeelused
07/03/03, 07:17 AM
Originally posted by theused_FSF
i wasnt even here while the convo thread happened... i got here at about the 4th page, but i read the thread and i dont think he should have been banned

but did u at least see what i said.. i think everyone just ignored it

theused_FSF
07/03/03, 07:20 AM
Originally posted by ifeelused
but did u at least see what i said.. i think everyone just ignored it


yeah, actually while i was reading it i realized you made more sense than anyone else at the time

ifeelused
07/03/03, 07:21 AM
Originally posted by theused_FSF
yeah, actually while i was reading it i realized you made more sense than anyone else at the time

boo ya

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 07:59 AM
Originally posted by BustaNutz
The problem with this board is everyone is scared to actually share their opinions. Devin does it regularly, and he is seen in a good light, so what he says is accepted and generally agreed with. The kid you just banned, he did the same, and you banned him. For the entire time I've been here (5 months) it seems the only people who have the confidence to express their opinions are the ones who can defend themselves and don't mind taking some flak for it.

The people who express their actual opinions and sentiments on the board are:
Devin
Colin (Ronin)
Greg
Cole
Amber
Brandon (to an extent)
Bill
and the guys in the politics forum (Justin, Matthew, Zach, Cal, Yeat)

The rest of you will follow the masses, and agree or disagree in accordance to everyone else. That's what makes this board so dull at times, there's no debate, no arguement of an intelligent nature. Sure there is arguement, but it always deteriorates into name calling and stupid threats. I've never seen a discussion about music that didn't involve the aforementioned few that had any semblance of intelligence.

This is my opinion, do with it as you please.

what's the to an extent part about beside my name ? never once have i gone along with the masses because that's what everyone else is agreeing to. if i've got an opinion, ill voice it. regardless of how many insults will result from it. but i do agree with you, there are to many people here afraid to voice their opinion so it can be heard.

i just don't know what to do to make you guy's happy. he was banned. i realized i shouldn't have done it after all the good points you all brought up. so what do you want me to do ? if unbanning him will stop every single person writing the same thing, " I don't think he should have been banned ", then i'll unban him. let me know. what do YOU want.

kevin
07/03/03, 08:24 AM
I always express my opinion. I am not scared to share it at all.

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 08:31 AM
Originally posted by kmtpw21
I always express my opinion. I am not scared to share it at all.

yeah, you deffinately should be on that list.

Suprhatch614
07/03/03, 08:43 AM
where is this thread/post i don't come here as often as I used to and I tried scrolling back and i couldn't find it...help would be appreciated

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 08:44 AM
http://forum.absolutepunk.net/showthread.php?s=&threadid=19275


there ya go.

Suprhatch614
07/03/03, 08:55 AM
Originally posted by MaybeOneDay
http://forum.absolutepunk.net/showthread.php?s=&threadid=19275


there ya go.

Thanx

kevin
07/03/03, 08:56 AM
Originally posted by MaybeOneDay
yeah, you deffinately should be on that list.

I never really posted on a daily basis until now though.

Fobika!
07/03/03, 08:57 AM
don't call me rich don't call me george just call me cheese that's who i am

Doolittle
07/03/03, 09:15 AM
Originally posted by MaybeOneDay
that's your opinion....aren't you afraid i might ban you for expressing it ?

nope. don't be. you people make it sound like i'll ban any person who steps into this forum with an opinion, that disagree's with mine. i didn't plan on even banning that guy in the first place. even ask cole, i told her directly on aim that "I'm not going to ban him". But it kind of suck's when you get about 10 people on aim asking you to have him removed. If you'd like I could unban him so you could all praise him ?

so then the real problem at hand is that you cant make a decison and stick to it. you dont have any convictions whatsoever. you told me that you would not ban someone becuase there was NO REASON to do so. but then i come back online and theyre gone? next time youre goign to do soemthing stupid like that dont bother telling me becuase youre only going to change your mind.

but yes, expressing opinions was also the problem. if there was someone who had just joined and was the opposite, saying that pop punk and that mall emo crap was awesome and was at the same time telling everyone that hardcore sucked, nobody really would have a cared. a few people would have said he was a jackass, but soon enough it would have turned into another brand new thread. the problem was that you disagreed with his opinion. how the hell can people get into new kinds of music if you ban people all the time that have different tastes? im not saying that the way he went about posting was necessarily the best way to do things, but it wasnt so bad that he should have been banned.

devin
07/03/03, 10:10 AM
Originally posted by Doolittle
but yes, expressing opinions was also the problem. if there was someone who had just joined and was the opposite, saying that pop punk and that mall emo crap was awesome and was at the same time telling everyone that hardcore sucked, nobody really would have a cared. a few people would have said he was a jackass, but soon enough it would have turned into another brand new thread. the problem was that you disagreed with his opinion. how the hell can people get into new kinds of music if you ban people all the time that have different tastes? im not saying that the way he went about posting was necessarily the best way to do things, but it wasnt so bad that he should have been banned.

It really hurts to agree with Cole, but it happens now and then. Brandon, I never think that physical threats here are appropriate. I just think, that as a mod, you need to try to act objectively. I've seen many times when a new person arrived and some people didn't like them and asked a mod to ban. Why ban him? Because the older members were flaming him and he fought back? That's really weak. You have to remember that there are lots of members of this board. A few ims from people who were involved in the flame shouldn't be enough to ban him. If that were the case, lots of people would have been out of here a long time ago.

But, let's not get all crazy. When it comes down to it, this was just a gripe of mine. I don't think that we turned away the savior of the board, just that we acted like pricks. I'm glad that this thread has given people the opportunity to air some grievances. The easiest way for those of us unhappy with the board to improve it is to make our own threads about what interests us.

Steph, I did see your defense of that kid in the thread. I meant to give you credit but forgot.

I would also like to add that I think that Brandon has done a fairly good job, he's just quick on the trigger sometimes.

ifeelused
07/03/03, 10:12 AM
Originally posted by devin
It really hurts to agree with Cole, but it happens now and then. Brandon, I never think that physical threats here are appropriate. I just think, that as a mod, you need to try to act objectively. I've seen many times when a new person arrived and some people didn't like them and asked a mod to ban. Why ban him? Because the older members were flaming him and he fought back? That's really weak. You have to remember that there are lots of members of this board. A few ims from people who were involved in the flame shouldn't be enough to ban him. If that were the case, lots of people would have been out of here a long time ago.

But, let's not get all crazy. When it comes down to it, this was just a gripe of mine. I don't think that we turned away the savior of the board, just that we acted like pricks. I'm glad that this thread has given people the opportunity to air some grievances. The easiest way for those of us unhappy with the board to improve it is to make our own threads about what interests us.

Steph, I did see your defense of that kid in the thread. I meant to give you credit but forgot.

I would also like to add that I think that Brandon has done a fairly good job, he's just quick on the trigger sometimes.

someone remembered my name :) thanks

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 10:29 AM
Originally posted by devin
It really hurts to agree with Cole, but it happens now and then. Brandon, I never think that physical threats here are appropriate. I just think, that as a mod, you need to try to act objectively. I've seen many times when a new person arrived and some people didn't like them and asked a mod to ban. Why ban him? Because the older members were flaming him and he fought back? That's really weak. You have to remember that there are lots of members of this board. A few ims from people who were involved in the flame shouldn't be enough to ban him. If that were the case, lots of people would have been out of here a long time ago.

But, let's not get all crazy. When it comes down to it, this was just a gripe of mine. I don't think that we turned away the savior of the board, just that we acted like pricks. I'm glad that this thread has given people the opportunity to air some grievances. The easiest way for those of us unhappy with the board to improve it is to make our own threads about what interests us.

Steph, I did see your defense of that kid in the thread. I meant to give you credit but forgot.

I would also like to add that I think that Brandon has done a fairly good job, he's just quick on the trigger sometimes.

you brought up some good points. and i respect your outlook on this whole situation and i've realised my choice to ban him was not a good one. i'd like to apologize to anyone who got upset by that, or anyone i might of said some mean thing's to after i banned him. anyways devin, i appreciate you saying that i've done a good job. i just try to keep this place as user friendly as possible and im sure bill is trying his best to do the same. anyways, thanks.

BustaNutz
07/03/03, 10:43 AM
Originally posted by MaybeOneDay
you brought up some good points. and i respect your outlook on this whole situation and i've realised my choice to ban him was not a good one. i'd like to apologize to anyone who got upset by that, or anyone i might of said some mean thing's to after i banned him. anyways devin, i appreciate you saying that i've done a good job. i just try to keep this place as user friendly as possible and im sure bill is trying his best to do the same. anyways, thanks.

Brandon, before I say this please don't take offense. I like you a lot, you're a nice dude. But this is part of the reason I put "to an extent" by your name. You speak your opinions, but you also want to be liked, and it seems that you're willing to do more to be liked than to say what you mean. For instance this banning thing, it's really been blown out of proportion, but you did it, it's done. So rather than apologizing, and saying you know now you were wrong, just forget it. By going back and doubting yourself or doubting your opinions you give off an air that you're not sure of yourself. This isn't a personal attack, it's just how I see it.

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 10:50 AM
Originally posted by BustaNutz
Brandon, before I say this please don't take offense. I like you a lot, you're a nice dude. But this is part of the reason I put "to an extent" by your name. You speak your opinions, but you also want to be liked, and it seems that you're willing to do more to be liked than to say what you mean. For instance this banning thing, it's really been blown out of proportion, but you did it, it's done. So rather than apologizing, and saying you know now you were wrong, just forget it. By going back and doubting yourself or doubting your opinions you give off an air that you're not sure of yourself. This isn't a personal attack, it's just how I see it.

I understand what you're saying completely. It's just, can a person not have an opinion on something and then change it after because they realized they were wrong in the first place, or had made a bad decision. in all seriousness, it really doesn't matter to me if people here like me or not. if i have an opinion on something, ill voice it. at the beginning my opinon of the guy i banned was that he was an idiot. so i banned him. and then my opinon changed. but seeing i actually went to the lenghts to ban this guy, how can you say im not sure of myself ? i mean, i just realized the wrong in what i had done. nothing more than that. i don't agree with you here. and im aware it's your opinion. if people here didn't like me. that wouldn't make a difference to me. id still come here regularly and post as much as i do. other people's opinions of me don't matter. i don't agree with the masses or voice my opinion so that i will be liked, i do it because it's my opinion and i want it to be heard. up until this point, people have agreed with me as far as i can see. well maybe, maybe not.

asubtledaggerx
07/03/03, 11:07 AM
Originally posted by devin
I was disappointed that Laura forgot that only a month ago she was on the receiving end of an unfair fight. In case you don't remember, a lot of people here didn't like how freely she posted pictures and asked people left and right to be here boyfriend. I defended her, not because I thought they were entirely unfounded accusations, but because I thought it was too early for so many to judge her. As it turns out, she's very well-liked here now.

That made me feel bad and I don't really know why. I guess it was because I have always repsected you..you were one of the only people to stand up for me and one of the first people to befriend me. And hearing that from you kinda sucks for me...and I don't want people to feel differently about me, I was just acting like a smart-ass

but anyways...

I think that lately alot of people on here have been really edgey and short tempered with each and I don't really know why. Everyone should just be on here having a good time..not worrying about everything thats done. It is just a message board...

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 11:18 AM
" Well I'm half awake and half a world away
all my past mistakes and every mispent day
Proves that I'll never change, I'll always stay the same
I wouldn't have it any other way."

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 11:19 AM
Originally posted by PrettyxInxPunk
I think that lately alot of people on here have been really edgey and short tempered with each and I don't really know why. Everyone should just be on here having a good time..not worrying about everything thats done. It is just a message board...

i completely agree with you right down to the 3 period's on the end of that paragraph.

Greg
07/03/03, 11:20 AM
i got pissed off the other night in the chat. i think i had a reason to be but i should have controled my anger better. if i upset you laura i am sorry.

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 11:27 AM
i just think, that all the people on this forum need to lighten up and look on the bright side of everything and have fun here. no more fighting, or controversay or anything. don't get me wrong, myself included.

for now on, no more getting angry from me. im all about the love and happiness now. my opinion of me is that im an asshole, and im about to change that opinion.

asubtledaggerx
07/03/03, 11:27 AM
Originally posted by Greg
i got pissed off the other night in the chat. i think i had a reason to be but i should have controled my anger better. if i upset you laura i am sorry.

That wasn't targeted to you only Greg don't worry...it was just to everyone who's been arguing.

When I joined(which was not that long ago) everyone got along pretty well(apart from the girls hating me for a while) and everyone would joke around and we'd have great as punk as gc chats. But now it seems like everyone is getting on each others nerves...and I just want the board to be fun like it used to be. And not have pointless arguments.

Greg
07/03/03, 11:29 AM
Originally posted by PrettyxInxPunk
That wasn't targeted to you only Greg don't worry...it was just to everyone who's been arguing.

When I joined(which was not that long ago) everyone got along pretty well(apart from the girls hating me for a while) and everyone would joke around and we'd have great as punk as gc chats. But now it seems like everyone is getting on each others nerves...and I just want the board to be fun like it used to be. And not have pointless arguments.

i know it wasnt only at me.

i don't know what's happened to the board...

theused_FSF
07/03/03, 11:29 AM
i <3 story of the year


im going to carve that in my chest with a butter knife

Greg
07/03/03, 11:30 AM
Originally posted by theused_FSF
i <3 story of the year


im going to carve that in my chest with a butter knife

have fun! :rolleyes:

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 11:33 AM
the forum hasn't changed really at all if you think about it. and if it has, we're the one's who's making it change. like i said, no more arguing from me. it's all fun from now on. and yeah, this time, im actually going to be a man of my word's.

theused_FSF
07/03/03, 11:33 AM
i was kidding

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 11:33 AM
Originally posted by Krammit
don't call me rich don't call me george just call me cheese that's who i am

wooooooo! Less Than Jake! WOoOoOoO!

theused_FSF
07/03/03, 11:34 AM
Originally posted by MaybeOneDay
the forum hasn't changed really at all if you think about it. and if it has, we're the one's who's making it change. like i said, no more arguing from me. it's all fun from now on. and yeah, this time, im actually going to be a man of my word's.


what the hell is everyone talking about in this thread, can't we just talk about something a little more simple, like boobs or food:(

Greg
07/03/03, 11:35 AM
Originally posted by theused_FSF
what the hell is everyone talking about in this thread, can't we just talk about something a little more simple, like boobs or food:(

haha! the godo old days. where all we talked about boobs and food. ::sigh:::p

asubtledaggerx
07/03/03, 11:36 AM
Originally posted by theused_FSF
what the hell is everyone talking about in this thread, can't we just talk about something a little more simple, like boobs or food:(

those two topics are cool....another suggestion, porn?

theused_FSF
07/03/03, 11:42 AM
Originally posted by PrettyxInxPunk
those two topics are cool....another suggestion, porn?


sure, why not


im going to make a porno where everyone is eating cookies while they have sex

BustaNutz
07/03/03, 11:43 AM
Originally posted by theused_FSF
sure, why not


im going to make a porno where everyone is eating cookies while they have sex

That would make oral scenes interesting, and slightly uncomfortable...

theused_FSF
07/03/03, 11:46 AM
Originally posted by BustaNutz
That would make oral scenes interesting, and slightly uncomfortable...

no, see only the one receiving eats during those scenes and in oral sex scenes you are to eat chocolate cake

papathomas
07/03/03, 11:49 AM
Originally posted by theused_FSF
no, see only the one receiving eats during those scenes and in oral sex scenes you are to eat chocolate cake that sounds like it would feel good, and its making me hungry for cake

the_champ_is_here
07/03/03, 11:52 AM
Originally posted by Greg
haha! the godo old days. where all we talked about boobs and food. ::sigh:::p

Greg, I'm sorry man, but you weren't here for the "good old days."

I was here for the very end of them and that was 5 months before you stumbled across this site.

Greg
07/03/03, 11:53 AM
Originally posted by OffBasil
Greg, I'm sorry man, but you weren't here for the "good old days."

I was here for the very end of them and that was 5 months before you stumbled across this site.


well MY good old days was back in april.... so whatever....

Fobika!
07/03/03, 03:19 PM
Originally posted by MaybeOneDay
wooooooo! Less Than Jake! WOoOoOoO!

w:eek: :eek:t!

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 04:55 PM
Originally posted by OffBasil
Greg, I'm sorry man, but you weren't here for the "good old days."

I was here for the very end of them and that was 5 months before you stumbled across this site.

neither were you really.

MaybeOneDay
07/03/03, 05:02 PM
Originally posted by OffBasil
Greg, I'm sorry man, but you weren't here for the "good old days."

I was here for the very end of them and that was 5 months before you stumbled across this site.

neither were you really.

the_champ_is_here
07/03/03, 06:23 PM
Originally posted by MaybeOneDay
neither were you really.

remember when i said in my post i was here for ther very end?
and i read the foums for a long time before actually posting.

Ronin
07/04/03, 08:44 AM
I'm not gonna pretend like I read very much of this thread

But in conclusion, Libya is a land of diversity.

Greg
07/04/03, 09:41 AM
hey Ronin where have you been lately?

Ronin
07/04/03, 12:26 PM
Originally posted by Greg
hey Ronin where have you been lately?

Going through a quarter-life crisis

Greg
07/04/03, 12:27 PM
Originally posted by Ronin
Going through a quarter-life crisis

that sucks. hope everything's okay.

FishAlotNBePunk
07/04/03, 12:33 PM
I missed you Colin.

Greg
07/04/03, 01:25 PM
Originally posted by FishAlotNBePunk
I missed you Colin.

me too

devin
07/04/03, 06:52 PM
Hmm, Devin leaves and then Colin leaves. Devin returns, then Colin returns. Hmm.

Oh and Colin, you ripped of the Simpsons and John Mayer in your last two posts.

papathomas
07/04/03, 10:24 PM
Originally posted by devin
Hmm, Devin leaves and then Colin leaves. Devin returns, then Colin returns. Hmm. could it be because you two are the same person?

neverselected
07/04/03, 11:07 PM
i did poopey

Ronin
07/05/03, 12:09 AM
Originally posted by devin
Hmm, Devin leaves and then Colin leaves. Devin returns, then Colin returns. Hmm.

Oh and Colin, you ripped of the Simpsons and John Mayer in your last two posts.

The Simpsons rip-off was intentional

but John Mayer? Someone take me out back and fucking shoot me. I try not to emulate that spastic moron.

neverselected
07/05/03, 12:57 AM
cant we just shoot u right here in the lounge room?

nostalgia
07/05/03, 03:41 AM
Originally posted by theused_FSF
what the hell is everyone talking about in this thread, can't we just talk about something a little more simple, like boobs or food:(

FOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD. i am hungry.

devin
07/05/03, 08:05 AM
Originally posted by Ronin
The Simpsons rip-off was intentional

but John Mayer? Someone take me out back and fucking shoot me. I try not to emulate that spastic moron.

Quick lesson children:

Simpsons references are always appropriate.

John Mayer references are a sign that you need to get your girl away from your fucking stereo before you smack the bitch.

kevin
07/05/03, 08:18 AM
It's good to have you two back.

devin
07/05/03, 08:24 AM
Two? Kevin, you really haven't caught on yet have you?

kevin
07/05/03, 08:27 AM
I have been gone for two days. So you two are the same person?

Charlito Cafe
07/05/03, 08:38 AM
Holy shit, what a soap opera. This entire thread could be a script from Days of our Lives.

Greg
07/05/03, 08:39 AM
Originally posted by kmtpw21
I have been gone for two days. So you two are the same person?

i dont think really. but people are saying they are cause the came back around the same time. it's pretty stupid.

Ronin
07/05/03, 09:49 AM
Originally posted by devin
Quick lesson children:

Simpsons references are always appropriate.

John Mayer references are a sign that you need to get your girl away from your fucking stereo before you smack the bitch.

I got Jess far from my stereo

So far in fact, that she left.

Goodtimes for all (www.livejournal.com)

devin
07/05/03, 09:53 AM
Originally posted by Ronin
I got Jess far from my stereo

So far in fact, that she left.

Goodtimes for all (www.livejournal.com)

I kicked my fuck buddy to the curb cause she was starting to get all serious on me. I have a few new prospects, but we ougth to take this opportunity to get sloshed and call women's dirty sluts and whatnot. (Yeah, I decided I'm going to start drinking)

Ronin
07/05/03, 10:06 AM
Originally posted by devin
I kicked my fuck buddy to the curb cause she was starting to get all serious on me. I have a few new prospects, but we ougth to take this opportunity to get sloshed and call women's dirty sluts and whatnot. (Yeah, I decided I'm going to start drinking)

Welcome to the club. You'll have less money and nothing to show for it but an extreme case of cirrhosis.

Speaking of dirty sluts, heres a story.

So some friends and I take a random road trip to the city one weekend. 6 of us rent one hotel room, we spend the night (and all of our cash) at a strip club, and then stumble back. Only one of the guys was so fortunate to get brought home by a girl, so the rest of my pals are thinking up schemes to get laid (not me of course, I'm the responsible one). So they start looking up "escort" services in the phonebook. After a few phone calls, they realize that even though there are 5 of us, we really don't have enough money for a decent hooker, so they start calling a few of the seedier places, until finally they call a place called "Budget Escort" (which incidentally turns out to be unaffordable for my fine friends of discerning taste).

At this point I feel the need to rehash the situation for them
- 5 guys, 1 hotel room, looking for the cheapest hooker money can buy

There's my story. Yeah, let's go get wasted Devin, but no budget hookers.

devin
07/05/03, 10:16 AM
Wow, that's a pretty sad story. I always knew that I would be a social drinker someday, and I finally feel like I wouldn't mind to have a drink here and there. I seriously doubt I'll be getting wasted anytime soon. And I can milk the "I'm new to drinking" thing with my friends to have them buy for months.

BustaNutz
07/05/03, 10:30 AM
Holy shit... Is this all college is? Fuck buddies and budget hookers and cirrhosis?

Ronin
07/05/03, 10:51 AM
Originally posted by BustaNutz
Holy shit... Is this all college is? Fuck buddies and budget hookers and cirrhosis?

Sometimes I go to class.

BustaNutz
07/05/03, 10:53 AM
Originally posted by Ronin
Sometimes I go to class.

Devin told me I shouldn't bother...

iglooXcore
07/05/03, 11:45 AM
wow, i didn't even know this entire situation happened. i don't read the forums very much anymore. ehh. nice to see devin and colin posting. <3 you boys. and pat too