I got a question... [Archive]

FishAlotNBePunk

07/02/03, 07:54 PM

Does anyone have any best best best friends that moved? Like out of state or just far away. I did. Her name was Nicole and we used to do EVERYTHING together. She was like sisterly. We would sit by the creek and just talk ALL day. I'd have lunch with her and stuff, and we'd just hang out in my backyard or on her porch all day. It was great! She moved to Tennesee in 5th grade and then Ohio about two years ago. How I miss those days sooo much...:(

lollirot

07/02/03, 07:56 PM

My bestest bestest friend in the world moved to NH in 4th grade =( and 2 years ago I moved to a different town and left all my friend behind. I'm not that far away though.. but it would take hours to go see them.

Descendent

07/02/03, 08:03 PM

I just moved this time last year from Van Nuys Cali to Palmdale... left all my friends behind... first month of school was hard... such sad times... not its better... I get to see my friends more often though.. I still play in a band down there... good times...

papathomas

07/02/03, 09:30 PM

Originally posted by FishAlotNBePunk
Does anyone have any best best best friends that moved? Like out of state or just far away. I did. Her name was Nicole and we used to do EVERYTHING together. She was like sisterly. We would sit by the creek and just talk ALL day. I'd have lunch with her and stuff, and we'd just hang out in my backyard or on her porch all day. It was great! She moved to Tennesee in 5th grade and then Ohio about two years ago. How I miss those days sooo much...:( awww, so cute

Slick Shoes

07/02/03, 11:05 PM

now ask us if we care...

Greg

07/03/03, 12:36 AM

i was the one that moved away from this girl that i did everything with.... i wish i was in erie...

blackonyx

07/03/03, 02:35 AM

Some friends of mine moved to America. One of them is now a slut (she has fingering competitions ie. who can get fingered most in one night at the age of 13) and the other is moving back to England cos they cant find a maid in America............................
................................... ................................... ................................... ........
WHY??????? WE DONT WANT U HERE STAY IN AMERICA!!!!

MaybeOneDay

07/03/03, 02:47 AM

DriveTBSthru

07/03/03, 03:17 AM

that stinks.,

charly horse

07/03/03, 04:43 AM

well i moved away from my best friend but it was only like 10 min away . . . then she moved down to south carolina with her dad . .. but thats ok cuz i can still see her because my dad lives in sc and i go down there sometimes and she comes up here to see her mom . . . sooo yea . . . . then ihave another best friend who lives in sc but i dont get to see her much only when i go downt here so yea

kevin

07/03/03, 04:45 AM

I moved away from friends I knew for ten years, but have never had someone move away.

ms y o o n

07/03/03, 04:46 AM

best friend means FRIENDS FOREVER!
duhh
uhmmm i've had to many. ive just lost best friends throughout school years. even switching schols i dont keep in touch. o rthey dont. i dont realy care for best friends anymore
id rather have a bunch more... my best friend.. i lost contact with her because of her boyfriend

charly horse

07/03/03, 04:49 AM

all of my friends are like my best friends . . .i have like 4 best friends

Greg

07/03/03, 04:51 AM

now that ive been thinking i dont really have a best friend. i have alot of good friends but i dunno. no real best friend. well i might have someone btu in dont think im her best friend. she's always there for me. and i try to always be there for her. so maybe i do have a best friend. i dunno. i still miss the good old days up in erie with julie....:(

ms y o o n

07/03/03, 04:57 AM

you know what sucks
when you think you're good friends with someone right.. but then how do u know if they think the same. im such a paranoid person where im always worrying about.. like who think im their friend and bla bla ba

nostalgia

07/03/03, 05:17 AM

In my freshman year, I realized my best friend was just using me as an excuse to be out so she can just get guys phone numbers. When my small little 14 year old brain realized this I lost contact with her. And my other best friend never talks to me anymore but last year when she realized I was going to warped tour she started talking to me and I ended up taking her to it. She got all pissy at it because she didn't get to meet good charlotte. And she didn't really talk to me all this year until warped tour came around, somehow, she started talking to me again...mostly about warped tour. I hate being used. :rolleyes:

and now i have no friends because i have lost all trust in people. :(

Greg

07/03/03, 05:29 AM

Originally posted by nostalgia
In my freshman year, I realized my best friend was just using me as an excuse to be out so she can just get guys phone numbers. When my small little 14 year old brain realized this I lost contact with her. And my other best friend never talks to me anymore but last year when she realized I was going to warped tour she started talking to me and I ended up taking her to it. She got all pissy at it because she didn't get to meet good charlotte. And she didn't really talk to me all this year until warped tour came around, somehow, she started talking to me again...mostly about warped tour. I hate being used. :rolleyes:

and now i have no friends because i have lost all trust in people. :(

that really sucks. i feel bad for you...

ms y o o n

07/03/03, 05:30 AM

being used REALY sucks

theused_FSF

07/03/03, 05:56 AM

my best friend moved last summer, he was one of those people you could tell anything to, we did alot together, mainly skateboarding, i dont even skate that much anymore now that he is gone

asubtledaggerx

07/03/03, 06:16 AM

In grade 4 my best friend moved which sucked. We kept in touch but then she stopped returning my calls :\ Then I moved in grade 5 and was a big loser and only had 2 or 3 friends at my new school, but one of those friends ended up being my best friend. We've now been best friends for 6 years and we are so alike it's scary. People even tell us we sound like eachother..

ms y o o n

07/03/03, 06:17 AM

do u think its harder or easier to have a best friend of the opposite sex?

Greg

07/03/03, 06:18 AM

Originally posted by krazee_k0rean
do u think its harder or easier to have a best friend of the opposite sex?

right now i'd say easier. since i'd have to say my best friend is a girl.

asubtledaggerx

07/03/03, 06:31 AM

I think it's easy to be best friends with both. In my last post I forgot to mention my other best friend(who is a guy). We've been friends since grade 7 and we can tell each other everything,

oc_dodo

07/03/03, 06:43 AM

one of my best friends moved from california to florida.....he was gone for like 4 months then he came and visited and now he has decided to stay......:D but as far as any other friends i was usally the one moving.....my parents moved a lot when i was younger.....now i'm all grown up and they ditched me and went up north.......how fucked up is that.

FishAlotNBePunk

07/03/03, 07:47 AM

Originally posted by krazee_k0rean
do u think its harder or easier to have a best friend of the opposite sex?

i would say harder... because often times its really awkward...i dunno, but i think its harder. but not that much.

MaybeOneDay

07/03/03, 08:05 AM

i don't find it easier or harder to have a best friend of the opposite sex. mainly, it just depends on the person.

unoriginal

07/03/03, 08:08 AM

I moved from Ohio last August. Left 12 years of my life behind and all the friends I made.. I moved here where I didn't know one person which compared to friends I had since kindergarten and first grade. It's hard as hell

EmoGab123

07/03/03, 08:13 AM

yay. new inspiration for my incompleted song..

we sat by the bay
i miss that day
i am going to kill myself
with a sharpie.
um..yeah.

tada!?..no?...hm, i didn't think so..

MaybeOneDay

07/03/03, 08:15 AM

Originally posted by EmoGab123
yay. new inspiration for my incompleted song..

we sat by the bay
i miss that day
i am going to kill myself
with a sharpie.
um..yeah.

tada!?..no?...hm, i didn't think so..

what's with you and that " i am going to kill myself with a sharpie " line. i don't think it's very good. kinda fucked up.

theused_FSF

07/03/03, 08:17 AM

Suprhatch614

07/03/03, 08:22 AM

Originally posted by krazee_k0rean
do u think its harder or easier to have a best friend of the opposite sex?

I forgot which comedian said this, but he put it perfectly on the topic of having a best friend of the opposite sex...it's like having 19.00 in the atm...you've got money, but you're never going to get it...so it's just going to be there, frustrating you, ...and then he goes on I forgot how it goes, but yeah, lady best friends don't work out to well...I have one or two really good friends who are girls, and all the other girls I'm friends with, I just keep enough contact with to hang with every now and then, I don't call them "just to talk" or whatever...but yeah...

FishAlotNBePunk

07/03/03, 08:22 AM

Originally posted by MaybeOneDay
i don't find it easier or harder to have a best friend of the opposite sex. mainly, it just depends on the person.

yeah thats about right.

FishAlotNBePunk

07/03/03, 09:39 AM

bump

wasted

07/03/03, 09:59 AM

i had a friend that moved to maryland a few years ago. i hadn't known her long, but we were still pretty good friends.

growing up, i had a lot of guy friends, and hardly any girl friends. when i started high school a few years ago my guy friends and i stopped talking to each other, and i made plenty of girl friends. i don't know what happened, i guess you could say "conflicting interests." so in my opinion it's harder to have a friend of the opposite sex.

Greg

07/03/03, 11:33 AM

Originally posted by MaybeOneDay
what's with you and that " i am going to kill myself with a sharpie " line. i don't think it's very good. kinda fucked up.

evil zach

07/03/03, 11:43 AM

My best friend left for scotland this morning. So many things I should have told her, and now I won't be able to:(

Untill she gets a back next week that is:D

theused_FSF

07/03/03, 11:50 AM

you almost broke my heart zach

organizedchaos

07/03/03, 01:52 PM

my best friend is moving in a few months an hour away (not too far) but we had this huge fucking fight this morning about something really kinda stupid, and i highly doubt that we're going to make up from this...according to my sister, she and my other friend spent the entire afternoon at day camp (i work at a day camp that my sister attends) talking about what a bitch i am. its like theres a hole that all the ice cream in the world wont fix...oh, by the way, its much much easier to have a best friend of the opposite sex, my bestest friend (heather, the one who i fought with) and i have known each other for 11 years or so, and weve never fought like this, but my two other best friends are guys, and its so much easier being friends with them..no pms. sorry im sitting here bitching about my problems

BabylonBadFish

07/03/03, 03:40 PM

Originally posted by krazee_k0rean
do u think its harder or easier to have a best friend of the opposite sex?

its pretty easy for me. one of my best friends is a guy, we hit it off right away. hes one of the greatest guys that i have ever met...but hes gay..so i dont know if that counts

DevilMayCare

07/03/03, 07:55 PM

Originally posted by BabylonBadFish
its pretty easy for me. one of my best friends is a guy, we hit it off right away. hes one of the greatest guys that i have ever met...but hes gay..so i dont know if that counts
it definately counts. it means that there is no pressure to "hook up" and they can have sleepovers at your house and you can check out guys together when you go out. plus, when you go anywhere with most girls, they have to look their best or whatever. i can just go hang out with will in my sweats and bitch about guys, and he totally understands that sometimes guys are stupid jerks (not all of them, dont jump down my throat about that), because hes been there. i love my best friend, hes the best, and he knows my favorite post break up ice cream flavor (chocolate pecan from handels, if you were wondering although i doubt you were)

BabylonBadFish

07/03/03, 11:18 PM

Well, then I guess it's best to say that it is a lot easier to have friends of the opposite sex..especially if they are gay. :)

evil zach

07/04/03, 03:58 AM

I find I get along with girls much better then guys.

ms y o o n

07/04/03, 04:24 AM

yea with girls
theres so much competition. i mean with a guy friend you can't fight over a guy, unless hes gay. but lets say hes straight.
but the thing is what if you fall for them. or start to... what do u do? i would WANT to go out with them, but also not because theres such a high chance of it going wrong...

Greg

07/04/03, 10:27 AM

yea the whole falling for thing sucks so bad... i would know how bad it sucks...:( oh well. we're great friends now.:)

FishAlotNBePunk

07/04/03, 12:54 PM

hmmm

Patrick

07/04/03, 01:13 PM

i use to have a best freind but i moved and all i do is sit at home and piss about it and ask people for sympothey on gay ass fourms like this one

Greg

07/04/03, 01:20 PM

Originally posted by mrs.skibahaha
i use to have a best freind but i moved and all i do is sit at home and piss about it and ask people for sympothey on gay ass fourms like this one

that sucks