what do u guys and girls think

[goldfinger55]

ok.........
i had a gf for almost 2 months and things were going pretty well until on the 4th of july this one girl cuddled with me and it felt so right but i didnt cheat on my gf. this girl was the girl that i had liked for over 6 months and she liked me too but never wanted to go out with me becuz she thought it was weird. and now she all of a sudden wanted me and wanted to go out with me. i stayed up all night last night and got my friends to help me decide what was best to do. despite what my friends said, i follwed my heart and decided that i really really like the girl that wanted to go out with me. but it was so hard to break up with my gf at the time. she like hates me now becuz this came out of nowhere, but i know i made the right choice. what do u all think??

[theused7888]

i'm not too good with the relationships deal, but if you think you made the right choice, then stick with it.

[Descendent]

the chick is obviously jelous now that you are with another chick...

[BustaNutz]

I think you're a dumbass. You're heart is rarely ever right in real life, it only works that way in the movies. Here's what usually happens, you're heart is going off of emotion, your head is using reason. Reason tells you the current relationship you have has some strength, and it's pretty stable. The one you're going to pursue isn't stable, it's just hormones at this point. If tomorrow she decides it would still be weird, you're fucked.

What you should have done, is waited. If she likes you'd she hang around long enuogh to show that the interest is serious. As nice as it seems that on July 4th you could cuddle and ignite some sort of relationship, it doesn't work that way. At that moment it may have seemed right, but I'll be the first to attest that everyone has moments of clarity and moments of confusion. As of right now you don't know what type of moment the 4th was. If it was clear and really what she wanted or if she was just in one of the moods where she thought she would like to have a relationship and in reality she doesn't. Girls are confusing, they're not constants, they're variables, so they can switch on you. What she wanted last night and the night before may not be what she wants tonight or tomorrow. Rule of thumb, stick with whats safe and whats working. As appealing as the other option may be, it's not always the best route to go. If this girl decides again she doesn't want to go out with you, you're old girlfriend now hates you, and on top of a huge blunder, this is also a bad PR move in regards to future relationships. Next time do yourself a favor, take your time, and think with the right head.

Also another thing to think about is that if this girl knew you were in a relationship, for her to move on you like she did, means she doesn't respect the rules of a relationship. To me, that sets of an alarm, these girls will cheat. If she wanted something, and didn't care if you were already in a relationship, that means she doesn't respect the bounds that come with that. And you had better believe, if you two have a relationship, and she wants someone, she's not going to care about the relationship, she's going to get what she wants.

[neverselected]

your an idiot thats what i say...... just think of how u would feel if while going out with this girl you are now and everything was going well then all of a sudden she broke up with u because someone better came along........

If everything was going good then u should of stayed with the other girl.... The one you are with now only all of a sudden wants u because girls always want wat they think they cant have... But she prolly knew u were weak and would give in to her....

[Doolittle]

youre a fucking jackass. i hope that you realize this new girl is a piece of shit and when you go back to your old girlfriend she tells you to fuck off. this new girl is probably one of those bitches that only wants guys that she cant have.

[DevilMayCare]

most girls only want what they cant have, trust me i know, she knew you were in a relationship so she went after you just to see if she could. im sorry babe, girls suck. i wish we could all be honest with ourselves and stop playing head games but to some girls it confirms to them that other people think theyre hot, even if they dont. which they dont. girls are notorious for horrible self esteem

[evil zach]

1)you are a horrible person. Dumping your girlfriend because you cuddled with a girl on the 4th of july? Thats weak dude. Really weak. Did you even take into concideraton the added excitment of the 4th of july, and that fact that you were probably just horney? You make me sick!
2)When you break up in 3 days, and you go back you your old girlfriend, I hope she spits in your face

[EmoMoose86]

Since you probably made the wrong choice... i suggest to see it this way:

Originally posted by theused7888
i'm not too good with the relationships deal, but if you think you made the right choice, then stick with it.

[papathomas]

Originally posted by evil zach
1)you are a horrible person. Dumping your girlfriend because you cuddled with a girl on the 4th of july? Thats weak dude. Really weak. Did you even take into concideraton the added excitment of the 4th of july, and that fact that you were probably just horney? You make me sick!
2)When you break up in 3 days, and you go back you your old girlfriend, I hope she spits in your face kick his ass sea bass!

[Greg]

i agree with pat, cole, zach, and never selected.

[Slick Shoes]

.... Juggle them both until it all blows up in your face.

[DevilMayCare]

Originally posted by Slick Shoes
.... Juggle them both until it all blows up in your face.
i should hit you for that. or at least get a random feminazi to.

[evil zach]

I dated a feminazi once. Big mistake.

[DevilMayCare]

i think that anybody that takes anything to the very reaches of the idea has lost all touch with reality. this goes with anything. someone who is so far right, they dont even have a left hand or vice versa is just as bad as a feminazi or a person who is racist because they think they are being discriminated against all the time.

[proeuthanasia]

Originally posted by BustaNutz
I think you're a dumbass. You're heart is rarely ever right in real life, it only works that way in the movies. Here's what usually happens, you're heart is going off of emotion, your head is using reason. Reason tells you the current relationship you have has some strength, and it's pretty stable. The one you're going to pursue isn't stable, it's just hormones at this point. If tomorrow she decides it would still be weird, you're fucked.

What you should have done, is waited. If she likes you'd she hang around long enuogh to show that the interest is serious. As nice as it seems that on July 4th you could cuddle and ignite some sort of relationship, it doesn't work that way. At that moment it may have seemed right, but I'll be the first to attest that everyone has moments of clarity and moments of confusion. As of right now you don't know what type of moment the 4th was. If it was clear and really what she wanted or if she was just in one of the moods where she thought she would like to have a relationship and in reality she doesn't. Girls are confusing, they're not constants, they're variables, so they can switch on you. What she wanted last night and the night before may not be what she wants tonight or tomorrow. Rule of thumb, stick with whats safe and whats working. As appealing as the other option may be, it's not always the best route to go. If this girl decides again she doesn't want to go out with you, you're old girlfriend now hates you, and on top of a huge blunder, this is also a bad PR move in regards to future relationships. Next time do yourself a favor, take your time, and think with the right head.

Also another thing to think about is that if this girl knew you were in a relationship, for her to move on you like she did, means she doesn't respect the rules of a relationship. To me, that sets of an alarm, these girls will cheat. If she wanted something, and didn't care if you were already in a relationship, that means she doesn't respect the bounds that come with that. And you had better believe, if you two have a relationship, and she wants someone, she's not going to care about the relationship, she's going to get what she wants.


coming from the mouth of a chick, you are GOD.












i hate girls and their girly....girl problems..and stuff...............i dunno, i just wish i was a man.

[NOFXdesendents5]

Originally posted by goldfinger55
ok.........
i had a gf for almost 2 months...

UH!!YOUR A DUDE!?!

[tmlfan]

Originally posted by goldfinger55
ok.........
i had a gf for almost 2 months and things were going pretty well until on the 4th of july this one girl cuddled with me and it felt so right but i didnt cheat on my gf. this girl was the girl that i had liked for over 6 months and she liked me too but never wanted to go out with me becuz she thought it was weird. and now she all of a sudden wanted me and wanted to go out with me. i stayed up all night last night and got my friends to help me decide what was best to do. despite what my friends said, i follwed my heart and decided that i really really like the girl that wanted to go out with me. but it was so hard to break up with my gf at the time. she like hates me now becuz this came out of nowhere, but i know i made the right choice. what do u all think?? whatever makes you happy man

[Jack123]

your relize in 2 weeks that you made the wrong decisiton. just think if you were on the other side of it. If you were going out with a girl u really liked, and then she dumped u for some other guy.

-JAck

[ifeelused]

Originally posted by BustaNutz
I think you're a dumbass. You're heart is rarely ever right in real life, it only works that way in the movies. Here's what usually happens, you're heart is going off of emotion, your head is using reason. Reason tells you the current relationship you have has some strength, and it's pretty stable. The one you're going to pursue isn't stable, it's just hormones at this point. If tomorrow she decides it would still be weird, you're fucked.

What you should have done, is waited. If she likes you'd she hang around long enuogh to show that the interest is serious. As nice as it seems that on July 4th you could cuddle and ignite some sort of relationship, it doesn't work that way. At that moment it may have seemed right, but I'll be the first to attest that everyone has moments of clarity and moments of confusion. As of right now you don't know what type of moment the 4th was. If it was clear and really what she wanted or if she was just in one of the moods where she thought she would like to have a relationship and in reality she doesn't. Girls are confusing, they're not constants, they're variables, so they can switch on you. What she wanted last night and the night before may not be what she wants tonight or tomorrow. Rule of thumb, stick with whats safe and whats working. As appealing as the other option may be, it's not always the best route to go. If this girl decides again she doesn't want to go out with you, you're old girlfriend now hates you, and on top of a huge blunder, this is also a bad PR move in regards to future relationships. Next time do yourself a favor, take your time, and think with the right head.

Also another thing to think about is that if this girl knew you were in a relationship, for her to move on you like she did, means she doesn't respect the rules of a relationship. To me, that sets of an alarm, these girls will cheat. If she wanted something, and didn't care if you were already in a relationship, that means she doesn't respect the bounds that come with that. And you had better believe, if you two have a relationship, and she wants someone, she's not going to care about the relationship, she's going to get what she wants.

exactly .. i agree with everything there

i agree with everything else everyone said. so there would be no point in explaining

[Frodo]

you cuddled with her....lol ***

[ifeelused]

Originally posted by coheed&cambria
you cuddled with her....lol ***

cuddleing is nice sometimes!

[Greg]

i like cuddling...:(

[goldfinger55]

Originally posted by coheed&cambria
you cuddled with her....lol ***
wow thnx. and to everyone else thanx for all ur input and u could be right. this might all blow up in my face. but to whoever said to stay with the safeness(i forget who it was). im tired of safe and i was bored with my relationship. keep it on and flame me for this. i didnt even think this thread was here. i tried to post it and it didnt work.

[BleedingMe]

You should have just pimped them both.

[Greg]

Originally posted by amberb182
You should have just pimped them both.

if you're serious, you are the biggest dumbass ever. that is the WORST advice to ever give anybody.

[BleedingMe]

Originally posted by Greg
if you're serious, you are the biggest dumbass ever. that is the WORST advice to ever give anybody.

Calm down, I was just kidding! Though I find nothing wrong with dating more than one person at a time.

[ifeelused]

Originally posted by amberb182
Calm down, I was just kidding! Though I find nothing wrong with dating more than one person at a time.

if you use the term "dating" in a certain way i guess you could mean, your single but your dating some guys/girls. but if your in a relationship and you have a bf or gf i think its wrong to fool around with anyone else

[BleedingMe]

Originally posted by ifeelused
if you use the term "dating" in a certain way i guess you could mean, your single but your dating some guys/girls. but if your in a relationship and you have a bf or gf i think its wrong to fool around with anyone else

agreed

[ifeelused]

Originally posted by amberb182
agreed

so thats the way you meant it right?

[BleedingMe]

Originally posted by ifeelused
so thats the way you meant it right?

Yes. Technically, if you are dating, your not bf or gf. So its okay to go out with other people . I agree that if you are with someone its not okay to fool around on them.

[ifeelused]

Originally posted by amberb182
Yes. Technically, if you are dating, your not bf or gf. So its okay to go out with other people . I agree that if you are with someone its not okay to fool around on them.

yea.

also, i dont know why but if i was "dating" someone as you would describe it, that would really really suck if they were dating around, it all hurts the same way. its kinda like your being used, but not good enough to be in a relationship with

[BleedingMe]

Originally posted by ifeelused
yea.

also, i dont know why but if i was "dating" someone as you would describe it, that would really really suck if they were dating around, it all hurts the same way. its kinda like your being used, but not good enough to be in a relationship with

Not true. If your dating someone that means its not serious enough for a relationship. By dating other people you are keeping your options open and you won't get too serious too fast. Does that make sense?

[ifeelused]

Originally posted by amberb182
Not true. If your dating someone that means its not serious enough for a relationship. By dating other people you are keeping your options open and you won't get too serious too fast. Does that make sense?

yea i know what u mean.. remember i said it in my other posts.. but if it was me, i know i'd get hurt either way.

[BleedingMe]

Originally posted by ifeelused
yea i know what u mean.. remember i said it in my other posts.. but if it was me, i know i'd get hurt either way.

It wouldn't bother me that bad if he was dating other people. Its always good to keep your options open. Chances are I'd be dating other people too. I've done since I started dating.

[goldfinger55]

its kinda like friends with benefits right?

[BleedingMe]

Originally posted by goldfinger55
its kinda like friends with benefits right?

I guess you could say that.

[StudentRick08]

ive been in this situation b4. i stuck with the person i was with. and then eventually i got over the other one. but i mean, i guess u should've waited. just to see what would happen. if u are a faithful boyfriend, u wouldnt have put ureself in that situation in the first place. it will eventually come back and kick u in the ass.

[Clarett'sGreyGoose]

I think they speak the truth man, I've done this before, it'll blow up in your face. And you'll be left all alone.

[Rufio217]

Your were listenign to somethign else besides your heart...........ANY GIRL feels liek she fits so perfect into your arms, that is just a fact they all feel so perfect when your cuddled up close, the reality is you dumped you g/f who was loyal and true for another girl...that is low....