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Vincewithouthee
01/23/07, 06:59 PM
When you meet a girl who is 10 times more amazing than your girlfriend, making you realize that you don't have as strong feels for your girlfriend at all anymore? And you can't think of any real reason to break up with her, without crushing her, especially with her birthday coming up.
But yeah, there's more to the story, but I think I'm on the verge of breaking up with my girlfriend. We've been going for 2 months, but I rarely ever see her anymore, and I don't like her nearly as much as I used to. I've never been close to loving her either. Plus, I'm gaining this crush on this girl who I just met (and probably have no chance with anyway), even though I don't want to. So, what's the point of being with my girlfriend, right?
I just don't know how to break up with her. I've been avoiding talking to her the past couple days (I know, I'm terrible) and just don't know how to go with it. We've discussed about whether or not to continue or relationship going before, but it's still tough.
You don't really have to help me out on this, I don't really care. I'm just mostly venting.
atticus1492
01/23/07, 07:16 PM
Ok. I won't.
yourneck
01/23/07, 07:18 PM
that's depressing :-(
IAmAmazing
01/23/07, 07:19 PM
Fuck her hard one last time
dekdog11
01/23/07, 08:15 PM
sorry to hear that man.
catscradle
01/23/07, 08:25 PM
i've been in this situation before and it sucks. You just have to suck it up and dump her. Even though it'll make you feel like a bad guy and crush her, it'll work out for the best in the end. There's no real easy way to do it, just bring it up and tell her you want to end it. It sucks, but you'll feel so much better afterwards.
Juliana101
01/23/07, 08:27 PM
Also consider the fact that you're 18, and you probably won't find true love for another 7 years or so.
Tyler Revolution
01/23/07, 08:59 PM
You might not be close to loving her because you've only been together 2 months. I would say not seeing each other enough and not really being into her are good enough reasons to end it. Use those.
Tyler Revolution
01/23/07, 08:59 PM
Also consider the fact that you're 18, and you probably won't find true love for another 7 years or so.
Haha, be real man. You don't have to be 25 to find "true love."
PaulsRightNut
01/23/07, 09:16 PM
take an initiative and do something. Because having to wait in that weird awkward period of you trying to figure out if you really like her or not really sucks.
HplessRomntic
01/23/07, 09:20 PM
i say you get laid one last time, nut in her ear and then dump her.
falloutboy.
01/23/07, 11:09 PM
if there is nothing there after 2 months, no good good feelings, than you haveta call it quits, the longer you go, the harder it is to let go.
Coronary Parasite
01/24/07, 07:39 AM
if there is nothing there after 2 months, no good good feelings, than you haveta call it quits, the longer you go, the harder it is to let go.
yeah i agree.
if the bond isn't getting stronger then it isn't working. it's only been two months, and you weren't in love, it'll suck, but it won't be the end of the world.
and don't start dating this girl too quick either, your ex might be crushed :-(
Thug_Nasty
01/24/07, 07:49 AM
give her a dirty sanchez!
JulieLynn
01/24/07, 08:41 AM
its better to just tell her you dont have feelings for her anymore rather than be in a lie. It will crush her, but its best for the both of you.
Hot Damn
01/24/07, 08:49 AM
it's been 2 months, how crushed will she be? Do it now before it gets too late. before you know it itll be 2 years and you will wish you would have done it a long time ago.
exxxoduss
01/24/07, 09:03 AM
you've only been together for 2 months how hard can if possibly be...??? besides it doesn't seem like you like her from what you said so i'd dumb the bitch...just tell her you don't want to date her anymore, you want to be single again...and that its you not her lol
Smithers
01/24/07, 09:15 AM
dear baby,
welcome to dumpsville.
population: you.
no on a serious note, the guy above me is right, if it's only been 2 months it should be easy. plus you're young. you should do whatever you want at your age.
Vincewithouthee
01/24/07, 12:39 PM
I think I'm gonna end it tonight. Thanks for all the advice guys, I wasn't really expecting serious advice and I got some.
As long as we remain friends out of this I'll be happy with it.
Coronary Parasite
01/24/07, 02:25 PM
I think I'm gonna end it tonight. Thanks for all the advice guys, I wasn't really expecting serious advice and I got some.
As long as we remain friends out of this I'll be happy with it.
good luck.
Love As Arson
01/24/07, 02:41 PM
Break up with her on her birthday, saying, "There is a girl ten times better than you out there, who makes me realise how plain you are. Incidentally, my present to you is your freedom from this relationship".
DroppedUrPocket
01/24/07, 02:51 PM
Break up with her on her birthday, saying, "There is a girl ten times better than you out there, who makes me realise how plain you are. Incidentally, my present to you is your freedom from this relationship".
And semen in the face, hopefully.
Coronary Parasite
01/24/07, 02:56 PM
Break up with her on her birthday, saying, "There is a girl ten times better than you out there, who makes me realise how plain you are. Incidentally, my present to you is your freedom from this relationship".
And semen in the face, hopefully.
not just a money shot, anal sex.
DroppedUrPocket
01/24/07, 02:59 PM
hahaha
chronomic
01/24/07, 03:04 PM
i feel the same way when i see ur mom
/stupidddd
chronomic
01/24/07, 03:06 PM
on a serious note...new chicks always seem 10 sweeter when u first meet them. then u get to know them and ull see they are the exact same as the other girl. eventually all u see are holes.
Love As Arson
01/24/07, 03:18 PM
not just a money shot, anal sex.
Ass to mouth, son.
Vincewithouthee
01/24/07, 07:13 PM
I tried calling her a few times and no answer, a twist in the plot. Hmmm?
And there's another one. I just found out earlier today that other girl who's 10 times more amazing has a thing for me and she's also on the verge of breaking up with her prick boyfriend. God damn. Yes, and trust me, this girl is pretty awesome.
Vincewithouthee
01/24/07, 07:14 PM
Break up with her on her birthday, saying, "There is a girl ten times better than you out there, who makes me realise how plain you are. Incidentally, my present to you is your freedom from this relationship".
Hahahaha. Yeah, she wouldn't kill herself. I've gotta end it soon though. I don't want to end it right on her birthday. (which is Sunday)
Juliana101
01/24/07, 07:17 PM
It's hard to not have a soul....sometimes.
Coronary Parasite
01/25/07, 08:32 AM
Ass to mouth, son.
you never go ass to mouth dominick!
I tried calling her a few times and no answer, a twist in the plot. Hmmm?
And there's another one. I just found out earlier today that other girl who's 10 times more amazing has a thing for me and she's also on the verge of breaking up with her prick boyfriend. God damn. Yes, and trust me, this girl is pretty awesome.
part of me wants to hate you, but the fact that it's only been two months stops me...
Scuba Chris
01/25/07, 08:39 AM
Just be honest with her. It has only been two months. Things won't be that bad.
you're just lucky you've only been dating for 2 months. it's happened to me 2 years into a relationship with a girl, it just makes things more exciting.
start a fight with her then call her up later in the day and end it.
+thecalisonme
01/25/07, 09:16 AM
Its only two months its like an extended one night stand
notoaststereo
01/25/07, 09:56 AM
the easist thing is to just tell them how you feel. its cliche shit, but its better than feeling like shit on both parts.
Vincewithouthee
01/25/07, 12:20 PM
you never go ass to mouth dominick!
part of me wants to hate you, but the fact that it's only been two months stops me...
Why? The reason why I haven't pulled the trigger yet is cause I'm gonna feel horrible about it. I still care about her and her feelings of course. I still want to stay friends with her. I don't know how or when to end it, I'm still a little bitch and am avoiding the situation as much as possible. Ugh. And yeah, it's not like we're super serious anyway. I don't know.
Coronary Parasite
01/25/07, 12:58 PM
Why? The reason why I haven't pulled the trigger yet is cause I'm gonna feel horrible about it. I still care about her and her feelings of course. I still want to stay friends with her. I don't know how or when to end it, I'm still a little bitch and am avoiding the situation as much as possible. Ugh. And yeah, it's not like we're super serious anyway. I don't know.
no. i know. that's why i don't care.
i have my own issues working against this. i say break up with her, and i don't think you're doing it because of the other girl anyway, i think you guys just ran course.
vince, i like you. and i'm going to step back because i'm afraid i'm gonna say something and you're gonna take it the wrong way and it's gonna be a fight.
Take Heart
01/25/07, 01:02 PM
If you're too afraid to end it properly, just try to convince her that it's better off for her if you break up. Point out all your flaws and try to guilt her into agreeing.
Or, just be a man and end it.
Thug_Nasty
01/26/07, 07:42 AM
you could always just kill her? that would be easy
Vincewithouthee
01/26/07, 10:31 PM
no. i know. that's why i don't care.
i have my own issues working against this. i say break up with her, and i don't think you're doing it because of the other girl anyway, i think you guys just ran course.
vince, i like you. and i'm going to step back because i'm afraid i'm gonna say something and you're gonna take it the wrong way and it's gonna be a fight.
Yeah I know, I see. It's cool. Thanks for the advice and such though, seriously. I appreciate it. Glad to see when someone cares.
So anyway, I just ended it. It was short and sweet. I think she hates me now though. Oh well. And she told me she didn't like me anymore either, so I don't know why she's pissed. Well nevermind, I can see why, cause I've ignored her for the past week. She has all the right in the world to hate me for doing that to her. I still feel like an asshole, but it's great to get this shit off my shoulders.
falloutdrea19
01/27/07, 02:07 AM
:-| Well, shit.
Smithers
01/27/07, 07:28 AM
Yeah I know, I see. It's cool. Thanks for the advice and such though, seriously. I appreciate it. Glad to see when someone cares.
So anyway, I just ended it. It was short and sweet. I think she hates me now though. Oh well. And she told me she didn't like me anymore either, so I don't know why she's pissed. Well nevermind, I can see why, cause I've ignored her for the past week. She has all the right in the world to hate me for doing that to her. I still feel like an asshole, but it's great to get this shit off my shoulders.
now get after that other girl. that'll make you feel better.
Coronary Parasite
01/29/07, 06:35 AM
Yeah I know, I see. It's cool. Thanks for the advice and such though, seriously. I appreciate it. Glad to see when someone cares.
So anyway, I just ended it. It was short and sweet. I think she hates me now though. Oh well. And she told me she didn't like me anymore either, so I don't know why she's pissed. Well nevermind, I can see why, cause I've ignored her for the past week. She has all the right in the world to hate me for doing that to her. I still feel like an asshole, but it's great to get this shit off my shoulders.
ha like i said, you ran course. she was over it too.
weird that she hates you though...
i'm telling you though, don't jump right into the other girl. your ex will be convinced you cheated and it will hurt her quite a bit.
a speedo model
01/29/07, 08:55 AM
That sucks, sorry.
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