I Have No Friends

[Rancid Inc.]

hey all i was wondering how you guys met your friends..... like in your classes or what? i'm wondering cuz i got none in my school and i haven't/can't find anybody who clicks with me and who i'd like to hang out with. it really sucks ass ya know.... especially since my only friends (from church) live kinda far away and are busy doing their own thing with their own friends in their school and their gf's and im stuck in shittyland aka the san fernando valley where i haven't found any cool kids.

[ChineseNoodle13]

i met my best friend in second grade... shes really the only person who i hang with

[worldstheory]

Never fear, I used to be in your shoes about two and a half years ago.

Just keep on keeping it real, and friends will find you.

Actually, friends are overrated. I hate my friends more than anyone I know.

[Rancid Inc.]

eh you're real lucky chinesenoodle cuz most ppl and my old elementary school friends have changed and drifted apart and are have generally turned into the kids who play counterstrike and starcraft all day in their rooms.:confused:

[richter915]

ya uh, you might get flamed on or whatever for this thread but uh...hey i dunno...depends on the people...i met my best friend in eighth grade when we were making fun of the same kid...just had a lot of the same interests and stuff...don't be an ass to people you don't know yet...you can hang out at places you like and try talking to people who hang out there also...give it a shot, might work, might not, dunno.

[sigh]

Originally posted by Rancid Inc.
eh you're real lucky chinesenoodle cuz most ppl and my old elementary school friends have changed and drifted apart and are have generally turned into the kids who play counterstrike and starcraft all day in their rooms.:confused:
wow sounds like a few of my friends. Friends are strange. The friends I make at school are all good people, but my true friends are out of school. People who really know me. I guess real friends are really hard to come by. Im glad i have a few.

[Rancid Inc.]

Originally posted by sigh
wow sounds like a few of my friends. Friends are strange. The friends I make at school are all good people, but my true friends are out of school. People who really know me. I guess real friends are really hard to come by. Im glad i have a few.


yea those true friends you're talkin about are like my church friends but they've drifted apart cuz they're out having a ball.... eh life changes i suppose.:(

[kidinthecorner]

Just open up and be yourself. No one likes anyone who sits there and doesnt say anything, and no one likes someone who treis too hard. Eventually you'll come across someone that will like you for who you are. Just keep your eyes open, you'll come across potential friends in everything you do.

[xblackangelx]

I've always had a problem with finding friends too... my best friend well i dont know about best, but she seems to think her boyfriend is more important than anything else in life.

Well i have found it is hard to find a friend in this day and age becuase they are all PREPS, my school is overflowing with them.

[twee]

twee

[Rancid Inc.]

ah well i don't like these labels of prep and shit i believe u gotta look past the way they dress and truly find out who they are ya know?

[kidinthecorner]

Originally posted by xblackangelx
I've always had a problem with finding friends too... my best friend well i dont know about best, but she seems to think her boyfriend is more important than anything else in life.

Well i have found it is hard to find a friend in this day and age becuase they are all PREPS, my school is overflowing with them. Theres really nothing wrong with preps. Assholes come in all styles, as do good people. Maybe you cant find friends because you rule out a whole group, a huge one at that.

[evil zach]

Friends suck. End of story. But I met most of my friends around town or at shows. Its wierd...I just kinda start talking with them, and we become friends. I met my best friend pan handling (he was, not me) and my other best friend because she told me I was hot. Just be yourself, don't worry about what others think

[RUFiOOOOOOO]

I'm pretty lucky. I'm going to college and I have a few friends from HS that are going to the same college, I have other friends that are going to a community college near buy, and i met a couple people at my orientation. but usually I'm pretty lonely if my little circle of friends arent around...

[xblackangelx]

Originally posted by kidinthecorner
Theres really nothing wrong with preps. Assholes come in all styles, as do good people. Maybe you cant find friends because you rule out a whole group, a huge one at that.


well there are a lot of preppy people at my school, i mean my two of my best friends are, but some of the others i know, wont talk to me if i hang out with the crowd i do, and they create so much drama, and talk about how they want to kill my friends.... and they ask you stupid questions like god you are turning goth and shit like that, and they judge me and talk shit to me and some of my chirstian friends about being christian... they just seem to get into everyones business.... well that's in my experiences and i bet all you have different ones...

[xxSpOoKsxx]

seriously its true. like what you guys were saying, you have to look past them and its really hard to tell who is and isnt a friend because alot of people talk. but you've got to take chances i guess. Luckily ive got a couple who i can count on.

[evil zach]

You definetly gotta watch out for people who will only be your friend when it suits them

[Rancid Inc.]

yea my old "close" friend has done that when he didn't have anyone to turn to he said i was his best friend and all this shiat and then come around april 2002 he meets this guy and his friends and bam he has a close group of friends he does everything with and a girlfriend to boot...... whatever.

[xxSpOoKsxx]

or i hate it when you know people who wont talk to you because you know or talk to people in other groups. thats really pathetic.

[evil zach]

or when they only talk to you when they want something. The resot of the time you're just "one of those punk ****"

[xxSpOoKsxx]

thats why when it comes to friends its whatever.

[MapleLeaf]

friends are a horrible waste of time. you finally think you haven found one or two you can trust and they either tell you to fuck off or they run off and join the marines. theyre all bastards. /end livejournal

[Rancid Inc.]

yea school is bullshit u have all these groups or cliques whatever u can call them and they're all set out that's why i think ive made all my friends in church because there are no groups in my church really.... it's all free socializing. wait theres one group. the dreaded old ppl. they beat us up when we don't give them our offering money:(

[xxSpOoKsxx]

i know what your saying. luckily for me i met, shit most of my friends i met at the glasshouse in pomona.

[xxSpOoKsxx]

or i hate it when every now and then theres someone who tries to make you look stupid in front of other people to make them look good. I kicked the crap out of this guy and well i havent had problems since then...

[evil zach]

Big man eh? solving your problems with your fist rather then words? A sure sign of intelegence

[MapleLeaf]

violence is a sign of intelegence? wow ill have to keep a look out. i have always wondered what intelegence was. all this time i was looking for intelligence. wow.

[evil zach]

I was being sarcastic, and I hope you were too

[xxSpOoKsxx]

smart guy zack, smart guy! you sound like some one with high intelligence. you remind me of one of my old teachers. i think ill go to you for counseling.

[Rancid Inc.]

u guys should have some makeup sex.

[MapleLeaf]

of course i was. who doesnt think that the lack of spelling skills is a joke?

[xxSpOoKsxx]

i bet you'd like that huh rancid!

[Rancid Inc.]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by xxSpOoKsxx
i like it rancid!


ooooohhh kinky.

[evil zach]

Originally posted by xxSpOoKsxx
smart guy zack, smart guy! you sound like some one with high intelligence. you remind me of one of my old teachers. i think ill go to you for counseling.
was that an attempt at humor?

[xxSpOoKsxx]

it kicks in when your talking to fagsooohhhhh! kinky

[Rancid Inc.]

spooks you're turning me on.

[evil zach]

Why is calling sombody gay an insult?

Jock:your a ***
gay guy: yeah I'm gay, whats your point
jock:that is so gay

or

jock:your a ***
straight guy:uh no I'm not. I have girlfriend. there she is *waves to girlfriend
jock:thats so gay

It just make me think less of the person who uses it as an insult

[xxSpOoKsxx]

it happens, mainly more with girls, but i could make an exception

[xxSpOoKsxx]

zach you really think these things out dont you!

[evil zach]

actully yes. I spend most of my free time either thinking or reading

[xxSpOoKsxx]

nice! its good to know theres more people out there like me. opinions are always good. you can tell who some people are just by what they say.

[evil zach]

I agree, and I have aboslutly know idea what to think about you

[xxSpOoKsxx]

rancid is this your first post.

[xxSpOoKsxx]

dont worry zach in time you'll find out. "its like the saying just dont judge a book by its cover"

[evil zach]

I'm not worried. Just in this thread alone yo've come a cross as a jock and an intelectual. Oh well, time will tell i guess.

[xxSpOoKsxx]

jock no. rocker yes.but it seems me and you got off to a bad start. it happens. but its the things we learn from that make us smarter.

[xxSpOoKsxx]

and stronger..

[ifeelused]

i only have a few good friends. and those i've met outside of school. and they drive my sad ass around all the time. i meet a lot of people from working at the mall and from that i've learned to randomly start talking to a stranger, which could be bad in some ways , and good in others.

[theused_FSF]

my friends are fat ass's

[richter915]

Originally posted by theused_FSF
my friends are fat ass's

same here man, except that i'm the biggest fat ass of all, so it makes sense they're my friends.

[richter915]

ya, you can also try meeting some people online. like it was said earlier, not only are preps asses...but those "punks" who are all non shallow and don't care how much money is in your pocket and what clothes you were....ya that's a pile of shit...almost all people are shallow SOBs who should be burned...a good way to meet people is going to shows also, the problem with that is no one likes going to shows alone...but give it a shot....ya with the online thing...you can do it but uh ya watch out for the pedophiles and crap but you might get lucky...i met my girlfriend online...we met and stuff and since everything is sorta backwards...she got to know me and liked me that way...then when she saw me she didn't care much cause she thinks i'm kool...what i'm gettin at is that it might be easier to "meet" people online since they won't ignore you for wearing the same shirt twice a week...or...four times a week...it's worth a shot, and look for people closeby where you live.

[xxSpOoKsxx]

true. online is probably the best place to meet new people and friends. but lately going to shows and meeting people has been much better for me.

[Rancid Inc.]

when i was walking out of school i saw this rancid skin haha maybe he can be my friend lol.....

[kevin]

I moved here three years ago and it was tough to make friends at first. All you need to do is make one good friend, then become friends with their friends, etc.

[ms y o o n]

Originally posted by xblackangelx
I've always had a problem with finding friends too... my best friend well i dont know about best, but she seems to think her boyfriend is more important than anything else in life.

Well i have found it is hard to find a friend in this day and age becuase they are all PREPS, my school is overflowing with them.

my best friend is like that

i can tell when we hang out she limits her time with me, because she has to spend every hour with her boyfriend. im not jealous, but mad. its so dumb.

[nostalgia]

I went to the same school for 8 years and had the same "friends" the whole time except they were not very good friends. When it was time for high school, I went to a different school. I am about to enter my junior year without making a single friend. I guess there is something wrong with me. Well there is but let's not get into that.

Anyway for the advice on making friends I obviously cannot help much. But I just say be comfortable with yourself and just go to a social place of some sort....in my town it would be the mall or the movie theater but if you actually live somewhere INTERESTING I am sure you can do better.

I ,of course, do none of these things because I am a paronoid little fool.

Oh and watch out for the "friends" that stab you in the back in a terrible bloody mess. They really suck. :rolleyes:

[asubtledaggerx]

I had your problem when I was in grade 5,6,7,8. But as soon as I went into high school I got lots of great friends.

If you wanna meet people join clubs, talk to people in your classes and even meet people at shows. I met my ex boyfriend, and some pretty close friends at shows. Just be yourself and don;t seem to needy to be liked, because then people won't like you.

[Greg]

i have good friends now... i love them... most of them are girls... they all love me....

[OscarMurder]

i'm under the impression that the only reason i have friends is because my friends are those ones that are just complete assholes to everyone, and we kinda just banned together, but my "populuar" friends i cant stand them

[oc_dodo]

friends are overrated......i have had tons but they usally stab me in the back or talked shit, so your lucky if you don't have any becuase you won't have to worry about this stuff......i believe that we are all allowed like 5 true friends that we will have for the rest of our lives, and everyone else sucks!!!!!! don't fret about not having friends they will come just be yourself!;)

[Hyperlite]

i met some of my friends in elementary school, some more in junior high and then more in high school by being in the same classes and sports teams.

[SnowintheSummer]

i guess you just have to meet people with common interests, like i started out meeting people from sports and stuff. and also ive learned really DONT judge people by if they dress preppy or even if they normally dont talk to you because ive actually met some awesome "preppy" people, my best friend dresses ultra-preppily but shes completely awesome, shes not shallow or anything either like she loves hiking and stuff which you would never guess. also just like be friendly and laugh at peoples jokes and stuff

[richter915]

Originally posted by oc_dodo
friends are overrated......i have had tons but they usally stab me in the back or talked shit, so your lucky if you don't have any becuase you won't have to worry about this stuff......i believe that we are all allowed like 5 true friends that we will have for the rest of our lives, and everyone else sucks!!!!!! don't fret about not having friends they will come just be yourself!;)

that's true, you can count your true friends using the fingers on your left hand, and you'll probably have a few fingers to spare...hopefully you have five fingers like most of us. if not, how the hell do you not have any friends?? i wish my friends had like 6 fingers and stuff.

[oc_dodo]

Originally posted by richter915
that's true, you can count your true friends using the fingers on your left hand, and you'll probably have a few fingers to spare...hopefully you have five fingers like most of us. if not, how the hell do you not have any friends?? i wish my friends had like 6 fingers and stuff.
six fingers huh? what would you do with that extra finger or more along the lines of what would you have your friend do with that extra finger?????:confused:

[DriveTBSthru]

Just Mingle, at school dont be shy, i met my two friends(good) at a show.

[xxSpOoKsxx]

meeting people at shows is where its at. when you go there I mean its probably because everyone there has the same interest, the bands. and thats where conversations and new friends come in.

[Greg]

ive never met anyone at a show that i still talk to...:(

[DriveTBSthru]

yea if you just go up to people and start talking to you there usually nice so they might responde back/.

[richter915]

ya but you gotta be open to rejection...if i got rejected i'd go into a major depression and refuse to see daylight...so it's better i have no friends....but rejection is "part o da game" or something...but hey, you get rejected, it's better for you, flip em off...and if they're jocks...run and try not to get ass raped.

[kidinthecorner]

What's everyone's huge fear of jocks coming from? I play baseball, I play hockey, and I'm friends with people that play all kinds of sports. An asshole that beats you up can look however he feels like, he doesnt come with a letter jacket. You guys can be pertty retarded sometimes...

[Greg]

people fucking hate me... that's only because im myself though... i dont go along with everything. so i dont really care.

[FAMOUSsas]

i used to be a little snobby at work and then once i stopped and started talking to people i found out that most of them are really interesting and nice. and i only made 3 friends in highschool but thats because i moved to a differnt place for my grade 12 year and i was really shy, then once i started going to shows i met way more friends so most of my friends i either know because of skateboarding shows or work, oh but i have a lot of friends that live in edmonton(where i moved from) but i rarely get to see them. thats it.

[DriveTBSthru]

yea you just have to open up and be nice.

[Rancid Inc.]

oh yea i can be its just ive gotten to know every kid ive met here and well...... they all suck ass lol. they're either assholes who are warped, boring i can't hold convo with them, or just plain gay/annoying.

[Matthew]

Originally posted by Rancid Inc.
oh yea i can be its just ive gotten to know every kid ive met here and well...... they all suck ass lol. they're either assholes who are warped, boring i can't hold convo with them, or just plain gay/annoying.

seeing as how those two words have anything to do with each other.... but lets not start that again.

it sounds to me like your just a touch on the judgemental side.

[Rancid Inc.]

Originally posted by Matthew
seeing as how those two words have anything to do with each other.... but lets not start that again.

it sounds to me like your just a touch on the judgemental side.

im not judgemental by any means thats just what ive noticed when ive tried getting to know these people, IMO.

[nostalgia]

I try to get to know people and than they start making fun of me. bitches.

[Matthew]

Originally posted by kidinthecorner
What's everyone's huge fear of jocks coming from? I play baseball, I play hockey, and I'm friends with people that play all kinds of sports. An asshole that beats you up can look however he feels like, he doesnt come with a letter jacket. You guys can be pertty retarded sometimes...

amen. i love how everyone here is like : "be yourself!.... but if you play sports you are stupid, if your popular you are shallow, if you live on a ranch you are racist, if your poor than your "ghetto".... etc"

the "punk/loser' crows is probably more judgemental than everyone else put together. and that irks me.

[Rancid Inc.]

yea why do u call ppl who play sports jocks anyway? i thought there was only race jockies or whatever u call them. yea i play baseball.... i used to play organized and me and the guys on my team never had a problem with " non jocks" whatever the fuck that is.

[richter915]

ya but when I say jock...i dunno about other people...i mean those roid addicts who push people around because they can...i have a real fine defition of jock...you guys think i hate anyone who plays sports...not true...all my friends play sports but they're kool...there are very few stereotypical jocks/preps in real life. I'm not bashing all people who play sports, so don't think that.

[Rancid Inc.]

Originally posted by Greg
people fucking hate me... that's only because im myself though... i dont go along with everything. so i dont really care.

yea thats me too. it really ticks me off when people just wanna fit in by doing whatever the big group of kids are doin like say listening to emo music. ive always been a free thinker and that has caused me not to have many friends.....if at all. fuck those people.

[fincherific]

i agree with the jock thing... people are very judgemental. everyone thinks i'm a druggie and a slut because i'm on the dance drill team...its lame.

[Greg]

i am lame

[SexAndViolence]

people are stupid. eventually you'll find some people who are into the same stuff u are. and it'll be all good.

[SexAndViolence]

ill be your online friend:)

[fincherific]

i have trouble talking to people i dont know. i'm pretty shy and it sucks. but thats ok because every once in a while someone nice trys to talk to me and we become friends...doesnt happen that often though

[HIPVTENTSL]

met my one of my best friends on the school bus in kindegarten and he introduced me to some other people who i am now best friends with also. my best friends and i have been best friends for 9-10 years

[Rancid Inc.]

yea again, u fellas who have had ur friends since like kindergarten are seriously lucky they haven't changed or drifted on u cuz that's happened to me.

[nostalgia]

Originally posted by Rancid Inc.
yea again, u fellas who have had ur friends since like kindergarten are seriously lucky they haven't changed or drifted on u cuz that's happened to me.

Ya, That happened to me. It sucks.

[SexAndViolence]

i had a friend from kindergarten to 4th grade. and then we stopped being friends cuz i moved to a different school district. but now, we are friends again..im not quite sure how it happened though.

[DriveTBSthru]

thats fun.

[Greg]

i love my friends....

[DriveTBSthru]

haha me too!

[xblackangelx]

i have like 5 friends that are a year younger but they are really awesome....i find of them increidbly immature... i think he has some issues

[In Your Eyes]

i dunno most of my friends i got just by bringing up conversation with them in class and then meeting other friends through the friends i already have.

[the_champ_is_here]

worst.thread.ever

[sdpunkrock]

i went to a catholic school all my life and i hung out w/ the same people from preschool till 8th grade, and thats how i found my closest friends, but now i go to a public school, and pretty much all of my friends go to private high schools, some have changed for the better and worse but that was bound to happen, we all wanted to get out of that hell hole. but im pretty happy at my new school cuz its not as stereotypical and segregated as my other friends high schools

[Rancid Inc.]

Originally posted by OffBasil
worst.thread.ever

shut the fuck up if it's so bad than don't post in it. simple as that.

[brandnewfan9]

rancid inc, theres a real cool place on the other side of town, where the real cool kids go to hang around. you might find some cool kids there. O Yea Screaching Weasel BIOTCH.