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WithStamin
07/20/03, 05:40 AM
I recently found out that the girl of my dreams is moving to Utah. I met her last Spring. She's funny, smart, fun to be around, modest, and good-looking. She would be my girlfriend right now, but her parents don't want her dating until she's 16. She's pretty much the only girl in my school that I actually like; she doesn't seem like such a facade like most other girls. So, here are my choices:

1. Let her go - try to maintain a long-distance relationship will just hurt your chances with other girls

2. Exchange email addresses with her and try to stay in touch, hoping I can meet her again someday.

Her family had moved away before and they came back later on.

Here's the thing - I haven't really talked to her outside the school setting before. This is for the girls - would it be creepy if some guy who you only had contact with through school suddenly wanted to stay in touch with you 1000 miles away?

Thanks for any advice, I'm kind of lost and confused right now. I was really looking forward to a good relationship with this girl once she turned 16.
punked78
07/20/03, 05:45 AM
stay in touch, if shes the one dont fuckin give up!
Sensesfail187
07/20/03, 06:06 AM
wow no dating till 16 that sucks dude
you should, stalk her
mxpx
07/20/03, 06:11 AM
tough situation.. but do you think you could have REALLY waited until she's 16 anyway?
WithStamin
07/20/03, 06:11 AM
Girls: would it be romantic or creepy if I did that?
punked78
07/20/03, 06:12 AM
Originally posted by mxpx
tough situation.. but do you think you could have REALLY waited until she's 16 anyway?

thats what i thought
SexAndViolence
07/20/03, 06:13 AM
i dont think it would be creepy. talk to her and tell her how u feel. ya never know. and definately keep in touch with her if shes up for it.
WithStamin
07/20/03, 06:14 AM
Originally posted by mxpx
tough situation.. but do you think you could have REALLY waited until she's 16 anyway? Yeah, she's turning 16 in October.
punked78
07/20/03, 06:16 AM
Originally posted by WithStamin
Yeah, she's turning 16 in October.

well its too late now
mxpx
07/20/03, 06:19 AM
ohhh you made it seem like it would be an eternity or something...
yes you should definantly keep in touch. it isn't weird at all. she may end up not liking any guys in her new town and it would be good for her to still be talking to you, it would make her feel better.. moving to a new town (state, even) sucks A LOT. so do it.
punked78
07/20/03, 06:20 AM
Originally posted by mxpx
ohhh you made it seem like it would be an eternity or something...
yes you should definantly keep in touch. it isn't weird at all. she may end up not liking any guys in her new town and it would be good for her to still be talking to you, it would make her feel better.. moving to a new town (state, even) sucks A LOT. so do it.
u are so right
WithStamin
07/20/03, 06:25 AM
Originally posted by mxpx
ohhh you made it seem like it would be an eternity or something...
yes you should definantly keep in touch. it isn't weird at all. she may end up not liking any guys in her new town and it would be good for her to still be talking to you, it would make her feel better.. moving to a new town (state, even) sucks A LOT. so do it. Okay, thats for the great advice. I'll do it. Wish me luck. :D
evil zach
07/20/03, 09:50 AM
send her letters written in your blood
fezwik80
07/20/03, 11:51 AM
Originally posted by WithStamin
Girls: would it be romantic or creepy if I did that?

girls find stalking very romantic they just dont know it...
Greg
07/20/03, 12:14 PM
girls aren't worth the effort. just be her friend. dont ever ask her out if you decide to stay in touch.
WithStamin
07/20/03, 01:26 PM
Originally posted by Greg
girls aren't worth the effort. just be her friend. dont ever ask her out if you decide to stay in touch. Well, yeah, I'd kind of have to. You can't have a girlfriend 1000 miles away if you're 15. I'd just hope that she comes back again someday.
OscarMurder
07/20/03, 01:32 PM
if you dont talk to her outside of school, how do you know she's moving..........
StartingLine182
07/20/03, 02:00 PM
Yeah, how do you know? Anyway, keep us updated.
punked78
07/20/03, 02:24 PM
Originally posted by evil zach
send her letters written in your blood

u always know what to say at the right time
WithStamin
07/20/03, 03:06 PM
Originally posted by OscarMurder
if you dont talk to her outside of school, how do you know she's moving.......... Friends
dreamareality
07/20/03, 03:15 PM
keep in touch with her and just be her friend. you'll get over her eventually
unsung_zero02
07/20/03, 03:23 PM
keep in touch with her..and i think you guys should meet up in the near future
richter915
07/20/03, 03:26 PM
Definitely keep in touch with her through e-mail and phone, but soon after ask her if she wants to persue anything with you and if she wants to do the long distance thing. If you find out early enough, it won't hurt as much, you can still stay friends, and it'll just be better. Give it a shot dude, good luck.
OscarMurder
07/20/03, 03:29 PM
Originally posted by WithStamin
Friends



thats healthy