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ifeelused
07/21/03, 01:27 PM
if you are "friends" with someone and you ask them to hang out with you and another friend, is that using them for a ride? ( i dont drive yet)
MapleLeaf
07/21/03, 01:28 PM
"friends" so do you mean you said hi to them once or twice but usally make fun of them? and now theyre useful becuase they can provide transportation?

if you really have to ask anyone this then youre probably just using them and you have a guilty conscience
ifeelused
07/21/03, 01:30 PM
Originally posted by Banned
"friends" so do you mean you said hi to them once or twice but usally make fun of them? and now theyre useful becuase they can provide transportation?

if you really have to ask anyone this then youre probably just using them and you have a guilty conscience

well my "friend" is my x boyfriend and we are really friends im really close with him still.. but i wanted him for emotional support with this other girl i've never really hung out with before. and he just said "my car doesnt work ...... find someone else to use." and i wouldnt of asked anyone else to come if they werent my friend or i thought they were
MapleLeaf
07/21/03, 01:31 PM
if you really were friends i would doubt he would say that. so youre probably lying
ifeelused
07/21/03, 01:33 PM
Originally posted by Banned
if you really were friends i would doubt he would say that. so youre probably lying

im not lying! we hung out last night and went riding on go-karts and everything. im closer to him than anyone else.. i think he might have just been in a bad mood or maybe he was joking
tmlfan
07/21/03, 01:37 PM
maybe he wasn't joking but chances are he misses you and probably wants to be closer to you but i am the only one who would think that
neverselected
07/21/03, 08:55 PM
maybe u should just ask him... because we dont really care if he hates u or not....
proeuthanasia
07/21/03, 08:59 PM
Originally posted by Banned
if you really were friends i would doubt he would say that. so youre probably lying


i second that.
Absolute Mest
07/21/03, 11:00 PM
Originally posted by proeuthanasia
i second that.

third
RUFiOOOOOOO
07/21/03, 11:06 PM
Originally posted by Absolute Mest
third

awww..you third it, and your sig is Yellowcard's believe..hmmmm
BleedingMe
07/22/03, 02:18 AM
Originally posted by ifeelused
if you are "friends" with someone and you ask them to hang out with you and another friend, is that using them for a ride? ( i dont drive yet)

Not at all! Before I got my license this guy used to drive me around. He would drive my friends too. If the person is your friend its not using them. That dude was my friend.
ifeelused
07/22/03, 03:50 AM
well he ended up hanging out with me last night anyway, so i was DEFINATELY lying about the whole thing. :rolleyes:
i told him it made me upset that he said that and he told me that he was just upset, cuz his parents were giving him a hard time about his car. it was fun we went for yummy ice cream and then saw 28 days later, which was cool
Billy
07/22/03, 04:05 AM
phew I am glad that crisis is over
ifeelused
07/22/03, 04:06 AM
Originally posted by Billy
phew I am glad that crisis is over

thanks for being there for me, it was a tough time
Billy
07/22/03, 04:12 AM
Originally posted by ifeelused
thanks for being there for me, it was a tough time
Anytime I'm just glad it's over.
alpha21
07/22/03, 04:13 AM
friends or not
it's only "using" if you TAKE THEM FOR GRANTED and EXPECT their services

nothing wrong with saying thank you, to make someone feel as though you actually appritiate that they helped you out
nostalgia
07/22/03, 04:17 AM
Friends are your true enemies.


DIE DIE DIE DIE DIE
ifeelused
07/22/03, 04:21 AM
Originally posted by alpha21
friends or not
it's only "using" if you TAKE THEM FOR GRANTED and EXPECT their services

nothing wrong with saying thank you, to make someone feel as though you actually appritiate that they helped you out

exactly
Billy
07/22/03, 04:22 AM
Originally posted by alpha21
friends or not
it's only "using" if you TAKE THEM FOR GRANTED and EXPECT their services

nothing wrong with saying thank you, to make someone feel as though you actually appritiate that they helped you out
So would you say I USE my car cause i take it for granted and expect its services. I like to think of my car as my friend but I don't want to USE it.
alpha21
07/22/03, 04:24 AM
Originally posted by Billy
So would you say I USE my car cause i take it for granted and expect its services. I like to think of my car as my friend but I don't want to USE it.


if you are able to hurt your cars FEELINGS, then yes
Billy
07/22/03, 04:28 AM
Originally posted by alpha21
if you are able to hurt your cars FEELINGS, then yes
I think I do cause sometimes I swear at it.
richter915
07/22/03, 06:54 AM
Originally posted by amberb182
Not at all! Before I got my license this guy used to drive me around. He would drive my friends too. If the person is your friend its not using them. That dude was my friend.

geez...guys are fucking cunts...we see a pretty face and we're automatically they're slaves thinking like morons "durr maybe if i be her bitch she'll like me more"...i'm ashamed of my own sex at times like these.