bullshit or not?

[unsung_zero02]

okay, so my boyfriend is moving and i'm feeling really shitty. he told me that we should meet up again in like four years. he told me that he wasnt going to date anybody in those four years. tonight, we both decided to try and do the long distance thing but there's always a guy or a girl that comes along..and well you know. but he promised me that he wont ever date anybody. he seemed really serious about it too. but..goddammit..i dont know..what do you guys think..

[angie710]

4 years is a LONG time to committ yourslef to somebody you wont be seeing....I say, date in those 4 years...Live your life, and let him do the same...Then, in 4 years, both of you see where you're at in life...If you can rekindle whatever relationship you had, then do so, if thats what you want...If either of you are involved, then move on....

[unsung_zero02]

Originally posted by angie710
4 years is a LONG time to committ yourslef to somebody you wont be seeing....I say, date in those 4 years...Live your life, and let him do the same...Then, in 4 years, both of you see where you're at in life...If you can rekindle whatever relationship you had, then do so, if thats what you want...If either of you are involved, then move on....

dammit..if only i thought of that two hours ago..but thanks..that sounds like a good idea..

[Highway Donkey]

Long distance relationships suck and aren't easy.... especially for 4 years. I'd give it maybe a year at the most before you both decided to forget about it.

I agree with what the other person said... date other people and if you see each other in 4 years just take it from there depending on how your life is going at that time.

[Greg]

i don't know what to say. i can't get a fucking 5 mile relationship...

[xxSpOoKsxx]

dont even try to do a long distance relationship. it wont work out. theyre hard and its to much of a load to keep wondering and asking urself questions like if he or she is dating someone else? just go on with ur life. it sucks i know. but thats not the way to go.

[Clarett'sGreyGoose]

Originally posted by Greg
i don't know what to say. i can't get a fucking 5 mile relationship...

and here we go. let this post go ignored, so we can help out this unsungzero girl and not turn it into another Greg sympathy thread.

[Billy]

Originally posted by angie710
4 years is a LONG time to committ yourslef to somebody you wont be seeing....I say, date in those 4 years...Live your life, and let him do the same...Then, in 4 years, both of you see where you're at in life...If you can rekindle whatever relationship you had, then do so, if thats what you want...If either of you are involved, then move on....
Good call. I also think that you definitely need to live your life for four years you shouldn't put it on pause. I mean what happens in four years and you guys don't really dig eachother anymore then you just lost four years. So I totally agree with angie on this one.

[unsung_zero02]

Originally posted by Billy
Good call. I also think that you definitely need to live your life for four years you shouldn't put it on pause. I mean what happens in four years and you guys don't really dig eachother anymore then you just lost four years. So I totally agree with angie on this one.

yeah i was kinda afraid of that...i asked him about that..and he said that wont happen. then i was like "how do you know" and blah blah blah. i dont want to waste four years of my life for nothing..

[Billy]

Well I can tell you from personal experience. I have been away from home for three years and things change. Home changes people change it happens it isn't something you can control. A lot of the people I talked to before I left I don't talk to now. I mean there are still those few but things happen. That was only in 3 years so take it for what it's worth but I wouldn't put your life on hold.

[Frodo]

Originally posted by angie710
4 years is a LONG time to committ yourslef to somebody you wont be seeing....I say, date in those 4 years...Live your life, and let him do the same...Then, in 4 years, both of you see where you're at in life...If you can rekindle whatever relationship you had, then do so, if thats what you want...If either of you are involved, then move on....

listen to her