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[TakingItBack22]

one of my closest friends has been into some badd things lately and hes changed soo much since the "kid down the block" he used to be ......he is always anit social and he has become a completely different person....i want to talk to him about it but i dont want to upset him...or ru9in our close relationship...what do i do?

[Super.Panda]

you go speak to him and say somethig like " what's going on with you, you've changed and i am worried about you." or something like that. Say him he counts for you and stuff to make him realise he's not alone too.

[framebyframe]

I don't think you'll upset him if you talk to him, unless you're rude about it.

[biodegradable]

sounds tough.
you have to be careful in the way you approach him- you dont want to sound accusitory. i would try something like "how's life?" and, depending on the answer you could possibly ask him to go deeper into detail 'like for real- be honest with me....you've been acting extra anti-social- is everything okay?"
or even ask him to go out with you or somthing. just to a movie.

[TakingItBack22]

thnx for the advice....weve been Best Friends since we met.....ive watched him get hurt by lots of girls and i cant stand to see that for much longer and all of them are also my close friends

[biodegradable]

thnx for the advice....weve been Best Friends since we met.....ive watched him get hurt by lots of girls and i cant stand to see that for much longer and all of them are also my close friends

your welcome.
just try and be there for him. you dont even have to ask- just be there when you think he needs it.

as for your friends who have hurt him- how good of friends are they, if they will hurt someone you love?