Was I the bitch?

[Yes. And?]

Kinda, long...but please read! Ok, so there's this girl who cuts herself, in my class. She left to go do something and left her binder with my friend. The other kid was making fun of her binder because she had pictures of all these Hot Topic pants with the chains and shit...it was pretty weird. So, the kid is making fun of emos, my friend is defending emos, I'm repeastedly saying emo is a music genre, while they ignore me.:hitself: So, he's all like blah, blah, cutting. And I'm all like, "I don't buy into that whiny bullshit, send 'em to the third world and then, they'll have some real issues." So, my friend is all offended, and like "they can't help it, they can't stop, they get yelled at and called stupid... where do you get off telling them... blah blah" So, I'm all like "bullshit, I get cursed out by mom every other day. and you think there are cutters in Ethopia? Do you think people have time for depression?" So, he goes on to make some of the dumbest fucking statements, like "Well, there are depressed people in Ethopia, they just sink so deep into it, they die because they can't look for food." I'm all like, "there is no food!" He's all like, "Well, how are the other people surviving?" I'm like, "there's not enough food, and people are dying everyday...these people have real problems, not whiny little bitch problems." He's all like "well, let them walk to somewere else, they aren't trying hard enough to get food, or they can't keep it in their pants.":-0 So, we're going on and on, and he says I said cutters were 'weird' and I wouldn't be friends with one, though I said no such thing. I just said, it's not a postive thing, I wouldn't coddle them, I wouldn't be all boo-fucking-hoo, poor you. I told him, that's just not the way I was raised. My mom doesn't by into all that "depression shit". He's all horrified, and mumbles something about racsim or whatever to the kid sitting by him. Racism? WTF? Racist against what? Cutters? Fuck that. I respect everybody, and I don't discriminate based things that are inherent, such as race, sexual orientation, physical and mental disability, etc. So, he's all like "you're a pyschology student, you trying to deny clinical depression...chemical imbalances.....yadda yadda." I said, "No, I know there's clinincal depression, but I know there are plenty of posing whiny kids who don't know what the fuck they're talking about." So, he's all like, "prove they're lying," I'm like, "I can't prove it. I just know. You can tell when people are stupid and don't know what the fuck they're talking about." Trust me, as an MCR fan, I run into people(on the net) who have no fucking clue all the time. So, I tell him again, it's just not a mentality I was raised with. This whole, "self-esteem of the child! whenever it acts up, let's label it with ADHD and a billion other disorders and feed it ritalin" mentality. Nobody in my family is like that. And the girl had come back, so I tried to shut up, but he kept going, telling her, "I know, she knows, we all know, you used to cut yourself. But we're not talking about you." Gee, how's that for sensitivity? So, we went on and on, the bell rang, I told him, if I tried that whole "eating disorder" stuff, my mom would slap the shit outta me. It's true. She thinks that stuff is ridiculous. So, he's all like "if you were dying, she would beat you? She'd call you stupid?" he kept repating that over and over...oh God. I'm like, "it would never get to near-death, beacuse she'd put a stop to that shit, before it started." "by calling you stupid? Continue a behavior that made you get the disease in the first place? You'd just die faster. And he's all outraged.:yawn: And I'm like "If I had a daughter, I'd do the same." He's all blah, blah, pyschological imbalance, you're so ignorant, yadda yadda, prove that you would do that. And, I'm like, how am I gonna prove that? "When I have a daughter, that'll never happen, because I'm not gonna let it happen." He calls me ignorant for the billinth time and stomps off without saying goodbye. I wasn't even angry, but he was...the whole time. It's not even that serious. I remember him having two friends that were cutters, but they were full of shit, anyways. Just because he's friends with all the "wiccan", quasi-pseudo-goths, doesn't mean I have to feel their pain, too. God, he's such a fucking pussy. Am I wrong?

[love_american_style]

nice story. punch yourself in the face.

[Smash Adams]

tldr I don't care

[ides of march]

yes. and?

[Smithers]

tldr

damn. beat me to it.

[love_american_style]

tldr

what does that mean.

[Smash Adams]

what does that mean.

too long didn't read

[Yes. And?]

fuck you guys, i'm serious. should i apologize?

[avengedtbs]

the real underlying issue here is you think mcr is the best band in the entire world and you should apologize for the thought of considering even liking them

[Harold Wood]

I thought your user title said

"won't go down on myself"

[love_american_style]

the real underlying issue here is you think mcr is the best band in the entire world and you should apologize for the thought of considering even liking them

haha.. i laughed a little on the inside.

[Yes. And?]

just forget i asked. i should have known better. :wallbash:

[ForeverInADay]

That is the bitchiest thing I have never read.

[Dan CiTi]

Make out with him.

[love_american_style]

:wallbash:

you should do that to yourself in real life.

[Bingham88]

nice story. punch yourself in the face.

hahahahahaha

[Yes. And?]

you should do that to yourself in real life.
Only if you agree to do this to yourself.:gunhead: But use a real one, and make sure you don't get back up.

[love_american_style]

Only if you agree to do this to yourself.:gunhead: But use a real one, and make sure you don't get back up.

yeah. clever. :rolleyes:

[Burning Star IV]

Have I heard this story before? It's like deja vu all over again.

[sweet tragedy]

Yes, you are wrong.

[Yes. And?]

yeah. clever. :rolleyes:
but true.

[biodegradable]

you think you can just 'snap out' of eating disorders and depression? yeah, fuck that shit.
if we could all just 'snap out of it', wouldnt life be great? i mean, thats what all the 'intelligent' kids do. they dont believe in cutting. they dont believe in depression. i mean, who would believe in that crazy shit? people puking up their food? aw hell no. people killing themselves? what? you mean people actually do that stuff? you mean they actually have problems? Nah, dont believe it. it's all a lie just to freak you out.

[TheOtherAndrew]

yes. and?
hahaha

[Andy K]

Sorry, my lack of attention span kicked in at about the 5th sentence.

[Yes. And?]

you think you can just 'snap out' of eating disorders and depression? yeah, fuck that shit.
if we could all just 'snap out of it', wouldnt life be great? i mean, thats what all the 'intelligent' kids do. they dont believe in cutting. they dont believe in depression. i mean, who would believe in that crazy shit? people puking up their food? aw hell no. people killing themselves? what? you mean people actually do that stuff? you mean they actually have problems? Nah, dont believe it. it's all a lie just to freak you out.
i believe it happens, i just don't believe i have to feel sorry for them. especially if they're full of shit, which many of the people around my age who claim to be, are. i have friends who claimed to have eating disorders. 1 said she was anorexic, we told her..."eat something, dammnit." a week later, never heard about that shit again. i had a friend who was apparently buliemic(sp?), since he wanted to get 'emo' skinny, but he's been the same size since 9th fucking grade. i'm aquainted with at least two people who cut solely for attention. maybe my school is just filled with stupid people, but i come across quite a few....

[Nevuk]

Yes, this was the worst place on earth to come to for advice. I do agree, however, you need to use line breaks and paragraphs to make reading your writing slightly less tedious. I still won't read it, but maybe someone else?

[monkeyofdoom]

live a day in her life before you judge her....bitch

[snowtires]

nice story. punch yourself in the face.

/thread

[PadraicPrincess]

where's chapter two?

[Yes. And?]

live a day in her life before you judge her....bitch
we weren't even talking about her...tool.

[Fuce]

i believe it happens, i just don't believe i have to feel sorry for them. especially if they're full of shit, which many of the people around my age who claim to be, are. i have friends who claimed to have eating disorders. 1 said she was anorexic, we told her..."eat something, dammnit." a week later, never heard about that shit again. i had a friend who was apparently buliemic(sp?), since he wanted to get 'emo' skinny, but he's been the same size since 9th fucking grade. i'm aquainted with at least two people who cut solely for attention. maybe my school is just filled with stupid people, but i come across quite a few....

People who are bulimic don't necessarily lose weight at all. Your whole story shows an incredible lack of knowledge on anything you are talking about.

[avengedtbs]

but true.
funny thing is: if we took a poll on this site of whether you should punch yourself in the face or gren'd should shoot himself....i think the results would be overwhelming (not in your favor)

[Tyler Revolution]

nice story. punch yourself in the face.

That made me lol. Nice work.

[Yes. And?]

People who are bulimic don't necessarily lose weight at all. Your whole story shows an incredible lack of knowledge on anything you are talking about.
but isn't the goal to lose weight? i do believe it is....
besides, i know he didn't throw up after most meals.

[Tyler Revolution]

Oh, and I read about a third of the way through, until you started saying, "and then they were like, and then I was like, and then she was like, and then I was like..." and then I quit. Seems like a petty argument, you'll survive.

[Yes. And?]

funny thing is: if we took a poll on this site of whether you should punch yourself in the face or gren'd should shoot himself....i think the results would be overwhelming (not in your favor)
and that would make me do it?

[Tyler Revolution]

I read the rest of the comments in this thread and some of them are pure gold, nice work everyone.

[love_american_style]

i didnt even need to read the rest of the story and i've come to realize that you and your friends are all idiots. what ever opinion you have is null and void. stop making threads and quit breathing our air.

[Sleepaway]

please stop posting.

[Fuce]

but isn't the goal to lose weight? i do believe it is....
besides, i know he didn't throw up after most meals.

honestly, I'm not even going to correct you. With that last comment you just kept at proving what an incredible idiot you are.

[avengedtbs]

i didnt even need to read the rest of the story and i've come to realize that you and your friends are all idiots. what ever opinion you have is null and void. stop making threads and quit breathing our air.

please stop posting.
agreed

[Yes. And?]

honestly, I'm not even going to correct you. With that last comment you just kept at proving what an incredible idiot you are.
he's not bulimic, never was.

[Fuce]

he's not bulimic, never was.

And you are not half as intelligent or worldly as you quite clearly are convinced you are. Please stop posting.

[Sleepaway]

Wow, seriously just gtfo.

[Yes. And?]

And you are not half as intelligent or worldly as you quite clearly are convinced you are. Please stop posting.never said i was either of those things....
but, no, i think i'll keep on posting.

[love_american_style]

never said i was either of those things....
but, no, i think i'll keep on posting.

if you keep on posting you'll be the most hated person on this site. seriously, for your own good stop making dumb threads. no one will take you seriously.

[avengedtbs]

never said i was either of those things....
but, no, i think i'll keep on posting.
oh yeah i forgot....you listen to mcr so you must be a tough guy

[Dan CiTi]

I could stand you if you were good lookin'.

[Yes. And?]

if you keep on posting you'll be the most hated person on this site. seriously, for your own good stop making dumb threads. no one will take you seriously.
my life would be over.

[Yes. And?]

i love how none of you bat an eye about what he said about people in the 3rd world. seriously, though? very bad judgement on my part, making this thread, when i know everybody around here's only purpose is to try and make the snappiest comeback ever. well, great job, guys.:rolleyes: i'll just deal with the kid, tomorrow. but i sure as hell won't apologize. you all made me realize, there's no point. so...thanks, for that.

[love_american_style]

my life would be over.

i was being nice for a moment but, whatever...

[HangsLikeHeaven]

i love how none of you bat an eye about what he said about people in the 3rd world. seriously, though? very bad judgement on my part, making this thread, when i know everybody around here's only purpose is to try and make the snappiest comeback ever. well, great job, guys.:rolleyes: i'll just deal with the kid, tomorrow. but i sure as hell won't apologize. you all made me realize, there's no point. so...thanks, for that.

pay more attention in english class. awful use of comma's cluttered in here.

[sdbrown]

but isn't the goal to lose weight? i do believe it is....
besides, i know he didn't throw up after most meals.
the thought of you becoming a psychology student scares me.


You were wrong. Yes, there are people that fake disorders but that's no reason to make statements that seemingly discredit anyone who suffers from one. The thought of you simply yelling at your child to make her eating disorder stop is equal parts hilarious and sad.

[Badgers08]

:-D all the responses here made me laugh so hard

[llwilliamsll]

i quit reading after the first line

[biodegradable]

i love how none of you bat an eye about what he said about people in the 3rd world. seriously, though? very bad judgement on my part, making this thread, when i know everybody around here's only purpose is to try and make the snappiest comeback ever. well, great job, guys.:rolleyes: i'll just deal with the kid, tomorrow. but i sure as hell won't apologize. you all made me realize, there's no point. so...thanks, for that.

sweetheart, no one cares. did you honestly think that anyone here would take you seriously?
have you not read anything in the personal life forum?
by you dissing every single person who's posted in this thread, you've basically fucked your credibility here on ap. so, uh, good luck with that.

try anal-it might clear some things up.
actually-wait- get that stick out of your ass first.

[theguilt engine]

nice story. punch yourself in the face.

hahaha.

[xxeuthanasia]

I read it...

I mean you said what you thought and only apologize if you think you are really sorry.

Well I used to cut myself so some of the things you said were *quite* unfair....


but i see that's your opinion.

[AP_Punk]

B_tch.

[takingshots]

but isn't the goal to lose weight? i do believe it is....
besides, i know he didn't throw up after most meals.
:rolleyes:

[Yes. And?]

:rolleyes:
oh, it's not? really? wanna tell me what the purpose is instead of rolling your eyes, since you're so smart? shut the hell up.

[Yes. And?]

yeah...i totally didn't bother reading through all that. pffft, why was i even worried? he'd forgotten all about it....problem solved. and i couldn't have gotten through it without all of your trusty advice.

[lindZ629]

Too long, so I didn't read...However, I'd say you're the bitch.

These comments made me chuckle.

[takingshots]

oh, it's not? really? wanna tell me what the purpose is instead of rolling your eyes, since you're so smart? shut the hell up.
what you said was a huge generalisation. you obviously don't understand eating disorders at all. why would you assume that what statistics show is a serious problem is all about a superficial desire to lose weight? Bulimia can be caused by changes in brain chemical serotonin - which has nothing to do with a person's unhappiness with how much they weigh.

[love_american_style]

what you said was a huge generalisation. you obviously don't understand eating disorders at all. why would you assume that what statistics show is a serious problem is all about a superficial desire to lose weight? Bulimia can be caused by changes in brain chemical serotonin - which has nothing to do with a person's unhappiness with how much they weigh.

pwnd.

[Tyler Revolution]

Hahahahahahaha.

[avengedtbs]

if i need a good laugh...i just come to this thread

[CellarGhosts]

tldr I don't care
Exactly.

[NickBender]

You said "emos"

[Spewk]

I thought your user title said

"won't go down on myself"
haha, so did i

[Spewk]

oh, and to the starter, you were the bitch.

[chronomic]

yes. and?

[ohthethrill]

hahahaha i didnt even read half of the post only comments...please keep posting, i like reading the insults. but please, stop talking about things you dont understand. i have adhd and its more frustrating than the fact that gerard way is still allowed to make music.

[llwilliamsll]

i still didn't read it, but...well you were definitely the bitch

[popmusicisdead]

you were both in the wrong. U should have both had more understanding for eachothers point of view. X-)

[StrictlyBiznas]

nice story. punch yourself in the face.

The rest of this thread is irrelevant, this is the only advice you need.

[ArTkY_]

Are you hot?

[Dan CiTi]

Are you hot?
That's what I said.

[Mr. Jacob]

too long

i laughed at the first couple sentences though

is she dead yet?

[Siren Silently]

Don't care. Don't care.

[duhpunk]

"im going to go make a sandwich"
-anybody on punknews.org

[watchthesky07]

hahaha I quit reading her post after the 5th or 6th sentence...but these comments are amazing! I'm laughing out loud right now :-)

[Tyler Revolution]

One of my favorite threads.

[justanotherface]

Duh you should apologize there's no excuse to hurt someone and not make it up to them. Beg for mercy if you have to!

[Inthenickoftime]

hah dear lord.

[jekl]

the wall of text hurts my eyes

[DDream]

but isn't the goal to lose weight? i do believe it is....
besides, i know he didn't throw up after most meals.


Actually, no, it is to punishing yourself for eating what you did eat(binge eating), it doesn't help you lose weight, it just makes your teeth gross. Now anerexia is losing weight, you eat barely nothing.

[KidRobot]

B_tch.

Can I buy a vowel?

[Aiwendillie]

I didn't read your page-long rant, but I skimmed through it. Personally, I think there are three types of cutters; people with psychological disorders, scene kids who follow trends, and pussies who bitch about life.

Most of those scene kids running around in MCR shirts and fishnet generally don't fall in the 'psychological disorders' categories.. I don't know what that girl was like, but she might have been clinically depressed.

Frankly, I hate those kids who are total pussies who have nothing better to do.. Usually, they're spoiled attention-whores. Like someone I know who used to "cut" (shallow lines to show off) to get attention from my close friend's boyfriend. She's the rich little bitch who has everything; because of that, she has nothing better to do than complain. It's not some clinical depression, but symptoms of being a spoiled brat. It's like, jesus christ, you're complaining that someone didn't text you within the past hour (which is what she did... She talked about this one guy through my ENTIRE birthday party. So I kinda sat in a corner with some of my other friends), while millions of other people in this world are so grateful for what little they have... It's funny, because half the time she tries to be badass and emo, and the other half of the time, she's the ditziest thing on earth.
You know what I don't like about people like those? They think everything's worse for them, or say that, reeking of arrogance, "no one could possibly feel the extent of sadness that I'm feeling now". That shit drives me crazy.

Anyways.. I didn't really read what happened, so I can't judge; I think that even if you think stuff like that, you shouldn't argue that you're right, because it's all a matter of viewpoint.

[love_american_style]

nice story. punch yourself in the face.

hahahaha...i make myself laugh.

[ForeverInADay]

hahahaha...i make myself laugh.

hahahahahahahahaha amazing.

[chrissy11]

reading the responses in this thread just made my day.

is there going to be more bitch bashing or should i stop laughing now?....


nope...can't stop...oh well.

[{Comatose}]

but true.

you spelled "i'm a bitch who bombards unsuspecting members with long stories" wrong

[a speedo model]

Yes.