depressed

[imnotokay08]

so i'm majorly depressed cuz my mom might have cancer...if she does then she will surely die...i might not be as close to my mom as i could be but i'm still pretty close. i can't stand to lose her...that's why i'm depressed.

[Chancetobe]

People can be cured from cancer you know. Cheer up. A lot of my family memebers have recovered from it.

[CLAPSAYsike]

A lot of my family members have been cured too. A major part of recovery is positive thinking. You, your family, and your mom need to keep telling yourselves that she'll get better. You need to believe it, too.

[*Shelby*]

i hope things turn out for the best....If you believe it...it can happen...*fingers crossed* for your mom

[tambam]

Best of luck to you and your mom. And like the people above said, a lot of people get cured. Cancer isn't the end all and be all.

[CellarGhosts]

I'm just going to second what everyone has already said. People do recover from cancer; get cured, and all. So don't dwell on it, just hope for the best.

[musicroxmysox]

i guess i'm thirding what they said too my grandma had cancer and they told her she'd probably only live for 5 more months at the most but i mean we all just kept hoping that it would get better now it's 4 years later and she still comes over to visit from new york every christmas.you'll pull through just try to hope for the best i'll keep fingers crossed for you good luck

[HangsLikeHeaven]

she'll get better. just keep your head high

[hailthewarrior]

i agree with everything's that been said in this thread. cancer can be beaten, just have the right attitude. but also make sure your time with her is the best it's ever been, build up good memories, etc.

[forgotten_emo]

i agree with everything's that been said in this thread. cancer can be beaten, just have the right attitude. but also make sure your time with her is the best it's ever been, build up good memories, etc.

agreed... Just dont lose faith. Like everybody has said it can be beaten. Just try and spend the most time you can with your mom. Both of you really need eachother. Just dont give up. I have a aunt that has AIDS so i know what your going through. Just keep you head up. Best luck to you and your mom. Heres hoping for the best

[Shatter590]

and even if the cancer cant be cured, dont let that be an excuse to mope and be all down. that just means you need to chreish the time all the more and live it like you never have before. people with cancer dont want to be surrounded by downers, they want to experience life and joy.

[forgotten_emo]

and even if the cancer cant be cured, dont let that be an excuse to mope and be all down. that just means you need to chreish the time all the more and live it like you never have before. people with cancer dont want to be surrounded by downers, they want to experience life and joy.

exaclty they want to enjoy the rest of their time alive with the people they love and care for They want to make good memories. They dont want you to be all bummed about it

[icyeyes26]

im so sorry! my grandma was had cancer and it was the hardest thing my family and me have gone thro. just be there and never give up. im glad i was always there for my grandma and she was always smiling that, as a family, we were all together for her.

[ahumananomaly]

I'm sorry for you/your mom... But it is treatable and I hope everything can work out; gve it some time

[theguilt engine]

I don't know what I'd do if I lost one of my parents so soon. I hope everything works out for you, and keep positive thinking like Ryssa was saying.

[thatwasamoment]

r u not o k?

[justanotherface]

Don't worry. Lots of my relatives have had cancer and most of them were cured in time. Pray about it, and stay optimistic. I'm sure everything will turn out okay.

[3mpire]

Don't worry, my mum's got breast cancer and thank god she's alright for the moment.

I'm sure it'll be ok. :-)

[Chris289]

I just learned the news that that my good buddy passed away last night. I don't know what to think. Here I am stuck at work, dealing with customers who keep pointing out my negative attitude and laughing and it's killing me. I heard rumors that it was a drug over dose, possibly on purpose. I don't want to use the s-word because it would be the 2nd close friend that the s-word would factor in. I never thought the other night that when a few of us were out having some drinks, watching the yankees play, that would be the last time I saw him. The last year has been so shitty for me.

[and we whisper]

I'm really sorry to hear this. I hope it wasn't a suicide, especially considering your other friend's recent death. There's not too much you can do, but I'd try to leave work if you could. There's no reason for you to be there when you're feeling like this (or maybe it's better that you keep yourself busy?) Just try to stay positive. I've recently learned that it's all about attitude. You have to remember that you're going to make it through this and keep that state of mind. If you think you're not going to get through it, then you most assuredly will not.