What do you think?

[chickmagnet2385]

Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 5 months now. She is two years younger than me, I just graduated last year, she has 2 more years of school to go. On January 24th, I get shipped off to Navy Basic Training. Me and her are planning to stay together, even while I'm gone. I just wanted to know if any of you have had experience with long-distance relationships. If so, what are some things I can do to make it easier? I know that we can get through it, but I just wanna know some of your experiences. Thanks.

[punked78]

Originally posted by chickmagnet2385
Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 5 months now. She is two years younger than me, I just graduated last year, she has 2 more years of school to go. On January 24th, I get shipped off to Navy Basic Training. Me and her are planning to stay together, even while I'm gone. I just wanted to know if any of you have had experience with long-distance relationships. If so, what are some things I can do to make it easier? I know that we can get through it, but I just wanna know some of your experiences. Thanks.

i had a long distance relationship for a long time, and it was fine so im sure yours will be too, just tell her how much u love her a lot and thats about it, we were together for a while and then she lost internet access and i never heard from her again. and its kinda like ur situation cause she was 2 years OLDER than me

[richter915]

dude...I'm in a long distance relationship right now...it's so hard on me and her...it sucks...but I love her waaaaaay too much and stuff, I bet you feel the same about your special lady...so you just gotta do everything you can. I IM my gf all the time so that's something. E-mail is nice, but good old fashioned regular snail mail is way more meaningful....trust me. Send her pictures of yourself often so she doesn't forget how you look. Also, videos of yourself just saying hey hello and crap is good. Call her as much as humanly possible. I can't think of anything else right now...but that'll do.

[FishAlotNBePunk]

Originally posted by richter915
dude...I'm in a long distance relationship right now...it's so hard on me and her...it sucks...but I love her waaaaaay too much and stuff, I bet you feel the same about your special lady...so you just gotta do everything you can. I IM my gf all the time so that's something. E-mail is nice, but good old fashioned regular snail mail is way more meaningful....trust me. Send her pictures of yourself often so she doesn't forget how you look. Also, videos of yourself just saying hey hello and crap is good. Call her as much as humanly possible. I can't think of anything else right now...but that'll do.

yeah do what he said

[BleedingMe]

Goodluck! My brother is in the Navy and he tried to keep his girlfriend, but she cheated on him. Basic is hard too!

[Highway Donkey]

If you've only been going out 5 months are you sure you can trust her not to cheat on you? It might be a whole lot easier on both of you to end the relationship temporarily and when you get back, see if you want to start it up again.

[LessThanJade]

im not sure u know some girls tend to go wild in their high school years. if u can trust her then awesome but dont tie her down and not let her be able to have fun

[ifeelused]

Originally posted by chickmagnet2385
Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 5 months now. She is two years younger than me, I just graduated last year, she has 2 more years of school to go. On January 24th, I get shipped off to Navy Basic Training. Me and her are planning to stay together, even while I'm gone. I just wanted to know if any of you have had experience with long-distance relationships. If so, what are some things I can do to make it easier? I know that we can get through it, but I just wanna know some of your experiences. Thanks.

i dont think thats a smart idea.. you are just setting yourself up for disaster. are u in love? i mean most of the time its just bullshit, especially in high school relationships. and you've only been together 5 months. you shouldnt even be strapping yourself down like that

[love_american_style]

she's gonna fuck your neihbor and or best friend.

[infamous_alias]

Women are bitches, for real.

[lake of tears]

it will hurt you
you have to be patient in life

do it only if u really trust each other

[4N6 science]

thats tough since the relationship is still new...give it a try but dont be totally disappointed if it doesn't work out...

[buysoap]

Long distance is a relationship killer most of the time. It's very hard to do unless you're extremely commited, and even those that say they are are liable to slip up. I think "Good luck" because you'll need it if this is something you are truely going to go forward with.

If I were you, I'd break while off doing the Navy stuff. It's less strain on you that way. Come back when you're done and see where you two are at that point.

[4N6 science]

Long distance is a relationship killer most of the time. It's very hard to do unless you're extremely commited, and even those that say they are are liable to slip up. I think "Good luck" because you'll need it if this is something you are truely going to go forward with.

If I were you, I'd break while off doing the Navy stuff. It's less strain on you that way. Come back when you're done and see where you two are at that point.


thats a good point.

[Angluv]

thats tough since the relationship is still new...give it a try but dont be totally disappointed if it doesn't work out...


i second that notion!

[nonamesleft]

anal

[myantiyou]

anal

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[nonamesleft]

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haha, my bad.

[xjustinx]

I'm going to have to stay out of this thread then I guess. Ahaha

[myantiyou]

I'm going to have to stay out of this thread then I guess. Ahaha

hahaha

[lew_1987]

me and my girlfriend are long distance for most of the year, apart from summer. you will get used to it. just try and keep yourself as busy as possible, but keep in touch with her as much as you can too. send romantic letters/gestures etc. and she will love it.

[myantiyou]

4 years late

[lew_1987]

4 years late

haha i missed that. didn't even read the original post date.

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[Greg]

i've never understood the whole "lets go join the army/navy/marines!!!!" thing. seems dumb to me.

[myantiyou]

haha i missed that. didn't even read the original post date.

It's cool, I do that too. :-p

[myantiyou]

i've never understood the whole "lets go join the army/navy/marines!!!!" thing. seems dumb to me.

Propaganda.

And the first couple chapters of All Quiet on the Western Front explains it.

[umamenina]

its not worth it...I posted a thread about long distance relationship this past march or feb asking people advice and shit about long distance..and for awhile it worked out okay..but my bf and I brokeup just a few weeks ago..I used to live in california and I moved outta state just 4 months ago..and I'm here in california again visiting for summer..and I saw my bf and things were fine but went down the shitter when we both relized it was going to work out bc of the distance. unless you two are in LOVE committed to each other it won't workout..you don't want to worry about the other person cheating on you or trying to make you jealous and stuff..I'd say you shud just remain friends bc it will be the best in the end.

[Melissa Johnson]

i dont think thats a smart idea.. you are just setting yourself up for disaster. are u in love? i mean most of the time its just bullshit, especially in high school relationships. and you've only been together 5 months. you shouldnt even be strapping yourself down like that

His girlfriend can have fun without being a goddamn whore.

[Melissa Johnson]

i've never understood the whole "lets go join the army/navy/marines!!!!" thing. seems dumb to me.

Most (okay, all) the military kids I knew from high school went because they were either too poor to afford college, (ok and one was just too dumb), or too lazy to actually go to college.

[lew_1987]

His girlfriend can have fun without being a goddamn whore.

haha good comeback.