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ifeelused
08/15/03, 08:54 PM
my friend is moving i've been spending a lot of time with him.. timing is a bad thing at times. we could be perfect for eachother.. except there is this little problem called age. im 16 about to be 17 in a month.. and hes 20.. big problem there, very illegal. it just kinda sucks a lot, because we could be great.. and not some stupid high school relationship good.. hopefullly he comes to visit a lot and maybe when im older things could work out. i dont know .. just had to spill my guts
LessThanJade
08/16/03, 05:59 PM
that does suck...just keep in touch and in the meantime everything will fall into its place and work out!
twilson2
08/16/03, 10:19 PM
only illegal if you two kiddies have sex, go sXe and just say "no". i just got burned hardcore on a long distance relationship but the time spent apart/together in spirit was worth the two months of the worst heartache i've ever experienced. just give it a try and, if it is meant to be, it's meant to be.
richter915
08/16/03, 11:12 PM
ya long distance relationships seem real hard...I'm in one now...hopefully it'll work.
AudioBoxers
08/17/03, 12:42 AM
long distance would be hard, plus the age diff would make it harder I would think. My GF is 2 years older than me and that is still hard sometimes
**michelleV**
08/20/03, 04:00 AM
Long distant relationships aren't all that bad. really there not.
Originally posted by **michelleV**
Long distant relationships aren't all that bad. really there not.
They never work.
ifeelused
08/20/03, 12:30 PM
actually i have a boyfriend.. but this guy is just a guy that it "would" be perfect with. hes much older than me and now that he's moving i cant even be friends with him
SnowintheSummer
08/20/03, 03:11 PM
Originally posted by Frodo
They never work.
no relationships ever work. granted, long distance ones work less often. but they do work, ive witnessed it...
ifeelused that really sucks but i mean you should definately stay friends with him , at least, and see how it works out i hope it all turns out for the best
richter915
08/23/03, 05:11 PM
Originally posted by Frodo
They never work.
they work more than you think...me and my gf are proof.
denissuxx
08/14/09, 04:23 PM
Update on this?
Richard Maxim
08/14/09, 05:21 PM
Long distance relationships never work.
llwilliamsll
08/14/09, 05:24 PM
How the fuck did you find this thread? Go contact OP for the update.
LaDiabla
08/14/09, 05:32 PM
Update on this?
why the über epic bump?
TotalCollapse
08/14/09, 05:38 PM
lol
Update on this?
epic bump by you
SonEric84
08/14/09, 08:22 PM
One has to wonder whether they ended up together or not.
denissuxx
08/15/09, 09:06 AM
why the über epic bump?
Just curious if things worked out in the end or not :-|
EatItSucka
08/16/09, 07:22 AM
FUCK RELATIONSHIPS.
We can die at any moment. Fuck the living shit out of everything you can while you still can.
.invisible ink.
08/16/09, 07:28 AM
FUCK RELATIONSHIPS.
We can die at any moment. Fuck the living shit out of everything you can while you still can.
so just go for physical pleasure and never experience a deeper connection with another person? sounds silly to me.
EatItSucka
08/16/09, 07:38 AM
so just go for physical pleasure and never experience a deeper connection with another person? sounds silly to me.
I was just being a guy, of course I was going to submit such a response.
In all seriousness, the person I am seeing I have feelings for. Do I tell her I love her? HELL NO! Then she will cost money and time and stress. FUCK THAT SHIT!
So, any advice for me?
.invisible ink.
08/16/09, 08:01 AM
I was just being a guy, of course I was going to submit such a response.
In all seriousness, the person I am seeing I have feelings for. Do I tell her I love her? HELL NO! Then she will cost money and time and stress. FUCK THAT SHIT!
So, any advice for me?
haha, i didn't realize that telling someone that you love them ends up costing you in the end financially. when i love someone i want to spend money and time on them. if they end up costing me in ways I do not approve of, they're gone because that's not real to me.
EatItSucka
08/16/09, 08:09 AM
haha, i didn't realize that telling someone that you love them ends up costing you in the end financially. when i love someone i want to spend money and time on them. if they end up costing me in ways I do not approve of, they're gone because that's not real to me.
I like your point.
Its just that I have never had money. It's kind of a weird relationship I might add. Shes 31 and I'm 20. She drives 50 minutes to come pick me up every Friday just to come see me and always pays for food and such. I just feel like I am using her.
I'm not sure if shes desperate or not. She is a very attractive woman and deserves better than a smuck like me.
.invisible ink.
08/16/09, 10:00 AM
I like your point.
Its just that I have never had money. It's kind of a weird relationship I might add. Shes 31 and I'm 20. She drives 50 minutes to come pick me up every Friday just to come see me and always pays for food and such. I just feel like I am using her.
I'm not sure if shes desperate or not. She is a very attractive woman and deserves better than a smuck like me.
you shouldn't feel like you're using her. she probably really likes you which is why she's willing to drive and pay just to see you and spend time with you. i don't see why she's got to be classified as "desperate" to anyone. if she's a cool person and you like her and you're both happy together, why should that be a problem? People are so fucking judgmental and shitty out of ignorance and jealousy. Most people will tell you that they want you to be happy but then when you find something or someone that makes you happy, they always have reasons why that person or thing isn't the right one and you should ditch that happiness and find something else. I dunno, your story hits kinda close to home for me and I just finished watching "Nick and Nora's Infinite Playlist" so I guess I'm in a sort of pro-romance mood right now.
Gone Fighter
08/17/09, 06:00 PM
FUCK RELATIONSHIPS.
We can die at any moment. Fuck the living shit out of everything you can while you still can.
well if we can die at any moment wouldn't you rather die knowing that someone cares?
DejaNew
08/17/09, 08:06 PM
Update on this?
HAHAHAHAHA incredible Denis.
denissuxx
08/18/09, 03:54 AM
HAHAHAHAHA incredible Denis.
:-| I don't think the OP is around anymore
muttley
08/18/09, 03:57 AM
That bump hurt.
fadedmemories
08/18/09, 10:00 AM
6 year old bump is... well... 6 years old
ReadyForAction
08/18/09, 03:47 PM
I'm impressed
nonamesleft
08/18/09, 04:09 PM
I hope everything worked out. I wonder...
**michelleV**
08/19/09, 03:14 PM
haha i replied to this post in 2003! crazy!
AlexEnglish
08/19/09, 08:45 PM
my friend is moving i've been spending a lot of time with him.. timing is a bad thing at times. we could be perfect for eachother.. except there is this little problem called age. im 16 about to be 17 in a month.. and hes 20.. big problem there, very illegal. it just kinda sucks a lot, because we could be great.. and not some stupid high school relationship good.. hopefullly he comes to visit a lot and maybe when im older things could work out. i dont know .. just had to spill my guts
its illegal to have sex, but that law isnt really enforced. you dont need to worry about that. im sorry about the move.
the only thing illegal is the sex.
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