I think I'm going to blow up

[oldwirehands]

I've gone from feeling happy and excited to destroyed and lonely.

At the begining of the day, I told my ex that I'm tired of the way she was treating me and that I'm not going to talk to her. She ignores me entirely because she focuses all of her attention on the guy she likes. Then when things went sour there, she came back saying she missed me and wanted to fix things. Now she's back at ignoring me again so I told thats it.

Now I find out how high she is on this guy and I feel completely replaced. She was a huge part of my life and now there's is a huge void there. I don't know how to feel at all. I have so many good things happening to me at the moment and at the same time the complete polar oppisite.

What am I supposed to do? Because of all these events I have horrible confidence and social problems. My life is moving a million mph right now and shit like this makes it so hard to keep going.

[alexamiller]

wow i feel bad because i did the same thing.
i say get over her because it probably wont be the same ever again.

[oldwirehands]

wow i feel bad because i did the same thing.
i say get over her because it probably wont be the same ever again.

Its not even a matter of getting over her. I feel like I can never have something like that again. My self-esteem is at rock bottom.

[Signals Corrupted]

Be more superficial, stop caring about girls.

[Take Heart]

The only form of attachment you form with a girl should involve your penis and any of her assorted orifices. That way nobody gets hurt. Well, maybe the girl gets hurt, but who gives a fuck?

[oldwirehands]

Its more about how easily replaceable I was and how that pain I feel collides with the happiness and excitment the band brings me. I go from an extreme high to and extreme low and it makes my head want to explode.

I really do have to stop giving a shit. Its just quite a challenge at the moment.

[strobelife]

Its more about how easily replaceable I was and how that pain I feel collides with the happiness and excitment the band brings me. I go from an extreme high to and extreme low and it makes my head want to explode.

I really do have to stop giving a shit. Its just quite a challenge at the moment.
Well it seems like she likes him more than she likes you. Your going to have to deal with it. Meanwhile, sleep with her best friends... and perhaps her mother if she's a MILF. Then you could say to yourself "Well... at least I fucked her mother."

[alexamiller]

lol..don't let stuff like that ruin your self esteem..like the way one person treated you affects who you are..

[noglory]

Its more about how easily replaceable I was and how that pain I feel collides with the happiness and excitment the band brings me. I go from an extreme high to and extreme low and it makes my head want to explode.

I really do have to stop giving a shit. Its just quite a challenge at the moment.

Thats how i felt about my x bf, he had replaced me before we had even split up, as if 3 years ment nothing to him.

I felt like it was the end of everything & i was pretty messed up for a while. It sounds a bit stupid now because i know im young & it wasnt going anywhere anyway. Best thing you can do is just spend loads of time with your friends, or try & meet some new people & just keep yourself really busy! Its been like 4 months with me & ive only just got to the point where i dont give two shits about him, ive started to like other guys, ive met loads of new people, come out of my shell alot & im really happy now!

I know everyone says it but basicaly its just going to take time & if shes going to treat you like that then she isnt worth it.

[oldwirehands]

Thats how i felt about my x bf, he had replaced me before we had even split up, as if 3 years ment nothing to him.

I felt like it was the end of everything & i was pretty messed up for a while. It sounds a bit stupid now because i know im young & it wasnt going anywhere anyway. Best thing you can do is just spend loads of time with your friends, or try & meet some new people & just keep yourself really busy! Its been like 4 months with me & ive only just got to the point where i dont give two shits about him, ive started to like other guys, ive met loads of new people, come out of my shell alot & im really happy now!

I know everyone says it but basicaly its just going to take time & if shes going to treat you like that then she isnt worth it.

Thank you. Its been almost three months for me. Its just crazy that you think you mean the world to someone and the next day they're seeing another guy. It was literally like that to. It was so random. I don't know, I just need to try harder to be strong but it is a very difficult task at the moment. Thanks again.

[deapcutz]

The only form of attachment you form with a girl should involve your penis and any of her assorted orifices. That way nobody gets hurt. Well, maybe the girl gets hurt, but who gives a fuck?

Jesus! How heartless can you be? Don't you think that at some point in your life you will want more than just sex?

[strobelife]

Jesus! How heartless can you be? Don't you think that at some point in your life you will want more than just sex?
When I get to old I'll need someone to clean up after me... so yes!

[deapcutz]

When I get to old I'll need someone to clean up after me... so yes!

What goes around comes right back around. If you continue to just hurt people like that you will get yours. (sevenfold)

[strobelife]

What goes around comes right back around. If you continue to just hurt people like that you will get yours. (sevenfold)
No I wont. You just hope I will.

[Fobika!]

Thank you. Its been almost three months for me. Its just crazy that you think you mean the world to someone and the next day they're seeing another guy. It was literally like that to. It was so random. I don't know, I just need to try harder to be strong but it is a very difficult task at the moment. Thanks again.

hey i went through the same thing aboug 6 months ago; after a two year relationship. it was really hard for a while and i totally know the feeling but i promise its something that will go away with time. basically, right now you have a void that she had previously filled- and you just need to work on filling that void by yourself. i would recommend being single for a while and figuring out about who you are more; maybe try to fill that void by putting even more energy into your music than you are now. thats what i did and i ended up writing the best album of my life. and since then i've done things i never thought i would have the chance to do with my previous relationship. i'm at the point now where i really am just enjoying being single- my ex has a new gf and i couldn't give two shits. just basically stay positive and things will get better, i promise!

[oldwirehands]

hey i went through the same thing aboug 6 months ago; after a two year relationship. it was really hard for a while and i totally know the feeling but i promise its something that will go away with time. basically, right now you have a void that she had previously filled- and you just need to work on filling that void by yourself. i would recommend being single for a while and figuring out about who you are more; maybe try to fill that void by putting even more energy into your music than you are now. thats what i did and i ended up writing the best album of my life. and since then i've done things i never thought i would have the chance to do with my previous relationship. i'm at the point now where i really am just enjoying being single- my ex has a new gf and i couldn't give two shits. just basically stay positive and things will get better, i promise!

Things have gotten better for sure. I am going to stay single for a long long time. I already have done my soul searching. I did it immediately after the break up. I locked myself away from the world to figure out my strengths and weaknesses. I'm a much better person than I was before the break up. It was a great learning lesson for me but the pain is just still lingering. Thank you for the advice though. I truely appreciate it.

[JulieLynn]

Its not even a matter of getting over her. I feel like I can never have something like that again. My self-esteem is at rock bottom.

That "Something" will find you again. Don't lose hope. I was in a relationship for 4 years up until about 5 months ago, so i know how you feel. Just keep yourself busy so that you won't think of it as much. She's playing mind games with you and that's not fair to you. So forget about her. Move on with your life and she'll see that you don't need her. It's her loss.

[FourdyOz]

seriously...just act like you don't care. even if you do..don't let her see it. you have your own life now. enjoy your band and other things that make you happy. there's someone better for you out there

[Plodbax]

Don't let no girl rule your life, just hang with your mates for a while stay away from the women and all shall be forgoten

[Murderotica000]

Forget about that girl. She's going to screw things up for you.

[oldwirehands]

I officially stopped talking to her a few days ago. Though it sucks, at the same time I feel relieved. Women are promiscuous its disgusting. They always need to engage in some type of relationship whether is be for a couple hours or a couple years. Fuck them. Literally, thats all I plan on doing for the next five years of my life is fucking. I don't care anymore.

[deapcutz]

I officially stopped talking to her a few days ago. Though it sucks, at the same time I feel relieved. Women are promiscuous its disgusting. They always need to engage in some type of relationship whether is be for a couple hours or a couple years. Fuck them. Literally, thats all I plan on doing for the next five years of my life is fucking. I don't care anymore.


Don't let one chick mess up your life with the ladies. I am here to tell you that all females are not like that. But if you really are sick of girls jump the fence. Guys are not that bad... I like them.

[duhpunk]

I wish I knew what to say, but I kinda went through the same thing. I was being cheated on for a couple of months and had no idea it was going on until she just started acting weird and wouldn't kiss me anymore. So once I found out, things got really ugly and I never felt so bad in my life. Since then, I haven't been able to trust or connect with any other girls (I feel so bad for the last girl I dated) just because I feel like I'm not going to be happy with anyone else. It's been 2 years since all of this, and I still feel that way. I'm ready to move on, but I'm just having a hard time.

[myantiyou]

She's trash. Good on you, bro.

I cut off communication with my ex-whore a while ago too.

You deserve better.