Answer me this...

[JulieLynn]

Why is it that at 23 year old male, who broke up with me, is now a jealous asshole because I have moved on and I'm over the fact that him and I just didn't work? Did he seriously expect me to cry about it? I honestly don't think that crying over someone you were only dating for 4 months is worth it.

I moved on, why can't he? Seriously.

[Shatter590]

Why is it that at 23 year old male, who broke up with me, is now a jealous asshole because I have moved on and I'm over the fact that him and I just didn't work? Did he seriously expect me to cry about it? I honestly don't think that crying over someone you were only dating for 4 months is worth it.

I moved on, why can't he? Seriously.

because guys suck and we get overmeotional if the girl isnt distraught. lol

[Chancetobe]

He wants to feel special. But I have a feeling I would cry, even if it's only 4 months. But he shouldn't expect it from you.

[JulieLynn]

because guys suck and we get overmeotional if the girl isnt distraught. lol

He accused me of sleeping with some guy i met at the club last weekend. He's known me for 10 years...He knows that I'm not that type of girl. Then we went on and on about other things and I hung up on him. I'm sick of boys. I need a man (which I think I have found, but we'll see).

I'm 23 years old....this is my time to have fun.

[agloriousruin]

because guys suck and we get overmeotional if the girl isnt distraught. lol

That is as true a story as I've heard.

But honestly, Julie, some guys are different. And each relationship is different. Just let him be, as long as he's not actually hurting you or himself, he'll be ok soon.

[JulieLynn]

we all know i'm a very emotional person, but at the very start of our "relationship" he said he didnt want it to be serious. So we weren't a serious couple....and now he's all jealous and shit.

he needs to grow the fuck up and act his age.

[JulieLynn]

That is as true a story as I've heard.

But honestly, Julie, some guys are different. And each relationship is different. Just let him be, as long as he's not actually hurting you or himself, he'll be ok soon.

see thats the thing, he's just being an ass....to be an ass. He says he's "Joking" and blah blah blah. He even called me today to say he was sorry for the stupid shit he said on the phone sunday night. Him and I have been best friends longer than we have been lovers.

He's going to be the one to mess that up even more, and then he'll hate himself for it and I dont want that.

[tubasam]

Why is it that at 23 year old male, who broke up with me, is now a jealous asshole because I have moved on and I'm over the fact that him and I just didn't work? Did he seriously expect me to cry about it? I honestly don't think that crying over someone you were only dating for 4 months is worth it.

I moved on, why can't he? Seriously.
He felt like you didn't love him. When he broke up with you, he wanted you to be upset so he could see that you care. But now he feels like you don't give a shit now and it's tearing him apart because he still likes/loves you.

been there done that.

[Shatter590]

we all know i'm a very emotional person, but at the very start of our "relationship" he said he didnt want it to be serious. So we weren't a serious couple....and now he's all jealous and shit.

he needs to grow the fuck up and act his age.

sounds like it is sorta bothering you. but its his problem, juju, not yours. you are 23, enjoy it!

[Fallinto_rhythm]

Even though i'm 16 i've dated guys from 15-22, and they're all pretty much the same, except for some. It's because he still likes you. In fact i bet he never stopped liking you. He probably thought something bigger and better then you came along, and then when that ended he saw you moved on and got jealous that you weren't his anymore. Or he just didn't want to be in a relationship anymore and ended it and now he wants one again, and this is his way of showing it. I don't really know, because i don't know you or him personally, but this is what it seems like.

[Shatter590]

Even though i'm 16 i've dated guys from 15-22, and they're all pretty much the same, except for some. It's because he still likes you. In fact i bet he never stopped liking you. He probably thought something bigger and better then you came along, and then when that ended he saw you moved on and got jealous that you weren't his anymore. Or he just didn't want to be in a relationship anymore and ended it and now he wants one again, and this is his way of showing it. I don't really know, because i don't know you or him personally, but this is what it seems like.

i agree. thats what it sounds like

[Fallinto_rhythm]

i just read that you were best friends before lovers. first of all usually going out with someone that you were best friends with before ends bad. i don't think i could ever do that, because eventually everyone breaks up, and then it will be akward. So he probably feels uncomfortable just being friends, and doesn't want to tell you, so he wants you back so it wont be as weird for him. but then again i could be very wrong.

[JulieLynn]

This guy and I have been best friends since i was 14. We got together in January. Right from the start he told me he didn't want to put a label on us and that he didn't want a serious relationship. I know he loves me, he always has always will. But the fact that he's being a jerk about all of it now, when he's the one who said that we just weren't working out as a couple, pisses me off. I love him...but as a friend like i have for the past 10 years. I see him talking to other girls and stuff but i honestly don't have a problem with it, because I'll be happy when he does find someone he wants to be with for the rest of his life. I think its just him being way over protective of me like he always has been.

[Shatter590]

This guy and I have been best friends since i was 14. We got together in January. Right from the start he told me he didn't want to put a label on us and that he didn't want a serious relationship. I know he loves me, he always has always will. But the fact that he's being a jerk about all of it now, when he's the one who said that we just weren't working out as a couple, pisses me off. I love him...but as a friend like i have for the past 10 years. I see him talking to other girls and stuff but i honestly don't have a problem with it, because I'll be happy when he does find someone he wants to be with for the rest of his life. I think its just him being way over protective of me like he always has been.

guys can be just as bad emotionally as girls. perhaps he was hoping for you to stay faithful to him at least in part so he could come back to your later. i know that i think along those lines with exes, and it bothered me a lot when they found someone new, or even contemplated it, because i was so alone and blah blah blah.

but i also went through the awkward post-date period. and the friendship survived in 2 of those. so if its meant to be it will be.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

This guy and I have been best friends since i was 14. We got together in January. Right from the start he told me he didn't want to put a label on us and that he didn't want a serious relationship. I know he loves me, he always has always will. But the fact that he's being a jerk about all of it now, when he's the one who said that we just weren't working out as a couple, pisses me off. I love him...but as a friend like i have for the past 10 years. I see him talking to other girls and stuff but i honestly don't have a problem with it, because I'll be happy when he does find someone he wants to be with for the rest of his life. I think its just him being way over protective of me like he always has been.


sounds like he wanted the old fashioned term ''friends with benefits''



thats how a lot of guys are towards their really good girl friends. they don't want to see a guy rubbing you the wrong way.

[Shatter590]

sounds like he wanted the old fashioned term ''friends with benefits''



thats how a lot of guys are towards their really good girl friends. they don't want to see a guy rubbing you the wrong way.

i had one start that way and then progressed. then she got weird cuz she thought i was cheating on her...

[JulieLynn]

Well, he's nuts if he thinks i'm going to sit at home, listening to CIWWAF in the corning crying emo tears. Sorry, but I have to have a life and get over the small stuff.

and the fact that he is 24 and couldn't break up with me in person (he broke up with me on AIM) doesn't really give me the impression that he cared that much.

I still want him in my life, but not as a lover. It was fun while it lasted and i don't regret any of it...I just want my old friend back.

[Shatter590]

Well, he's nuts if he thinks i'm going to sit at home, listening to CIWWAF in the corning crying emo tears. Sorry, but I have to have a life and get over the small stuff.

and the fact that he is 24 and couldn't break up with me in person (he broke up with me on AIM) doesn't really give me the impression that he cared that much.

I still want him in my life, but not as a lover. It was fun while it lasted and i don't regret any of it...I just want my old friend back.

then you knwo what you want, he'll either come around or he wont, but you wont have any regrets, nor are you in any way at fault if his insecurities befall your friendship.

[deapcutz]

Tell his ass to kick rocks and get over it- Your not his any more

[Shatter590]

you had a relationship start out as friends with benefits?

yeah, it began and making out and all the little romantic nothings because she was afraid of a relationship, then after a month or two it became a full out relationship. but because she couldnt accept my ideal of abstinence, she began to think i was sleeping around and that drove her away.

[JulieLynn]

He's a good lookin dude, he's in the national guard and has a great personality. He acts like he won't be able to find another woman. Pssh..lies...he's got game and girls are alllways checking him out and hitting on him. I think he's just regreting letting go of me so quickly.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

yeah, it began and making out and all the little romantic nothings because she was afraid of a relationship, then after a month or two it became a full out relationship. but because she couldnt accept my ideal of abstinence, she began to think i was sleeping around and that drove her away.



hm. if i were her i would have respected your beliefs of practicing abstinence. and if she knew that you were why would she just assume you were getting your peice wet by everyone. she probably was just upset that you didn't want to have a sexual relationship with her, and that gave her a reason.

[Shatter590]

He's a good lookin dude, he's in the national guard and has a great personality. He acts like he won't be able to find another woman. Pssh..lies...he's got game and girls are alllways checking him out and hitting on him. I think he's just regreting letting go of me so quickly.

well if i lost you i know id be really sad and messed up ;p. youre quite a catch

[Shatter590]

hm. if i were her i would have respected your beliefs of practicing abstinence. and if she knew that you were why would she just assume you were getting your peice wet by everyone. she probably was just upset that you didn't want to have a sexual relationship with her, and that gave her a reason.

oh that most definitely was the reason. but she knew going in that i was abstinent. not my problem that she was that insecure

[JulieLynn]

well if i lost you i know id be really sad and messed up ;p. youre quite a catch

Pssh, oh stop that. Seriously, I'm nothing special.

[Shatter590]

Pssh, oh stop that. Seriously, I'm nothing special.

eye of the beholder Juju. I know that if i lived closer, Id jump through hoops to land you on my arm lol

[Fallinto_rhythm]

oh that most definitely was the reason. but she knew going in that i was abstinent. not my problem that she was that insecure



she probably thought that she could change your mind about being abstinent and then when she couldn't she felt like you weren't attracted to her in that way. this happened with me and my ex, and yeah we broke up too.

[JulieLynn]

eye of the beholder Juju. I know that if i lived closer, Id jump through hoops to land you on my arm lol

trust me, you wouldn't want to date me. I'm not stable enough. I'd end up breaking hearts.

[Shatter590]

she probably thought that she could change your mind about being abstinent and then when she couldn't she felt like you weren't attracted to her in that way. this happened with me and my ex, and yeah we broke up too.

funny thing is this girl once cried on my arm that she didnt want to end up pregnant at 19 like her sister had been, and was relieved that i wasnt gonna pressure her for sex.

[Shatter590]

trust me, you wouldn't want to date me. I'm not stable enough. I'd end up breaking hearts.

again juju, eye of the beholder. i wouldnt mind giving it a shot w/ you.

[Iamhome]

It has probably been said: Jealousy.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

funny thing is this girl once cried on my arm that she didnt want to end up pregnant at 19 like her sister had been, and was relieved that i wasnt gonna pressure her for sex.



people change. i guess she felt like she didn't want to have sex at that point in her life, but wanted it later on. she was probably happy you weren't pressuring her cause she didn't want to get knocked up, but then when she was ready you weren't. people are weird they think sex is just a push and a moan. i guess class just flew out the window.

[JulieLynn]

It has probably been said: Jealousy.

Honestly, I'm nothing to be jealous over. I'm not that great...so i honestly don't know what his deal is.

[Shatter590]

people change. i guess she felt like she didn't want to have sex at that point in her life, but wanted it later on. she was probably happy you weren't pressuring her cause she didn't want to get knocked up, but then when she was ready you weren't. people are weird they think sex is just a push and a moan. i guess class just flew out the window.

yeah. to me, sex is a commitment of sorts, and I wont do it unless i feel connected to the girl.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

yeah. to me, sex is a commitment of sorts, and I wont do it unless i feel connected to the girl.


thats exactly how i feel. and considering i'm 16 and a virgin i don't think having sex at this point in life is really necessary, unless maybe i'm going out with the person for a long time and i love them then thats a whole different story. but i have no idea how people have casual sex with someone. i could never.

[Shatter590]

thats exactly how i feel. and considering i'm 16 and a virgin i don't think having sex at this point in life is really necessary, unless maybe i'm going out with the person for a long time and i love them then thats a whole different story. but i have no idea how people have casual sex with someone. i could never.

well, i was a virgin until last october, and to be honest, i regret losing it...

[JulieLynn]

I was 16 when i lost mine. I regret it every day of my life. So do me a favor, wait!

[Fallinto_rhythm]

I was 16 when i lost mine. I regret it every day of my life. So do me a favor, wait!



ohhh i'm going to wait. i'm the only virgin left out of all of my good friends so i kinda feel like not left out, but not as experienced as them so i want to just get it over and done with but i'm not going to.

[Shatter590]

ohhh i'm going to wait. i'm the only virgin left out of all of my good friends so i kinda feel like not left out, but not as experienced as them so i want to just get it over and done with but i'm not going to.

dont. trust us, its not worth it.

[JulieLynn]

dont. trust us, its not worth it.

no, its not worth it.

[Shatter590]

no, its not worth it.

lol

we're so horrible Juju. so cynical about sex/love and the like ;p

[JulieLynn]

love is a lie, and sex is just something to cover up the lie with.

[Shatter590]

love is a lie, and sex is just something to cover up the lie with.

lol. awwww. i still like to believe in a thing called love. the folly keeps me going.

[JulieLynn]

for now i'll settle with puppy love and crushes!

[Shatter590]

for now i'll settle with puppy love and crushes!

god i hate those...they suck so much worse.

[JulieLynn]

I think I'm at the stage where I'm ok with just meeting random guys at the bar/club where ever. And if we make out and I never hear from him again, at least i can say i had a good time!

[Shatter590]

I think I'm at the stage where I'm ok with just meeting random guys at the bar/club where ever. And if we make out and I never hear from him again, at least i can say i had a good time!

i will never be at that point. i just cant, it goes against everything i am as a person.

which is prolly why ill always be alone.

[JulieLynn]

see that's just it, I never used to think like this, but i think after being with someone for 4 years...I have this new found freedom and a totally different outlook on life.

[Shatter590]

see that's just it, I never used to think like this, but i think after being with someone for 4 years...I have this new found freedom and a totally different outlook on life.

yeah, i spose thatd be the case. but i just cant. im too insecure.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

yeah, i spose thatd be the case. but i just cant. im too insecure.


haha, aww i'm the same way and i'm extremely shy also.

[Shatter590]

haha, aww i'm the same way and i'm extremely shy also.

but at your age it aint so bad.

at mine, its just pathetic

[Fallinto_rhythm]

but at your age it aint so bad.

at mine, its just pathetic



ohhhh no don't say that. you gotta put yourself out there. stop being shy. girls like it when guys approach them and not when they have to approac the guy. or maybe it's just me i like to keep it old fashion.

[Shatter590]

ohhhh no don't say that. you gotta put yourself out there. stop being shy. girls like it when guys approach them and not when they have to approac the guy. or maybe it's just me i like to keep it old fashion.

id rather be kicked in the nuts than approach a girl. im so scared of even talking to them, i always rationalize my way out of even breaking the ice.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

id rather be kicked in the nuts than approach a girl. im so scared of even talking to them, i always rationalize my way out of even breaking the ice.



awww. what, why? you really shouldn't be. what do you do for a living? if it's something interesting talk about that i love it guys have a good job and goals in life.

[Shatter590]

I wouldn't approach a girl unless i was drunk, or at least a little drunk. But when i have done it is really effective.

Shame i'm too shy to try it sober.

i wont even do it drunk lol.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

I wouldn't approach a girl unless i was drunk, or at least a little drunk. But when i have done it is really effective.

Shame i'm too shy to try it sober.




why not? you're a cute kid. and if i were you i wouldn't approach them drunk unless they were drunk as well. you'll look a little stupid.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

when i get drunk i cry over stupid things like breaking the karoke machine and pretzels.....then i take off all my clothes. thats why i don't get drunk anymore, haha.

[JulieLynn]

Alcohol = The Solution to All of Lifes Problems.

exactly! I wouldn't go up to a guy other wise...I need at least a few drinks in me to get rid of my shyness.

[Shatter590]

awww. what, why? you really shouldn't be. what do you do for a living? if it's something interesting talk about that i love it guys have a good job and goals in life.

well, i do have a very interesting job. and i most certainly have goals. and when i get into a convo with a girl its not a problem. its getting into the convo thats a problem for me. Im terrified of simply breaking the ice. and the worst part is, I have no idea why i have such negative confidence or self image, i just do.

[Shatter590]

Too shy and nervous really. I know that if i tried it would most likely get me somewhere i just can't bring myself to.

and yeah I dont just approach people on the street while i'm flat out drunk haha, it's in a club when we have both had a few drinks.

Although my preferred method of hooking up is to wait for a girl to come to me. It works well enough so far.

i dont have a preferred method, but its so weird that even when drunk, unless i know the person, i just cant talk to them.

[JulieLynn]

when i get drunk i cry over stupid things like breaking the karoke machine and pretzels.....then i take off all my clothes. thats why i don't get drunk anymore, haha.

i'm the total opposite.

I love everyone! I'm the life of the party and i do things like this...

15687

[Shatter590]

i'm the total opposite.

I love everyone! I'm the life of the party and i do things like this...

15687

lol, yoou just love that pic, dontcha

[JulieLynn]

If alcohol were banned i can guarentee the birth rate would plummit dramatically.
hahaha, I totally agree

[JulieLynn]

lol, yoou just love that pic, dontcha
its my favorite drunk picture of me!

[Shatter590]

its my favorite drunk picture of me!

well, it shows the perfectly sexy julie

[cris545]

shyness... god.

I'm about to believe guys make me socially anxious, I was with two girls and five guys I didn't know the other night, and I couldn't stop feeling uncomfortable somehow.

[Shatter590]

I'm usually a quiet person but when i'm drunk i get really loud.

Which is good for hooking up as it draws attention (hopefully not negative) to you.

god, i get so loud, i scare people lol

[JulieLynn]

well, it shows the perfectly sexy julie

sexy? pssh, if i knew that cut off board shorts, a fob tshirt and a hoodie made me look sexy, i would have dressed like that years ago..LOL.

fyi, thats the hoodie i bought when you were in boston!

[Shatter590]

sexy? pssh, if i knew that cut off board shorts, a fob tshirt and a hoodie made me look sexy, i would have dressed like that years ago..LOL.

fyi, thats the hoodie i bought when you were in boston!

looks good on you

Juju, youre a sexy girl lol. you said yourself youre confident in your image, which is all one needs to be sexy.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

I'm usually a quiet person but when i'm drunk i get really loud.

Which is good for hooking up as it draws attention (hopefully not negative) to you.



HAHAHAHHA i'm the same exact way. i'm so quiet and really shy and then 4 or 5 shots later it's like a whole new nikki. i get really loud except i don't go to clubs and get drunk or i'd be spending the night in juvi, and no i do not want that to happen.

[JulieLynn]

looks good on you

Juju, youre a sexy girl lol. you said yourself youre confident in your image, which is all one needs to be sexy.

you speak the truth my friend!

Ok i'm out.gatta go home and get ready for my date tonight!!!!!!

i love you all and thanks for posting in my thread!

[Shatter590]

HAHAHAHHA i'm the same exact way. i'm so quiet and really shy and then 4 or 5 shots later it's like a whole new nikki. i get really loud except i don't go to clubs and get drunk or i'd be spending the night in juvi, and no i do not want that to happen.

thats a great way to meet people- the prison system lol

[Fallinto_rhythm]

well, i do have a very interesting job. and i most certainly have goals. and when i get into a convo with a girl its not a problem. its getting into the convo thats a problem for me. Im terrified of simply breaking the ice. and the worst part is, I have no idea why i have such negative confidence or self image, i just do.



what do you do? and a good ice breaker would be first introducing yourself and then saying something funny and that will lead to another subject. i'm good at breaking ice and talking to people i just get nervous when it leads to other things then i tense up.

[cris545]

I dont understand America you can own a gun before you can get a drink...

Driking is a universal institution in Britain and most people start at 14.
Same where I live. It's legal at 18 but it's easy to get a drink way before then.

Drinking lost its appeal for me, I have a good time every once in a while, but I don't act the same when I'm sober, so I feel like I'm just tricking people to think I'm extremely outgoing.

[Shatter590]

what do you do? and a good ice breaker would be first introducing yourself and then saying something funny and that will lead to another subject. i'm good at breaking ice and talking to people i just get nervous when it leads to other things then i tense up.

i sign bands, which is a cool job but most people dont care.

nikki, i just suck at breaking ice. one cant break it if one never tries because one is too damn scared to even walk over to the girl.

[Shatter590]

I dont understand America you can own a gun before you can get a drink...

Driking is a universal institution in Britain and most people start at 14.

its because america blames its problems on youth drinking. passing the buck as usual.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

i sign bands, which is a cool job but most people dont care.

nikki, i just suck at breaking ice. one cant break it if one never tries because one is too damn scared to even walk over to the girl.



nahh that is a really cool job. most people would kill to do something like that. and trust meeee next time you're out with a group of friends some where or even alone and if you're on a line or whatever just talk to the girl about anything. one time i was wearing a shirt that said ''guess'' on it and this random guy who was like 26 goes to me ''36C'' first i was beside myself, but then i thought it was funny, and that was a good ice breaker.

[Shatter590]

nahh that is a really cool job. most people would kill to do something like that. and trust meeee next time you're out with a group of friends some where or even alone and if you're on a line or whatever just talk to the girl about anything. one time i was wearing a shirt that said ''guess'' on it and this random guy who was like 26 goes to me ''36C'' first i was beside myself, but then i thought it was funny, and that was a good ice breaker.

lol, it is a good one. id just be too scared to do it ;p

if i saw you in a bar and didnt know how old you were, id stare for a moment, admire how cute you were, and then go back to my friends w/o saying a word. its how i work these days

[Fallinto_rhythm]

lol, it is a good one. id just be too scared to do it ;p

if i saw you in a bar and didnt know how old you were, id stare for a moment, admire how cute you were, and then go back to my friends w/o saying a word. its how i work these days


haha awww, thanks. i love how you said if you didn't know how old i was. haha i don't look 16 people think i'm like 18 cause i'm tall so if someone says ''oh you're 18 right'' i don't object just smile and shake my head. and thats how i workkk.

[Shatter590]

haha awww, thanks. i love how you said if you didn't know how old i was. haha i don't look 16 people think i'm like 18 cause i'm tall so if someone says ''oh you're 18 right'' i don't object just smile and shake my head. and thats how i workkk.

lol. i dont look my age either, everyone thinks im somewhere between 20-22. but you're just evil ;p

[Fallinto_rhythm]

lol. i dont look my age either, everyone thinks im somewhere between 20-22. but you're just evil ;p



hahah evil? ohhh how so

[Iamhome]

Honestly, I'm nothing to be jealous over. I'm not that great...so i honestly don't know what his deal is.


I'm telling you what his deal is. You might not think you're much - but he does. Enough that when you have something else he has to try and show you that he cares to make you come back. It's twisted - but the bottom line is, you don't want what you have - you want what you can't have.

[JulieLynn]

I'm telling you what his deal is. You might not think you're much - but he does. Enough that when you have something else he has to try and show you that he cares to make you come back. It's twisted - but the bottom line is, you don't want what you have - you want what you can't have.


He gave me up so that's his problem.

[Iamhome]

He gave me up so that's his problem.

Yeah I know. That was directed toward him, not you. Sorry for the confusion. He just doesn't realize that he isn't being fair to you. Obviously he is a selfish person - and he needs to grow up.

[JulieLynn]

Yeah I know. That was directed toward him, not you. Sorry for the confusion. He just doesn't realize that he isn't being fair to you. Obviously he is a selfish person - and he needs to grow up.

Oh no i understood what you were saying. And you are right, he is being selfish. I'm sure he thought that I would just sit around and wait for him to make up his mind, but he was totally wrong.

[Iamhome]

Oh no i understood what you were saying. And you are right, he is being selfish. I'm sure he thought that I would just sit around and wait for him to make up his mind, but he was totally wrong.

Well good for you. He obviously isn't worth your time.

[JulieLynn]

Well good for you. He obviously isn't worth your time.

yeah, i kinda realized that this past 2 weeks.

[Iamhome]

yeah, i kinda realized that this past 2 weeks.

You go girl.

[JulieLynn]

You go girl.

hahahaha, I've been emailing my dad all morning...and he said the same thing you just did! LOL.

I am a whole new Julie!

[Iamhome]

hahahaha, I've been emailing my dad all morning...and he said the same thing you just did! LOL.

I am a whole new Julie!

Your dad said 'You go girl!'? What a pimp.

[JulieLynn]

Your dad said 'You go girl!'? What a pimp.

My dad is down with the times...he's only 45 years old. He's basically my best friend.

[Iamhome]

My dad is down with the times...he's only 45 years old. He's basically my best friend.

Tell him I said 'pop lock and drop it."

[JulieLynn]

Tell him I said 'pop lock and drop it."

hahahaha, and the best part is that he knows that song!

[Iamhome]

hahahaha, and the best part is that he knows that song!

Gangster.

[JulieLynn]

haha, i totally forgot about this..

He called me twice yesterday, once to say he was sorry for being an asshole on the phone sunday night and the second time because he thought he saw me drive by the trainstation, when i was really sitting in my cube at work. Then he goes on and on and was like "I'll call you this weekend and maybe we can grab some dinner and hang out".

why on earth would i want to hang out after you've been nothing but a jealous asshole for 4 weeks? Ugh...

[Shatter590]

haha, i totally forgot about this..

He called me twice yesterday, once to say he was sorry for being an asshole on the phone sunday night and the second time because he thought he saw me drive by the trainstation, when i was really sitting in my cube at work. Then he goes on and on and was like "I'll call you this weekend and maybe we can grab some dinner and hang out".

why on earth would i want to hang out after you've been nothing but a jealous asshole for 4 weeks? Ugh...

its called desperation, Juju.

how did your date go last night?

[JulieLynn]

its called desperation, Juju.

how did your date go last night?

The date was fantastic!

[Shatter590]

The date was fantastic!

lol.

details?

[JulieLynn]

lol.

details?

I posted this in the work thread this morning.


Not too many details really, but i'll give you a little something.

I met up with Eddie at Unos around 7. He called before to ask me if it was ok if his friend Josh and Josh's girlfriend could join us. Of course i said yes because Josh is also a friend of mine i grew up with in my old town. (Eddie is an old friend of mine i grew up with in my old town where i went to school 1st grade-7th grade....I ran into him on Monday for the first time in 10 years...)

The four of us had dinner, Eddie and I totally flirted the whole time. After we paid the four of us went outside. Kim(josh's girlfriend) and I sat on the bench and talked girl stuff while Eddie and Josh had their own little conversation. I told kim that i was totally into Eddie and she told me she could tell he was diggin me too. So around 9:30 we all decided to go our seperate ways...and Eddie walks me to my car, pulls me in for a huge hug (which i was hoping he'd never let go because he gives the best hugs). Me being me, I leave a kiss on his cheek and he smiles and says, "I had a great time. I'll give you a call on friday and see what you're up to." we hug again and that was it.

I sat in my car for a good 5 minutes before i left the parking lot of Unos having a "fangirl" moment.

[Shatter590]

I posted this in the work thread this morning.


Not too many details really, but i'll give you a little something.

I met up with Eddie at Unos around 7. He called before to ask me if it was ok if his friend Josh and Josh's girlfriend could join us. Of course i said yes because Josh is also a friend of mine i grew up with in my old town. (Eddie is an old friend of mine i grew up with in my old town where i went to school 1st grade-7th grade....I ran into him on Monday for the first time in 10 years...)

The four of us had dinner, Eddie and I totally flirted the whole time. After we paid the four of us went outside. Kim(josh's girlfriend) and I sat on the bench and talked girl stuff while Eddie and Josh had their own little conversation. I told kim that i was totally into Eddie and she told me she could tell he was diggin me too. So around 9:30 we all decided to go our seperate ways...and Eddie walks me to my car, pulls me in for a huge hug (which i was hoping he'd never let go because he gives the best hugs). Me being me, I leave a kiss on his cheek and he smiles and says, "I had a great time. I'll give you a call on friday and see what you're up to." we hug again and that was it.

I sat in my car for a good 5 minutes before i left the parking lot of Unos having a "fangirl" moment.

lol, good for you! hes one lucky SOB, ill tell you that much

[JulieLynn]

lol, good for you! hes one lucky SOB, ill tell you that much

I doubt it will go past friendship, but I love hanging out with him and he makes me feel good about myself. And his hugs...they are fantastic!

[Shatter590]

I doubt it will go past friendship, but I love hanging out with him and he makes me feel good about myself. And his hugs...they are fantastic!

well your hugs are fantastic too ;p

[JulieLynn]

well your hugs are fantastic too ;p

Hugs are the Fields trade mark

[Shatter590]

Hugs are the Fields trade mark

lol, this i believe. you can make even a half hug in the car awesome.

[JulieLynn]

lol, this i believe. you can make even a half hug in the car awesome.

Obviously I'm just an awesome person.

hahahahahaha!

[Shatter590]

Obviously I'm just an awesome person.

hahahahahaha!

lol. toot that horn all you want, Juju.

i never told you- the girl i went up to boston with (she was one among 3 actually) actually got jealous that we hung out for 2 days.

[JulieLynn]

lol. toot that horn all you want, Juju.

i never told you- the girl i went up to boston with (she was one among 3 actually) actually got jealous that we hung out for 2 days.

Oh geezz...

Hey, she could have totally hung out with us, but oh well.

[Shatter590]

Oh geezz...

Hey, she could have totally hung out with us, but oh well.

yeah, but she had to "work" at the artist alley for the whole time. and its not like we were dating either.

[JulieLynn]

yeah, but she had to "work" at the artist alley for the whole time. and its not like we were dating either.

I'd like to know how many people are jealous of me. this is getting ridic.

[Shatter590]

I'd like to know how many people are jealous of me. this is getting ridic.

lol. id think itd be flattering that another girl is jealous of you ;p

[JulieLynn]

lol. id think itd be flattering that another girl is jealous of you ;p

Honestly at this point its not...it would be if i didn't have Josh up my ass, being jealous of every guy I talk to. He seriously needs to just get the fuck over it.

[Shatter590]

Honestly at this point its not...it would be if i didn't have Josh up my ass, being jealous of every guy I talk to. He seriously needs to just get the fuck over it.

his problem, not yours Juju

[stacymichelle]

because guys suck and we get overmeotional if the girl isnt distraught. lol



hahaha

[stacymichelle]

He accused me of sleeping with some guy i met at the club last weekend. He's known me for 10 years...He knows that I'm not that type of girl. Then we went on and on about other things and I hung up on him. I'm sick of boys. I need a man (which I think I have found, but we'll see).

I'm 23 years old....this is my time to have fun.



he sounds like an idiot.

[stacymichelle]

This guy and I have been best friends since i was 14. We got together in January. Right from the start he told me he didn't want to put a label on us and that he didn't want a serious relationship. I know he loves me, he always has always will. But the fact that he's being a jerk about all of it now, when he's the one who said that we just weren't working out as a couple, pisses me off. I love him...but as a friend like i have for the past 10 years. I see him talking to other girls and stuff but i honestly don't have a problem with it, because I'll be happy when he does find someone he wants to be with for the rest of his life. I think its just him being way over protective of me like he always has been.


sounds like it.
boys are ridiculous.

[JulieLynn]

he sounds like an idiot.

sounds like it.
boys are ridiculous.

more like a pain in the ass as of late. and yes, boys are ridiculous. I'm pretty much fed up with the male population.

[Shatter590]

*hugs*

ive been wondering where you went...

[JulieLynn]

*hugs*

ive been wondering where you went...

I've been on vacation since Thursday. sorry i didn't call you back.

[myantiyou]

He felt like you didn't love him. When he broke up with you, he wanted you to be upset so he could see that you care. But now he feels like you don't give a shit now and it's tearing him apart because he still likes/loves you.

been there done that.

Its the truth.

If the breakup didnt really affect you in any way, then that basically means the whole relationship was phony. To the guy, that is. Some guys are more emotional than others, some guys just dont give a shit about that "caring" and "romance" stuff. He was more emotional. He thinks you dont care.

I've felt that way before too.

Talk to him about it. Stay good friends.

[myantiyou]

But then again, I didnt read all of this thread.

So if things are fucked up already and over, then whatever. Shit happens.

[Shatter590]

I've been on vacation since Thursday. sorry i didn't call you back.

i forgot why in was even calling you lol. it had something to do with a cd i wanted to buy at virgin.

good vacation?

[JulieLynn]

Its the truth.

If the breakup didnt really affect you in any way, then that basically means the whole relationship was phony. To the guy, that is. Some guys are more emotional than others, some guys just dont give a shit about that "caring" and "romance" stuff. He was more emotional. He thinks you dont care.

I've felt that way before too.

Talk to him about it. Stay good friends.
we were only "dating" for like 3 months. The thing is, is that i was upset he decided to end it, but from the very start he told me he didnt want anything serious. so to make it seem like i was ok with it, i stood strong and didnt let it get to me. 2 weeks later, he's being a total jerk to me and acting like a jealous asshole. Totally uncalled for.
i forgot why in was even calling you lol. it had something to do with a cd i wanted to buy at virgin.

good vacation?
not really a vacation.....i took thrusday and friday off for the show, which was amazing!!!!

[Shatter590]

we were only "dating" for like 3 months. The thing is, is that i was upset he decided to end it, but from the very start he told me he didnt want anything serious. so to make it seem like i was ok with it, i stood strong and didnt let it get to me. 2 weeks later, he's being a total jerk to me and acting like a jealous asshole. Totally uncalled for.

not really a vacation.....i took thrusday and friday off for the show, which was amazing!!!!

lol, i bet

come down to NY! you can stay with me ;p

[JulieLynn]

lol, i bet

come down to NY! you can stay with me ;p

I wish I had the time off to do so. I need a break from MA.

[Shatter590]

I wish I had the time off to do so. I need a break from MA.

lol. just let me know when. im always around.

[myantiyou]

we were only "dating" for like 3 months. The thing is, is that i was upset he decided to end it, but from the very start he told me he didnt want anything serious. so to make it seem like i was ok with it, i stood strong and didnt let it get to me. 2 weeks later, he's being a total jerk to me and acting like a jealous asshole. Totally uncalled for.

Oh, he was the one who cut it off?

lol okay thats a whole different story then.

[JulieLynn]

Oh, he was the one who cut it off?

lol okay thats a whole different story then.

yeah..LOL.

[myantiyou]

yeah..LOL.

ahahha thats pretty dumb.