View Full Version : who else here thinks dating is a crock of shit...
mirtizzle
09/28/03, 10:18 PM
do you ever feel like you just can't get a break?
for instance.. i've always been the girl that guys loved... as one of the guys. and due to my lack of care and my easy going attitude.. a guy i dated for almost a year, who had it so easy, dumped me because he couldn't deal with a long distance relationship, even though i lived 45 minutes away.. and then started dating the most obnoxious, bossiest girl who lived an hour and 15 minutes away.
oh, and two of my best friends are now dating the last two guys i liked. go figure.
and so i took this opportunity to try and meet new guys, guys who shared my same interests and such.. and then i end up talking to this guitar player.... who later decides to ask me tonight if i had any hot friends for him. what is that? seriously? what is that?
so i've decided, i'm just going to not ever date again.
felt like ranting. share on.
justcallmeliz
09/28/03, 10:21 PM
yep i know what you mean and that sux a whole bunch of baboon ass...i hate dating too its cool keep ranting if you want because i know that it really doesnt bother me.
ManOverboard689
09/29/03, 06:11 PM
yea i totally agree, i mean i don't know if it's the same for you but i've always been the guy that the girls only wanna be friends with, and that seriously pisses me off. it's like i'm a wingman, dating is completely overrated, we have the rest of our lives to figure out who we wanna be with.
LessThanJade
09/29/03, 07:01 PM
yeah i can relate with you alot..i am the girl that guys are always friends. i basically think relationships are a waste of time.
unsung_zero02
09/30/03, 04:42 AM
Originally posted by LessThanJade
yeah i can relate with you alot..i am the girl that guys are always friends. i basically think relationships are a waste of time.
yes. we should all just have sex with random people every night!!
punklet2101
09/30/03, 06:16 AM
mirtizzle, i think we're fucking long lost twins or something
aframedregret
09/30/03, 09:50 PM
I agree, Dating sucks, All the girls who go to my college are shallow, self-centered girls who all look like they just came from a Rave in the city. I just cant stand it anymore. Cant I met a normal girl who A) Likes/can tolerate the same music as me B) Is intelligent enough to have an intresting conversation C) At times knows when to be lazy and just chill out D) Not care what everyone thinks about her?
I really cant find this, I have a theory that all these girls are on a far distant planet, so if anyone can send me the directions to this place that would be great, thanks alot.
mirtizzle
09/30/03, 09:57 PM
Originally posted by unsung_zero02
yes. we should all just have sex with random people every night!!
sounds like a damn good plan.
punklet2101
10/01/03, 01:09 AM
I really cant find this, I have a theory that all these girls are on a far distant planet, so if anyone can send me the directions to this place that would be great, thanks alot.
sydney :D
decisionpending
10/01/03, 03:44 AM
nah, sydney sucks too... everywhere sucks... there is no place where the people that people want want them too... it doesn't work that way... stupid girls
punklet2101
10/01/03, 07:02 AM
Originally posted by decisionpending
nah, sydney sucks too... everywhere sucks... there is no place where the people that people want want them too... it doesn't work that way... stupid girls
okay, i'll rephrase it ;)
MY HOUSE!! :D lol
mikeduin620
10/02/03, 02:27 AM
Originally posted by aframedregret
I agree, Dating sucks, All the girls who go to my college are shallow, self-centered girls who all look like they just came from a Rave in the city. I just cant stand it anymore. Cant I met a normal girl who A) Likes/can tolerate the same music as me B) Is intelligent enough to have an intresting conversation C) At times knows when to be lazy and just chill out D) Not care what everyone thinks about her?
I really cant find this, I have a theory that all these girls are on a far distant planet, so if anyone can send me the directions to this place that would be great, thanks alot. ]
So what do you do if you're me and have found a girl that fits all these qualities, and that who you love dearly and also loves you, a girl you know you're meant to be with....and is now 1000 miles away? how fucked up is that? life is so fucked up. i dont know what to do. :(
punklet2101
10/03/03, 10:40 PM
Originally posted by mikeduin620
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So what do you do if you're me and have found a girl that fits all these qualities, and that who you love dearly and also loves you, a girl you know you're meant to be with....and is now 1000 miles away? how fucked up is that? life is so fucked up. i dont know what to do. :(
:(
mikeduin620
10/04/03, 03:07 AM
thanks for the sympathy i guess....its just a real shitty situation that has no foreseeable solution.
mikeduin620
10/04/03, 03:13 AM
Also, aframedregret.... i really like your user name. Did you think of that yourself, or is it from a song or something? Props to you....
SnowintheSummer
10/04/03, 09:08 AM
yea dating sucks, theres absolutely no normal guys who go to my school.. or let me rephrase that. 5. 2 who think of me as the nice one with good taste in music, who they can tell anything and get girl advice from, one who my best friend is in love with, and two who have girlfriends. then i find the perfect guy, i thought he asked me out but it turns out he didnt and i ahvent seen him in like 3 monthes cuz we live so far away and have major timing problems and ugh.
that sucks about the girl 1000 miles away, i feel your pain although not as sharply
BleedingMe
10/05/03, 07:02 PM
I hate dating! I get bored with some guys too easily. I find that many guys just care too much about themselves or they get too attached. You can never find just a really cool, funny, sensitive, (a bunch of different things) type of guy.
mikeduin620
10/05/03, 09:01 PM
...whats wrong with becoming too attached if you love someone? isnt that the point?
mirtizzle
10/06/03, 12:27 PM
Originally posted by mikeduin620
...whats wrong with becoming too attached if you love someone? isnt that the point?
yeah but if the other person doesn't feel the same way, then it's not worth it. you just get hurt.
mikeduin620
10/07/03, 03:07 AM
Originally posted by mirtizzle
yeah but if the other person doesn't feel the same way, then it's not worth it. you just get hurt.
thats a very good point...i wasnt thinking about that.
ManOverboard689
10/08/03, 03:39 PM
i just don't think it's worth it, u fall in love and just end up crushed...
PuddinRckr
10/10/03, 07:07 PM
Originally posted by mirtizzle
\for instance.. i've always been the girl that guys loved... as one of the guys. Been there so many times. I hate it when guys like you but, just not LIKE you. Situation: I have this friend who is the biggest flirt but she's she's not all that pretty and has no real personality, well she can get any guy she wants because she is willing to throw herself at them. I mean, she does the whole toss her hair back, giggles, hug whoever thing... not me at all. I am more the don't touch me without my permission type. I mean, I don't mind giving hugs but when a guy touches your butt, that's a no no. Well anyway, I was asking this one guy that I use to like, would he ever go out with me and he said no, we're just friends. And I asked him if he thought I was hot and he said, yea you're really pretty. Well, later on, I ask him would he ever go out with my friend and he said yes, and I ask him if she was pretty, and he was like O yea she's hot. Hm... this makes me wonder if I should get breast implants and wear tight clothes to get guys to notice me- like she does... minus the breast implants. My point is, it's so easy for girls who have no real personality to get guys but it's hard for a girl who actually has a mind to get one. Is the universe screwed up or is it just me? Wait, don't answer that.
mikeduin620
10/10/03, 07:29 PM
Originally posted by PuddinRckr
Been there so many times. I hate it when guys like you but, just not LIKE you. Situation: I have this friend who is the biggest flirt but she's she's not all that pretty and has no real personality, well she can get any guy she wants because she is willing to throw herself at them. I mean, she does the whole toss her hair back, giggles, hug whoever thing... not me at all. I am more the don't touch me without my permission type. I mean, I don't mind giving hugs but when a guy touches your butt, that's a no no. Well anyway, I was asking this one guy that I use to like, would he ever go out with me and he said no, we're just friends. And I asked him if he thought I was hot and he said, yea you're really pretty. Well, later on, I ask him would he ever go out with my friend and he said yes, and I ask him if she was pretty, and he was like O yea she's hot. Hm... this makes me wonder if I should get breast implants and wear tight clothes to get guys to notice me- like she does... minus the breast implants. My point is, it's so easy for girls who have no real personality to get guys but it's hard for a girl who actually has a mind to get one. Is the universe screwed up or is it just me? Wait, don't answer that.
Look...if you have as good a personality as you imply you do and are really pretty...then guys will fall in love with you and not your friend. That will make up for all the short term frustration.
PuddinRckr
10/10/03, 07:40 PM
Originally posted by mikeduin620
Look...if you have as good a personality as you imply you do and are really pretty...then guys will fall in love with you and not your friend. That will make up for all the short term frustration. Yea, well now I made myself to seem all that and a box of burritos. I mean, I guess I'm pretty, I have the hispanic look... haha. No but it's like, I think I could get dates, it's just that I'm afraid of rejection.
Cheerupemogirl
10/11/03, 12:16 PM
yes, you are so right. dating sucks. love sucks. it seems like the guys i like only like me as friends too. it sucks. and yeah that's why i gave up.
Emptyforaseason
10/12/03, 08:54 AM
I'm not a fan of the friend thing either.
fuglybassist
10/13/03, 12:25 AM
or as kris roe would say
"you fall in love, you break your heart. you fall in love again, it's never ending."
kornintee
10/14/03, 06:22 PM
Originally posted by unsung_zero02
yes. we should all just have sex with random people every night!!
if there wasnt any stds
honesty, that is my exact life story. i know the feelin girl. i've found just act like they do, like a boy i mean. so much easier.
Originally posted by mirtizzle
do you ever feel like you just can't get a break?
for instance.. i've always been the girl that guys loved... as one of the guys. and due to my lack of care and my easy going attitude.. a guy i dated for almost a year, who had it so easy, dumped me because he couldn't deal with a long distance relationship, even though i lived 45 minutes away.. and then started dating the most obnoxious, bossiest girl who lived an hour and 15 minutes away.
oh, and two of my best friends are now dating the last two guys i liked. go figure.
and so i took this opportunity to try and meet new guys, guys who shared my same interests and such.. and then i end up talking to this guitar player.... who later decides to ask me tonight if i had any hot friends for him. what is that? seriously? what is that?
so i've decided, i'm just going to not ever date again.
felt like ranting. share on.
honesty, that is my exact life story. i know the feelin girl. i've found just act like they do, like a boy i mean. so much easier.
Originally posted by mirtizzle
do you ever feel like you just can't get a break?
for instance.. i've always been the girl that guys loved... as one of the guys. and due to my lack of care and my easy going attitude.. a guy i dated for almost a year, who had it so easy, dumped me because he couldn't deal with a long distance relationship, even though i lived 45 minutes away.. and then started dating the most obnoxious, bossiest girl who lived an hour and 15 minutes away.
oh, and two of my best friends are now dating the last two guys i liked. go figure.
and so i took this opportunity to try and meet new guys, guys who shared my same interests and such.. and then i end up talking to this guitar player.... who later decides to ask me tonight if i had any hot friends for him. what is that? seriously? what is that?
so i've decided, i'm just going to not ever date again.
felt like ranting. share on.
atownplaya
10/19/03, 09:15 AM
i just moved from new york city to a town with 5000 people in it... i used to have a really easy time finding the right girl in nyc, but here the only thing girls look for is how much drugs a guy takes, it's absolutely absurd. i feel like i've looked at every single girl in this town and i can't take an interest in one... i'm going insaaaaaaaaaaaaane
wishingbutdying
11/01/03, 02:34 PM
i totally know what you mean. in my case, i get so lonely and i am literally having to force myself to call my ex from two years back and hanging out with her just for comfort and that loving feeling i haven't felt from any other girl in that period of time.
it's fucking sad, i know.
Poor Excuse
11/02/03, 09:10 PM
girls dont like boys girls like cars and money
(haha bet u didnt see that one comin)
Originally posted by Poor Excuse
[B]girls dont like boys girls like cars and money[B]
its so true, at least at this age we do. thats ok though, boys at this age just want sex, well i guess girls at this age just do too.... basically my point is we are too young to worry about this stuff. HAVE SOME FUN! :evil:
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