ur opinion

[*~Sexi-Mexi~*]

does age matter in a relationship?

[shotodrewku]

it all depends. on how much the age difference is, and how mature both people in the relationship are and how hard you two are willing to work to keep the relationship going

[unwritten]

yes

[*~Sexi-Mexi~*]

see i dont think it matters at all....if ppl like eachother then they should b together.....how does it matter.....?

[*~Sexi-Mexi~*]

it all depends. on how much the age difference is, and how mature both people in the relationship are and how hard you two are willing to work to keep the relationship going

see and i agree with this.....completely

[shotodrewku]

the thing is it its easy to think you like someone just if ur attracted them. u could THINK you like them when its pure infatuation. you have to make sure you know them as a person. not just a flavor of the week. and just liking someone is no cause to be with them. not everyone is compatible. cuz in relationships in the beginning its usually the same routine, things start slow, ur still kind of shy and stuff ur always worried about what the other person is thinking. its not until later on in the relationship u start to really get to know each other and stuff. thats why its important to get to know someone before getting into a relationship in the hopes of something serious. if your just looking for a fling it doesnt matter. but if u want it to get serious u gotta think, do we really have a lot in common? does he/she flirt with others even if theyre already in a relationship? if you want something serious, you gotta be sure you want it and are willing to work to keep it going

[*~Sexi-Mexi~*]

i totally agree i mean i have this girlfriend that is datin some older guy by 6 years and i thinks its fine she happens to b the most mature person i know....and sometimes it seems like her bf(the older guy) is the on that needs to mature idk its all confusing

[Smash Adams]

see i dont think it matters at all....if ppl like eachother then they should b together.....how does it matter.....?

let's say hypothetically I'm in love with a 7 year old or a puppy and she loves me back
are you honestly saying that's okay?

[unwritten]

see i dont think it matters at all....if ppl like eachother then they should b together.....how does it matter.....?

You are dating a 40 yr old, aren't you?

[shotodrewku]

You are dating a 40 yr old, aren't you?

lol...the actual age difference also depends on how old the two people are. if ur 20 and ur dating a 15, 16 year old, be prepared for some obvious hassles. but if ur 20 and dating a 24 year old, that doesnt pose as much of a problem (to me at least, keep in mind everything i write is my own personal opinion and not necessarily the norm of a situation). where you are in life is also a factor, cuz if ur in college and the other is in h.s. both people are in completely different stages of life. but then when the younger is in college and the other is about to graduate or graduating, the difference doesnt seem so bad

[imperfectstarx]

Age matters sometimes. If a 20 year old was in love with a 10 year old...thats okay to you?

I dont think so.

[shotodrewku]

Age matters sometimes. If a 20 year old was in love with a 10 year old...thats okay to you?

I dont think so.

well of course thats ok but that just leads back to what i said about how it also depends on how old the two individuals are. of course if a 20 year old liked a 10 year old theres something seriously wrong. but what about a 30 and a 40 year old? same difference, different age. things like this always have major factors that play into how okay the situation would be

[ForeverInADay]

No.

I fuck 8 year olds all the time. All. The. Time.

[wyverna]

21 year olds keep hitting on me and it's creepy. so yes, i think age does matter, at least from a social point of view.

[unwritten]

21 year olds keep hitting on me and it's creepy. so yes, i think age does matter, at least from a social point of view.

thatz cuz u r hawt Grace.

[wyverna]

thatz cuz u r hawt Grace.

omgz no wai

<3

[imperfectstarx]

well of course thats ok but that just leads back to what i said about how it also depends on how old the two individuals are. of course if a 20 year old liked a 10 year old theres something seriously wrong. but what about a 30 and a 40 year old? same difference, different age. things like this always have major factors that play into how okay the situation would be

There's something wrong with you if you think thats okay...even if the 20 year old had serious problems.

[fedhed7]

To answer the original question, no, it's not ok for a 22 year old to be going out with a 16 year old. I'm 18 and I wouldn't touch a 16 year old.

[atticus1492]

If there is grass on the field, I will play.

[atticus1492]

There's something wrong with you if you think thats okay...even if the 20 year old had serious problems.

Reading comprehension, ftw!

[identitycrisis2]

If there is grass on the field, I will play.

if not, then turn them over and play in the mud


too far?

[iwasahero]

I felt like a pedo today after I (16) hung out with 14 year old.

[xXaLLiOo]

the younger you are the more it matters
freshman in high school shouldnt be going out with 7th graders (thats only 2 years difference)
but a 40 year old with a 38 year old is obviously not a problem

and its not just about maturity although it is important to be at relatively equal maturity levels...its more about whats going on in your life...a 22 year old is not going to understand a 40 year old going through midlife crisis, and that same 40 year old isnt going to understand the fresh excitement of being able to legally drink...even smaller age differences, like a junior in highschool dating a freshman in college, thats easier to handle but the freshman in college is still experiencing so many things that the junior in high school probably just cant relate to.

[CrashingHearts]

if you like being raped then thats whats up

[Storm of Swords]

lol, jailbait!

[saysmydoctor]

I fuck all ages.

[White Noise]

It all depends on how mature the two people are.

[Siren Silently]

21 year olds keep hitting on me and it's creepy. so yes, i think age does matter, at least from a social point of view.

How about eHitting?

[myantiyou]

you drink ur so kewl

[Thug_Nasty]

21 year olds keep hitting on me and it's creepy. so yes, i think age does matter, at least from a social point of view.
...why?

[Dumpweed]

http://i11.tinypic.com/4yhwxas.jpg

[asmolitor]

wait, you're kissing a beer in your picture. all bets are off.

[amillionmiles]

yes, unless the younger of the two is extremely mature for their age.

[emerypearl]

sometimes

[xvszero]

i totally agree i mean i have this girlfriend that is datin some older guy by 6 years and i thinks its fine she happens to b the most mature person i know....and sometimes it seems like her bf(the older guy) is the on that needs to mature idk its all confusing

No, she is probably the most immature person you know, the problem is at your age girls tend to get all oh I'm so much better than the boys and girls around me and think when an older guy dates them, that somehow PROVES they are more mature because obviously he picked me over the girls his age so that must mean I'm somehow as mature as them!?!!? But the truly mature teenage girls see the whole picture and try to find a decent guy relatively their age, and if they can't, they just give things some time and don't worry about finding a guy right away.

When in most cases, an older guy gives the younger girl attention because she is stupid and naive and doesn't realize that he is lame and isn't getting play from girls his age and younger girls are EASIER. He might also have a fetish for young muff. Either way it has little to do with wanting to create a real, understanding and mature bond with her.

Believe me, if you were an older guy you would see this all WAY differently. Mature older guys are completely turned off by teenage girl drama and won't go anywhere near teenage girls, because you know... there are plenty of mature older women to date.

[Rock]

the younger you are the more it matters
freshman in high school shouldnt be going out with 7th graders (thats only 2 years difference)
but a 40 year old with a 38 year old is obviously not a problem

and its not just about maturity although it is important to be at relatively equal maturity levels...its more about whats going on in your life...a 22 year old is not going to understand a 40 year old going through midlife crisis, and that same 40 year old isnt going to understand the fresh excitement of being able to legally drink...even smaller age differences, like a junior in highschool dating a freshman in college, thats easier to handle but the freshman in college is still experiencing so many things that the junior in high school probably just cant relate to.
I'm glad you came in here and posted this so I don't have to. You grasp this concept incredibly well for someone who is 17.

[xvszero]

^^^ Yeah and part of this ties into why truly mature older men do NOT want to date high schoolers. People keep looking at it from the girl's point of view like "she is mature for her age" which makes her want to date older... think about what that means for the guy, it means he is IMMATURE for his age which makes him want to date children instead of adults.

Really, even the thought of dating a high school girl is like... god. I don't actually dislike high schoolers nearly as much as it seems but they are definitely in a totally different world from me and no matter how "mature" they think they are, they can't even compete with the average girl in her 20's, let alone the truly mature ones.

[takeiteasy_]

lolll sexi mexi

A girl in my grade (I'm a junior) has been going out with a guy that's a junior in college for about a year, maybe more. I do not like the whole situation, I think the guy is incredibly pathetic. I don't think people in high school should date people it college, just because there's a world of difference between them. I could never see myself dating a guy in college. But then again, this is just my opinion.

[xvszero]

See that is the problem though, when you have one of these high school girls who thinks they are so mature they don't think there is any difference. They think they are mentally and emotionally "above" their peers... therefore on the level of older women, and able to date older men.

If they stopped and thought about it, they would realize they're just being arrogant.

[meliisssaaaa]

yeah, definitely...

[shotodrewku]

lolll sexi mexi

A girl in my grade (I'm a junior) has been going out with a guy that's a junior in college for about a year, maybe more. I do not like the whole situation, I think the guy is incredibly pathetic. I don't think people in high school should date people it college, just because there's a world of difference between them. I could never see myself dating a guy in college. But then again, this is just my opinion.

you might say that now, but what if you fell head over heels for a guy in college? things like age and where you are in life dont matter if ur in love. how u act upon how u feel is what really counts

[xvszero]

Mature guys in college don't want to deal with high schoolers though. Really.

Actually mature people in general realize there are many, many potentials out there, which is precisely WHY they don't go for high school girls. In theory there might be a high school girl out there who would work out well with them... but there are also college girls who will, so why go for the illegal and questionable relationship?

[takeiteasy_]

you might say that now, but what if you fell head over heels for a guy in college? things like age and where you are in life dont matter if ur in love. how u act upon how u feel is what really counts

Well, I don't think that would ever happen, so my opinion stands as it is.

[shotodrewku]

Well, I don't think that would ever happen, so my opinion stands as it is.


and thats fine. im just saying what if. no one ever thinks theyre gonna fall head over heels for someone. thats why its called falling head over heels cuz it comes so unexpectedly

[scrocker2010]

If the age differnce is more than 3 yrs and you both are under 18 but 18 and older it really doesn't matter.

[alecksisx33]

personally, i think n e thing over 4 years is too much

[xerovision1]

see i dont think it matters at all....if ppl like eachother then they should b together.....how does it matter.....?

it matters a lot actually, because with age comes a big difference in maturity capabilities.

[xvszero]

and thats fine. im just saying what if. no one ever thinks theyre gonna fall head over heels for someone. thats why its called falling head over heels cuz it comes so unexpectedly

No, it is called falling head over heels because it denotes a position that is unnatural, in other words being the wrong way up. Which might be confusing because a head usually IS over heels, yet head over heels actually means upside-down, because our language is retarded sometimes.

Also when you are upside-down blood rushes to your head and makes you make terrible decisions. Just saying.

Mature adult men never fall "head over heels" for teenage girls. I suppose that is one of the steps towards maturity actually, realizing that a true interest in someone has to have a lot more depth than some head over heels crap... and that sort of depth is something teenage girls can't provide.

Yes, they can't. And the ones that think they are the most mature are usually the most immature.

[AP_Punk]

Somewhat.

[shotodrewku]

No, it is called falling head over heels because it denotes a position that is unnatural, in other words being the wrong way up. Which might be confusing because a head usually IS over heels, yet head over heels actually means upside-down, because our language is retarded sometimes.

Also when you are upside-down blood rushes to your head and makes you make terrible decisions. Just saying.

Mature adult men never fall "head over heels" for teenage girls. I suppose that is one of the steps towards maturity actually, realizing that a true interest in someone has to have a lot more depth than some head over heels crap... and that sort of depth is something teenage girls can't provide.

Yes, they can't. And the ones that think they are the most mature are usually the most immature.

touche. but what would you say if you started off dating like normally no head over heels. but over time u grew to love them and then u were head over heels for them?

[xvszero]

I wouldn't start off dating a high school girl. I don't even really talk to high school girls IRL, and barely talk to them online (and definitely no online flirting.) Hell, I was TEACHING junior high kids for awhile, and you know what? They're children. It's not like just a few years later I'd want to date any of these children I taught. Ew.

[Thug_Nasty]

if theres fluff on her muff shes old enough.

age doesnt matter when its anal though.

[theguilt engine]

Simple facts about my relationships: I'm 19...dating a girl that's 17...and it's amazing. I dated a girl that was the same age...it was terrorifying. All the girls I've dated that have been good relationships have been either a bit older or a bit younger than me.

[Smash Adams]

personally, i think n e thing over 4 years is too much

I just read that as you saying that you won't date anyone over 4

if so I agree with you

[anamericangod]

Even 12 year olds need some love.

Especially from behind.

[atticus1492]

Even 12 year olds need some love.

Especially from behind.

Zing!!

:highfive:

[Yes. And?]

Yeah, it does.

[alecksisx33]

I just read that as you saying that you won't date anyone over 4

if so I agree with you
haha wow, thats great...:)

[SPI]

Definitely does in the long run. My dad is 12 years older than my mom. Didn't matter so much back in the day but now he's an old man with no desire to do anything other than lay on the couch and my mom is still relatively youthful and energetic. It's kind of sad, actually. I'm sure you meant 'romantic' type relationships specifically, but my dad also has 40 years on me. That very significant age gap affects our parent-child relationship far deeper than the 12 he has on my mom, I think.

[PadraicPrincess]

ahh the age old question.

haha get it?

No but seriously. It definatly matters when you are my age. But then again the whole Demi-Ashton thing is pretty sick, so I'd give it four years either way when you hit 25.

[thetrueblood]

nope. my girlfriend is 12 and we are very much in love.

[xdylan125]

http://members.shaw.ca/sinizuh/pedobear.jpg

[DecayedBeauty]

My boyfriend is three years older then me.
i hate when he says he is more mature then me, when he is really just being an asshole,
but he is less sexually experienced then i am. :-)

[mattybobviously]

My boyfriend is three years older then me.
i hate when he says he is more mature then me, when he is really just being an asshole,
but he is less sexually experienced then i am. :-)


Well at least he's into whores.

[DCfreak]

whores that are still in highschool.... guess he couldnt find anyone his own age interested in him so he went for the youngen

[JimmeHendricks]

to an extent...

[Villanova1L]

To say age doesn't matter at all would be ridiculous. By being in a relationship with a large age gap you are entering a relationship that is harder than one with someone your own age would be. It certainly isn't impossible, but the larger the gap the harder things get.

With that being said, it doesn't matter to me if you're 20 and he's 40, but know that people are looking at him like he's fucking his daughter, and looking at you like a gold digger or someone with daddy issues.

[anamericangod]

My boyfriend is three years older then me.
i hate when he says he is more mature then me, when he is really just being an asshole,
but he is less sexually experienced then i am. :-)

two scoops of WHORE