Distance

[angie710]

Ok, so I am head over heels in love with someone I cant even touch... Someone who lives as far away as he probably can, and I cant fucking take it anymore.. I try to talk to him about how I feel about it, and he dosent seem to understand how much it bothers me, and he kinda puts it off very time I try to bring it up... He says he loves me too, and I believe him, but its just so fucking hard, and I dont know how long I can stay like this... I had to vent, so there it is...

PS... Here s question...Would you ever hang up on someone who was crying??

[YearsGoneBy]

hanging up on someone that's crying is wrong...

[angie710]

I agree :(

[RUFiOOOOOOO]

Yeah, thats horrible I would never hang up on anyone who was crying especially if I loved them like he says he loves you... I hope things get better!

[mikeduin620]

Angie....I feel your pain, I'm in the same boat...but with a girl of course. She lives a state away. What you should do is go to the thread I started a little earlier in this forum. . . .called "A little depressed, help?" People gave me some really good advice on how to get through it, it was cool. I hope things work out well for both of us.
good luck. PM me or respond if you got any concerns.

[Highway Donkey]

I know from experience that long distance relationships don't work. It just ends up torturing you until you can't take it anymore and go insane...

[jgirv17]

i have trouble hanging up on prank phone callers,so to hang up on someone who is crying?! thats just wrong in so many ways

to leave someone hanging like that when theyre reaching out for help is about the dickiest thing a person can do. what a dick, that dick sucking dick-head.

[justcallmeliz]

yeah alot of people dont seem to think that long distance relationships work but they can and they do you just have to make sure that there is a 100% coming from each person and not only that you just have to get used to the idea of not being able to see them all the time and stuff...and no i dont think that i would hang up on somebody that is crying unless it is a whining cry for no reason like my sister...she is a drama queen

[SonnyPunk]

Look Angie, Im really sorry for hanging up on you like that. I just dont know how to deal with the distance. Keep on trucking...I love you

[zach]

well first off, you need to sit down and think to yourself "is this realy worth all the trouble?" I don't mean to sound like a dick, but if he can't botherd to talk about something thats troubling you, he can't really be worth it. He can't love you that much if hangs up on you when you're crying (I'm assuming thats what happend). As much as I hate to say this, i think maybe you should try to move ahead.

[Rufio217]

Originally posted by angie710
PS... Here s question...Would you ever hang up on someone who was crying??






I will be honest.....YES, but only b/c it was me who made them cry...Only after all the shit she has put me through i would jump on the phone and let it all out on her then throw the phone against the reciever to hang it up......SO many times i Have been on the phone with "her" and have her piss me off to the point where i boil down to tears and have to hide it and have such a anger over come me that i just want to bash the phone against the reciever forever then hang-up. I have never been so upset, pissed off as when she is on teh phone, i can't even describe it the hate and anger is unhuman...yet i love her so much i put myself through it just to hear her voice, and i hate myself for it

[Rufio217]

as for distance....i can relate any girl i have ever had anythign for is gone, i live in new york, and one moved to mexico, another to holliston, ma, and the other i have no idea she never told me

[Frodo]

listen to zach

[fuglybassist]

hanging up on people is bad, but hanging up on people who are crying...is a sin.

[angie710]

Originally posted by zach
well first off, you need to sit down and think to yourself "is this realy worth all the trouble?" I don't mean to sound like a dick, but if he can't botherd to talk about something thats troubling you, he can't really be worth it. He can't love you that much if hangs up on you when you're crying (I'm assuming thats what happend). As much as I hate to say this, i think maybe you should try to move ahead.


I understand why he did it.... I dont know... Its hard when you live so far... I fucking hate love, or whatever this may be...

[zach]

I think weather or not you can understand why he did it should be absolutly irrelevent. My last girlfreind broke up with me through a letter. I can understand why she did, but that dosn't make it OK, and I'm sure as shit not going to forgiver her for it anytime soon. But I digress. What it comes down to (in my mind) is that if he really dose love you, you need to come before anything.

[Shatter590]

i'm sure by now everyone on here knows about my distance relationship. I'm not going to say not to go for it. I did and it was great while it lasted. And for some reason, it seemed so right, even if it was hard. But you really need to evaluate yourself and your feelings and decide if it's really for you. If said person is the one you truly love and truly wish to be with then anything can be overcome. Even if it leads to heartbreak now, if it was meant to be it will happen. You just need to have faith in yourself, faith in your partner and faith in love itself.

[mikeduin620]

Originally posted by Shatter590
i'm sure by now everyone on here knows about my distance relationship. I'm not going to say not to go for it. I did and it was great while it lasted. And for some reason, it seemed so right, even if it was hard. But you really need to evaluate yourself and your feelings and decide if it's really for you. If said person is the one you truly love and truly wish to be with then anything can be overcome. Even if it leads to heartbreak now, if it was meant to be it will happen. You just need to have faith in yourself, faith in your partner and faith in love itself.

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