SingleDoubt
10/03/07, 10:51 PM
alright, so back in may, i found out that my girlfriend had cheated on me with one of my best friends. she felt horrible about it, but i never figured out why she did it. after not forgiving her (we still hooked up and stuff, but never got back together) for the entire summer, she starts dating the guy she cheated on me with in august (and denying it) while at the same time, still sleeping with me.
so this whole time they're together, she's telling me how horrible he is and how she really wants me, she also would get unbelievably jealous everytime i metioned another girl and bawled her eyes out everytime i told we were either gonna stop talking or that i was moving on. apparently, she had been saying the same things to the guy she was dating about me, how i was abusive and wouldnt let her move on or be happy.
well this went on for a long time. until today, when i was returning one of her calls and the guy picks up the phone to tell me to stop talking to her. well i'd had enough of the bullshit at this point and i told him everything she had been saying to me about him and invited him to come to my house and see all the text messages and aim conversations she had sent me. he came over, saw all the evidence and it all started to click that she had been playing us both against each other from the beginning. the only reason he ever touched her was because she had been saying that i was abusive and he just wanted to give her a reason to get out of the relationship. she also told us both to never talk to each other cause she'd be really pissed at us (obviously because she knew that if we talked, we'd put the pieces together and find her out)
well after all this had gone down, we decided that the only reason we had this skewed perception of one another was because thats what she wanted us both to believe, that we were both complete dicks. so we both called her up separately and told her that we didnt want to talk to her ever again and made a pact to never answer her calls again.
so today, i got one of my best friends (and my drummer) back and ditched a complete psycho. its a good day :-)
so this whole time they're together, she's telling me how horrible he is and how she really wants me, she also would get unbelievably jealous everytime i metioned another girl and bawled her eyes out everytime i told we were either gonna stop talking or that i was moving on. apparently, she had been saying the same things to the guy she was dating about me, how i was abusive and wouldnt let her move on or be happy.
well this went on for a long time. until today, when i was returning one of her calls and the guy picks up the phone to tell me to stop talking to her. well i'd had enough of the bullshit at this point and i told him everything she had been saying to me about him and invited him to come to my house and see all the text messages and aim conversations she had sent me. he came over, saw all the evidence and it all started to click that she had been playing us both against each other from the beginning. the only reason he ever touched her was because she had been saying that i was abusive and he just wanted to give her a reason to get out of the relationship. she also told us both to never talk to each other cause she'd be really pissed at us (obviously because she knew that if we talked, we'd put the pieces together and find her out)
well after all this had gone down, we decided that the only reason we had this skewed perception of one another was because thats what she wanted us both to believe, that we were both complete dicks. so we both called her up separately and told her that we didnt want to talk to her ever again and made a pact to never answer her calls again.
so today, i got one of my best friends (and my drummer) back and ditched a complete psycho. its a good day :-)