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lesbian
10/08/07, 02:35 PM
Well, I was set up with some chick because as soon as my friend knew I was gay, she made it her number one thing to do. And, she found someone, we meet and I wasn't that keen on them, it was meant to be a date and her brother and friend where there and I was always pushed to the back.

Second date, we went to the pictures, she kind of stroked my hand in an attempt to hold it, and rested her head on my shoulder, that was pretty much it for that day. The third/fourth time was this weekend, which was alot better, we actually held hands this time, even though we got weird looks, and we hugged and I asked her out, only to have my ex (internet relationship) tell me we were going to meet because our parents had spoken. And, then the next day, we actually kissed, well she kissed me on the neck, and then before she went, she gave me a quick peck on the lips as she was rushing. So, she was a pretty decent girlriend, and I liked her.

How wrong was I. She lied to me today, told me my ex girlfriend rang her crying and begging her to leave me alone, but it turns out it was a lie. And, why did she lie? Because she wanted to treat me like shit because if my ex can, she can too. It really pissed me off that someone would stoop as low as to lie to treat me like shit, and then say they are sorry and love me so much.

Argh, I don't know what to do about it all, I've been off with her all day which has upset her, but in a way she deserved it for what she did to me, but at the same time, I don't want to ruin this relationship. Hook me up with some advice please?

DCfreak
10/08/07, 02:38 PM
she says she loves you after 4 dates? you are 17 and are experimenting with a random girl you just met, and you are this worried about it after only 4 dates!?

xvszero
10/08/07, 02:40 PM
Poidh

lesbian
10/08/07, 02:46 PM
she says she loves you after 4 dates? you are 17 and are experimenting with a random girl you just met, and you are this worried about it after only 4 dates!?

You have a point there, but what am I meant to do? Wait till I'm 50 odd and then finally get a date and experiment with a girl. And, like I said, I like her, and yeah she is saying she loves me but she's a bit weird like that, and I know I'm worrying about this after 4 dates.

But, honestly, why would you admit to someone that you wanted to treat them like shit? 4 days or 4 months, it's not on and I need advice because I don't wanna throw the chance at a relationship closer to home away, but if she's done this once, whats to say she won't do it again?

It's a tad annoying really.

Smash Adams
10/08/07, 02:54 PM
that's god's way of punishing you for being a lesbian duh

aloneatlastnj
10/08/07, 03:00 PM
internet relationship? are you sure your significant online other wasn't a 20 year old guy jerking off to a fantasy or better yet - chris hansen?

atticus1492
10/08/07, 03:05 PM
anal.

DCfreak
10/08/07, 04:31 PM
You have a point there, but what am I meant to do? Wait till I'm 50 odd and then finally get a date and experiment with a girl. And, like I said, I like her, and yeah she is saying she loves me but she's a bit weird like that, and I know I'm worrying about this after 4 dates.

But, honestly, why would you admit to someone that you wanted to treat them like shit? 4 days or 4 months, it's not on and I need advice because I don't wanna throw the chance at a relationship closer to home away, but if she's done this once, whats to say she won't do it again?

It's a tad annoying really.


By no means am i saying to not experiment or date around, all i am saying is why take this one girl so seriously when you just met her? If it bothers you that much, confront her about it. If she doesnt respond positively... find someone else. I would be much more worried about her using the L word after like what? a week or 2 of dating? Either she doesnt actually mean it and needs to know she is misusing it, shes crazy, or you are just one hell of a lesbian dream.

popdisaster00
10/08/07, 04:32 PM
n00dz or it didnt happen

identitycrisis2
10/08/07, 04:37 PM
you're a lesbian

Gumbyjag
10/08/07, 09:36 PM
all i can say is don't fall too easy. be a little more careful in the future.

ForeverInADay
10/08/07, 09:54 PM
only to have my ex (internet relationship) tell me we were going to meet because our parents had spoken.

hahahahaha

AP_Punk
10/08/07, 09:58 PM
anal.

Word.

johnh5304
10/08/07, 11:02 PM
big lesbian mules.

notoaststereo
10/08/07, 11:49 PM
internet relationships are not real

xjustinx
10/09/07, 06:57 AM
e-anal