help maybe?

[bassdude114]

hey im sure noone here cares but i need some help with dating, a couple of months ago i started talking to this girl and we really hit it off, i mett her thruogh one of my friends, so we made plans to our school dance, tis halloween, later that week i find out that she is going out with thi sother guy, so im like, what the hell, thats some bullshit because we were going to this dance before she wento out with him

did i loose you yet, o well the saga continues

so tehn for some unknown reason to me i stick around and now maybe i shouldnt have, but she ended up breaking up with her boyfriend so that we could go out i quess, so that was two weeks ago, i gave he some time, and the ohter day i asked her out, and she said yes, now just today i was talking to her and she said that needs time or somehting and thta we cant go out any more, so we can just"date"

i dont kno what is going on but i would love some advice,
and o yeah she is the coolest girl you ever meet

[jgirv17]

if she's as cool as you make her out to be, it's worth waiting it out a little longer.

give her some room, and support her with what she's going through....when she's over it, she'll remember who was always there to help her, believe me.

at the same time, don't let her slip away, you want to give her space, but make sure to not lose contact with her.

finally (and this is the hardest part, i think, to deal with), if she continues to play these games with you, cut it off. theres no need to be dealing with so much stress in your life over a stupid girl. she may be cool, but going out is supposed to be fun, not stressful.

[piebaldkid42]

yea you should stick around and support her and all but if it seems after a while that shes sort of banking on you as a 'sure thing' and shes looking for other guys in the mean time and all that, then you should move on

[mikeduin620]

i fucking hate girls that play games with you like that. i was so infatuated with this incredibly hot girl i knew for like a year, and shed always flirt with me and stuff and itd make my day - but then the next day she'd pretend she didn't know me. i wasted an incredible amount of time with that shit...so just make sure you know what youre getting into.

[Shatter590]

i'd have to agree with mikey there. a girl who plays around with your heart obviously has no idea what she really wants, and as such should not be bothered with. even if she is the coolest girl ever, she proves that because she doesn;t know her own wants and needs she isn;t all that cool. were i you i'd go seeking a girl that actually knows what she's looking for and will appreciate your for yourself. i mean, what's to say she won;t finally date you then leave you like she did the other guy? you may be the nicest guy on earth, but for all you know she's done this before and is doing it now.

i hate sounding like i'm deflating your dream or anything, but from personal experience, such relationships usually end with heartache, most likely on your heart.

but good luck dude, and i hope everything works out for you in the end.

[bassdude114]

thanks guys, i apretiate your advice

youve helpedme out a lot, im not sure but i think its over she really has no cue what she wants and i dont need that

[mnowhere]

i want to say give up but i like my best guy friend and he always tells me tho we have a lot in common we couldnt date cuz it would either ruin our friendship or it would be weird. i don't give up tho, and probably won't.

so i guess what i am trying to say, since you really want her, wait for her, it will either be worth it in the long run or you will learn a lesson from it if it ends up going bad. i think it's worth the wait, definately, but you should ask her what her intentions are