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ok so theres this girl i barely know that i think is beautiful and i cant get out of my head. The problem is that she is almost 17 and her parents wont let her date. she isnt allowed to get her liscence and isnt allowed in teens cars. ive even asked about just coming over and hanging out and her parents said that the didnt like the idea. So it obviously looks like im screwed. but thats not fair and i just cant get her outta my head. what do i do?
because of the frustrations i havent talked to her in over a week and so the only idea I have is to call her on a regular basis for a couple weeks then maybe the parents will let me over to hang out.
Shatter590
10/18/03, 06:23 PM
well, first off how old are you? if you're her age, then I can't see what's wrong with it. Now if yer older, then maybe there's a reason, but for that I doubt.
Her parents sound overprotective, extremely so. 17 and not allowed to date? or drive? what is she, amish? I think her folks need a wake up call before anything else. I can understand giving her a strict curfew or something, but this is ridiculous.
calling her might be ok, but if you go overboard they might just block your number (and I've heard it happening). Personally, I'm one for direct confrontation, asking them out and out why they won't let her date or anything, especially if they're being a bit groundless. But you know the,m better than I do, so thus it's your call.
YearsGoneBy
10/18/03, 08:13 PM
wow, that sucks dude
my friend has a mom like that...not allowed incars with anyone under 21..lame
Im 18. so it's not like im a whole lot older. The thing that bugs me is that she almost doesnt seem to care how her parents are. It's how theyve always been so i guess it normal to her or something. And its not that she doesnt like me, because she does. And the few times that ive talked to her by phone, the parents answer and they always seem really nice and never give me trouble about asking for her. I dunno, I guess ill call her tommorow and discuss this problem with her. thanks for the help, but dont stop giving advice:blush:
FOLLOW UP
okay wow. so I posted this question over a YEAR ago. and this is kind of weird. I never called her again after that. well until last month when she started working with me at Target. we started talking and now we are together. Many girls have come and gone in betweeen, but here i am. a year later. I found a way in. aint life grand. haha.
Tyler Revolution
10/31/04, 09:42 PM
FOLLOW UP
okay wow. so I posted this question over a YEAR ago. and this is kind of weird. I never called her again after that. well until last month when she started working with me at Target. we started talking and now we are together. Many girls have come and gone in betweeen, but here i am. a year later. I found a way in. aint life grand. haha.
When I read "FOLLOW UP" I was thinking more along the lines of, you called her today and you were going to tell us what she said. I didn't even realize that this thread was that old. That's nuts. Are her parents still overprotective?
PunkDrums182
10/31/04, 09:44 PM
When I read "FOLLOW UP" I was thinking more along the lines of, you called her today and you were going to tell us what she said. I didn't even realize that this thread was that old. That's nuts. Are her parents still overprotective?
lmao i was thinking along those lines too
They are still pretty darn over-protective. but its weird reading what i wrote now that i know her and her parents better. when i wrote that i had no idea she even had a brother and sister that lived with her. i talked to her everyday on the phone for a month before i was able to come over and meet the parents and watch a movie. and then last week was finally able to take her to the movies. Its really weird because Im 19 and am used to just calling a girl for the first time and most likely picking her up and going out the next night or whenever. its definitely a different experience. But like i was bitching a year ago....shes beautiful, and there was allways something i couldnt forget about her. haha. i wanted to show her that. but didnt want to offend her about her parents. or think that im a creep for asking for advice on a message board last year. I think its better this way. awesome. awesome. awesome awesome great.
PunkDrums182
10/31/04, 10:08 PM
yea, im happy too about this girl im with now, but we've been going out for a day as of 8 minutes ago, and im already about to get my ass kicked, read the stupid shit thread if you want to know more
Tyler Revolution
10/31/04, 10:20 PM
awesome. awesome. awesome awesome great.
So, you're trying to say its awesome? Haha. I'm with a girl now, and she is awesome. It's great just having that feeling that there is someone there for you to care about, and that they care about you as well. Good feeling.
theESCO
10/31/04, 10:21 PM
Sit the parents down for a nice talk talk.
PunkDrums182
10/31/04, 10:23 PM
So, you're trying to say its awesome? Haha. I'm with a girl now, and she is awesome. It's great just having that feeling that there is someone there for you to care about, and that they care about you as well. Good feeling.
man, i love that so much, i'm so glad to be with someone again, it just makes everything seem better.
Tyler Revolution
10/31/04, 10:36 PM
man, i love that so much, i'm so glad to be with someone again, it just makes everything seem better.
Fo rizzle.
yeah what is she Muslim?
my parents used to be kinda strict until about 2 years ago when they let go. maybe try showing your good nature to her parents and they'll ease up...they probably don't trust you, yet. get inside their inner circle and you can get inside the girl.
Is the girl arabic?
actually her dad IS half arabic. but he and his parents have lived over here for most of their lives. clue me in. whats the connection?
(FallFrom)Grace
11/03/04, 03:09 PM
wow... i thought my parents were strict not letting me get any more tattoos or take drugs. thats a tad excessive. my parents used to go crazy about some stuff though, my boyfriend was 23 (i'm 17), and they didnt like that, or smoking, or drinking, but now theyre cool. once they get used to the idea they tend to loosen up.
DeadOnSept.25th
11/03/04, 04:03 PM
yea my parents are like that too, they know that i smoke and drink and stuff, they even said, "if your gunna smoke we would rather have you do it home and experience it in a safe enviorment lie our home then off somewhere elsde unsafe." I was shocked, so i said ok thanks, my dad even found my bong one time, and he said "i know everyone does it, hell even i did, and your brother does it too, so if you want i'll give it back to you" i was like STRAIGHT!!!, so my point is that my p's are cool, sorry that you got some strict ones there buddy. no ones lucky all the time.
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