So are all teenage girls drama queens?

[hockeycoshow]

So I really like this one girl who goes to my school. We were hanging out yesterday at the park and swinging on the swings and she seemed really happy and she said things were going really well except for that school sucks but everyone my age says school sucks.

Then later that night she calls me crying saying that me and her two best friends are the only good things in her life right now and how everything is going badly. We talked about it for a while and it seems to me that nothing had at all changed from the time we hung out to the time she called me.

I do know that her parents had gotten a divorce semi-recently and she seems to have some issues. Like she told me that she is afraid for me to get involved in her life because she thinks she will just push me away like she does with everyone.

So any advice.

P.S. im pretty sure anal wouldn't fix this. though you never know :-)

[love_american_style]

all Women Are Drama Queens!!!

[xXaLLiOo]

most girls are like the girl youre describing but you really have to understand that its not just drama....we kind of have delayed reactions to things...she was probably upset when she talked to you earlier in the day but she was trying not to think about it..then when she was home and alone she thought about it and got upset...guys are much better than girls about just pushing things to the back of your head and completely forgetting about them, when girls try to do the same it comes back to haunt us

[meliisssaaaa]

ummm no... ("about all women are drama queens")

but anyway. she is going through a hard time in her life. divorice is a really hard thing to go through, so you just have to be understanding and patient...

[jorn444]

all Women Are Drama Queens!!!
word.

[jklo16]

most girls are like the girl youre describing but you really have to understand that its not just drama....we kind of have delayed reactions to things...she was probably upset when she talked to you earlier in the day but she was trying not to think about it..then when she was home and alone she thought about it and got upset...guys are much better than girls about just pushing things to the back of your head and completely forgetting about them, when girls try to do the same it comes back to haunt us

Very Well Put. Sometimes we try to pretend that everything is fine, because our problems have nothing to do with the guy that we are spending time with and we don't want them to think that we are, as you put it, "drama". The fact that she called you later to tell you about her feelings shows that she wants on some level to let you in. This is a good sign for you if you care about her. Just make sure you are there to listen, and don't let her think that it's an inconvience or that you don't want to hear about her thoughts. The more she surrounds herself with people who care the less the outside problems will creep into conversations. Good Luck.

[love_american_style]

ummm no... ("about all women are drama queens")

but anyway. she is going through a hard time in her life. divorice is a really hard thing to go through, so you just have to be understanding and patient...

all women say that.

[hockeycoshow]

Ya I don't really mind, I guess. I try to be a good listener and tell her everything is gonna be ok. She said sorry about 500 times and I kept telling its ok I don't mind listening everybody goes through hard times.

[DCfreak]

meh screw the sexist crap. All People are Drama King\Queens. Women just tend to show it off more frequently, where as men tend to do it less, but more violently.

[anamericangod]

Tell her to shut the fuck up and be glad she has 3 close/best friends.

People take so much for granted, fucking get a grip.

[xvszero]

Like she told me that she is afraid for me to get involved in her life because she thinks she will just push me away like she does with everyone.

My advice: run.

[hockeycoshow]

I don't know if I can run I seem to be attracted to girls with problems.

[Smash Adams]

when she kills herself you'll feel great

[apoemtothedead]

Get a haircut.

[popdisaster00]

Lol. Yeah, I've never met a girl who wasn't at least similar to that, you know. Girls are emotional, to no end, that's all there is to it. But you can't live without them, so fuck.

[hockeycoshow]

I did get a haircut. That picture of me is ooold.

[meliisssaaaa]

all women say that.

because it's true

[xvszero]

I don't know if I can run I seem to be attracted to girls with problems.

Why does it matter if some or all girls are drama queens then? You clearly seek them out and ignore the stable ones.

[anamericangod]

Rape her.

[hockeycoshow]

The stable ones are fugly.

[pinklar]

no; the stable ones are putting on an act.

[hockeycoshow]

Haha

[hockeycoshow]

Oh and you told me to get a haircut in the thread i made a few months ago. You also called me ugly.

Directed at apoemtothedead.

[hockeycoshow]

Well im going to see her now. I might have more to say later.

[dontsneeze]

Why does it matter if some or all girls are drama queens then? You clearly seek them out and ignore the stable ones.

what stable ones?

[Name_Taken]

Like she told me that she is afraid for me to get involved in her life because she thinks she will just push me away like she does with everyone.
my advice: if she tries to push you, deck that bitch

[myantiyou]

Tell her to shut the fuck up and be glad she has 3 close/best friends.

People take so much for granted, fucking get a grip.

Well said.

[anamericangod]

I just don't understand people.

[JustAnotherPoet]

yeah, all girls around that age are fucking drama queens...i've been there, my friends have, everyone around me...
but anyhow, it sounds like this is a tough time for her, so just chill and be her friend and thats about the best you can offer at this point

[cora_ann]

So I really like this one girl who goes to my school. We were hanging out yesterday at the park and swinging on the swings and she seemed really happy and she said things were going really well except for that school sucks but everyone my age says school sucks.

Then later that night she calls me crying saying that me and her two best friends are the only good things in her life right now and how everything is going badly. We talked about it for a while and it seems to me that nothing had at all changed from the time we hung out to the time she called me.

I do know that her parents had gotten a divorce semi-recently and she seems to have some issues. Like she told me that she is afraid for me to get involved in her life because she thinks she will just push me away like she does with everyone.

So any advice.

P.S. im pretty sure anal wouldn't fix this. though you never know :-)

Can I answer your question with a question; is the sky blue?

Not to be anti-feminist, but girls in high school are nuts. I know this because I am not too far removed from the situation to remember the semi-bipolar moments that I felt. If you add that with the fact that the girl's parents are divorced, you might get some emotional outbursts.

This business of her "pushing you away" is psychological bullshit to me. If she wants to be with you, she will be.

[thetrueblood]

So I really like this one girl who goes to my school. We were hanging out yesterday at the park and swinging on the swings and she seemed really happy and she said things were going really well except for that school sucks but everyone my age says school sucks.

Then later that night she calls me crying saying that me and her two best friends are the only good things in her life right now and how everything is going badly. We talked about it for a while and it seems to me that nothing had at all changed from the time we hung out to the time she called me.

I do know that her parents had gotten a divorce semi-recently and she seems to have some issues. Like she told me that she is afraid for me to get involved in her life because she thinks she will just push me away like she does with everyone.

So any advice.

P.S. im pretty sure anal wouldn't fix this. though you never know :-)

advice: RUN!

[Rock]

Oh and you told me to get a haircut in the thread i made a few months ago. You also called me ugly.

Directed at apoemtothedead.
Hahaha. Shocking. See the pattern?

[YourMumLovesFOB]

P.S. im pretty sure anal wouldn't fix this. though you never know :-)

I think you should get this confirmed before we go any further.

[tuffguycore]

all Women Are Drama Queens!!!

Backed hard.

[xvszero]

what stable ones?

The ones he would be meeting if he didn't specifically seek out drama.

Seriously though, it is a neverending pattern people fall into... they want excitement, and with excitement comes drama, and then they act all surprised when the drama comes even though they pretty much seek out people into the kinds of things that naturally lead to drama...

Stable people generally aren't very "exciting" in the short term, but can lead to very satisfying relationships long term.

[Bingham88]

P.S. im pretty sure anal wouldn't fix this. though you never know :-)

hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

[concernedparent]

meh screw the sexist crap. All People are Drama King\Queens. Women just tend to show it off more frequently, where as men tend to do it less, but more violently.
Girls are moreso drama queens, I learned about all this shit in psychology. It's genetics baby.

[namembal]

I just want to know what the fuck Semi-Recent means.

[hockeycoshow]

I guess semi-recent would be from 6 months to a year.

And she seemed to be really happy yesterday and today and nothing unexpected happened like Monday.

[allhourcymbals]

anal fixes everything.

and every teenager is a drama queen. guys included.

[hockeycoshow]

Hmmm a girl actually says anal fixes everything maybe I should give it a try.

[allhourcymbals]

i'm not your average girl. as long as the guy doesn't want to be on the receiving end, it's all gravy.

[hockeycoshow]

Lol ya if a guy wants to be on the receiving end, and he is with a girl, I think he is with the wrong sex.

[allhourcymbals]

wishful thinking.

[hockeycoshow]

Its wishful thinking that a guy doesn't want to receive from a girl? That scares me a little.

Hell that scares me alot.

[allhourcymbals]

no, wishful thinking that he'd get it from a girl. that should scare you more.

[inCinerate.1028]

So I really like this one girl who goes to my school. We were hanging out yesterday at the park and swinging on the swings and she seemed really happy and she said things were going really well except for that school sucks but everyone my age says school sucks.

Then later that night she calls me crying saying that me and her two best friends are the only good things in her life right now and how everything is going badly. We talked about it for a while and it seems to me that nothing had at all changed from the time we hung out to the time she called me.

I do know that her parents had gotten a divorce semi-recently and she seems to have some issues. Like she told me that she is afraid for me to get involved in her life because she thinks she will just push me away like she does with everyone.

So any advice.

P.S. im pretty sure anal wouldn't fix this. though you never know :-)

sounds like what my ex used as an excuse cause she didn't want to go out with me but at the same time wanted for me to wait for her in case she needed a fuckin backup

[absolutecrunk]

So I really like this one girl who goes to my school. We were hanging out yesterday at the park and swinging on the swings and she seemed really happy and she said things were going really well except for that school sucks but everyone my age says school sucks.

Then later that night she calls me crying saying that me and her two best friends are the only good things in her life right now and how everything is going badly. We talked about it for a while and it seems to me that nothing had at all changed from the time we hung out to the time she called me.

I do know that her parents had gotten a divorce semi-recently and she seems to have some issues. Like she told me that she is afraid for me to get involved in her life because she thinks she will just push me away like she does with everyone.

So any advice.

P.S. im pretty sure anal wouldn't fix this. though you never know :-)
Pshhh shows what you know.

[SubrosaSeductiv]

All girls are insane.

[k_kitty2011]

all Women Are Drama Queens!!!
excuse me?

[Blue Mouse]

all Women Are Drama Queens!!!

yes we are :-D it makes life fun:whine:

[bzr]

yes we are :-D it makes life fun:whine:

she speaks the truth

[PadraicPrincess]

Girls are moreso drama queens, I learned about all this shit in psychology. It's genetics baby.

Fuck. I want to take psychology. The most exotic class you can take at my school is computer science.. that says a lot.

[pinkluv13]

blame it on pms...thats my excuse for those bi polar moments

[worthwaiting]

Sometimes negative things gather. Maybe she had that mental breakdown after 3 months of swallowing her negative emotions. That happens.

[Vexed]

I equate finding a stable women to finding a unicorn or bigfoot. A lot of crazy people will say they have done it, but look at them, they're fucking crazy.


Also I'm married and going to be stabbed for posting this. I hoped you enjoyed my advice.

[killyourtv]

Just tell her that she should begin a relationship with you when she thinks she's ready. And no, not all girls are drama queens. I sure as hell tried to avoid the shit.

[absolutealexx]

yes we are :-D it makes life fun:whine:

Not really

[mike049]

sounds to me like you'll soon be entering (if you haven't already entered) the strictly friend realm, which is not where you want to be. you have to realize that what girls say and do are two completely different things. she may be saying she isnt ready for a relationship yet, but what i think she really means is she wants to recieve anal from you. if you're really attracted to this girl, pretend you're not, and you'll get what you want. thats how i remember things working in highschool, especially with the dramaqueens.

[theguilt engine]

all Women Are Drama Queens!!!
you said it best brother.

[xDirtyRockstarr]

I don't agree that all girls are drama queens, but yeah, she sounds like she is. I have (or had, I'm done completely with her shit.) a friend who thought her life was such a big travesty, she didn't like drama but she wants it so much, she'd do anything to start some. She hung with girls who she "thought were her friends" and she still does, she seems to really pick asshole pricks as crushes or boyfriends, she doesn't take my friend or my advice at all. She's just a big fucking attention-seeking mess, she really just needs to grow the fuck up and realize that the world doesn't revolve her. She doesn't respect me or my friend anyway, so we're done with her. She uses people for things like money and cars. Big mooch. Her behavior disgusts me.

Sorry about that rant, but she sounds like to me kind of like that. I also had a really manipulative and dramatic boyfriend, he would call me or text me sometimes telling me he was going to kill himself. He had some problems yeah, but he was 20 fucking years old. He didn't have to live at home, his foster parents apparently didn't care about him.

So my point here is, you don't need to deal with that shit. Seriously man, just tell her to grow the fuck up. I will be honest, I was depressed and mopey all the time. "School sucks, my mom sucks blah blah blah", I still think that about my mom and stepdad, but you know what? I took fucking charge, I stopped shortly before I graduated middle school. I transferred to a better school that suited my needs, and from the time when I couldn't do that just yet, I sucked it up. I keep everything to myself and I don't need to act like an immature attention-seeking cow. It's done and over with. Life goes the fuck on.

So yeah, run as faraway as you can. She is a lost cause.

[alecksisx33]

not all girls are full of drama...point blank

[jcarbs]

bitches ain't shit but hoe's and tricks

[DCfreak]

Sorry about that rant, but she sounds like to me kind of like that. I also had a really manipulative and dramatic boyfriend, he would call me or text me sometimes telling me he was going to kill himself. He had some problems yeah, but he was 20 fucking years old. He didn't have to live at home, his foster parents apparently didn't care about him.



you are supposedly a 15 year old girl.. and you used to have a boyfriend that was 20? either fake acount.. or thats fuckin gross.

[noisefloor1989]

I honestly think you have to be out of high school, or at least almost out of high school.
That sounds pretentious, and it isn't my intention, because I don't consider myself "mature" by any means, but those "HOLY FUCK IM GONNA DIE, SOBZ" sort of things that come up in high school seem pretty petty once you're out.

[xDirtyRockstarr]

you are supposedly a 15 year old girl.. and you used to have a boyfriend that was 20? either fake acount.. or thats fuckin gross. Shove it, this isn't a fake account. Who gives a fucking shit he was 20, it's just a fucking number. Just because I'm 15, I'm apparently mature enough than you to overlook the age. So grow the hell up.

[Bel7]

I'm a teen girl and I'm not at all dramatic. I'm not saying in anyway that I don't have problems cause that would just be a lie, but I simply prefer to keep my problems to myself. I do agree that alot of girls my age are very dramatic because most of my female friends are pretty dramatic. The drama gets really old, really fast. I know for a fact that a fair amount of girls will fake having extremely crap lives just to get attention from guys. Annoys the hell out of me. I dunno how dramatic this girl actually is seeing as I've never met her, but if she has a new crap thing in her life everday, three guesses are she's really exaggerating things.

[joshy hizzle]

Me and my friends were talking the other day - under the influence, mind you - and we concluded that if weren't for sexual purposes that guys would have nothing to do with girls.

Fuck testosterone.

[XxrossxX]

meh screw the sexist crap. All People are Drama King\Queens. Women just tend to show it off more frequently, where as men tend to do it less, but more violently.
i agree with u, finally a man is rigth!!! ( i can' t believe i said that)

[c-eh-n-eh-d-eh]

i know that when i have a bad day i don't usually tell my friends... because talking sometimes causes me to snap.
she probably just snapped. her parents divorce may have had a bigger impact on her than she lets on.
try to keep in good spirits around her, she'll love you for it. i know that when im having a bad day all i need is for someone to crack a joke or talk about something like a new movie... or things she likes... sports? pets? boys? anything.

[CandyDistructio]

all Women Are Drama Queens!!!


I'm a chick and will fully admit it. That's why i hang out with guys, there isn't all that emotional crap, most of the time they just think with their dicks simple as that. Guys have all their crap going on too, but there not like a lot of girls who are like "OH MY GOSHHH, MY LIFE IS SOOO DREADFULLY HORRIBLE!" and then you have to spend three hours asking them whats wrong to finally get a full answer. All girls aren't like this, but the sad majority of them are. Same with guys, not all of them think with their dicks, it's just a the sad majority. Truthful? Nothing you can do to help her, and if she becomes all suicidal getting closer will make you seriously depressed to because there is nothing you can do, and then she will do exactly what she said, she'll push you away and you'll feel like crap. My advise is to be a distance friend and maybe she'll cool out her hormones and you can have a meaningful friendship or more.

[Bel7]

I'm a chick and will fully admit it. That's why i hang out with guys, there isn't all that emotional crap, most of the time they just think with their dicks simple as that. Guys have all their crap going on too, but there not like a lot of girls who are like "OH MY GOSHHH, MY LIFE IS SOOO DREADFULLY HORRIBLE!" and then you have to spend three hours asking them whats wrong to finally get a full answer. All girls aren't like this, but the sad majority of them are. Same with guys, not all of them think with their dicks, it's just a the sad majority. Truthful? Nothing you can do to help her, and if she becomes all suicidal getting closer will make you seriously depressed to because there is nothing you can do, and then she will do exactly what she said, she'll push you away and you'll feel like crap. My advise is to be a distance friend and maybe she'll cool out her hormones and you can have a meaningful friendship or more.

I second that!

[nonamesleft]

I ain't no drama queen.

[Bel7]

I ain't no drama queen.

nor am I?

[MixtapexxDeath]

no

and the bitch sounds crazy, don't get attached

[mayrawrockkill]

blame it on pms...thats my excuse for those bi polar moments

Haha my friend must have pms everyday then

[lovely864md]

I'm not gonna lie, yeah about 99% of us are (or at least have the potential).

Most girls aren't going to be constantly flipping out though. Most of my girl friends are pretty chill people. I find that the girls that are the most dramatic are usually the most intellectually challenged ones.

[absolutealexx]

I have 2 close girl friends. Other than that, most of my friends are guys.

[chrisPAIN]

this sounds like a thread of cute is what we aim for lyrics

[ivorykeys25]

' so are all teenage girls drama queens?'
so are all teenage guys shallow assholes?

[hockeycoshow]

Yes

[DeadBeatBullet]

i honestly think im one of the few that aren't.... kind of like the queen of zen man :]

[deapcutz]

We have to be, Its part of being a teenage girl.

[ohshizz]

most teenage girls are attention whores.

[bailmeout13]

P.S. im pretty sure anal wouldn't fix this. though you never know :-)

Uh, what? Pretty sure anal doesn't solve much. Except maybe an as that feels comfortable.

[oneswiftmotion]

We have to be, Its part of being a teenage girl.
not necessarily. I can tell you strive to be one by your signature, but not every teenage girl is straight out of Mean Girls.

[.Nihilist.]

i so used to be that girl you are talking about ((when i was in high school)) its a phase for the most part i think but the guy way on a few pages was right, all chicks are mostly drama queens, it just has to go away with age, sometimes it doesnt and those are the girls that end up to be alone and lame..

[chrisx519]

all Women Are Drama Queens!!!

i didn't read the thread to see if this was quoted enough times.

the point is, it never can be.

omg now i am one too lol

[resrchmnkygrl6]

I have 2 close girl friends. Other than that, most of my friends are guys.
Same here. Absolutely no drama until you find out one of the guys likes you. Then it gets awkward for a week.

[Kid B]

she's a drug pusher.

trust me.

[hockeycoshow]

Maybe maybe.

[justlistento]

All girls are drama queens. Haha, whether they want to admit or not. But I think she just has some issues right now.
All girls are extremely extremely emotional too.
Just deal with it. Haha.