i like a girl for the first time in three years...

[oldwirehands]

or genuinely interested to say the least. we both got out of long-term relationships back in march and i'm diggin on this girl and i think she's diggin on me... its scary/confusing/frustrating.

i know a lot of people had to have gone through this after a serious relationship. how did that work out for you? was it worth giving it a shot?

[InYourName]

its always worth it

[Rock]

Why would it not be worth giving it a shot?

[mike049]

only live once

[3mpire]

Yeah, why not.

[theguilt engine]

or genuinely interested to say the least. we both got out of long-term relationships back in march and i'm diggin on this girl and i think she's diggin on me... its scary/confusing/frustrating.

i know a lot of people had to have gone through this after a serious relationship. how did that work out for you? was it worth giving it a shot?
I'm the man to talk to about this. I dated a girl for a 2 1/2 years...and it went really bad in the last 2 months...really bad. Cheating on eachother, cheating with eachother...everything. Just, really bad.

Well, I met a girl my last month of senior year and decided to break it off completely with the girl I had spent the 2 1/2 years with. It was amazing...all the old feelings of meeting someone new, learning them, being intimate for the first time...it was so exciting. I hadn't felt it in so long. And, a year and a half later I'm in love and we're destined to be together for a long, long time...

But, are the feelings of meeting someone new better than the feelings of being in love? No. Haha.

Live it up. Don't be scared to feel anything--because it's really amazing when you do.

[theESCO]

Definitely go for it. But keep in mind that it very well could be a rebound. Like the guy above, I spent almost 5 years in a relationship and the last like 2 years were horrible. When we finally went our seperate ways I met this girl who I thought I fell in love with, it only lasted 6 months before I realized it wasn't for real and moved on. But it's definitely worth giving a shot...it always is.

[apoemtothedead]

Tell her you play in The Chemist vs The Computer. There's no way she could resist dating someone famous.

[ZACKY_6661]

Take it from a girls point of view.. no girl likes to be the rebound girl so if u don't won't to screw things up before they have even started .. don't let her think that she's '' The Rebound" girl.. and just go for it ha ha... jsut tell yourself that you have nothing to lose.. ha ha.. it will work for ya..I think

[oldwirehands]

I'm the man to talk to about this. I dated a girl for a 2 1/2 years...and it went really bad in the last 2 months...really bad. Cheating on eachother, cheating with eachother...everything. Just, really bad.

Well, I met a girl my last month of senior year and decided to break it off completely with the girl I had spent the 2 1/2 years with. It was amazing...all the old feelings of meeting someone new, learning them, being intimate for the first time...it was so exciting. I hadn't felt it in so long. And, a year and a half later I'm in love and we're destined to be together for a long, long time...

But, are the feelings of meeting someone new better than the feelings of being in love? No. Haha.

Live it up. Don't be scared to feel anything--because it's really amazing when you do.

I can only imagine how awesome it is. Its just kind of a scary and confusing situation for me to be in at the moment. I get nervous (not as much anymore) when I'm talking to her and then I can get awkward. I know I can only be myself but my real image becomes distorted through being nervous. See what I'm saying? haha Thanks for the advice though. I'll give it a shot. Worst comes to worst, I'll be laughing about it at a bar with my friends.

Definitely go for it. But keep in mind that it very well could be a rebound. Like the guy above, I spent almost 5 years in a relationship and the last like 2 years were horrible. When we finally went our seperate ways I met this girl who I thought I fell in love with, it only lasted 6 months before I realized it wasn't for real and moved on. But it's definitely worth giving a shot...it always is.

Yeah, I'm pretty aware of that. I guess the best thing I can do then is just be aware of that and not have any real expectations? I'll give it a try yo.

Tell her you play in The Chemist vs The Computer. There's no way she could resist dating someone famous.

That could very well be the answer to all of life's problems. Amazing.

[oldwirehands]

So I pretty much told myself today to stop being such a God damn pussy, man up, and play it cool.

For future reference, its entirely alright to talk to me that way. It helps me snap out of whatever funk I'm currently in. I don't know if thats normal but whatev man.