Stoopid Friends

[punknskakid722]

You ever get that feeling, where your friends just ignore you, n don't care what you say, and just ditch you??? It's been happenin sooo mcuh lately, and i don't know what to do!!!! i feel alone, anyone know?!?!

[nards228]

Assuming you're roughly high-school aged -

I had a ton of friends coming into high school who I barely spoke to leaving it. And there were a bunch of people who I hated coming in who I was really close to leaving it. That's just the way things go - people change.

If your friends are being assholes, speak up and tell them how you feel. If they're unwilling to change, they're assholes and you shouldn't be friends with them anyway.



Rennard

[LessThanJade]

fuck em they suck then
i hated that, yes i had that feeling and they ended up being fake people that everyone ended up not liking your better than that

[punklet2101]

me too im afraid :( it absolutely sucks doesn't it?? hmm

[unsung_zero02]

ahh!! i hate it when my friends are like that...:(

[Milonater]

People who don't care what you say, ignore you, and ditch you are not called "friends". They're called "jerks".

It's when we learn to distinguish one from the other were the progress starts. Obviously these people are hurting you, and the natural thing to do when somehting is hurting you is to remove yourself from the pain. (The ol' hand on the stove top theory).

Just walk away. If they actually ever were friends, they'll come back to you. If not, hey, no loss to you. Nobody needs plastic friends.

[punkpixie]

I know how you feel. When i moved up to high school I became really good friends with this girl, but then one day she started being really nasty for no reason. She was really popular and before I knew it practically everyone hated me. The friends I have now ive left I never dreamt I would end up hanging around with. Whoever said that people change is totally right, you never know whats gonna happen or who you'll end up with.:)

[punknskakid722]

Yeah, my friends are just chanin, I mean i thought that we were pretty close, but than all of a sudden they like ignore me, n it's hard to deal with cuz i don't got many people to talk to, but maybe everyones right, it is there loss, i'll just try to move on.

[mnowhere]

well it's my senior year in high school, and i know. last year i made one really great friend and we got along great and i started to kind of ignore my other friends. i'm glad my friends spoke up and told me, tell your friends about it, and if they don't accept your input then screw them, they aren't worth the time or the effort.

this year, as everyone plans to get out of high school and such, a lot has changed and everyone seems to not have time for anyone else, it just happens i guess but i hope things work out for the best. if not, i'm sure you will find new people who share similar interests.

[punkbassist]

yea....lately my friends have been ditching me....it totally makes you feel like shit...like...i know i didnt do anything wrong....but people are just like that....its dumb the main reason is that i didnt go sneak out with them when they wanted me to...and the next day at school they were all talkin behind my back and shit like that....it sucks

[mirtizzle]

my friends, well, they're still my friends and i love them all, but i have nothing in common with any of them. it's like we're friends just because i've been friends with them for so long... and i've become the "weird" one... we've just gotten to that point where i just don't even feel like asking them to do anything with me because i know it's gonna be "no". i will let them drag me to a country dance club on a thursday night, pay the ridiculous 7 dollar cover, and tolerate horrible music and random men touching my ass... but god forbid they ever come to a show at a bar that i can get them all in for free, wristbanded, and full of really hot guys that don't stick their boners in your back. go figure.

if your friends are ignoring you and shit like that, talk to them... and expand your horizons... talk to people in class you've never really talked to before. do things without your friends. it's amazing how many cool people there really are if you just take the time to look... last year, i did jack shit. if my friends didn't go somewhere, i didn't go. if i wanted to go somewhere, and i had no one to go with, i sat at home. this year, i joined a club at my school, made a dance team, started working at a place where none of my friends worked... and i've met so many amazing people already.

[mikeduin620]

Originally posted by mirtizzle
my friends, well, they're still my friends and i love them all, but i have nothing in common with any of them. it's like we're friends just because i've been friends with them for so long... and i've become the "weird" one... we've just gotten to that point where i just don't even feel like asking them to do anything with me because i know it's gonna be "no". i will let them drag me to a country dance club on a thursday night, pay the ridiculous 7 dollar cover, and tolerate horrible music and random men touching my ass... but god forbid they ever come to a show at a bar that i can get them all in for free, wristbanded, and full of really hot guys that don't stick their boners in your back. go figure.

if your friends are ignoring you and shit like that, talk to them... and expand your horizons... talk to people in class you've never really talked to before. do things without your friends. it's amazing how many cool people there really are if you just take the time to look... last year, i did jack shit. if my friends didn't go somewhere, i didn't go. if i wanted to go somewhere, and i had no one to go with, i sat at home. this year, i joined a club at my school, made a dance team, started working at a place where none of my friends worked... and i've met so many amazing people already.

Cool story. good for you.

[justcallmeliz]

fuck em you dont need them just move on from it because i promise you that in the end it really wont matter that much because you will find better things to do with your life and i assume that you are in high school right? and once you finish high school you will lose contact with most of those people anyway so once again it really shouldnt matter all that much...

[killer_ska_man]

yea i know how ya feel, but if they wanna be your friend then theyll stop ingoring you, otherwise they arent worth the time, if you speak up it would make you feel better, but i wouldnt really know, i have one friend

[mwhpunk]

it'll get better. everyone goes through those stupid times. getting through them is the tough part but it'll all work out. :afro:

[FarPastGone]

my friends, well, they're still my friends and i love them all, but i have nothing in common with any of them. it's like we're friends just because i've been friends with them for so long... and i've become the "weird" one... we've just gotten to that point where i just don't even feel like asking them to do anything with me because i know it's gonna be "no". i will let them drag me to a country dance club on a thursday night, pay the ridiculous 7 dollar cover, and tolerate horrible music and random men touching my ass... but god forbid they ever come to a show at a bar that i can get them all in for free, wristbanded, and full of really hot guys that don't stick their boners in your back. go figure.

if your friends are ignoring you and shit like that, talk to them... and expand your horizons... talk to people in class you've never really talked to before. do things without your friends. it's amazing how many cool people there really are if you just take the time to look... last year, i did jack shit. if my friends didn't go somewhere, i didn't go. if i wanted to go somewhere, and i had no one to go with, i sat at home. this year, i joined a club at my school, made a dance team, started working at a place where none of my friends worked... and i've met so many amazing people already.
Yeah awesome story.....im already feeling like that too; minus the wierd one part......

[open mind]

these people ditching you don't respect you, maybe sometimes they'll hang out if your gonna entertain them,but they aren't friends.

[-whisp-]

yeah, the past few weeks i have felt ignored but thats just the way my friends are. cuz they dont hear me...but then i start shouting at them so they finally start listening to what i have to say hehe. it works =P but yeah it does suck...just speak out to em and tell them what u feel.
i agree with milonater... if they are ure friends they will understand and listen to what u have to say. if they dont, and keep ignoring you scru them.