mmm quick question...

[DCfreak]

Scenario: You are 18-20ish... and you meet a girl thats attractive, pretty cool, is just about to finish her first semester of college (only 1 week left for me) and is still 18. At 18, she so far as had sex with X amount of guys.

My question is what number would that X have to be to turn you off and what number should it be for you to be the most comfortable? Girls, just reverse the scenario. Kind of curious to hear other peoples thoughts.

[Siren Silently]

At 18. That's a lot of whoring to be done. At my age, I'd say 2 is the maximum but of course your sex life exponentially increases as you get older. So a fair number would be... say 4-5?

[notoaststereo]

2 or 3 or me

[atticus1492]

Less than 45, or I am out of there.

[immorehxcthanu]

I don't really see why it should matter. Just put a rubber on that shizzz.

[brentkid]

I'd say three. Two would fine but after that I'm not so sure.

[WFUJerseyJon]

Personally I wouldn't care. I'd say if she said upwards of 5 I'd be a little sketched tho. And there's no low number for me. Hell, if she's a virgin that means I won't have to measure up to the other guys she's been with haha.

[SubrosaSeductiv]

2.

[dannytheschid]

hmmm......Well, to be fair, some girls whore around and then learn their lesson. That being said, I guess if an 18 year old girl told me she's had sex with more than 4 or 5 people, I'd feel a little uncomfortable.

[oface0315]

Its sex.

[pilot_light_out]

It doesnt matter to me. I mean, it kind of seems like a win win. If she hasnt been with very many guys, or even none, then its easier for me too look good. If she has been with alot, then I know she's adventurous and quite uninhibited.

And yeah, just wrap that shit. Check the playing field.

[styylesclash]

you guys are crazy conservative and unrealistic. when i was 18 all the girls i had dated or whatever had sex with 5 or more. maybe it's just the girls i meet. they were hoes fo sho.

[nbaontcty]

How come guys can have sex with everyone on the planet but its a turnoff if a girl does the same?

[brentkid]

How come guys can have sex with everyone on the planet but its a turnoff if a girl does the same?
Maybe the guys who gave a low number have only had sex with two or three people as well? You're jumping to conclusions.

I know I've only had sex with my ex and that's it. I don't find it unfair - it's just how I am about that sort of stuff.

[xvszero]

Hmm, as you get older you learn that it is less about numbers and more about situations.

Like, one of my friends at 23ish had had 6 partners... but all were fairly longterm boyfriends. Her first time was 18 I think and she had about a boyfriend a year after that. Decent relationships too for the most part, just didn't go anywhere long longterm. I totally wanted this girl.

Another only had sex with like 3 guys I think, but only one was a boyfriend, the others were drunken hook-ups or whatever. I did not want this girl.

Now I'm so old that in theory a decent girl who has only had sex with boyfriends she cares about could, theoretically, be in the double digits if her relationships never went that long. Ah well.

[amysaurus]

At 18? I'd say 3-4. Any more than that and you're one of my best friends.. who happens to be a total man whore.

[DCfreak]

Hmm, as you get older you learn that it is less about numbers and more about situations.

Like, one of my friends at 23ish had had 6 partners... but all were fairly longterm boyfriends. Her first time was 18 I think and she had about a boyfriend a year after that. Decent relationships too for the most part, just didn't go anywhere long longterm. I totally wanted this girl.

Another only had sex with like 3 guys I think, but only one was a boyfriend, the others were drunken hook-ups or whatever. I did not want this girl.

Now I'm so old that in theory a decent girl who has only had sex with boyfriends she cares about could, theoretically, be in the double digits if her relationships never went that long. Ah well.


which is why i gave the age restriction to 18.

[xvszero]

which is why i gave the age restriction to 18.

Well, still somewhat the same idea.

Though when I was 18 I was honestly not even thinking about having sex yet, so I doubt I'd have dated anyone who wasn't a virgin.

But I wasn't thinking about dating really either. Not until college.

[Neo Cassady]

At 18, I'd say 2, maybe 3.

At 21, I'd say < or = 5. But my ideal would still be 2 or 3.

[andrew4045]

How come guys can have sex with everyone on the planet but its a turnoff if a girl does the same?


because guys dont stank, or end up looking like a ham sandwich

[xvszero]

you guys are crazy conservative and unrealistic. when i was 18 all the girls i had dated or whatever had sex with 5 or more. maybe it's just the girls i meet. they were hoes fo sho.

It was probably just the girls you met. About 50% of teenagers graduate high school as virgins.

[DCfreak]

Well, still somewhat the same idea.

Though when I was 18 I was honestly not even thinking about having sex yet, so I doubt I'd have dated anyone who wasn't a virgin.

But I wasn't thinking about dating really either. Not until college.


She is supposed to be 18, but she is also in college for a semester so no she is not still in highschool. She is hypothetical, haha but i am not doing a good job of making it sound like it.

[xvszero]

Hypothetical... YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

So who is this slut?

[FatJordan]

because guys dont stank, or end up looking like a ham sandwich

the win.

[chronomic]

shes a slut either way.


bang her and get it over with, whats the big deal.

[DCfreak]

Hypothetical... YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

So who is this slut?


actually it really is.. me and some friends were arguing this the other day and didn't come to a very good conclusion. I think it was just girls at our school that are our age in general really.

[AnF1500]

Haha out of most of these numbers, if girls were actually honest about the number....you would all be sorely dissapointed.

[Hamlet]

0.

You know how I roll.

[xvszero]

Haha out of most of these numbers, if girls were actually honest about the number....you would all be sorely dissapointed.

Hey just because you fuck a lot of trogs doesn't mean every other girl is that easy.

[AnF1500]

Hey just because you fuck a lot of trogs doesn't mean every other girl is that easy.

Ha ha ha, wasn't referencing to myself. But I know a lot of girls..

[Rabe]

i couldn't careless how many. as long as she doesn't have any diseases then who cares? its something everyone enjoys and everyone should be able to do it as often as they like. if the person is as nice as you think she is, then any number shouldn't bother you. and if it is something that bothers you, then you shouldn't ask. (sorry if I sounded like a prick. didn't mean to)

[xvszero]

Ha ha ha, wasn't referencing to myself. But I know a lot of girls..

Trog fuckers tend to hang together though!

[AnF1500]

Trog fuckers tend to hang together though!
I understand your reasoning.

[billyboatkid]

three to four

[xvszero]

I understand your reasoning.

Ha ha I'm just being mean, but I do think certain types of people tend to hang around like types. And if you think 3-4 partners by 18 or so is LOW you and your friends may be a certain type that don't really realize there are a lot of other types out there.

[Gumbyjag]

at 18 i'd say upwards of ten, seeing as girls these days are getting more and more promiscuous.

Hell, if she's a virgin that means I won't have to measure up to the other guys she's been with haha.

that's what i'd be worried about most, measuring up to the others.

[fadedmemories]

Less than 45, or I am out of there.

haha LOL!

[xvszero]

that's what i'd be worried about most, measuring up to the others.

Small penis?

[The Revisionist]

The number doesn't matter, look at the circumstances. Was she safe each time? Was it eight dudes at the same time? Is she clean? If in doubt, wrap it up or take off, but focus on how she feels about sex NOW as opposed to how she felt about sex THEN.

[SingleDoubt]

it really depends on if youre looking to start a relationship... if it's just sex, then whatever. but if youre looking for a relationship, then id probably say 3

[tambam]

1 or 2.

[Intertwined]

1.
Times are changing.

[Gumbyjag]

Small penis?

nah, i'm just nervous about pleasing girls.

[That_Ska_Chick]

I would say if she has had sex with more than 5 dudes (tops) then I wouldn't touch her.