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YourFaceIsFunny
12/19/07, 07:55 PM
I don't often post here but I need to vent.

Life is shitting on me a lot right now.

My boyfriend broke up with me Saturday and it's been really rough. We were together a little over a year, and it was all just really intense. Almost too good to be true, fairy tale like. First love. Blah, blah, blah. Just really hard to let go of.

I didn't get into the music program at my school because I completely blew my audition.

And last night my car got broken into, the window smashed in and my radio was stolen.

Why does all the bad shit come at once?

oneswiftmotion
12/19/07, 08:06 PM
ouch, that really sucks, and I have sympathy for you. Life has it's highs and lows, but you have to accept it, and I just want to lie and say it'll get better. But then again it just might.

updownleftright
12/19/07, 09:06 PM
tough break. all i can say is the worst is over, because that seriously sounds like the worst. xmas is soon, does that cheer you up any?

YourFaceIsFunny
12/20/07, 04:02 AM
tough break. all i can say is the worst is over, because that seriously sounds like the worst. xmas is soon, does that cheer you up any?

Normally it would, but actually that's his damn birthday. I went out and got his "birthmas" present the day before he broke up with me. awoiefjaw4j.

williek311
12/20/07, 05:13 AM
Bad things always come in three.

updownleftright
12/20/07, 05:53 AM
Normally it would, but actually that's his damn birthday. I went out and got his "birthmas" present the day before he broke up with me. awoiefjaw4j.

holymoly. i feel pretty stupid saying the worst is over and then you lay that one on me.
okay, i think officially the worst is over now. don't take my word, but i think its a very good assumption.

Rock
12/20/07, 06:49 AM
I don't often post here but I need to vent.

Life is shitting on me a lot right now.

My boyfriend broke up with me Saturday and it's been really rough. We were together a little over a year, and it was all just really intense. Almost too good to be true, fairy tale like. First love. Blah, blah, blah. Just really hard to let go of.

I didn't get into the music program at my school because I completely blew my audition.

And last night my car got broken into, the window smashed in and my radio was stolen.

Why does all the bad shit come at once?
Perspective my friend, perspective. Does all this stuff happening all at once suck? Of course. First loves almost always don't pan out (especially at 18). Will you love again? Most definitely. Will you have another chance to audition for the music program? Most definitely (if you're in college, it could be next quarter/semester). Should you want to kick the shit out of whoever vandalized your car? Most definitely. Ummm...hopefully, you have a job. Anyways, the point I'm trying to get across is that all of these troubles are very short term. Things will look up before long. Keep ya head up.

popdisaster00
12/20/07, 07:24 AM
I am terribly sorry, sounds like an uber shitty time in your life but it will get better. The same things always happen to me - a handful of shitty events all come pouring down at once. But the good thing is (and this is an assumption), you have a house and a family and friends and food to eat and clothes to wear which is more than half of the world has at this moment, so you are still doing pretty good. And soon, things will get better. Practice good Karma, it works.

Chancetobe
12/20/07, 10:22 AM
Life just seems to go like that, there are periods of complete shit, then they get better, then more shit. I guess it's one of those things where you just have to accept it. Sorry I can't be more encouraging.

YourFaceIsFunny
12/20/07, 01:29 PM
Perspective my friend, perspective. Does all this stuff happening all at once suck? Of course. First loves almost always don't pan out (especially at 18). Will you love again? Most definitely. Will you have another chance to audition for the music program? Most definitely (if you're in college, it could be next quarter/semester). Should you want to kick the shit out of whoever vandalized your car? Most definitely. Ummm...hopefully, you have a job. Anyways, the point I'm trying to get across is that all of these troubles are very short term. Things will look up before long. Keep ya head up.

You know, I've always been a huge advocate to my friends to keep their perspective etc., and through all of this I just got lost and kinda forgot.
Thanks for helping me check back in.
And I do indeed have a job, so there's one definite huge check on the positive side.

YourFaceIsFunny
12/20/07, 01:31 PM
holymoly. i feel pretty stupid saying the worst is over and then you lay that one on me.
okay, i think officially the worst is over now. don't take my word, but i think its a very good assumption.

Haha, sorry. It's a pretty ridiculous situation.
Hey, I'm already doing better though. I've been awake for ten hours and haven't cried yet today!
Yeah go me!

YourFaceIsFunny
12/20/07, 01:33 PM
Thanks everyone for the encouragement though. It's weird how something so little like a post on a message board can cheer you up, even just a little bit.

And I think I may be inspired to post more often on AP instead of just lurking. I've been here two years and have a little more than 100 posts haha.

Rock
12/20/07, 01:53 PM
You know, I've always been a huge advocate to my friends to keep their perspective etc., and through all of this I just got lost and kinda forgot.
Thanks for helping me check back in.
And I do indeed have a job, so there's one definite huge check on the positive side.
I thought that that might have been too cut and dry to help, but I'm glad I could help out. Glad you're feeling better about everything.

Dumpweed
12/20/07, 04:51 PM
Bad shit does always happen at once.
It gets better. Like you've heard a million times I'm sure - It takes time. It's true though.
Hang in there Champ, lolz.

Intertwined
12/20/07, 06:54 PM
Life's tough, get a helmet.

YourFaceIsFunny
12/20/07, 10:19 PM
Life's tough, get a helmet.

Boy Meets World man.
My friends and I used to always do that to each other, say that and smack each other in the forehead haha.

UntilItKillsYou
12/20/07, 10:24 PM
:hug:

Gumbyjag
12/21/07, 12:56 PM
At least you have Tim Curry on your side.

xvszero
12/21/07, 01:35 PM
Well 1 out of those 3 things you had direct control over (audition.)

Another 1 you had some control over (boyfriend.)

And the last one happens every other week, if you live in the city.

Intertwined
12/22/07, 10:21 PM
Boy Meets World man.
My friends and I used to always do that to each other, say that and smack each other in the forehead haha.

lmao

Nice. I did that with one kid when I was a freshman in Biology. He's retarded now.

Thug_Nasty
12/23/07, 08:15 PM
And last night my car got broken into, the window smashed in and my radio was stolen.

my bad.