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DeadTreeForMatt
01/03/08, 02:21 PM
I have been enjoying a very happy new relationship with my girlfriend for the past two weeks or so, but today my friend wrote me and told me that he heard from a very honest friend (who I also know to be honest) that she was making out with an older guy a week or so ago. I've known the friend who wrote me for six years and consider him one of my best friends. Cheating has also been a problem with my girlfriend's sister. I'm not sure what to think. I don't think it's far-fetched to think she's cheating on me given the situation but at the same time I truly hope it's a misunderstanding or something. What do you all think, and what should I do about it? I'm very upset and anything you all could do to help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks,

Matt

KidRobot
01/03/08, 02:32 PM
Fucking bounce her before you get attached.

brentkid
01/03/08, 02:36 PM
Who do you trust more?

FatJordan
01/03/08, 02:39 PM
1) She's cheating on you
2) You're too paranoid

which is it?

chronomic
01/03/08, 02:41 PM
murder solves more problems than youd think

DeadTreeForMatt
01/03/08, 02:45 PM
I am pretty paranoid, but I really do trust my friend. I'm not sure; I really like the girl. Considering dumping her, but at the same time I'm already a bit depressed lately as is and it might not help anything.

updownleftright
01/03/08, 03:23 PM
confront your girlfriend about it. there's not much else you can do.. other than stalk.

brentkid
01/03/08, 03:26 PM
You've only been going out for two weeks so I'd actually just confront her about it. She can't really pull any shit like, "Oh, so you don't trust me?" considering you guys have been together such a short time. However, if you guys do work it out, there may been bad blood between your buddy and her.

masebabi
01/03/08, 03:28 PM
trust the kid, dump the girl. thank me later.

andrewlterry
01/03/08, 03:30 PM
If you think she might be cheating on you, she probably is.

Illuminate
01/03/08, 03:34 PM
sleep with her mother and then her pet fish

hypa_dude
01/03/08, 03:39 PM
Anal her. Then, ask yourself "did that feel like someone has been there before?"

lauren<3s music
01/03/08, 03:43 PM
confront your girlfriend about it. there's not much else you can do.. other than stalk.

trust the kid, dump the girl. thank me later.

Anal her. Then, ask yourself "did that feel like someone has been there before?"


HAHAHAHHA. all good advice. seriously you have to confront her if you want to stay with her. and after 2 weeks you should be worrying about trying to get ass not if she's getting it elsewhere. id say dump her and find someone less dramatic

jagermeister
01/03/08, 04:16 PM
Confront her.

CatDiesel
01/03/08, 04:51 PM
you would know better than anyone on this site would...

apoemtothedead
01/03/08, 05:02 PM
I vote no.

saysmydoctor
01/03/08, 11:42 PM
Fuck her and dump her. Duh.

xvszero
01/04/08, 09:05 AM
Ask her straight up.

But don't listen to the words of her answer... WATCH HER EYES. If she looks away when she says she isn't cheating, she's probably lying.

(Actually this is terrible advice, but probably better than nothing.)

grabyourguns
01/04/08, 10:49 AM
murder solves more problems than youd think

true story. take her out.

justlistento
01/04/08, 12:19 PM
Haha, dump her.

breaking news!
01/04/08, 12:38 PM
getting friends involved in such situations cause things to get really messy...i sugget that you confront her, and hope that you can trust her to be honest with you. if you skip the steps of having friends do your dirty work, things are a lot easier to sort out.

otherwise, do her up the butt and dont call her back.

chronomic
01/04/08, 01:13 PM
you would know better than anyone on this site would...

false. we know all better then they know themselves

LoveLostShuffle
01/04/08, 01:18 PM
have sex with her and then stop talking to her because if she is cheating on you thats the funniest way to handle it haha

rockthatpit
01/04/08, 01:19 PM
Just ask her.

Or just dump her...if there's problems two weeks in, this is going nowhere fast.

seconds
01/05/08, 06:20 PM
I definitely was cheated on last night. I've been dating this girl for only a month, and I knew it wouldn't be anything too serious if we were already having sex within the first week. She also had a past, but there's not much I know about it. Maybe I should get myself checked out, but anyways, I am telling her that this isn't going to happen and that we're through. There's nothing more, and it's only my senior year of high school. No need for attachment.

Thug_Nasty
01/07/08, 09:07 PM
rape her?

Hamlet
01/08/08, 02:37 AM
Stalk her and get footage of her hooking up with another guy.

Then when you're having anal, show her the photos just before you bust your nut. When she contracts in fear it'll be the best feeling in your life.

Failing that, punching her in the back of the head also has the same effect.

rjmoz87
01/08/08, 10:31 AM
confront her and then she what she says about it. Its only been two weeks relationship so go with what you think is right.

ieatcrayons4fun
01/08/08, 11:46 AM
bros before hoes man.

i would say she's a cheater dude, and if she's cheating this early... dang... that's bad. get out of that.

but i would talk to her about it.