Can you sacrifice yourself for someone you need?

[swtuttt]

Hello, guys!
I have some problems with my beloved. Need you advice, mates. Hope, I won't seem to much sentimental.
The thing is that I am always sacrificing my time, my business, my everything if she needs me close to her. I can do whatever it takes to be with her. But she is not like me. She never sacrifices her time if I ask of it.
What can I do to help her to become a little more self-sacrificing?
I lust can't imagine a relationship without it.
Thanx

[biodegradable]

dump her.
she's too needy.

[sjb2k1]

Just tell her how you feel because shit like that can build up and resentment in a relationship doesn't work. If she doesn't want to give up some of her time for you, I'd question how she truly feels about you.

[KidRobot]

Anal.


Then dump her.

[swtuttt]

2 kid robot
You are damn cute)

2 sjb2k1
I am trying to tell all that, but she is always so busy with her studies, she tells me, it's not the right time to talk about personal things. That's what makes me sick. It would take 5 minutes for me to tell all that, so that she could understand.

[dustyfloors]

She's selfish.
Anal then dump is the right answer!

[anthony051]

I mean, she is being pretty selfish and it sounds like you are getting dragged around quite a bit. I think you need to ask yourself if your feelings for her are worth the one sidedness of the relationship.

[PadraicPrincess]

communication is the key.

[jonny4star]

if you cant dump her then ateast have her agree to have a night out wih friends like once a week, she will want the alone time just as much as you probably so she would go for it.

[pilot_light_out]

Sounds like a winning theme to an emo song.

[ieatcrayons4fun]

i think you should give her a taste of her own medicine. the next time she wants you to take some time off for her, just say no, your too busy. see how she likes it. and then if she throws a fit say EXACTLY, that's what you do to me and it doesn't feel good does it? or if she doesn't care, then she's not really worth having around as hard as that may seem.

[atticus1492]

ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAl ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL

[swtuttt]

We alredy had a period of silence. But we never learned anything.
Recently I told her all I have inside. She seems to be changing, but in a different way. She compinsates this with... donno how to say... "extra kindness" maybe. I think, we are getting out of this.
PS
I tried dumping her, but when she screamed out "I don't want to lose you" with such a feeling, I understood, it's not the way.

[Mrs.Sweeny Todd]

stop spending time wit her and she'll come to u like a lil puppy and then you'll have sex !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[StopActingDumb]

We alredy had a period of silence. But we never learned anything.
Recently I told her all I have inside. She seems to be changing, but in a different way. She compinsates this with... donno how to say... "extra kindness" maybe. I think, we are getting out of this.
PS
I tried dumping her, but when she screamed out "I don't want to lose you" with such a feeling, I understood, it's not the way.
If revenge has no effect on her either then you have even more reason to question whether she really loves you or not. In other words, ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL

[brentkid]

Sounds unfair dude. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where I'm the one that's going out of my way to do things that aren't being reciprocated.

[KidRobot]

2 kid robot
You are damn cute)

I'm not into guys, sorry.

[resrchmnkygrl6]

ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL ANAL
I had to delete a couple rows. Haha.

Anyway, I'm not picking on YOU specifically, but I honestly wonder how many more times that can be funny.
Seriously, when you see someone else post anal, does it still make you chuckle?

...just wondering.



And to the OP: she sounds like she doesn't care. She's taking too much out of you and doesn't reciprocate. Leave her and find someone that needs you too.

[atticus1492]

I had to delete a couple rows. Haha.

Anyway, I'm not picking on YOU specifically, but I honestly wonder how many more times that can be funny.
Seriously, when you see someone else post anal, does it still make you chuckle?

...just wondering.



And to the OP: she sounds like she doesn't care. She's taking too much out of you and doesn't reciprocate. Leave her and find someone that needs you too.

1) It has been the correct response since before time began. It still has a lot of lol potential left.

2) Yes I laugh. Every single time.

[AP_Punk]

http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y292/xplanesxmistakenx4xstarsx/2.gif

[thedondeluge]

Anal.


Then dump her.

haha that's horrible.

[hanglikeabat]

communication is key. just let her know how you feel.

[disco.tetris]

What's the point in being in a relationship that you're cleary unhappy in? You can't just keep giving and never get anything back. That's unfair.

[David Hazeel]

I know that most people have said to just break-up, but that can be incredibly hard if it is someone that you are 'joined at the hip' to and especially if she is determined to hold onto you.

What I would do is to, for a little while, stop sacrificing your time for her. It wouldn't have to be long, but enough so that she sees what you are in fact doing for her. If she doesn't realise and change, then, like someone else said, resentment could start to build up and things will become difficult between the two of you. It's a hard thing to do, but if she really cares about you and is serious about not wanting to lose you, she'll make concession for you just like you do for her.

[swtuttt]

I'm not into guys, sorry.

I am only into girls, relax)

1) Thanx to the "anal guys", you rock, I laughed a lot)

2) We are through the problem, mates. Thanx for your thoughts. I guess we can continue the topic of the thread, but I don't expect any advices now.

3) The solution in my way: people can't change themselves that hard, that's just not her way, but I got through to her, that she's hurting me, so she started compinsating that in her ways. Now she excuses every time she feels that she offended me. She became much more cute and caring. I'm not worried anymore.

[KidRobot]

http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y292/xplanesxmistakenx4xstarsx/2.gif

Holy shit. Amazing.

[chronomic]

its not worth it dude. i know what your situation is like.




murder is the only option

[Alexxx]

Cum on her face, then tell her its over.

[chronomic]

Cum on her face, then tell her its over.

winar

[David Hazeel]

Cum on her face, then tell her its over.

I didn't know whether to laugh or be disgusted by that.

The laughter won.

[swtuttt]

Dumped Her

[chronomic]

swt

[swtuttt]

What does that mean?

[Chancetobe]

Needy people never change. Leave before your stuck. Trust me.