View Full Version : Emo- cutting yourself
emopeoplerock
03/26/08, 02:20 PM
If anybody is going to judge me, or make fun of me, then don't waste your time even reading this...
I'm still having troubles with cutting, i quit a few months ago, because my friends were getting really worried, (but now, they're bearly even talking to me). I really need help. Anybody going through the same thing???
shit stroll
03/26/08, 02:28 PM
try cutting your throat next time
No. Try going to a doctor instead of seeking help from people on the Internet.
Machu505
03/26/08, 02:41 PM
What is the point of cutting? Doesn't that just increase the pain?
I've heard that it releases stress. Although I got that from that Thirteen movie.
Machu505
03/26/08, 02:46 PM
Wouldn't having your wrist ooze blood be stress inducing? Play video games or something to relive stress.
andrew4045
03/26/08, 02:47 PM
Make some more shitty, possibly fake threads and get ripped.
TheGoodnightMoon
03/26/08, 02:49 PM
Can someone fucking ban these fuck ups and delete their shitty threads already? All these pointless threads are polluting the forums.
Machu505
03/26/08, 02:50 PM
^agreed
ActionActionFan
03/26/08, 02:56 PM
I don't understand how walking around in public with cuts down your wrist could make you happy. I hate to break it to you but everyone is going to think there is something wrong with you and no one is going to talk to you. This will lead you to be more depressed. And then you will probably cut yourself more and well you see where I am going.
shit stroll
03/26/08, 02:56 PM
You don't need these friends to convince you not to cut. Self-mutilation isn't the answer to your problems. I've been cut free for 5 years now, and I keep on reminding myself I can't go back to that place. Things will get better they always do. Just do this for yourself, and for no one else. You will feel better in the end.
i disagree. we should encourage people like crazyrockgirl, emocupcakes and emopeoplerule to kill themselves so we never have to read their bullshit again
staywhatyouare9
03/26/08, 02:58 PM
i disagree. we should encourage people like crazyrockgirl, emocupcakes and emopeoplerule to kill themselves so we never have to read their bullshit again
agreed......DIE MOTHERFUCKERS
Rockybehri
03/26/08, 03:31 PM
try cutting your throat next time
wow, hilarious.
lovely864md
03/26/08, 04:32 PM
You doomed yourself by putting the word emo both in your name and in the title of this thread (which screams fake by the way). But either way, no one here has any sympathy for anyone who goes through the same shit as everyone else but feels the need to put a label on it and spend all their time complaining. I know this is going to offend you, but honestly, until you figure that out you are not going to be happy. Don't cut yourself. Just don't do it, it's only going to make any situation worse and the attention you might get for it is only going to be negative and hurt you in the long run. Talk to your parents/trusted adult/older sibling, whatever.
You doomed yourself by putting the word emo both in your name and in the title of this thread (which screams fake by the way).
My thoughts exactly.
But just in case you're real, I'm just going to say that you need to talk to a professional and not us, because creating this thread will just lead to ridicule.
Brandon Allin
03/26/08, 07:25 PM
If you need a shoulder to cry on, I'm here. I've been going through the same thing for years now, and every day I wake up feeling empty, almost like there's nothing to live for. I can't stop cutting myself. I look at cutting as a way to see if I can really feel any more pain, let alone feel anything at all.
No, wait, that was all a lie. You're an attention-seeking piece of shit and I hope you drown.
Chris Fallon
03/26/08, 08:24 PM
Let's see here:
1. You have stereotypical overdramatic username.
2. You constantly make threads about how terrible your life is as a teenager.
3. You never stick around to reply and take the advice.
Survey says:
You are a stereotypical teenager who can't seem to get enough attention from friends and family, and needs validation that everything is a-ok, so you frequent a website where you know you will be dumped upon by insults, but can't bother to defend yourself or bear to listen to anyone's advice (when they try to do it for your own good).
vertical is the way to go
andrew4045
03/27/08, 02:44 PM
if u think im just a lonely depressed person, you're wrong. just because i have a name "emopeoplerock" doesn't mean im 100 percent emo, even if i was, not all emos r like that...
brentkid
03/27/08, 03:20 PM
if u think im just a lonely depressed person, you're wrong. just because i have a name "emopeoplerock" doesn't mean im 100 percent emo, even if i was, not all emos r like that...
Either you completely blew your cover or I'm unable to see where this is coming from.
BikeMore
03/27/08, 03:30 PM
If anybody is going to judge me, or make fun of me, then don't waste your time even reading this...
You're posting in an online forum. You seriously don't expect people to mock you despite some dumb warning.
In all seriousness, you're pretty much asking everyone here to tell you to kill yourself.
Go to a real doctor.
edit: no wonder your boyfriend was holding hands with another girl.
bloody hand holding. gross.
http://absolutepunk.net/showthread.php?t=306204
pinkluv13
03/27/08, 03:31 PM
why would you choose ap of all sites to talk about this? go get some real help.
andrew4045
03/27/08, 03:41 PM
Either you completely blew your cover or I'm unable to see where this is coming from.
Private Message: reply...
05:22 PM on 03-27-08 #
emopeoplerock
Registered User
Charlotte, North Carolina
Female
10 posts since Mar 2008
if u think im just a lonely depressed person, you're wrong. just because i have a name "emopeoplerock" doesn't mean im 100 percent emo, even if i was, not all emos r like that...
Tyler Revolution
03/27/08, 03:41 PM
if u think im just a lonely depressed person, you're wrong. just because i have a name "emopeoplerock" doesn't mean im 100 percent emo, even if i was, not all emos r like that...
What?
Tyler Revolution
03/27/08, 03:43 PM
Private Message: reply...
05:22 PM on 03-27-08 #
emopeoplerock
Registered User
Charlotte, North Carolina
Female
10 posts since Mar 2008
if u think im just a lonely depressed person, you're wrong. just because i have a name "emopeoplerock" doesn't mean im 100 percent emo, even if i was, not all emos r like that...
Haha, posting this the first time would have been appropriate.
brentkid
03/27/08, 03:45 PM
Private Message: reply...
05:22 PM on 03-27-08 #
emopeoplerock
Registered User
Charlotte, North Carolina
Female
10 posts since Mar 2008
if u think im just a lonely depressed person, you're wrong. just because i have a name "emopeoplerock" doesn't mean im 100 percent emo, even if i was, not all emos r like that...
Hah, should have included this the first time. Gotta love PMs though.
Chris Fallon
03/27/08, 03:52 PM
I think this is skaterchick. They're both from Charlotte and stupid. I'm glad she's back.
jagermeister
03/27/08, 04:07 PM
Make some more shitty, possibly fake threads and get ripped.
That's some advice even I'll take!
emopeoplerock
03/27/08, 05:20 PM
Let's see here:
1. You have stereotypical overdramatic username.
2. You constantly make threads about how terrible your life is as a teenager.
3. You never stick around to reply and take the advice.
Survey says:
You are a stereotypical teenager who can't seem to get enough attention from friends and family, and needs validation that everything is a-ok, so you frequent a website where you know you will be dumped upon by insults, but can't bother to defend yourself or bear to listen to anyone's advice (when they try to do it for your own good).
when u say all these fucken gay things, it doesn't help me. if u can't read, i quit a long time ago, but im still thinking about it. if people r just gona make fun of me, what's the point in reading your stupid replies? if there is someone that actually wants to give me REAL advice, ill take it, so until then, fuck off...
emopeoplerock
03/27/08, 05:20 PM
If you need a shoulder to cry on, I'm here. I've been going through the same thing for years now, and every day I wake up feeling empty, almost like there's nothing to live for. I can't stop cutting myself. I look at cutting as a way to see if I can really feel any more pain, let alone feel anything at all.
No, wait, that was all a lie. You're an attention-seeking piece of shit and I hope you drown.
u fucken asshole.
emopeoplerock
03/27/08, 05:21 PM
if u think im just a lonely depressed person, you're wrong. just because i have a name "emopeoplerock" doesn't mean im 100 percent emo, even if i was, not all emos r like that...
again, shut the fuck up
emopeoplerock
03/27/08, 05:22 PM
Either you completely blew your cover or I'm unable to see where this is coming from.
don't listen to these bitches. they're fake assholes.
wroteurname
03/27/08, 05:24 PM
try cutting your throat next time
HOLY SHIT!!!!!!!!!!! AHAHAHAHHAHA
emopeoplerock
03/27/08, 05:25 PM
why would you choose ap of all sites to talk about this? go get some real help.
cuz this website is supposed ot "mend people's hearts" bullshit.
brentkid
03/27/08, 05:56 PM
don't listen to these bitches. they're fake assholes.
I think they're being pretty upfront. I don't see how they're fake. You on the other hand are just like the millions of other teenagers who've got it bad because they have no friends and think they're unique. But it's okay, it's totally not your fault right? Everyone else has the problem, not you.
Grow the fuck up.
pinkluv13
03/27/08, 06:01 PM
cuz this website is supposed ot "mend people's hearts" bullshit.
no. the music is supposed to do that. what you're dealing with can only be helped by professionals.
Brandon Allin
03/27/08, 06:40 PM
I got this message from emopeoplerock:
wow, thanx for putting that reply on my thread about cutting. (if ur even real. which i really hope u are). then thanx. why have u been doing it??? parents? loss of a friend or family member? something different? im just so tired of people making fun of me, and making stupid jokes. it's getting on my fucken nerves! anyways, reply back, check out my profile, write on my wall, if u want...
in response to this post:
If you need a shoulder to cry on, I'm here. I've been going through the same thing for years now, and every day I wake up feeling empty, almost like there's nothing to live for. I can't stop cutting myself. I look at cutting as a way to see if I can really feel any more pain, let alone feel anything at all.
No, wait, that was all a lie. You're an attention-seeking piece of shit and I hope you drown.
Assuming she hadn't read the spoiler, I knew it was only a matter of time. Alas, minutes later, I received this:
you fucken asshole! what the hell is ur problem? im so fucken tired of people making fun of me and emos. i thought joing this kind of website "absolute punk" where "music mends broken hearts" would be something where people weren't fake, but i guess that's only u,
To which I replied:
"Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha."
PezMullet
03/27/08, 06:58 PM
cut your clitoris... they do it in Africa and it's a good way to enhance your sexual pleasure after
andrew4045
03/27/08, 07:04 PM
again, shut the fuck up
That didn't look familiar, did it?
oface0315
03/27/08, 07:07 PM
If anybody is going to judge me, or make fun of me, then don't waste your time even reading this...
I'm still having troubles with cutting, i quit a few months ago, because my friends were getting really worried, (but now, they're bearly even talking to me). I really need help. Anybody going through the same thing???
this was just a clever plug for the new That Was Something album, Bears!
totallytudors
03/27/08, 07:59 PM
cuz this website is supposed ot "mend people's hearts" bullshit.
pfft. haha.
People like you bother me. You read these threads and the replies so you know what you're getting into. Telling people not to bother posting if they're just going to make fun of you is pointless and you know it.
You DO have problems because you know what kind of shit will get thrown at you.
People like you create stereotypes that people like me have to spend waayy too much time trying to break for everyone elses sake or convince teachers/parents/relatives/whomever not everyone fits into the mold whinny 'emo' brats create. I'm sure a good 90% of this forum would assume I am just like you if I posted more just because I am a teenage girl who listens to mainstream music (amongst other things). I don't want that image associated with me so I stay smart and keep my mouth shut. I know where I can go to talk about REAL 'personal life' issues.
I hope you're happy. And have fun ruining it for the rest of us.
Although I'm not sure how much I would enjoy the personal life forum without people like this....
Chris Fallon
03/27/08, 08:43 PM
when u say all these fucken gay things, it doesn't help me. if u can't read, i quit a long time ago, but im still thinking about it. if people r just gona make fun of me, what's the point in reading your stupid replies? if there is someone that actually wants to give me REAL advice, ill take it, so until then, fuck off...
"Fucken gay"? Your ignorance and lack of proper English/grammar skills is appalling -- and I stand by my presumptions about you, because you give me absolutely no reason to believe you are telling the truth. You made nearly five threads in the same day, all surrounding the "problems" you seek help for. Do I actually believe any of said problems are real? No, because all you want is attention and reassurance from strangers, and you know they aren't all going to be nice but you continue to seek advice.
I'm trying to be as nice as possible, but it's difficult when you come across as a whiny, self-loathing, attention whore who fights the same battles instead of trying to help yourself solve them. Maybe you should spend more time getting your life straight and less time looking for comfort from people who don't know nor like you. It's your own fault, and I can't feel too bad for you because you're just like every other 8th or 9th grader who roams in here.
Chris Fallon
03/27/08, 08:49 PM
cuz this website is supposed ot "mend people's hearts" bullshit.
Whoa, whoa, whoa -- I missed this, but ... how? It's such a wonderful target! I cannot believe my eyes -- am I really reading this nonsense?
Listen, babydoll ... obviously, you're brain has accidentally been switched to the 'off' position (unless you really are this dumb, in which case I just feel bad for the future), because if you honestly came onto this site with the intention of having fellow users dish out advice to help, you are not paying enough attention.
Look closely at the top of the page: this is a music website with message boards -- that DOES NOT mean we are a Personal Life forum first and a music website second. There are a slew of locations and people you can truly go to seek help from -- something tells me you came here knowing full well what you planned on doing, so pardon all of us if we're apathetic to your needs, because they do not sound sincere or genuine.
First-time users looking to make their introduction by making melodramatic threads (up to 4 or 5 of them) about their issues reeks of bullshit and attention-seeking shout-outs.
Chris Fallon
03/27/08, 08:52 PM
I got this message from emopeoplerock:
wow, thanx for putting that reply on my thread about cutting. (if ur even real. which i really hope u are). then thanx. why have u been doing it??? parents? loss of a friend or family member? something different? im just so tired of people making fun of me, and making stupid jokes. it's getting on my fucken nerves! anyways, reply back, check out my profile, write on my wall, if u want...
The fact that she still asks you to look at her profile and write on her wall proves my assumptions were correct: she is looking for attention from all of us, even if we're total dicks to her. Wow, what a doormat.
Okay, sorry, I'm done now. I keep going back after writing and noticing something wonderfully ignorant.
CityOfLust
03/27/08, 10:21 PM
The fact that she still asks you to look at her profile and write on her wall proves my assumptions were correct: she is looking for attention from all of us, even if we're total dicks to her. Wow, what a doormat.
Okay, sorry, I'm done now. I keep going back after writing and noticing something wonderfully ignorant. no you just don't know how us emo's are. we cut because we need to feel. we cut because bleeding lets us know we still live. emo's unite forever!
/end bad joke
Chris Fallon
03/28/08, 01:48 AM
Hahahaha, it's okay!
I understand man ... I'm here for you.
totallytudors
03/28/08, 02:36 AM
but seriously, pics or it never happened.
until then, i call bullshit on this crazy bitch.
SweetPoison
03/28/08, 05:52 AM
If anybody is going to judge me, or make fun of me, then don't waste your time even reading this...
I'm still having troubles with cutting, i quit a few months ago, because my friends were getting really worried, (but now, they're bearly even talking to me). I really need help. Anybody going through the same thing???
ok you know when you post something like this that someone more like a bunch of people are going to give you problems so why? i dont get people that post shit like this and then bitch because people are mean to them...
KillyourIdols88
03/28/08, 08:17 AM
People like you bother me. You read these threads and the replies so you know what you're getting into. Telling people not to bother posting if they're just going to make fun of you is pointless and you know it.
You DO have problems because you know what kind of shit will get thrown at you.
People like you create stereotypes that people like me have to spend waayy too much time trying to break for everyone elses sake or convince teachers/parents/relatives/whomever not everyone fits into the mold whinny 'emo' brats create. I'm sure a good 90% of this forum would assume I am just like you if I posted more just because I am a teenage girl who listens to mainstream music (amongst other things). I don't want that image associated with me so I stay smart and keep my mouth shut. I know where I can go to talk about REAL 'personal life' issues.
I hope you're happy. And have fun ruining it for the rest of us.
Although I'm not sure how much I would enjoy the personal life forum without people like this....
I supourt what you say.
JustAnotherPoet
03/28/08, 09:01 AM
cuz this website is supposed ot "mend people's hearts" bullshit.
i believe the tag line is "Music Mends Broken Hearts", not "Roflcopter/Anal/Sarcastic Assholes-with-nothing-better-to-do-than-argue-via-the-internets Mends Broken Hearts"
correct me if i'm wrong.
standardline
03/28/08, 10:20 AM
this topic = ahahahahahahahahahaha
nateisawesome
03/28/08, 10:36 AM
stupid
no one cares
fRiEnDsOnFiReHX
03/28/08, 01:38 PM
I supourt what you say.
Go to Match.com if you want love advice. This is the personal life thread on AP. GTFO
CityOfLust
03/28/08, 03:58 PM
Go to Match.com if you want love advice. This is the personal life thread on AP. GTFO I'm unclear as to when this 13 year old fiestiness appeared.
Chris Fallon
03/28/08, 04:54 PM
When a fake account is talking shit on you, you know you're an asshole.
Brandon Allin
03/28/08, 06:09 PM
i believe the tag line is "Music Mends Broken Hearts", not "Roflcopter/Anal/Sarcastic Assholes-with-nothing-better-to-do-than-argue-via-the-internets Mends Broken Hearts"
correct me if i'm wrong.
your profile picture is a fucking joke.
I wish your parents had walked in while you were taking that picture.
"honey, whatever are you doing?"
"oh, hi mom. I'm just taking a picture on top of the piano to be an obnoxious slut."
amysaurus
03/28/08, 06:28 PM
your profile picture is a fucking joke.
I wish your parents had walked in while you were taking that picture.
"honey, whatever are you doing?"
"oh, hi mom. I'm just taking a picture on top of the piano to be an obnoxious slut."
I really didn't want to post in this thread, but I found this comment absolutely hilarious.
tbone0329
03/28/08, 06:54 PM
you fuckin emo keeds really need to grow some balls and learn how to deal with problems the real way and not the pussy cutting shit.
JustAnotherPoet
03/28/08, 08:25 PM
your profile picture is a fucking joke.
I wish your parents had walked in while you were taking that picture.
"honey, whatever are you doing?"
"oh, hi mom. I'm just taking a picture on top of the piano to be an obnoxious slut."
well what do you know, "obnoxious slut" happens to be my middle name...
music_is_mysoul
03/28/08, 09:55 PM
Good Lord people! I'm not necessarily saying that she is completely right here, but I don't think that you need to crucify her for saying those things.
I am a recovering cutter, and while I have never posted anything like this on any website [not ignorant enough for that], I do understand those who do. Not everybody who cuts is a stupid emo kid who is whining about nothing; some of us have actual issues and being ridiculed by others who don't understand does not help. I agree that cutting is not the way to go, and I also agree that people who cut should go to therapists and not ask for advice on the internet; but sometimes people feel that they have no other way to go. Some people feel trapped and cornered and helpless and the only way they feel they can get help is through the internet. Most of the time that doesn't work, as shown clearly here; but I have met some extraordinarily amazing people over the internet who have been through the same thing and know how to help.
So while you have all sat there in your comfy chairs typing such horribly mean things to a girl that you don't even know, I advise you to grow up and realize that not every cutter is a whiny emo kid who doesn't have a care in the world. Next time somebody reaches out to you, or posts something like this, stop a moment and realize that not every person is a stereotype. I have been ridiculed enough times by so-called friends when they found out that I cut, calling me emo. It hurts. You may not think it hurts; you may think we are used to it. We aren't. We have feelings and emotions just like you.
So just think next time, yes?
KillyourIdols88
03/28/08, 10:32 PM
Go to Match.com if you want love advice. This is the personal life thread on AP. GTFO
Choke on a dick.
KillyourIdols88
03/28/08, 10:39 PM
Good Lord people! I'm not necessarily saying that she is completely right here, but I don't think that you need to crucify her for saying those things.
I am a recovering cutter, and while I have never posted anything like this on any website [not ignorant enough for that], I do understand those who do. Not everybody who cuts is a stupid emo kid who is whining about nothing; some of us have actual issues and being ridiculed by others who don't understand does not help. and not ask for advice on the internet; but sometimes people feel that they have no other way to go. Some people feel trapped and cornered and helpless and the only way they feel they can get help is through the internet. Most of the time that doesn't work, as shown clearly here; but I have met some extraordinarily amazing people over the internet who have been through the same thing and know how to help.
So while you have all sat there in your comfy chairs typing such horribly mean things to a girl that you don't even know, I advise you to grow up and realize that not every cutter is a whiny emo kid who doesn't have a care in the world. Next time somebody reaches out to you, or posts something like this, stop a moment and realize that not every person is a stereotype. I have been ridiculed enough times by so-called friends when they found out that I cut, calling me emo. It hurts. You may not think it hurts; you may think we are used to it. We aren't. We have feelings and emotions just like you.
So just think next time, yes?
Sorry for the double post..
You're 16.
music_is_mysoul
03/29/08, 09:24 AM
Sorry for the double post..
You're 16.
Yes, and?
I supourt what you say.
Well thank you. At least someone does :)
And who knows, maybe I'll 'show my face' a bit more around here...
p.s. where did match.com come in?
I wasn't bitching about relationships and neither was he.....
emopeoplerock
03/29/08, 10:51 AM
no. the music is supposed to do that. what you're dealing with can only be helped by professionals.
thanx for that advice, at least.
emopeoplerock
03/29/08, 10:53 AM
Good Lord people! I'm not necessarily saying that she is completely right here, but I don't think that you need to crucify her for saying those things.
I am a recovering cutter, and while I have never posted anything like this on any website [not ignorant enough for that], I do understand those who do. Not everybody who cuts is a stupid emo kid who is whining about nothing; some of us have actual issues and being ridiculed by others who don't understand does not help. I agree that cutting is not the way to go, and I also agree that people who cut should go to therapists and not ask for advice on the internet; but sometimes people feel that they have no other way to go. Some people feel trapped and cornered and helpless and the only way they feel they can get help is through the internet. Most of the time that doesn't work, as shown clearly here; but I have met some extraordinarily amazing people over the internet who have been through the same thing and know how to help.
So while you have all sat there in your comfy chairs typing such horribly mean things to a girl that you don't even know, I advise you to grow up and realize that not every cutter is a whiny emo kid who doesn't have a care in the world. Next time somebody reaches out to you, or posts something like this, stop a moment and realize that not every person is a stereotype. I have been ridiculed enough times by so-called friends when they found out that I cut, calling me emo. It hurts. You may not think it hurts; you may think we are used to it. We aren't. We have feelings and emotions just like you.
So just think next time, yes?
thank you!!! absolutly right!!!!!
KillyourIdols88
03/29/08, 11:40 AM
Yes, and?
I bolded a line for a reason.
fRiEnDsOnFiReHX
03/29/08, 12:05 PM
Choke on a dick.
You from midland? I heard the doctors don't know anything their. Look what they did to Boobie Miles. I tried cutting once. My dad walked in on me and called me a pussy. Never did it again.
ChiefSuckyDucky
03/29/08, 01:03 PM
If anybody is going to judge me, or make fun of me, then don't waste your time even reading this...
I'm still having troubles with cutting, i quit a few months ago, because my friends were getting really worried, (but now, they're bearly even talking to me). I really need help. Anybody going through the same thing???
Have you tried scalping yourself?
KillyourIdols88
03/29/08, 05:05 PM
You from midland? I heard the doctors don't know anything their. Look what they did to Boobie Miles. I tried cutting once. My dad walked in on me and called me a pussy. Never did it again.
You"re fucking stupid.
Chris Fallon
03/29/08, 06:00 PM
Good Lord people! I'm not necessarily saying that she is completely right here, but I don't think that you need to crucify her for saying those things.
I am a recovering cutter, and while I have never posted anything like this on any website [not ignorant enough for that], I do understand those who do. Not everybody who cuts is a stupid emo kid who is whining about nothing; some of us have actual issues and being ridiculed by others who don't understand does not help. I agree that cutting is not the way to go, and I also agree that people who cut should go to therapists and not ask for advice on the internet; but sometimes people feel that they have no other way to go. Some people feel trapped and cornered and helpless and the only way they feel they can get help is through the internet. Most of the time that doesn't work, as shown clearly here; but I have met some extraordinarily amazing people over the internet who have been through the same thing and know how to help.
So while you have all sat there in your comfy chairs typing such horribly mean things to a girl that you don't even know, I advise you to grow up and realize that not every cutter is a whiny emo kid who doesn't have a care in the world. Next time somebody reaches out to you, or posts something like this, stop a moment and realize that not every person is a stereotype. I have been ridiculed enough times by so-called friends when they found out that I cut, calling me emo. It hurts. You may not think it hurts; you may think we are used to it. We aren't. We have feelings and emotions just like you.
So just think next time, yes?
too long, didn't read
music_is_mysoul
03/29/08, 08:30 PM
I bolded a line for a reason.
Are you saying that I am too young to be a recovering cutter?
Falling_down64
03/29/08, 08:55 PM
Good Lord people! I'm not necessarily saying that she is completely right here, but I don't think that you need to crucify her for saying those things.
I am a recovering cutter, and while I have never posted anything like this on any website [not ignorant enough for that], I do understand those who do. Not everybody who cuts is a stupid emo kid who is whining about nothing; some of us have actual issues and being ridiculed by others who don't understand does not help. I agree that cutting is not the way to go, and I also agree that people who cut should go to therapists and not ask for advice on the internet; but sometimes people feel that they have no other way to go. Some people feel trapped and cornered and helpless and the only way they feel they can get help is through the internet. Most of the time that doesn't work, as shown clearly here; but I have met some extraordinarily amazing people over the internet who have been through the same thing and know how to help.
So while you have all sat there in your comfy chairs typing such horribly mean things to a girl that you don't even know, I advise you to grow up and realize that not every cutter is a whiny emo kid who doesn't have a care in the world. Next time somebody reaches out to you, or posts something like this, stop a moment and realize that not every person is a stereotype. I have been ridiculed enough times by so-called friends when they found out that I cut, calling me emo. It hurts. You may not think it hurts; you may think we are used to it. We aren't. We have feelings and emotions just like you.
So just think next time, yes?
Thanks. I've wanted to say something like that for a while now, but never knew a way to put it. You pretty much just read my mind. Thanks. And this so called 'emo' is just a stupid stero-type, and I cant stand when people call someone 'emo' just because they cut themselfs. Calling thim 'emo' (most of the time) makes it worse.
Falling_down64
03/29/08, 08:56 PM
Are you saying that I am too young to be a recovering cutter?
No one is too young to recover. I am one to speak.
music_is_mysoul
03/29/08, 09:00 PM
Thanks. I've wanted to say something like that for a while now, but never knew a way to put it. You pretty much just read my mind. Thanks. And this so called 'emo' is just a stupid stero-type, and I cant stand when people call someone 'emo' just because they cut themselfs. Calling thim 'emo' (most of the time) makes it worse.
Thank you for your words. Nice to have support in common sense.
:]
Falling_down64
03/29/08, 09:04 PM
Thank you for your words. Nice to have support in common sense.
:]
No problem. :]
KillyourIdols88
03/30/08, 01:17 AM
Yes I am saying you're too young to be a recovering cutter.
You from midland? I heard the doctors don't know anything their. Look what they did to Boobie Miles. I tried cutting once. My dad walked in on me and called me a pussy. Never did it again.
and now the fact you say that just makes you flat out stupid.
LastPlaceRocks
03/30/08, 01:30 AM
So why does one self-harm themselves? Makes no sense to me.
caityconundrum
03/30/08, 02:51 AM
So why does one self-harm themselves? Makes no sense to me.
it's a control thing. i've had friends that got way too into it and i'm not condoning it at all because i realize that it honestly solves nothing and doesn't help shit. i think it's stupid, but i get why they did it. when you feel like nothing in your life is up to you, you need to have something under your own control, something that you have power over. it's a stupid thing to control, but it's kinda the same with eating disorders.
ChiefSuckyDucky
03/30/08, 10:29 AM
It is pointless to cut since opium can made at home, or attained fairly easy. Try this little bear and watch all your problems fly away like an armadillo in the wind.
lovely864md
03/30/08, 04:15 PM
It is pointless to cut since opium can made at home, or attained fairly easy. Try this little bear and watch all your problems fly away like an armadillo in the wind.
You are so fucking weird.
CityOfLust
03/30/08, 09:44 PM
Hey Kids! Try this at home!
When you feel sad, cut your wrists! You just MIGHT die!
absolutealexx
03/30/08, 11:16 PM
Hey Kids! Try this at home!
When you feel sad, cut your wrists! You just MIGHT die!
And if you attempt to, always remember: it's down the road, not across the street.
jadedromantic18
03/31/08, 09:17 AM
If anybody is going to judge me, or make fun of me, then don't waste your time even reading this...
I'm still having troubles with cutting, i quit a few months ago, because my friends were getting really worried, (but now, they're bearly even talking to me). I really need help. Anybody going through the same thing???
I definately went through the same thing, first it was just whenever i was really sad, I have clinical depression, then it was whenever i was stressed, now im not allowed to be near knives, razors,or even pills. I've tried to kill myself almost 14 times.But you have to realize that sometimes it'snot worth it, you're really hurting the people that you love too when you do cut yourself.
When something bad happens write down everything you're thinking and if you still want to cut afterwards then do it, but only in a place where other people can't see.
Please take my advice and get better!!
googirl8907
03/31/08, 09:27 AM
If you have a problem, go to a professional. Don't complain about it on a message board. The only advice you are going to get here is anal.
s.t.e.v.e.n.
03/31/08, 09:57 AM
i'm honestly sickened by some of the responses on here
to the thread starter, your better off not seeking help here, but you should seek it somewhere
and to anyone else in the thread who deals with these issues, I'd encourage you to check out To Write Love on Her Arms. An incredible organization that is doing incredible things to bring hope to people.
touchofgrey04
03/31/08, 08:12 PM
Could've closed this thread after the first reply.
And I do mean that. Yes, some people get off on cutting themselves as some form of pacifier or distraction from mental anguish, but most people (especially because of you fucking emo kids) just do it as a way to get attention. You're not depressed, you're bored. And the reason why you want attention is because you can't accept that to most people, your life is trivial and unimportant. And that's that. The entire emo trend is driven by the very catalyst that emo kids can't handle life, and they're all either in high school or are stuck in a high school mentality. The truth hurts kids, and the truth is that you've resigned yourself to a fad of making a parody of your infantile emotional development.
AP_Punk
03/31/08, 08:42 PM
poor emo souls
Dye_Romantic
03/31/08, 08:59 PM
i kno how u feel gurl. i jst hope tht u can get thru these tough times. my dad is alwas drunk and he makes me feel lyke shit. cutting myself and punishign my self makes me fell better.
Ravenna
03/31/08, 09:22 PM
It is pointless to cut since opium can made at home, or attained fairly easy. Try this little bear and watch all your problems fly away like an armadillo in the wind.
this made me lol
standardline
04/04/08, 04:31 PM
i really like cheese, like the really strong ones, they are awesome
edit: if you're going to use this as an excuse to rip on me dont do it! this is for serious responses only!
i really like cheese, like the really strong ones, they are awesome
edit: if you're going to use this as an excuse to rip on me dont do it! this is for serious responses only!
sorry i can't help it, i'm from obnoxiousville.
mutedheartbeats
04/04/08, 05:13 PM
if you're emo it doesn't mean you cut, if you cut it doesn't mean you're emo... so i don't even know why that is being debated.
This is what i can give you...
i suggest going here for information:
http://www.palace.net/~llama/psych/injury.html
and then if you want help from people that self injure or survived go to the forum:
http://buslist.org/phpBB/
the (arguably) best therapy for this is usually cognitive-behavioral. so if you have the resources i'd try to get a therapist as soon as possible to get to the underlying issues. i hope this helps. good luck.
standardline
04/05/08, 04:09 AM
sorry i can't help it, i'm from obnoxiousville.
:-D
PickGuard
04/05/08, 11:02 PM
Are you saying that I am too young to be a recovering cutter? Could you please type in black?
music_is_mysoul
04/06/08, 08:49 PM
Could you please type in black?
what's wrong with indigo?
absolutealexx
04/06/08, 08:58 PM
what's wrong with indigo?
Yeah, typing in colors is pretty much frowned upon on these boards. I learned that as well when I typed in colors before.
music_is_mysoul
04/07/08, 08:30 PM
Yeah, typing in colors is pretty much frowned upon on these boards. I learned that as well when I typed in colors before.
por que?
Monica_2393
05/04/08, 07:21 PM
cuz this website is supposed ot "mend people's hearts" bullshit.
Fuck that cutting yourself has nothing to do with music
it's just a lame excuse people use to get attention.
lovely864md
05/04/08, 07:59 PM
This is like fucking n00bie theater.
MrHandy
05/04/08, 08:44 PM
Why do threads created by idiotic fake emo accounts last so long?
Kassie09
05/04/08, 08:46 PM
because we use them to talk about pointless shit that deserves to go in these
coltenskdfh
05/04/08, 09:05 PM
How can you have problems with cutting?
I refuse to believe that cutting can become an addiction. Unless you function off attention, which (no offense) you do. But even then, i still dont believe it is addicting.
Its ridiculous.
Kassie09
05/04/08, 09:17 PM
How can you have problems with cutting?
I refuse to believe that cutting can become an addiction. Unless you function off attention, which (no offense) you do. But even then, i still dont believe it is addicting.
Its ridiculous.
As much as I want to be not be serious in this thread, I can see how it'd be addicting.
coltenskdfh
05/04/08, 09:24 PM
As much as I want to be not be serious in this thread, I can see how it'd be addicting.
Eh, i will never believe its addicting.
I read that whole control thing post, and there are so many other things you can have in your control.. I dont understand it.
fadedmemories
05/04/08, 09:24 PM
You doomed yourself by putting the word emo both in your name and in the title of this thread (which screams fake by the way). But either way, no one here has any sympathy for anyone who goes through the same shit as everyone else but feels the need to put a label on it and spend all their time complaining.
I love the title of this thread LOL
amysaurus
05/04/08, 09:25 PM
Good lord, why does this thread exist? Go get some professional help if you really are cutting yourself. If not, then go away.
fadedmemories
05/04/08, 09:26 PM
Eh, i will never believe its addicting.
I read that whole control thing post, and there are so many other things you can have in your control.. I dont understand it.
apparently cutting, or any kind of method of self hurt, releases endorphins, and get the same feeling you get when you eat chocolate
coltenskdfh
05/04/08, 09:29 PM
apparently cutting, or any kind of method of self hurt, releases endorphins, and get the same feeling you get when you eat chocolate
Ya, I heard about that...
Im guessing it makes them feel good? I dont know though
If thats the case, there are plenty of other things that make you feel good and happy.
Reminds me of Soundwave Festival here in Australia. The frontman of Killswitch noticed a bunch of emo-looking scenesters off to the side of the main pit, just standing their looking all mopey, with folded arms. He stops the music and says the following:
"All you fucking emo queers get the fuck out of my pit. Look at you cunts, "Waa waa I am a giant pussy and my pussy is bleeding, why wont she love me?" ******s! Eat meat, drink beer. Get over it!"
Best thing I have ever heard in my existence.
edit: *whispers: it says a naughty word for homosexuals, starting with f.
fadedmemories
05/04/08, 09:40 PM
Reminds me of Soundwave Festival here in Australia. The frontman of Killswitch noticed a bunch of emo-looking scenesters off to the side of the main pit, just standing their looking all mopey, with folded arms. He stops the music and says the following:
"All you fucking emo queers get the fuck out of my pit. Look at you cunts, "Waa waa I am a giant pussy and my pussy is bleeding, why wont she love me?" ******s! Eat meat, drink beer. Get over it!"
Best thing I have ever heard in my existence.
though I'm not a fan of scenesters that don't know how to have fun, the killswitch dude sounds like a real douche, those kids went and paid to see a show and who is he to say that? has he ever listened to one of his bands' records? or did that made his ears bleed
lovely864md
05/04/08, 09:52 PM
Reminds me of Soundwave Festival here in Australia. The frontman of Killswitch noticed a bunch of emo-looking scenesters off to the side of the main pit, just standing their looking all mopey, with folded arms. He stops the music and says the following:
"All you fucking emo queers get the fuck out of my pit. Look at you cunts, "Waa waa I am a giant pussy and my pussy is bleeding, why wont she love me?" ******s! Eat meat, drink beer. Get over it!"
Best thing I have ever heard in my existence.
edit: *whispers: it says a naughty word for homosexuals, starting with f.
Yeah, a word that's not allowed on these forums because of offensive it is.
Chris Fallon
05/05/08, 12:20 AM
Why was this bumped? Pointless.
just remember;
it's down the road, not across the street...
xxemo_kittyxx
05/05/08, 08:41 AM
There's this creepy guy in class who cuts. He's not emo though, he sits in front of the computer playing warcraft all day. He text messages like about 5 girls in my class, bragging about how he cuts, telling them that he loves them and that they're the reason why he didn't kill himself yet. All the messages are usually the same. Some people are just way too freaky.
thespearkid
05/05/08, 08:55 AM
Reminds me of Soundwave Festival here in Australia. The frontman of Killswitch noticed a bunch of emo-looking scenesters off to the side of the main pit, just standing their looking all mopey, with folded arms. He stops the music and says the following:
"All you fucking emo queers get the fuck out of my pit. Look at you cunts, "Waa waa I am a giant pussy and my pussy is bleeding, why wont she love me?" ******s! Eat meat, drink beer. Get over it!"
Best thing I have ever heard in my existence.
I too often find myself annoyed with mopey trendsters at shows but what right does Mr. Killswitch have to harrass paying kids who weren't disturbing anyone? Lame.
JimGray
05/05/08, 09:09 AM
I too often find myself annoyed with mopey trendsters at shows but what right does Mr. Killswitch have to harrass paying kids who weren't disturbing anyone? Lame.
Agreed.
hardheadhayley
05/05/08, 04:02 PM
istruggle with cutting to...sometimes its easy to deal with sometimes the urge is to much and u just want to do it more.... but anyhow you need to get where u are comfortable with yourself and your surroundings or whatever that is triggering you to si (self-injure) and just try to avoid situations that make u wanna hurt yourself. if there is no possible way for you to do this just try doing something to take up your time. oh and by the way just b/c u cut yourself doesn't mean u are emo unless u actually like the stereotyping but thats your decision not mine
Monica_2393
05/05/08, 08:11 PM
istruggle with cutting to...sometimes its easy to deal with sometimes the urge is to much and u just want to do it more.... but anyhow you need to get where u are comfortable with yourself and your surroundings or whatever that is triggering you to si (self-injure) and just try to avoid situations that make u wanna hurt yourself. if there is no possible way for you to do this just try doing something to take up your time. oh and by the way just b/c u cut yourself doesn't mean u are emo unless u actually like the stereotyping but thats your decision not mine
I dont undterstand how cutting helps with the "pain" when you adding more pain
Is it like a rush you get or wat
thesafeword
05/05/08, 09:26 PM
Total rush. Make that a total emo rush.
absolutealexx
05/05/08, 09:50 PM
EDIT: someone used the same line as me before I could say it.
thesafeword
05/05/08, 09:54 PM
Shut up.
absolutealexx
05/05/08, 10:16 PM
Shut up.
It's been edited b/c you beat me to saying the same thing. Chill.
thesafeword
05/05/08, 10:34 PM
Lol, it's all cool. Plus, I don't chill, I'm emo.
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