Just The Girls: Need Opinion Please

[Vismund_Cygnus]

Hey girls. I'm guy that wants to ask for your girls' opinion. Imagine this scenario for me:

Let say you like this guy, but in the beginning it seems that he does not show any interest. You like this guy for a while and show you are interested, but he does not show the same interest back. Eventually you decided to move on. However, later on, this same guy actually started showing some interest in you even though you may have moved.

The question I want to ask is that, if you were the girl in this situation would you still give this guy a chance?

Also, if there is any advice, please add that, too. Thanks ladies.

[hanglikeabat]

to keep this short, and speaking from past experience, my answer is..i would not give him a chance.

[Vismund_Cygnus]

to keep this short, and speaking from past experience, my answer is..i would not give him a chance.

If you don't mind me asking (I'm asking this sincerely and out of curiousity), can you tell me why?

[alecksisx33]

i would if i could consider having feelings for him again.
but then again, no if its a lost cause.

[jagermeister]

lol

[chronomic]

sounds like a classic case of you having to murder someone

[brentkid]

Well you fucked up.

[breaking news!]

Well you fucked up.
yeah, might be too late.

im not sure i would be interested if i was in this situation...makes you wonder your able to decide--seems like your too fickle.

[Beautifullyemo]

personally, i would give him a chance. if he really wanted me, and I used to like him, i dont think it's too late.

[Chancetobe]

You'd have to show her a lot of interest. Tell her how much you want her, and there's a chance. I mean, it's possible that she never actually moved on, and is just pretending that she did.

[Dumpweed]

my mom said no.

[ashhole]

You'd have to show her a lot of interest. Tell her how much you want her, and there's a chance. I mean, it's possible that she never actually moved on, and is just pretending that she did.
thats totally true.....
or she might be over it.
why don't you just straight up ask her dude?

[amysaurus]

Maybe, if I was still into him (which is definitely always a possibility, so don't give up hope just yet). Make sure you tell her how much you're into her though.

[seesky?fly.]

i'm in this situation right now, yes i woud give the guy a chance. except it happened to me from your point of view and now the guy from the girls point of view is just leading me on aha so really, go for it.

[googirl8907]

I think you might have ruined your chance.

[Chris Fallon]

Rape is just a word - and so is anal.

Think about it.

[atticus1492]

Kill her now.

[Dye_Romantic]

i totly wuld!

[Chris Fallon]

i totly wuld!
Please stop living.

[brntsnfan]

I say go for it, no matter how much you're 'over' someone, unless they cheated on you or did something unforgivable of that matter, there is always a little string of hope.... do it, and if it doesn't turn out great, well, at least you can say you tried.

:-)

[PadraicPrincess]

Hey girls. I'm guy that wants to ask for your girls' opinion. Imagine this scenario for me:

Let say you like this guy, but in the beginning it seems that he does not show any interest. You like this guy for a while and show you are interested, but he does not show the same interest back. Eventually you decided to move on. However, later on, this same guy actually started showing some interest in you even though you may have moved.

The question I want to ask is that, if you were the girl in this situation would you still give this guy a chance?

Also, if there is any advice, please add that, too. Thanks ladies.

I definatly would. Who knows, maybe this guy was having some trouble somewhere else so he couldn't focus on the girl when he wanted to. Obviously if this whole i'm interested but i'm not thing continued later, I would move on.

[Kassie09]

Yes I would, that happened to me before.
I just ended up remembering why I liked him so much.
And of course, maybe it was just a bad time for him and he was confused.

But I am a very nice girl so it may not always be the case.

[Hamlet]

And you don't need to pretend it's a 'hypothetical situation'. This is the internet, and you are anonymous.

Until I cyberstalk you.

[MrsGarrison]

this happened to me freshman year of high school. i showed an interest in this junior, luke. we talked, exchanged numbers, etc. over the summer, i never got a call. sophomore year comes around, im still pretty jaded about the whole thing and i decide to just move on...he just comes up to me in the hall and starts talking to me, apologizes for never calling, and suggests we start hanging out. i still had feelings for him, so i went with it. i am now almost done w/ my junior year and we are still together. i cant say things will work out like this every single time...but sometimes they can.

[beautifulpoison]

I think it would really depend on whether or not she actually moved on, or just made you think she did. I on the other hand would definately give him another chance if I was into him enough to show interest in the first place. If she made first move, it's a good sign.

[whitexrabbitxxx]

It really all depends on how much she liked him or you, or whatever. But at the same time, she's moved on and is with another guy, don't jeopardize her chances for happiness with that guy. If you think you're good for her and will make her happy, and she's available, go for it.

And, if I was the girl, I would give you another chance, but that's just me. I mean if I was as interested as you have painted her out to be, then she probably still has feelings for you, she's just suppressing them.

That's my opinion of the situation though

[PickGuard]

Still worth a shot,but you have to really show interest

[The_kok]

she should be run over by a gasoline truck and that truck should then be set on fire

[estrella starr]

no, i wouldnt give him a chance.

[Shoes]

Probably not. But if you really generally like the girl why don't you talk to her and tell her you fucked up?

[patpratt]

yeah, might be too late.

im not sure i would be interested if i was in this situation...makes you wonder your able to decide--seems like your too fickle.

people are so fickle, they fall in love at different angles.

[patpratt]

for realsies though, this is probably just another case of people wanting what they can't have. and if you do actually get her back, you will realize you don't even want her.

scrubs ftw.

[lovely864md]

to keep this short, and speaking from past experience, my answer is..i would not give him a chance.

this answer is correct

[michelle!]

probably not.

[Machu505]

Anal.

[trex_music]

Chicks are suckers for punishment. Go for it.

[Villanova1L]

Well you fucked up.

He didn't mess anything up, obviously this is completely hypothetical.

[absolutealexx]

I wouldn't give him another chance. It's his loss.

[xXaLLiOo]

Hey girls. I'm guy that wants to ask for your girls' opinion. Imagine this scenario for me:

Let say you like this guy, but in the beginning it seems that he does not show any interest. You like this guy for a while and show you are interested, but he does not show the same interest back. Eventually you decided to move on. However, later on, this same guy actually started showing some interest in you even though you may have moved.

The question I want to ask is that, if you were the girl in this situation would you still give this guy a chance?

Also, if there is any advice, please add that, too. Thanks ladies.



well I am a girl in this situation right now. And I know when I make the decision to move on I have to stick to it. It's kind of a self-preservation thing. And even if I do cave and give the guy another chance I feel like I've caved. And a relationship starting with feelings of guilt and regret and self doubt for caving isnt likely to be a healthy relationship.

[pyromania101]

If Ived moved on
Ive moved on
simple as that

I agree, u screwed up

[DaniMoo]

I think you definitely still have a chance.

When you really like someone, you are always going to have feelings for them, unless they really fucked up. And it doesn't sound like you fucked up. I'm sure this girl still has feelings for you no matter how much she acts like she has moved on. I'd just make sure you're giving her alot of attention, and just be a GREAT guy, and the chicks feelings for you will come rushing back.

Good luck man.

[scmaley]

It all depends on how moved on the girl is--is she dating someone else or is she just not giving you as much attention? Those are two totally different situations.
When I was in high school I would have given a guy like that another chance. Now that I'm more mature, I would probably realize that I moved on for a reason and not give him a chance.

[maiabean]

for realsies though, this is probably just another case of people wanting what they can't have. and if you do actually get her back, you will realize you don't even want her.

scrubs ftw.

Gotta love the life lessons Scrubs has to offer.

This may just be me, but if I show interest in a guy for an extended period of time and the interest is not reciprocated, then I just move on. No point in lusting after someone if it's obvious it won't go anywhere.
I'd also assume he was a fan of playing head games, or just wants some poon. All girls are different though, so if you really want to know what you're chances are, just go to her and talk to her.
The worst that could happen is that she no longer has interest in you or that she has a new found interest in vag after being rejected by you.. Which could work to your advantage if you play your cards right.

[chronomic]

If Ived moved on
Ive moved on
simple as that

I agree, u screwed up

this hurt my brain a little bit

[sinyster]

Had to read this twice. I'd say you're kinda boned. Might as well get on with life..

[Blueray]

go for it , if she doesn't want anymore oh well.




Good Luck

[SgtFumunda]

If I tuck my manhood between my legs, my genital area resembles that of a female. Can I answer your question?

[xXaLLiOo]

what changed your mind about this girl anyway? i think you're gonna need to give her a good reason why you didn't want her then but you do now.

[chelseawerd]

if you didnt want her when she wanted you, what makes you want her now? if she is over you what makes you think that she will develope feelings for you again.
if this girl you're talking about really liked to be begin with, then she will most likely give you a chance...

good luck :-)

[SgtSmegma]

Did you anal her at any point in time?

[SgtSmegma]

If I tuck my manhood between my legs, my genital area resembles that of a female. Can I answer your question?

I am all too familiar with the magina.

http://photos-658.ll.facebook.com/photos-ll-sf2p/v77/175/61/38408658/n38408658_32543922_8770.jpg

[SgtFumunda]

I am all too familiar with the magina.

http://photos-658.ll.facebook.com/photos-ll-sf2p/v77/175/61/38408658/n38408658_32543922_8770.jpg
Wat?

[m_rue]

It all just depends on how much I like him.. If I like him a lot, I'd give him another chance.

[kayleeAMAZING]

no chance.

[hellogorgeous]

I am all too familiar with the magina.

http://photos-658.ll.facebook.com/photos-ll-sf2p/v77/175/61/38408658/n38408658_32543922_8770.jpg


chi omega. nice

[SgtSmegma]

chi omega. nice

That's the notable element of this picture for you? Not the fact that I am naked and exhibiting the mangina?

[SgtSmegma]

Wat?

Then i put vasoline on my other hand
and start rubbing my penis

[lions]

lolwut

[lovely864md]

Then i put vasoline on my other hand
and start rubbing my penis

Bloodninja?

[SgtSmegma]

Bloodninja?

Haha, no. Read this: http://www.collegehumor.com/picture:1805418

[hellogorgeous]

That's the notable element of this picture for you? Not the fact that I am naked and exhibiting the mangina?


oh, that's pretty notable, even with a mangina i'd tap that.

[lovely864md]

Haha, no. Read this: http://www.collegehumor.com/picture:1805418

Haha I had read that one before but I couldn't remember whether or not it was a bloodninja one.

[SgtSmegma]

oh, that's pretty notable, even with a mangina i'd tap that.

It's actually just a vagina :shrug:

Haha I had read that one before but I couldn't remember whether or not it was a bloodninja one.

Haha, its hilarious.