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MrsGarrison
04/25/08, 10:43 PM
Alright, so right now I am dealing with some discomfort "down there" after having sex with my boyfriend. Most of the time we don't go at it for more thatn 1/2 hour to 45 minutes, but anymore than that and I just get ridiculously sore and it hurts like a bitch. Its very frustrating because I know we could probably do it alot longer, but our longest time was like an hour, and after that I swear to God I felt like I had given birth to triplets. I lost my virginity to him a year ago, so its not "virgin pains" [those really suck though]. Anyway, my point is, the sex is fantastic, the post-sex vagina on fire for 10 minutes is not. Will this go away with time, and does this happen to anyone else? Oh, and for any immature assholes waiting to jump at the chance to diagnose an STD, I'm sorry to crush your hopes and dreams at verbally degrading me, but I'm clean as a whistle.

imahoodlum
04/25/08, 10:45 PM
anal.

Kassie09
04/25/08, 10:48 PM
You lost your virginity a year ago and it still hurts? that's not normal at all, you should probably go get that checked out..

SkyHeldUpByStar
04/25/08, 10:48 PM
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v519/HideNothing/a60788b0e09fe6b41d5208ca1d7f0c2b_4. gif

okc0mputer
04/25/08, 10:49 PM
my girlfriend gets sore like that too except it only really happens if we do it for more than an hour and a half or so. i imagine your "tolerance" will increase over time...

wewascontenders
04/25/08, 10:51 PM
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v519/HideNothing/a60788b0e09fe6b41d5208ca1d7f0c2b_4. gif

only solution. but really get that checked out.

MrsGarrison
04/25/08, 10:51 PM
You lost your virginity a year ago and it still hurts? that's not normal at all, you should probably go get that checked out..

It doesn't hurt while we're doing it, just afterwards it feels irritated and uncomfortable for about 10-20 minutes. its not excrucuiating, but its definetely something i could do without.

Kassie09
04/25/08, 10:53 PM
It doesn't hurt while we're doing it, just afterwards it feels irritated and uncomfortable for about 10-20 minutes. its not excrucuiating, but its definetely something i could do without.
Hmm, that must suck.
I can't imagine the cause of that..maybe you're allergic to your boyfriend semen? I have heard of that, but I'll assume it's quite rare.
You should talk to the gynecologist about it, that doesn't sound normal at all, plus, I'm sure it sort of ruins sex.

MrsGarrison
04/25/08, 11:05 PM
Hmm, that must suck.
I can't imagine the cause of that..maybe you're allergic to your boyfriend semen? I have heard of that, but I'll assume it's quite rare.
You should talk to the gynecologist about it, that doesn't sound normal at all, plus, I'm sure it sort of ruins sex.

Yea, I'm definetely gonna bring it up when I go. We can rule out the semen allergy though, for me its no glove, no love. Sex without a condom is a phobia of mine lol. And I wouldn't say it ruins sex, cuz if it did I wouldn't even bother. The sex is bomb. Its just annoying afterward.
I'm guessing what that guy said earlier is true though, that eventually my "tolerance" will grow, and over time..wild 3 hour sexual escapades will not cause my area to ultimately feel like its been blowtorched.

Kassie09
04/25/08, 11:09 PM
Yea, I'm definetely gonna bring it up when I go. We can rule out the semen allergy though, for me its no glove, no love. Sex without a condom is a phobia of mine lol. And I wouldn't say it ruins sex, cuz if it did I wouldn't even bother. The sex is bomb. Its just annoying afterward.
I'm guessing what that guy said earlier is true though, that eventually my "tolerance" will grow, and over time..wild 3 hour sexual escapades will not cause my area to ultimately feel like its been blowtorched.

Oh, well that's good the semen allergy is ruled out.
I guess perhaps your tolerance will grow, this just seems like something that'd be happening for just the first couple of months, not for an entire year. But perhaps it's just different for everyone. The blowtourched word usage made me cringe, that's terrible.

CityOfLust
04/25/08, 11:09 PM
i usually have my bitch do some jumping jacks or take a jog.

SkyHeldUpByStar
04/25/08, 11:09 PM
Maybe it's the condom? :shrug:

MrsGarrison
04/25/08, 11:12 PM
Oh, well that's good the semen allergy is ruled out.
I guess perhaps your tolerance will grow, this just seems like something that'd be happening for just the first couple of months, not for an entire year. But perhaps it's just different for everyone. The blowtourched word usage made me cringe, that's terrible.

Haha, that was the effect I was going for.

lovely864md
04/25/08, 11:16 PM
Have you gotten checked for a UTI?

MrsGarrison
04/25/08, 11:18 PM
Have you gotten checked for a UTI?

I had a check up about a week ago. I did a piss test, all clean.

lovely864md
04/25/08, 11:20 PM
I had a check up about a week ago. I did a piss test, all clean.

I'm stumped then. Get that checked.

Kassie09
04/25/08, 11:21 PM
Also, when you do find out, you should post back here because I'm so confused as to why that's happening! I could understand pain during sex..but since this is after..I don't get it, I'm curious to know why.

thesafeword
04/25/08, 11:23 PM
I read this as Mrs.Sweeney Todd and I was getting ready to make fun of her. Needless to say, I was a little disapointed.

Inthenickoftime
04/26/08, 12:02 AM
allergic to latex?

konvalbr
04/26/08, 12:20 AM
allergic to latex?

that would be my guess too.

MrsGarrison
04/26/08, 07:29 AM
allergic to latex?

I've never had any allergies to latex before, but I'm definetely considering it as a possibility.

fadedmemories
04/26/08, 08:29 AM
Hmm, that must suck.
I can't imagine the cause of that..maybe you're allergic to your boyfriend semen? I have heard of that, but I'll assume it's quite rare.
You should talk to the gynecologist about it, that doesn't sound normal at all, plus, I'm sure it sort of ruins sex.


yup, saw something about that on "house"

chronomic
04/26/08, 09:07 AM
try a different brand of condom?

ive had this happen to be before but its just cuz im an animal in the sack with a huge dick. maybe your man is like me.

amberxlea
04/26/08, 09:37 AM
Possibly due to a slight lack of lubrication after you've been going at it for a bit? The friction from that can cause serious discomfort, but generally isn't noticed in the midst of good sex.

MrsGarrison
04/26/08, 10:45 AM
try a different brand of condom?

ive had this happen to be before but its just cuz im an animal in the sack with a huge dick. maybe your man is like me.

quite possibly. :biggrin:

thesafeword
04/26/08, 11:15 AM
Maybe chronomic is your man and you two just haven't realized that you're talking on the internet.

chronomic
04/26/08, 11:24 AM
oh shi-

thesafeword
04/26/08, 11:46 AM
Change rubbers bud.

chronomic
04/26/08, 12:03 PM
will do

Roboman
04/26/08, 12:20 PM
try a different brand of condom?

ive had this happen to be before but its just cuz im an animal in the sack with a huge dick. maybe your man is like me.

Your vagina has felt like it has been blowtorched after sex before? Sweet, I've found one of those elusive hermaphrodites.

llwilliamsll
04/26/08, 12:42 PM
Are you by any chance having sex with this guy?
http://www.creativescreenwriting.com/csdaily/csdart/images/2005-12-Dec/Fantastic%20Four%20-%20Even%20better%20than%20Dan%20Ack royds%20Johnny%20the%20Human%20Torc h%20Halloween%20costume%20%28350w%2 9.jpg

rerelease_
04/26/08, 01:06 PM
Are you by any chance having sex with this guy?
http://www.creativescreenwriting.com/csdaily/csdart/images/2005-12-Dec/Fantastic%20Four%20-%20Even%20better%20than%20Dan%20Ack royds%20Johnny%20the%20Human%20Torc h%20Halloween%20costume%20%28350w%2 9.jpg

hahaha, good

Greg
04/26/08, 01:09 PM
Are you by any chance having sex with this guy?
http://www.creativescreenwriting.com/csdaily/csdart/images/2005-12-Dec/Fantastic%20Four%20-%20Even%20better%20than%20Dan%20Ack royds%20Johnny%20the%20Human%20Torc h%20Halloween%20costume%20%28350w%2 9.jpg
flame on!

Miss Heartcore
04/26/08, 01:23 PM
Are you by any chance having sex with this guy?
http://www.creativescreenwriting.com/csdaily/csdart/images/2005-12-Dec/Fantastic%20Four%20-%20Even%20better%20than%20Dan%20Ack royds%20Johnny%20the%20Human%20Torc h%20Halloween%20costume%20%28350w%2 9.jpg

:rotfl:

RamInGoreville
04/26/08, 01:55 PM
Are you by any chance having sex with this guy?
http://www.creativescreenwriting.com/csdaily/csdart/images/2005-12-Dec/Fantastic%20Four%20-%20Even%20better%20than%20Dan%20Ack royds%20Johnny%20the%20Human%20Torc h%20Halloween%20costume%20%28350w%2 9.jpg

I lol'd.

chronomic
04/26/08, 01:56 PM
Your vagina has felt like it has been blowtorched after sex before? Sweet, I've found one of those elusive hermaphrodites.

yea dude it sucks big time

RamInGoreville
04/26/08, 02:05 PM
yea dude it sucks big time

I would hate having a va jay jay.

However, i DO love them.

EDIT: I have no idea why I quoted you on this haha

Miss Heartcore
04/26/08, 02:10 PM
You went to the Gyno and there were no issues? I knew someone who had pains after sexual activity and it turns out that her hymen was too thick and she had to have surgery.

CityOfLust
04/26/08, 02:27 PM
does the man you happen to be having intercourse with by chance happen to be african american

chronomic
04/26/08, 04:38 PM
a hymen being too thick? well that sounds like it sucks.

Miss Heartcore
04/26/08, 04:51 PM
Yea she had to get a hymenotomy before she could have sex. We just said she was "nutured"

Though, I guess this problem doesn't apply since you're already having sex.....

chronomic
04/26/08, 05:07 PM
yeah i dont have any problems with my hymen

Tyler Revolution
04/26/08, 05:34 PM
Alright, so right now I am dealing with some discomfort "down there" after having sex with my boyfriend. Most of the time we don't go at it for more thatn 1/2 hour to 45 minutes, but anymore than that and I just get ridiculously sore and it hurts like a bitch. Its very frustrating because I know we could probably do it alot longer, but our longest time was like an hour, and after that I swear to God I felt like I had given birth to triplets. I lost my virginity to him a year ago, so its not "virgin pains" [those really suck though]. Anyway, my point is, the sex is fantastic, the post-sex vagina on fire for 10 minutes is not. Will this go away with time, and does this happen to anyone else? Oh, and for any immature assholes waiting to jump at the chance to diagnose an STD, I'm sorry to crush your hopes and dreams at verbally degrading me, but I'm clean as a whistle.

Is your boyfriend a big black guy?

Tyler Revolution
04/26/08, 05:34 PM
does the man you happen to be having intercourse with by chance happen to be african american

Damn you.

Miss Heartcore
04/26/08, 05:39 PM
yeah i dont have any problems with my hymen

I would hope not.

PadraicPrincess
04/26/08, 05:42 PM
Call this guy, looks like he makes house calls.

http://mrlubrication.com/images/MrLube.jpg

Mrs.Sweeny Todd
04/27/08, 10:42 AM
go ask ur doctor maybe you have like a problem with something like too much skin idk get an appointment

ammar
04/27/08, 10:48 AM
Or maybe your lesbian

Smash Adams
04/27/08, 10:52 AM
you know what I'll have sex with you and we'll see if maybe it's just him

Miss Heartcore
04/27/08, 11:27 AM
you know what I'll have sex with you and we'll see if maybe it's just him

You sly dog. :flirt:

Chris Fallon
04/27/08, 12:57 PM
I am confused. I thought Mrs. Garrison was now back to Mr. Garrison. If that's true, this doesn't make any sense.

MrsGarrison
04/27/08, 05:45 PM
I am confused. I thought Mrs. Garrison was now back to Mr. Garrison. If that's true, this doesn't make any sense.

I preferred it as Mrs. Garrison, much better personality. Especially in the 300 Lezbos episode. funny shit.

MrsGarrison
04/27/08, 05:47 PM
go ask ur doctor maybe you have like a problem with something like too much skin idk get an appointment

just....no.

amysaurus
04/27/08, 06:05 PM
Maybe you're having too much sex.

MikeAWESOME1583
04/28/08, 10:52 AM
To me, sounds like a skin reaction to the condom, def. get him to where a different type. And, just to point out reading all the previous posts, this is the funniest one I have ever read responses of.

xvszero
04/28/08, 11:02 AM
Don't worry, once you get older the guys won't last more than 15 minutes anyway.

hanglikeabat
04/30/08, 03:27 AM
that seems kind of odd, i'm not sure what to say. sorry. hope it pans out for you..

nickthehick2
04/30/08, 06:31 AM
anal.
win.

YouAteMyDog182
04/30/08, 07:05 AM
Maybe its a message from god.

Do you eat any mexican food?
Only thing I can think of...

Lol, although I'm a guy, my best friend told me once his girlfriend went through the same issue, it just happens and passes I guess.
I couldn't really tell you.

total brodown
04/30/08, 07:27 AM
it sounds like you're just getting too dry, and the friction is making it burn/hurt.

start using lube when it starts to feel dry. if he was a real man, it wouldn't be nessesary cause he'd just make you wet himself. ;) haha just kidding. pretty normal shit.

Bites the Dust
05/01/08, 02:59 PM
Maybe you have a yeast infection. I'm not trying to sound like an asshole but are you sure you don't have an std because that's what it sounds like. You really need to go to the gyno and see what's up because that's not normal. Maybe you aren't lubricated enough or if you're using condoms you could be allergic to them. I don't really know I'm not a doctor but that is really not healthy go see someone about that before it turns into a bigger problem

hypa_dude
05/01/08, 04:54 PM
It could be an adverse reaction to spermacide. This takes some time to occur, which is why you are not supposed to use spermacide more than once per day.

shit stroll
05/01/08, 05:29 PM
Alright, so right now I am dealing with some discomfort "down there" after having sex with my boyfriend. Most of the time we don't go at it for more thatn 1/2 hour to 45 minutes, but anymore than that and I just get ridiculously sore and it hurts like a bitch. Its very frustrating because I know we could probably do it alot longer, but our longest time was like an hour, and after that I swear to God I felt like I had given birth to triplets. I lost my virginity to him a year ago, so its not "virgin pains" [those really suck though]. Anyway, my point is, the sex is fantastic, the post-sex vagina on fire for 10 minutes is not. Will this go away with time, and does this happen to anyone else? Oh, and for any immature assholes waiting to jump at the chance to diagnose an STD, I'm sorry to crush your hopes and dreams at verbally degrading me, but I'm clean as a whistle.
you're a jewish latino?

thesafeword
05/01/08, 07:28 PM
And you're not?

spansen
05/05/08, 01:11 PM
sounds like a latex allergy, my girlfriend's got that.

ReadyForAction
05/05/08, 01:56 PM
hawt

thesafeword
05/05/08, 09:45 PM
I don't belive so...

rikfrommf
05/05/08, 09:51 PM
Alright, so right now I am dealing with some discomfort "down there" after having sex with my boyfriend. Most of the time we don't go at it for more thatn 1/2 hour to 45 minutes, but anymore than that and I just get ridiculously sore and it hurts like a bitch. Its very frustrating because I know we could probably do it alot longer, but our longest time was like an hour, and after that I swear to God I felt like I had given birth to triplets. I lost my virginity to him a year ago, so its not "virgin pains" [those really suck though]. Anyway, my point is, the sex is fantastic, the post-sex vagina on fire for 10 minutes is not. Will this go away with time, and does this happen to anyone else? Oh, and for any immature assholes waiting to jump at the chance to diagnose an STD, I'm sorry to crush your hopes and dreams at verbally degrading me, but I'm clean as a whistle.

This is old but I feel compelled to respond.

1. Don't seek medical advice on an internet forum. There are some messed up people who will respond.

2. How do you know? Your partner may not be clean and the thing about STI's is they are readily transfered. Call your PCP or your OBGYN and ask them.

thesafeword
05/05/08, 09:53 PM
I got a gallon of PCP.

absolutealexx
05/05/08, 09:57 PM
The only time that I get sore down there after sex is if I go at it for more than 2 hours. That when during sex if he slips out and then just shoves it right back in and hits the back opening (where your hymen used to be or is if you're still a virgin) of my vagina.

AP_Punk
05/05/08, 10:04 PM
:lurking and cringing:

absolutealexx
05/05/08, 10:20 PM
:shrug:

JackieMcB
05/05/08, 11:38 PM
lubrication? different positions?

at least thats what askmen.com is tellin' me
and they obviously know everything

MrsGarrison
05/06/08, 04:03 AM
alright, so i'm pretty sure i've got his under control now. we talked and decided to try out lubricated condoms. i guess thats all i really needed, because we did it for quite a bit last night, and i was okay afterward. i think it was a matter of me becoming dry after like an hour of doing it, causing alot of friction. i really dont like lubed condoms though. it makes it so theres like barely any friction.

eHaMpToN
05/07/08, 06:27 PM
i usually have my bitch do some jumping jacks or take a jog.

ahahahhahahahahaha

JustAnotherPoet
05/07/08, 09:15 PM
sounds to me like a UTI or latex allergy. but i am in fact not a doctor, so it could very well be some rare side effect of your kidneys failing or brain preparing to explode...