? and Advice

[Roadie]

Alright I have a question for you and I need some advice.
Whats the point of doing something so secretive if its going to get out anyway?

Here is a true example. Ever since I can remember my dad abused me. I am now 18 and my dad is trying to build a relationship with me again. I am ignoring him and now he is getting other family members(his sister, my sister who he abused but she doesnt remember, etc.) involved who have no idea what he did. Since he is getting other people involved I figured they must know the truth so am telling them. There is way more to this story but you would just think I am making it up.

Am I doing the right thing by telling the people he is using to get to me?

[thexflamesxburn]

YES YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING. i understand that the guy is your dad, but that doesn't change the fact that he used to fuckin' hurt you. thats just wrong.

you're doing the right thing. dont doubt yourself.

[MaybeOneDay]

Originally posted by thexflamesxburn
YES YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING. i understand that the guy is your dad, but that doesn't change the fact that he used to fuckin' hurt you. thats just wrong.

you're doing the right thing. dont doubt yourself.

[derricklc22]

Yea you're doing the right thing. I hope it all gets better for you man. I'm just sorry you had to go through something like that. God be with you.

[BuriedAlive]

and i totally agree with everyone. i think its unfair that hes trying to bring others in to try to make you cave in. but telling them the truth also helps. so they wont be so pushy on you to stop ignoring you father. maybe they will help your dad get consueling (sorry for spelling) but the only problem is they may not believe you. but its always worth a try.

[unoriginal]

YOU DO NO WRONG

[IceCreamCone]

Originally posted by derricklc22
Yea you're doing the right thing. I hope it all gets better for you man. I'm just sorry you had to go through something like that. God be with you.


your a pussy. there is no god btw

stfu about your dad beating you i get beat all the time and i dont fucking complain. its just the hand you were delt why do you come on a msg board and try to get ppl to feel sorry for you. your fucking pathetic

[BuriedAlive]

Originally posted by IceCreamCone
there is no god btw
thank you. im sooo glad someone agrees with me. i wrote a song about that. its not too good but hey.

[unoriginal]

Originally posted by IceCreamCone
your a pussy. there is no god btw

stfu about your dad beating you i get beat all the time and i dont fucking complain. its just the hand you were delt why do you come on a msg board and try to get ppl to feel sorry for you. your fucking pathetic

I'm pretty sure the subject of this thread was ADVICE. So you need to Shut The Fuck Up. Go ahead and you can think that there's no god but stop being ignorant just for one second to realize that everyone has different beliefs. Oh and grow up.

[IceCreamCone]

Originally posted by BuriedAlive
thank you. im sooo glad someone agrees with me. i wrote a song about that. its not too good but hey.


post it i want to see

btw god is the stupidest thing anyone ever thought of. how could one person have made everything and have control over everything that happens. its the stupidest concept ever

[BuriedAlive]

there is more to it than just god but it still involves the fact that i dont believe in it. it involves religion, god, and what i think is our upcoming or how this all began (the universe)

we've come here, to save you
from all this fascism, you could live with me
we are all children of a star
no need for blaspheme, there is no god
we just lie naked, in the holy water
and place our hand on the big black book
but why? sunday is a day of rest
yet still ordered to believe in religion
prepare for the after life, watch yourself rot
those dastardly bastards, trying to teach us the way of life
truth is nonexistent, they feed us lies
we swallow them whole, just to feed to another
we slowly pass the hat around, donations
donate to health, donate to my perversion
my priest, you are here to feed my lies
there is no god, there is no after life
just our flesh rotting
as the star exploded, earth was infected
brought the essentials of life, life was born
we are all children of a star, god does not exist
let me take my final ride on the back of a star
escape this place,
leave it for your own permanent damnation,
ripped and torn my our government leaders,
our religious ceremonies, our own self-pity
as we watch earth burn, burn in flames
watching the buildings fall, crumble to the ground
we know, we brought this upon ourselves
the push for greatness, strangled by our own self-will
the lies they fed, caused this chain reaction
this turn of events, that brought earth to its own hell
know this, truth does not exist
but lies do!

[MaybeOneDay]

Originally posted by IceCreamCone
your a pussy. there is no god btw

stfu about your dad beating you i get beat all the time and i dont fucking complain. its just the hand you were delt why do you come on a msg board and try to get ppl to feel sorry for you. your fucking pathetic

Ok, what the fuck ? Way to bring somebody down. You're pathetic. I'm sorry you get beat and all, but what the hell is the point of bringing others down and taking it out on other people because of it ? You just make things worse for yourself and everyone else.

To the guy who started this thread. I'm really sorry you had to go through all of that. But trust me on this one, what you're doing is right. Don't question what you're doing. Hope everything works out. :)

[IceCreamCone]

the song is ok but it would deffinatly be better as a hardcore song where you can only under stand a few of the words and the chorus but you still get the concept and it has meaning

[BuriedAlive]

Originally posted by IceCreamCone
the song is ok but it would deffinatly be better as a hardcore song where you can only under stand a few of the words and the chorus but you still get the concept and it has meaning
ya this definately wasnt my best. but i had a concept and i had to express it. im still thinking about fixing it up... you should see it in the "your lyrics" part i got soo much shit for writing a song about god.

[IceCreamCone]

dude who gives a fuck ill tell them all to fuck off
i hate how everyone was raised as a good christian and told what to believe. this is america make your own fucking decisions stop haveing people do it for you
and fuck god and heven and hell once your dead its black there is no afterlife because you "soul" that supposedly lives on has no fucking shape or body so how can it be living. religon is the biggest waste of time and money

[BuriedAlive]

Originally posted by IceCreamCone
dude who gives a fuck ill tell them all to fuck off
i hate how everyone was raised as a good christian and told what to believe. this is america make your own fucking decisions stop haveing people do it for you
and fuck god and heven and hell once your dead its black there is no afterlife because you "soul" that supposedly lives on has no fucking shape or body so how can it be living. religon is the biggest waste of time and money
i know i did. i totally agree with you here. i was never raised to go to chruch. or to ever be infected by a priest. i just think that their has to be a better explaination for how we became inexistent. there is no way a god made all of us. and i think science has the answer, but hey maybe its just me.

[worldstheory]

Originally posted by IceCreamCone
dude who gives a fuck ill tell them all to fuck off
i hate how everyone was raised as a good christian and told what to believe. this is america make your own fucking decisions stop haveing people do it for you
and fuck god and heven and hell once your dead its black there is no afterlife because you "soul" that supposedly lives on has no fucking shape or body so how can it be living. religon is the biggest waste of time and money WOW! I SEE WHAT YOU'RE SAYING!

Thank you for the inspired revelation. I will now withdraw myself from all the beliefs I had before stumbling upon this doozy of a forum post.

[Touched]

I feel sorry for you having to go through with this but you have to tell your family what he has done.

[Tbones]

Originally posted by IceCreamCone
dude who gives a fuck ill tell them all to fuck off
i hate how everyone was raised as a good christian and told what to believe. this is america make your own fucking decisions stop haveing people do it for you
and fuck god and heven and hell once your dead its black there is no afterlife because you "soul" that supposedly lives on has no fucking shape or body so how can it be living. religon is the biggest waste of time and money

Dude, you are so intitled to your own opinion, but (correct me if I'm wrong) wasn't this an "ADVICE" post????? Not a 'Bash-On-God, F-This-F-That' post.

You make it sound like if you're raised one way, there's no other way. To me it sounds like you're the one who's got issues and needs to make your own decisions.
Either that or you're very closed minded.
The point of religon is to put your faith in something. As you learn more about the religon, YOU'VE got to decide if it's something that makes sense to you.

Anyway...

I think you're doing the right thing Roadie. It's better to get it out than keep it in.

[richter915]

Originally posted by thexflamesxburn
YES YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING. i understand that the guy is your dad, but that doesn't change the fact that he used to fuckin' hurt you. thats just wrong.

you're doing the right thing. dont doubt yourself.