boyfriends.

[bevisbabyy]

alrightt. i need your help.
my bf and me have been on and offf. we were together for 6 months, then broke up for a month, then got back together for 3 months, and we just broke up again. we have been having so many fights and we both have no idea how to stop them.
since i broke up with him, hes obviously not talking to me and its making me really upset.
i try talking to him, but he just keeps ignoring me which is making me even more upset.
he tellls me he still loves me but i dont know.

what should i do? and if we get back together, then how can i stop our fightss?!:-(

[Getup and Dance]

Cut off his penis.

[fulltiltxb00gie]

seriously? it's not a productive relationship. move on.

[sputniksignals]

You're young. If it's not working, its not going to work. Take a step back and figure out yourself first.

[hellogorgeous]

tell that son of a bitch he better buy a good pair of walking shoes because that's exactly what he's going to be doing. seriously you have better things to do with your time than to waste it on some DB that fights with you then tells you he loves you. what is this? middle school? tell him to get a grip & move on.

[bevisbabyy]

he callled me and told me he loves me.
but he said he needs time.
but i dont know if i would want to get back together with him. cause i hate all the fighting. but i truly love him.):

[sputniksignals]

If he "needs" you he wouldn't treat you like dirt. And sorry hon' but you're 17. I doubt you know what true love is. I've made mistakes and thought I was in love, but it turns out its not love til it's mutual.

[bevisbabyy]

can anybody help me on how to stop these fights?
we both have alot of problems in our lives, and they get in the way of our realtionship.

[sputniksignals]

Outside problems shouldn't affect the relationship. It's unstable if things like that get in the way. The fights will stop when you both learn to compliment each others strengths and weaknesses

[Fallinto_rhythm]

Be aggressive. I'm sure he loves, but is he in love with you? There two totally different things. Maybe you should converse with my ex to see how he's coping because you're in his shoes and I'm in your ex's. Give him space and time. He doesn't want you up his ass annoying him or he wouldn't ignore you. It sucks, it really does, but it's true.

[Smash Adams]

dump him be my girlfriend

[sputniksignals]

Fuck it. My advice is worthless. Just give him a blumpkin

[Fallinto_rhythm]

can anybody help me on how to stop these fights?
we both have alot of problems in our lives, and they get in the way of our realtionship.


If there's one thing I've learned is that you need to figure out most problems in your life on your own before being in a relationship. Because your problems become their problems. It's going to put a hugeee damper on the relationship, which leads to fighting. Maybe after you set some things straight then things will get better. I don't mean do it all on your own, you should seek some adive and guidence from others, but really try to look to think things through with your own thoughts.

[updownleftright]

Be aggressive. I'm sure he loves, but is he in love with you? There two totally different things.

very true.
however if you guys are in fights all the time like you say, best thing is to not see each other for awhile. then see how things go from there. if you guys still like each other from the time apart then give it another shot. if one of you decides to date someone else and picks her/him over you then. be happy for them because if you are in love, you only want whats best for them.

[shit stroll]

listen to more lifetime.

[Willy McFurgle]

Straight up punch to the face, then tell him to get you a macchiato, pronto!

[thesafeword]

Maybe you should've given him more anal.

[Chris Fallon]

He treats you like shit, you fight, break up ... and then he calls and says he loves you, needs you, etc?

The best way to get him to grow up is by realizing how much better off you are without scum like him around. Eventually, by you moving on and being the bigger person, he'll be forced to mature and he will change. You need to initiate the process though, and simply move on with your teenage life - remember, you only get to live these years once, so make the most out of them.

[notoaststereo]

dont get back together...

[chronomic]

relationships are for the retarded.

[lovely864md]

relationships are for the retarded.

I wholeheartedly concur

[m_rue]

Be by yourself for a while and try to figure yourself out before getting in another relationship. I think that's what he should do as well.

[thesafeword]

Yeah, fuck 'n chuck.

[4N6 science]

find someone else...why do girls always do that.. get treated like this and then go right back to the DB guys.. its unbelievable..

[thespearkid]

but i truly love him.):
Wrong.

[amysaurus]

Move on.

[4N6 science]

Move on.

I like your jumping ninja turtle..

[Fallinto_rhythm]

if one of you decides to date someone else and picks her/him over you then. be happy for them because if you are in love, you only want whats best for them.


Everyone should have this outlook on relationships.

[SLoT]

alrightt. i need your help.
my bf and me have been on and offf. we were together for 6 months, then broke up for a month, then got back together for 3 months, and we just broke up again. we have been having so many fights and we both have no idea how to stop them.
since i broke up with him, hes obviously not talking to me and its making me really upset.
i try talking to him, but he just keeps ignoring me which is making me even more upset.
he tellls me he still loves me but i dont know.

what should i do? and if we get back together, then how can i stop our fightss?!:-(
You're 17. The fights will only get worse until someone does something unforgivable. Just end it now and be friends.

[alice+interiors]

I wholeheartedly concur
i knew there was a reason you'd had more than me.

[lovely864md]

i knew there was a reason you'd had more than me.

Had more what?

[paramore112107]

I kind of went through the same thing but I just learned to not make a big deal out of everything and the results are less fights, otherwise if it keeps happening, you guys will be waisting each others time. Couples fight, it's normal.

Maybe you guys need space for a while. Period. It'll be a test to see how you guys really feel about each other.

[DaveZeroZero]

boyfriends are st00pid. I know, I am one.

[Gumbyjag]

you need to see other people.

[BoredAsHell]

I know a couple who obviously isn't a good match, yet they date anyway. It's completely stupid. Being alone is a lot better, I swear. Just call it off for good and wait for a better guy that accomodates you comes a long.

Settling just so you're not alone, definitely leads to a real shitty time.

[AlexOnFire11]

you're stupid.
move on.

[DaveZeroZero]

I know a couple who obviously isn't a good match, yet they date anyway. It's completely stupid. Being alone is a lot better, I swear. Just call it off for good and wait for a better guy that accomodates you comes a long.

Settling just so you're not alone, definitely leads to a real shitty time.

It's cheap sex.

[The_kok]

kidnap him, light him on fire and run him over with a hummer

[4N6 science]

your comments are original and classic keep em coming

[Rosytron]

alrightt. i need your help.
my bf and me have been on and offf. we were together for 6 months, then broke up for a month, then got back together for 3 months, and we just broke up again. we have been having so many fights and we both have no idea how to stop them.
since i broke up with him, hes obviously not talking to me and its making me really upset.
i try talking to him, but he just keeps ignoring me which is making me even more upset.
he tellls me he still loves me but i dont know.

what should i do? and if we get back together, then how can i stop our fightss?!:-(
Try tellin him that you both need some space. But that you should be civi towards each other. Me n my ex did that n now we're best mates.

[Rosytron]

It's cheap sex.
Yeah i totaly get that all the time.
I'd so rather be single and have loads of mates than have a bad match with someone

[Rosytron]

I know a couple who obviously isn't a good match, yet they date anyway. It's completely stupid. Being alone is a lot better, I swear. Just call it off for good and wait for a better guy that accomodates you comes a long.

Settling just so you're not alone, definitely leads to a real shitty time.

I meant to reaply to that one ^^^^ lolage

[DaveZeroZero]

lulz.

[4N6 science]

she doesnt know what she's doing.

[riot_gurl]

alrightt. i need your help.
my bf and me have been on and offf. we were together for 6 months, then broke up for a month, then got back together for 3 months, and we just broke up again. we have been having so many fights and we both have no idea how to stop them.
since i broke up with him, hes obviously not talking to me and its making me really upset.
i try talking to him, but he just keeps ignoring me which is making me even more upset.
he tellls me he still loves me but i dont know.

what should i do? and if we get back together, then how can i stop our fightss?!:-(

umm... there isnt much you can do if you keep going off and on. maybe you should find someone else worth your while.

[riot_gurl]

boyfriends are st00pid. I know, I am one.

amen.

[lauratron]

it's better to be alone than to stay with someone who makes you unhappy. don't settle for less. cut him out of your life and you will eventually get over it.

[emopeoplerock]

alrightt. i need your help.
my bf and me have been on and offf. we were together for 6 months, then broke up for a month, then got back together for 3 months, and we just broke up again. we have been having so many fights and we both have no idea how to stop them.
since i broke up with him, hes obviously not talking to me and its making me really upset.
i try talking to him, but he just keeps ignoring me which is making me even more upset.
he tellls me he still loves me but i dont know.

what should i do? and if we get back together, then how can i stop our fightss?!:-(
ok, well first of all, i know how u feel. i've kinda been in the situation before. i had a bf, and we had our differences. he kinda took advantage of me, and he said "i love you" but he didn't mean it. there's no way to stop the fights, really. if he doen't respect you enought to stay with u, then that's defintitly not a good relationship. if he's hurting you that much, it would be best just to end it. it may hurt more than it does now, but it'll be worth it...

[DaveZeroZero]

everything will be fixed if you let him put his p33n in your pooper.

that goes for you too, "emopeoplerock"

which is a lie, by the way - they don't rock.