Official Nice Guys Thread

[sputniksignals]

I feel like I'm too nice. Honestly, I don't mean to sound vain or full of myself, but I really think I do deserve a lot out of someone for what I am capable of giving, and have shown I will do for someone I care about. Unfortunately, all this does is get me walked on. This is bullshit, and I refused to allow this to happen to myself. I'm hoping someday someone will appreciate it enough to return everything back.

Nice guys unite. Fuck the assholes who win the girls over

[4N6 science]

I'm with you on this one..I feel your pain too. I'm also waiting for that right girl that will give me what I deserve along with me reciprocating that back to her.

[Burning Star IV]

I agree. Being nice to people usually ends up in them using you. It blows, but I refuse to reduce myself to the same level as all the other douche bags in the world.

[Willy McFurgle]

:beerbros:

I'll drink to that.

I still can be too nice to people and get walked on at times, and I refuse to lower myself to someone else's standard of bein a dick to get what they want.

[sputniksignals]

My situation right now is awful. I did nothing but give 110% and I'm literally getting walked on for nothing at all.

[4N6 science]

I've had this discussion with girls I know. I'm like why do you always pick the asshole. And they always have the same response, he's tough, I like that. Then I laugh at them when they wonder why the asshole hurts them in the end.

[Smash Adams]

I feel you, I believe William Joseph Armstrong said it best

Nice guys finish last.
You're running out of gas.
Your sympathy will get you left behind.
Sometimes you're at your best, when you feel the worst.
Do you feel washed up, like piss going down the drain

[Burning Star IV]

I feel you, I believe William Joseph Armstrong said it best

Nice guys finish last.
You're running out of gas.
Your sympathy will get you left behind.
Sometimes you're at your best, when you feel the worst.
Do you feel washed up, like piss going down the drain

So deep.

[Renee]

Nice guys > assholes for sure.

[sputniksignals]

I remember that song haha. Leave it to Green Day for words of wisdom. But I honestly couldn't feel any worse. I had a big heart to heart with one of my friends last night and she made me realize I want to be known as the one who's going to give his all no matter what. It's something I've decided I need to do to be myself.

[4N6 science]

Nice guys > assholes for sure.

I laugh at that. I'll believe it when I see it. The nice guy always get screwed over.

[sputniksignals]

It's not so much now that I lost out to an asshole as much as it is that I couldn't possibly put more effort and care into my relationship and it is all for literally nothing

[Burning Star IV]

Sometimes I just don't understand women at all. I'm handsome, well-educated, sincere, athletic, funny, etc. But for some reason most of the women I know always go for the beer-drinking-til-I-puke-and-try-to-fight-anyone-and-everyone-that-talks-to-me guys with a dead end job, no direction in life, patchy facial hair, no fashion sense whatsoever, and are as dumb as a rock.

Life is just full of questions...

[4N6 science]

yeah its sad it has to be that way.

[alice+interiors]

I was told by a girl I liked once that I was 'too nice.'

[4N6 science]

should've smacked her across the face.

[Renee]

I laugh at that. I'll believe it when I see it. The nice guy always get screwed over.
I like nice guys, but I can't speak for the other several billion females in the world.
If people are treating you like shit and walking all over you, why keep them around?

[sputniksignals]

With your penis.

[4N6 science]

I like nice guys, but I can't speak for the other several billion females in the world.
If people are treating you like shit and walking all over you, why keep them around?

yeah I gotcha. I don't keep them around. That's why I am where I'm at.

[Renee]

I was told by a girl I liked once that I was 'too nice.'
Oops, I've given that line.
Too much niceness is often mistaken as clingy.

[sputniksignals]

Oops, I've given that line.
Too much niceness is often mistaken as clingy.

Which is bullshit, and therefore brings up the argument of whether or not girls prefer to be treated like the dirt they treat me.

[4N6 science]

Oops, I've given that line.
Too much niceness is often mistaken as clingy.

so what degree of niceness do you find attractive?

[alice+interiors]

Oops, I've given that line.
Too much niceness is often mistaken as clingy.
haha, I'm the last person you could call clingy.

[4N6 science]

Which is bullshit, and therefore brings up the argument of whether or not girls prefer to be treated like the dirt they treat me.

very true

[Renee]

so what degree of niceness do you find attractive?
the second degree.

[sputniksignals]

the second degree.

It also matters what your definition of too nice. If I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for two years (which I was) I'm pretty much trying to do everything right like I always had. I did everything I could think of that would make her happy, and it did, but now, I'm useless.

[Burning Star IV]

Hold the phone. Could someone explain this theory/concept of niceness to me?

[sputniksignals]

Hold the phone. Could someone explain this theory/concept of niceness to me?

Exactly my same question, indeed. It's all opinionated

[4N6 science]

the second degree.

can you explain?

[Burning Star IV]

Exactly my same question, indeed. It's all opinionated
Damn, I though I could've been on to something here.

[Renee]

Sorry?
This one kid I was "seeing" (I guess that's what it's called, we weren't officially bf/gf) was nice at first, but then over a couple weeks he just got clingy, to me. We both went to the same school, so he'd wait outside my room and walk me to my car, then say something like "call me when you get home". I have a horrible memory, so sometimes I'd forget to call and he'd call about an hour after and be all "are you ok? you didn't call." I'd have him call me in the morning to wake me up and that would somehow turn into a a half hour conversation on what I was going to be doing that day. When we'd get together to hang out, he'd always ask me if I was ok and worry about how I was doing, and always have his arm around me/holding my hand. I felt like I didn't have any space. :shrug:

[4N6 science]

yeah that's a little much..

[sputniksignals]

Sorry?
This one kid I was "seeing" (I guess that's what it's called, we weren't officially bf/gf) was nice at first, but then over a couple weeks he just got clingy, to me. We both went to the same school, so he'd wait outside my room and walk me to my car, then say something like "call me when you get home". I have a horrible memory, so sometimes I'd forget to call and he'd call about an hour after and be all "are you ok? you didn't call." I'd have him call me in the morning to wake me up and that would somehow turn into a a half hour conversation on what I was going to be doing that day. When we'd get together to hang out, he'd always ask me if I was ok and worry about how I was doing, and always have his arm around me/holding my hand. I felt like I didn't have any space. :shrug:

To me thats clingy, not being nice. I mean like I bought my girlfriend a fucking star two christmases ago. I made her this homemade collage with a nice personally handpainted frame with all this other shit on it, I did tons of shit that she loved, and now its all being thrown back in my face and I realize none of this was reciprocated

[Renee]

It also matters what your definition of too nice. If I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for two years (which I was) I'm pretty much trying to do everything right like I always had. I did everything I could think of that would make her happy, and it did, but now, I'm useless.
Exactly.
can you explain?

I just posted one experience with being "too nice".
I think a better word to use is gentleman. Call me old fashioned, but I like when guys open doors, say things like "ladies first".
I was in Florida about a year and a half ago, and I was walking into a gas station and this kid (around my age at the time, so 17/18) was walking in front of me. When he got to the door, he opened it and said "after you". Around my area, guys will just open the door, walk in, and try to hold it open for you to catch it before it closes.

[4N6 science]

Exactly.


I just posted one experience with being "too nice".
I think a better word to use is gentleman. Call me old fashioned, but I like when guys open doors, say things like "ladies first".
I was in Florida about a year and a half ago, and I was walking into a gas station and this kid (around my age at the time, so 17/18) was walking in front of me. When he got to the door, he opened it and said "after you". Around my area, guys will just open the door, walk in, and try to hold it open for you to catch it before it closes.

Ok I gotcha...yeah for the most part I try and do most of those things.

[lovely864md]

My last boyfriend was TOO nice.

[Renee]

My last boyfriend was TOO nice.
I'd be too nice too, those bewbs are intimidating!

[Burning Star IV]

I was raised the old fashion way (with a meter stick!) Just kidding. All of the things like holding open doors, etc. are second nature to me. I hate it when someone won't take a few seconds to hold a door for you.

[remedyeli]

I'm in the same boat bro.
I'm 17, just started collage, working 2 jobs, moving out/going on tour whenever I turn 18. (no, I'm not in a band)
nice to everyone and always open to help, even to the assholes. I just hate drama. and I live by the golden rule.

Everyone seems to screw me over and lie to me constantly because of me being a "pushover".
Not only personal friends and relationships, but also as a promoter, and that's why I have my last show up and I'm dropping that, after doing it for several years.

But whatever. It doesn't matter. In the end when everyone grows up, karma will hit them hard.

[sputniksignals]

I am always a gentlement. I think it's one of the thing that makes me pique women's interest at times. I even steal hotdogs for girls who are on diets that their friends make them stick to strictly (did this, and it was major brownie points)

[4N6 science]

I'd be too nice too, those bewbs are intimidating!

I concur..I'd be really nice...

[sputniksignals]

Karma needs to work for me before I lose faith in myself and humanity

[4N6 science]

it will don't worry, things are tough right now, but in the end you'll be rewarded.

[remedyeli]

things will work out when they are meant to be.

what's the average age when girls finally think that assholes are not cool anymore?

[lovely864md]

I'd be too nice too, those bewbs are intimidating!

Too nice=no bewbz for him.

I concur..I'd be really nice...

There is such a thing as too nice! Having a backbone is attractive.

[sputniksignals]

things will work out when they are meant to be.

what's the average age when girls finally think that assholes are not cool anymore?

I thought at a certain age of childhood your brain was fully developed? Apparently things are different for women

[4N6 science]

Too nice=no bewbz for him.



There is such a thing as too nice! Having a backbone is attractive.

yeah yeah I know, I've grown my backbone after been a huge pushover for a long time.

[Burning Star IV]

Bewbs = highly underrated

[Renee]

things will work out when they are meant to be.

what's the average age when girls finally think that assholes are not cool anymore?
:shrug:

[sputniksignals]

I can't believe I never noticed I was dating a worm (she has no spine... worm... so this brings the lulz lol

[sputniksignals]

Bewbs = highly underrated

I'm an Assman. But that don't mean I don't love me some titties

[Burning Star IV]

I'm an Assman. But that don't mean I don't love me some titties
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/7/72/Kramer%27s_ASSMAN_plates.jpg

I too like a good combo of both.

[KidRobot]

Boobs are fun but so overrated.

[lovely864md]

Boobs are fun but so overrated.

I agree.

[Skadrist]

Sorry?
This one kid I was "seeing" (I guess that's what it's called, we weren't officially bf/gf) was nice at first, but then over a couple weeks he just got clingy, to me. We both went to the same school, so he'd wait outside my room and walk me to my car, then say something like "call me when you get home". I have a horrible memory, so sometimes I'd forget to call and he'd call about an hour after and be all "are you ok? you didn't call." I'd have him call me in the morning to wake me up and that would somehow turn into a a half hour conversation on what I was going to be doing that day. When we'd get together to hang out, he'd always ask me if I was ok and worry about how I was doing, and always have his arm around me/holding my hand. I felt like I didn't have any space. :shrug:

I do kind of see where your coming from. For example, there was this girl who I met in college last semester and during the last month of the semester she had this Indian guy was in one of her classes constantly dog her. I mean she would leave the class and he would be there. Pretty much she did not give this girl space. I talked to this girl throughout the whole semester and she had a huge crush on me from day one; in away I might say she was in the same situation as you.

I do feel like I need to add this story though, I see the girl talking to the same guy on the picnic table. I had just gotten back from playing indoor soccer so I was in sweat shorts and white t-shirt. Anyway I go up to the table having a cigarette and she tries to jokingly pull my shorts down she says " Every time I see someone in sweats I have the urge to pull them down". Now usually I am pretty bad flirt but I think I responded pretty well by saying " You can try again if you like." I will finish this by saying the look on the other guy's face was priceless.

[Kassie09]

I have noticed a lot of girls like the guys who treat them like assholes and will cheat/dump their amazing/nice boyfriends for the assholes. Then the girls will whine to everyone, including the nice boyfriend they dumped about how badly the asshole guy treats them.

I'm not really sure why so many girls like guys who are assholes. I'd much rather date a guy who's really nice than a guy who is a jerk. I just don't see the logic girls use when picking boyfriends, really.

[FadedFocus]

sputnik, I'm 100% with you, man. been there, done that and well still kinda there. I'd like to think that the girls grow out of it, but its like so many that I've met over the years like to be treated like dirt and then want to cry on my shoulder about it, but don't bother to try something new. Still have my fingers crossed that this trend changes, though.

[xXaLLiOo]

its funny i'm sort of the same way, but a girl which i guess is a lot more common. but i'm aware that people use me because i let them. i continue to let them because i love them and hope one day it will occur to them that i'm not an oblivious moron. that i know what they've done to me and i never stopped it because i loved them. i guess i don't really think anyone could love me like i deserve to be loved until they can understand the extent to which i love everyone in this world.

[chronomic]

I agree.

you have no say, lady. i swear to god the more boobs i see/touch/taste/sex the more i need to see/touch/taste/sex them. its a curse. give me all the boobs in the world and ill want more.

and im an assman.




oh and theres no such thing as a nice guy, only a pussy guy. so stop being a pussy, pussy.

[argg_xo]

i usually end up hurting the nice guys, sorry nice guys!

[mofizzle.]

I was told by a girl I liked once that I was 'too nice.'

what the helllll.
thats super weird.

[Chris Fallon]

When I'm not beating women, I'm incredibly nice.

[lovely864md]

When I'm not beating women, I'm incredibly nice.

Playing it hot and cold, I see what you did there.

[screamoutmyname]

nice guys finish last when you run out of gas.

[Chris Fallon]

Playing it hot and cold, I see what you did there.
If anyone knows how I work, it's you Mary.

[lovely864md]

If anyone knows how I work, it's you Mary.

.....I'm far too drunk for a witty reply. How are you tonight Christopher?

[atticusfinch]

I was told by a girl I liked once that I was 'too nice.'

Samesies.

I am finding it's better to find a good balance between being a nice guy, and being aware of how nice you're being so you're not being "too nice". That way you don't get walked on/cheated on/whatever else on

Girls make life complicated in the worst of ways occasionally. But they do have their upsides when they aren't making us nice guys look like shit.

[Chris Fallon]

.....I'm far too drunk for a witty reply. How are you tonight Christopher?
I'm awesome Mary. Think I'm gonna go out and have a little fun at some grad parties. Drunk Mary = awesome ... having a good time tonight, I assume?

[lovely864md]

I'm awesome Mary. Think I'm gonna go out and have a little fun at some grad parties. Drunk Mary = awesome ... having a good time tonight, I assume?

As you should! Yes, drunk Mary is very awesome but not excited about waking up in 7 hours. I'm home already (obviously) for the night.

[silvercyanide]

Wow, so honest to goodness nice guys do exist in this world. But not where I live. *sigh*

[Chris Fallon]

As you should! Yes, drunk Mary is very awesome but not excited about waking up in 7 hours. I'm home already (obviously) for the night.
I'm in the same boat as you. I work at 9:30am so I'll probably be home at a relatively early hour.

I'm gonna go get some food and see what's hap'nin 'round town. Keep an iron fist on this board while I am gone!

[lovely864md]

I'm in the same boat as you. I work at 9:30am so I'll probably be home at a relatively early hour.

I'm gonna go get some food and see what's hap'nin 'round town. Keep an iron fist on this board while I am gone!

Yeah, it's no fun.

Have a good time! I will keep a strawberry vodka inspired fist on the board.

[riot_gurl]

in my opinion, nice guys will get no where in life. you have to show a little assertiveness and a little stubborness. gurls want what they cant have.

[bailmeout13]

I laugh at that. I'll believe it when I see it. The nice guy always get screwed over.

Agreed.

[xXaLLiOo]

The perfect guy used to be my neighbor. He moved. But he was a nice guy. The kind of guy in all of the movies where the girl is in love with the boy next door but she doesn't know it (Whatever It Takes, Drive Me Crazy, Flash Forward.) Or the kind of guy best friend that the girl never realizes/admits she's in love with (Just Friends, Made of Honor, The Wedding Singer). I keep seeing those plots on TV and thinking I should be in love with him. But I'm not.

[remedyeli]

in my opinion, nice guys will get no where in life. you have to show a little assertiveness and a little stubborness.

that's not true.
you can be nice and successful at the same time.

[Hamlet]

You can be a successful nice guy, you just gotta have an edge.

What the assholes usually have over the nice guys is a confident, dominant attitude, assertiveness, and outward sexuality. Nice guys can have this without sacrificing their own values.

Tease her. Make sexual innuendo and take advantage of possible double entendres. Be confident. Know what you're doing on the date. You're the man, you're supposed to lead. Don't be afraid to touch her. Don't be a door mat.

I could go on forever. It's all out there on the internet for those wanting to know more.

[riot_gurl]

well, most guyz i've dated have been assertive and stubborn. but many nice guys have been successful too. many people take advantage of those people and just walk all over them.

[concernedparent]

I feel like I'm too nice. Honestly, I don't mean to sound vain or full of myself, but I really think I do deserve a lot out of someone for what I am capable of giving, and have shown I will do for someone I care about. Unfortunately, all this does is get me walked on. This is bullshit, and I refused to allow this to happen to myself. I'm hoping someday someone will appreciate it enough to return everything back.

Nice guys unite. Fuck the assholes who win the girls over
Do you want to find a girl or what? Quit being too nice. If you want to get chicks, you need to assert yourself as the dominant alpha-male.

Simple as that. "Nice guys" shouldn't be rejoicing, you should be working on how to get chicks...

[concernedparent]

Someone just change this title to "Official pussies thread." Seriously. I've seen too much of this "I'm too nice and girls walk all over my" shit. You guys just need to change your behavior around girls.

[concernedparent]

But it's not being about being nice or mean, it's about being masculine or hiding your masculinity.

[KidRobot]

The perfect guy used to be my neighbor. He moved. But he was a nice guy. The kind of guy in all of the movies where the girl is in love with the boy next door but she doesn't know it (Whatever It Takes, Drive Me Crazy, Flash Forward.) Or the kind of guy best friend that the girl never realizes/admits she's in love with (Just Friends, Made of Honor, The Wedding Singer). I keep seeing those plots on TV and thinking I should be in love with him. But I'm not.

This is the most retarded post I've ever seen. Just because it happens in a movie doesn't mean it should happen in real life.


Fucking hell.

[xXaLLiOo]

This is the most retarded post I've ever seen. Just because it happens in a movie doesn't mean it should happen in real life.


Fucking hell.

okay i'm very much aware of that..but when i keep seeing movies and tv shows with that plot, it makes me think of him and just wonder why on earth i'm NOT in love with him.

[KidRobot]

okay i'm very much aware of that..but when i keep seeing movies and tv shows with that plot, it makes me think of him and just wonder why on earth i'm NOT in love with him.

I'm not even going to field this question.

[BalancingacT]

I've kind of accepted the fact that "nice guys" are going to get the shit kicked out of them. What gets on my nerves as much as anything is that girls have to put on the front that they're the ones being mistreated, that they're the ones who are getting the shorter stick. That's bullshit. Girls do just as much hurting as guys, if not far more (IMO), since at least nice guys TRY to find girls who won't hurt them (and inevitably fail).

[BalancingacT]

okay i'm very much aware of that..but when i keep seeing movies and tv shows with that plot, it makes me think of him and just wonder why on earth i'm NOT in love with him.

Please read Chapter 1 of Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs.

[Mrs.Sweeny Todd]

well then go to a strip club you'll find tons of nice s there

[Smash Adams]

well then go to a strip club you'll find tons of nice s there

will you be there working the poles?

[Renee]

This is the most retarded post I've ever seen. Just because it happens in a movie doesn't mean it should happen in real life.


Fucking hell.

You mean my 30s aren't going to be like episodes of Sex & the City? Wtf.

[KidRobot]

You mean my 30s aren't going to be like episodes of Sex & the City? Wtf.

No, TV is completely realistic. Your 30's are going to be like that.

[Mrs.Sweeny Todd]

will you be there working the poles?

nope srry

[JJJ]

i know how you feel man, im way to nice with some girls and that gets you right in the dreaded "friend zone"

[argg_xo]

i know how you feel man, im way to nice with some girls and that gets you right in the dreaded "friend zone"

FRIENDS ONLY!!!! haha, i use that excuse all the time.

[4N6 science]

FRIENDS ONLY!!!! haha, i use that excuse all the time.

I bet you tease us boys a lot don't you?

[BalancingacT]

I've been in the "friend zone" with pretty much every girl I've gone out with. Not doing it that way is kind of foreign to me...which is probably why I have problems with always getting too attached to them for my own good.

[allthruwinter]

I feel your pain, even though I'm a girl. Because nice girls have the same problems. I have yet to meet a guy that keeps the promises he says he'd keep. Or even a seemingly nice guy who hasn't done me wrong, so I guess it's just all about timing. There ARE girls out there that want a nice guy, and that don't treat you all like shit.

[pilot_light_out]

slap her with your cock

[argg_xo]

I bet you tease us boys a lot don't you?
not intentionally.

[BalancingacT]

slap her with your cock

Too late. It's already been said.

[xXaLLiOo]

Please read Chapter 1 of Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs.


I actually did read it. It's poorly written and I've had those ideas for a very long time now. My english professor calls it emotional masturbation to the point where you like how you make yourself feel by watching/reading/listening to things better than the emotions brought on by real life. It makes sense and I do think that books/movies/tv/music should be more about provoking thought than emotions. But that's not really my situation. I think that would be more applicable if I actually was in love with him because I watch too many movies and read too many books about it.

[BalancingacT]

I actually did read it. It's poorly written and I've had those ideas for a very long time now. My english professor calls it emotional masturbation to the point where you like how you make yourself feel by watching/reading/listening to things better than the emotions brought on by real life. It makes sense and I do think that books/movies/tv/music should be more about provoking thought than emotions. But that's not really my situation. I think that would be more applicable if I actually was in love with him because I watch too many movies and read too many books about it.

No, it wouldn't be applicable in that case, because you would then have proved Klosterman's theory wrong (a la falling in love the way it happens in the movies). It makes sense in your case (or at least the case of what you said in your previous comment) because you're taking a fantastical event made for commercial entertainment purposes only, and, in your mind, trying to apply it in real life. In other words, you wonder why you didn't fall in love with the guy because everyone always does in the movies. That might not be the way you usually think (I would hope not; you seem smart enough not to), but I think it was a fine analogy in this case.

[lovely864md]

This thread makes me feel awful.

[xXaLLiOo]

No, it wouldn't be applicable in that case, because you would then have proved Klosterman's theory wrong (a la falling in love the way it happens in the movies). It makes sense in your case (or at least the case of what you said in your previous comment) because you're taking a fantastical event made for commercial entertainment purposes only, and, in your mind, trying to apply it in real life. In other words, you wonder why you didn't fall in love with the guy because everyone always does in the movies. That might not be the way you usually think (I would hope not; you seem smart enough not to), but I think it was a fine analogy in this case.
His theory isn't that plots of movies never occur in real life, it's that things don't happen as perfectly in real life as they do in movies and that many women expect them to. It relates, but it doesn't apply. I'm not expecting to fall in love with him like in the movies, I'm not thinking that he's secretly in love with me like in the movies. Movies and TV shows like the ones I listed in the post before, and the examples in the essay, are telling their audiences that this is what life should be like. My post was in agreeance with Klosterman. I'm telling those movies that they're wrong. That I can have an amazing boy best friend who happens to be my neighbor, without it turning into a cheesy love story.

[4N6 science]

This thread makes me feel awful.


why?

[4N6 science]

not intentionally.


aww ok, gotcha.. I guess my post was sorta supposed to be a compliment.

[amysaurus]

Nice guys finish last. Kind of a fact.

[lovely864md]

why?

Because I am one of those awful girls who is attracted to assholes.

[Renee]

No, TV is completely realistic. Your 30's are going to be like that.

swt.

[BalancingacT]

His theory isn't that plots of movies never occur in real life, it's that things don't happen as perfectly in real life as they do in movies and that many women expect them to. It relates, but it doesn't apply. I'm not expecting to fall in love with him like in the movies, I'm not thinking that he's secretly in love with me like in the movies. Movies and TV shows like the ones I listed in the post before, and the examples in the essay, are telling their audiences that this is what life should be like. My post was in agreeance with Klosterman. I'm telling those movies that they're wrong. That I can have an amazing boy best friend who happens to be my neighbor, without it turning into a cheesy love story.

Awesome. I guess I just misinterpreted your comment then. I thought that when you said "I wonder why" you mean that you thought you should be in love with him. Truce?

[Chris Fallon]

Because I am one of those awful girls who is attracted to assholes.
So you're like 85% of the other girls on earth? Guys who wear sleeveless tees kinds of douches or the kind that beat the shit out of you? Because either way, Mary ... not cool.

[Getup and Dance]

So you're like 85% of the other girls on earth? Guys who wear sleeveless tees kinds of douches or the kind that beat the shit out of you? Because either way, Mary ... not cool.

Hey, I wear sleevless tees.

[Chris Fallon]

Hey, I wear sleevless tees.
To show off your muscles or play basketball? Because yes ... there is a big difference.

[Getup and Dance]

To show off your muscles or play basketball? Because yes ... there is a big difference.

Well I make them sleevless when they get holes in the armpits. they were a regular t-shirt at one point.

[scmaley]

I like nice guys. I definitely don't think that nice equates to clingy-ness.

[fulltiltxb00gie]

i like assholes because assholes seem to like me. i never keep them around for more than a month though.

[shit stroll]

i like assholes because assholes seem to like me. i never keep them around for more than a month though.
you're an idiot.

[fulltiltxb00gie]

you're an idiot.

yeah. but nice guys honestly have not expressed interest in me so i'm stuck. and i'm fifteen, i don't need relationships.

[shit stroll]

true.

[elenar011]

how wise

[fulltiltxb00gie]

:bow:

[11:11]

i think the fact i have more girl friends than guy friends means i need to toughen up.

[fulltiltxb00gie]

i think the fact i have more girl friends than guy friends means i need to toughen up.

not at all. you've just gotta make sure that when you like one of the girls, she knows.

[argg_xo]

aww ok, gotcha.. I guess my post was sorta supposed to be a compliment.
oooooh, i understand now. and yeah i guess i'm guilty as charged. :shrug:

[Wildness774]

i think the fact i have more girl friends than guy friends means i need to toughen up.

Well it depeds if your voice is gay or not
if it is then that is a cause for concern
but
if your voice is not then
That is good

[11:11]

Well it depeds if your voice is gay or not
if it is then that is a cause for concern
but
if your voice is not then
That is good
i definately have a low voice, and not even close to being gay. im just shy.

[11:11]

not at all. you've just gotta make sure that when you like one of the girls, she knows.
really? cause i think that i would ruin our friendship if i told the one girl...

[4N6 science]

oooooh, i understand now. and yeah i guess i'm guilty as charged. :shrug:

yeah I'd say so..

[concernedparent]

really? cause i think that i would ruin our friendship if i told the one girl...
gaaaaay

[Renee]

haha, as i currently watch 'i now pronounce you chuck and larry'.

[concernedparent]

haha, as i currently watch 'i now pronounce you chuck and larry'.
You must really hate yourself to watch that :(

[Renee]

You must really hate yourself to watch that :(

It's too hot to find the remote.

[Gumbyjag]

I'm totally feeling this thread. I am too nice, and it keeps me from being with chicks and not helping myself with shit, because I'm too busy helping other people out. It's a curse, man, I feel like I deserve to be happy like everyone else, yet I watch assholes win with things I just can't achieve.

[concernedparent]

Nah, "nice" guys don't deserve shit, because if they can't change their ways to get where they want to get, then they're just being "dumb," and "dumb" people don't deserve shit.

[Gumbyjag]

Pshh, why would we want to change. The reason we stay "dumb" is because we'd rather be lonely and nice than an asshole who gets what they want at all costs.

[Bryant]

Pshh, why would we want to change. The reason we stay "dumb" is because we'd rather be lonely and nice than an asshole who gets what they want at all costs.

I watched Gone Baby Gone today and even though it wasn't anything special, I do remember one line from the movie.

"Have the wisdom of a serpent and the innocence of a dove."

Basically, you have to find an in-between.

[lovely864md]

So you're like 85% of the other girls on earth? Guys who wear sleeveless tees kinds of douches or the kind that beat the shit out of you? Because either way, Mary ... not cool.

Just guys who are generally assholes. I don't date guys like that because I'm not retarded, but I do find myself attracted to them.

[daniel.e]

Just guys who are generally assholes. I don't date guys like that because I'm not retarded, but I do find myself attracted to them.

Sometimes I can feel attracted to someone judged only by their looks. Damn reptile brain. But thankfully, the reasonable side of my mind catches up pretty fast.

[fulltiltxb00gie]

really? cause i think that i would ruin our friendship if i told the one girl...

just try to make it subtle then. you could always tell one of the other girls your both close with and she could talk you up a little.

[nonamesleft]

I don't see how girls can constantly go for the assholes. It's all about the nice boys.

[argg_xo]

yeah I'd say so..
well, i guess that's settled.

[DaveZeroZero]

Being a nice guy sucks =[

This site has helped me with that - flaming new users will get you all out of this mindset and still leave you nice enough in the real world, but with an extra edge.

[alcoholandirony]

I was told by a girl I liked once that I was 'too nice.'

In the words of Jawbreaker....

"Either you're too mean or you're too nice."

[4N6 science]

well, i guess that's settled.

done and done.....so how are those crepes coming??

[TheAtticusFinch]

someone earlier in this thread said something about realizing how nice you're being and never letting it get so far as to push her away. ive dated girls and treated them like queens, only to get dumped in the end. in most cases, i do earn a friend out of it and she usually admits down the road that she would love a guy like me, and that she was just too young to commit to such a serious, caring relationship. girls who are into assholes wont be forever. some girls just dont like feeling like they're married when a guy is all over her all the time.

my philosophy is, make a girl want you. dont change who you are. being confident and proud of who you are doesnt mean being stuck up. talk to her like you're the best thing in the world. she may not believe it, but she'll like that you say it. girls hate it when you shove it down her throat that you want her.

[argg_xo]

done and done.....so how are those crepes coming??

it's been too humid to even attempt crepes over here. i've been fueled by ice cream and ravioli from a can all weekend. but they are on list of things to do this summer.

[Ouch]

:drew:

[billyboatkid]

I like being the nice guy. I do get used a lot, but I know one day it will come back and something good hopefully will happen for me.

[argg_xo]

HOORAY for positive thinking!

[scmaley]

yeah. but nice guys honestly have not expressed interest in me so i'm stuck. and i'm fifteen, i don't need relationships.

You need to tell my 16 year old brother that dating in high school is stupid. One of my friends from college got him on the phone when he called me (right after I was telling her about his dating troubles) and she told him that dating in high school is "from the devil." (It was all in good fun, though).

[KidRobot]

Nah, "nice" guys don't deserve shit, because if they can't change their ways to get where they want to get, then they're just being "dumb," and "dumb" people don't deserve shit.


You're a cunt and I hope every single one of the 6 marriages you're bound to have end in the girl leaving because you think you are superior.

[fulltiltxb00gie]

You need to tell my 16 year old brother that dating in high school is stupid. One of my friends from college got him on the phone when he called me (right after I was telling her about his dating troubles) and she told him that dating in high school is "from the devil." (It was all in good fun, though).

it's pointless. all my friends are saying they're in love and crap and i don't see how they can be in love with someone they break up with two weeks later.

give me his screenname on aim and i'll yell at him. haha. it'll be entertaining. i'll make a thread about it.

[sputniksignals]

Do you want to find a girl or what? Quit being too nice. If you want to get chicks, you need to assert yourself as the dominant alpha-male.

Simple as that. "Nice guys" shouldn't be rejoicing, you should be working on how to get chicks...

Oh, I have no problems with getting girls. It's getting the right ones. You're completely missing the point. I'm not making a thread because I can't get with girls - that is not a problem at all. The problem is that the ones that I do make relationships with end up figuratively shitting on me. I'm sure that once you have relationships that don't involve a girl touching your wee wee once a month, you'll understand things a bit more. My problem when I want more than just an occasional fling, it tends to bite me in the ass

[4N6 science]

it's been too humid to even attempt crepes over here. i've been fueled by ice cream and ravioli from a can all weekend. but they are on list of things to do this summer.

yeah its been ridiculously hot here too. Ice cream and ravioli pretty sweet to be fueled on. Well I was just checking to see how it was going. :-)

[sputniksignals]

Speaking of hot, last night was balls hot. We were playing Beerlympics at my friends house and Frisbeer, Stump, and Ruit were getting too intense with the heat.

[hellogorgeous]

Do you like Brand New?

[sputniksignals]

Do you like Brand New?

This is random

[hellogorgeous]

This is random


I'm just curious! I mean, your profile says you play lacrosse, & if you like Brand New, then that just means you're pretty much perfect.

[sputniksignals]

I'm just curious! I mean, your profile says you play lacrosse, & if you like Brand New, then that just means you're pretty much perfect.

Enjoy BN? Yes. Perfect? Far from.

[hellogorgeous]

Enjoy BN? Yes. Perfect? Far from.
shut up and take the sort of compliment!

[argg_xo]

yeah its been ridiculously hot here too. Ice cream and ravioli pretty sweet to be fueled on. Well I was just checking to see how it was going. :-)
well thank you kindly! how's everything in your neck of the woods?

[sputniksignals]

shut up and take the sort of compliment!

I shall then, thank you

[4N6 science]

well thank you kindly! how's everything in your neck of the woods?


everything is going well over here. just extremely hot and I'm not looking forward to another week of work..

[hellogorgeous]

I think maybe not being soosososos nice until you KNOW the girl is worth it works too. i was way too nice way too soon to my ex boyfriend and he pretty much treated me like crap for a year and a half until i broke it off.

[argg_xo]

everything is going well over here. just extremely hot and I'm not looking forward to another week of work..
ditto. but i'm going to see Kung Fu Panda in a few minutes, that should be quality time spent.

[Getup and Dance]

I think maybe not being soosososos nice until you KNOW the girl is worth it works too. i was way too nice way too soon to my ex boyfriend and he pretty much treated me like crap for a year and a half until i broke it off.

Well I hope you're a naughty girl.

[4N6 science]

ditto. but i'm going to see Kung Fu Panda in a few minutes, that should be quality time spent.

I just saw Zohan today.. that was really funny. I might see Kung Fu Panda let me know how that goes.

[hellogorgeous]

Well I hope you're a naughty girl.


HAHAHAH that made me laugh so hard, haven't you read my other posts? ; )

[argg_xo]

I just saw Zohan today.. that was really funny. I might see Kung Fu Panda let me know how that goes.
i most definitly will!

[Getup and Dance]

HAHAHAH that made me laugh so hard, haven't you read my other posts? ; )

Of course I have, I just like to make sure.

[hellogorgeous]

Of course I have, I just like to make sure.

make sure why?

[Getup and Dance]

make sure why?

I like my girls naughty.

[sputniksignals]

I like my girls naughty.

I think shes the one that likes spanking.

[Getup and Dance]

I think shes the one that likes spanking.

Thats even better.

[hellogorgeous]

I like my girls naughty.


who said anything about me being your girl?!?!!


I think shes the one that likes spanking.

:-)

[sputniksignals]

I don't do ropes, cuffs, straps, or anything involving me being physically restrained. Oh and no anal. Other than that, I'm fair game.

[hellogorgeous]

I don't do ropes, cuffs, straps, or anything involving me being physically restrained. Oh and no anal. Other than that, I'm fair game.


what about restrained with hands?

[sputniksignals]

what about restrained with hands?
Fine by me. I like that. I don't like the feel of steel or rope burns though.

[hellogorgeous]

Fine by me. I like that. I don't like the feel of steel or rope burns though.
i don't, either. i hear sensesfail11087 does though.

[sputniksignals]

i don't, either. i hear sensesfail11087 does though.

Some like it hot. Some like it cold. Some like it kinky, but others others aren't that bold. Fuck I'm a poet.

[4N6 science]

i don't, either. i hear sensesfail11087 does though.

I sure do, I went down to visit hellogorgeous this past weekend and on friday after the party ended she tied me to her bed with some rope, it was kinda weird at first but really kinky..

[hellogorgeous]

Some like it hot. Some like it cold. Some like it kinky, but others others aren't that bold. Fuck I'm a poet.
you do have a way with words

[hellogorgeous]

I sure do, I went down to visit hellogorgeous this past weekend and on friday after the party ended she tied me to her bed with some rope, it was kinda weird at first but really kinky..


that jell-o really did come in handy.

[4N6 science]

yeah he must be a cunning linguist..

[4N6 science]

that jell-o really did come in handy.

yeah it really did...you even had my favorite kind. ;-)

[hellogorgeous]

I sure do, I went down to visit hellogorgeous this past weekend and on friday after the party ended she tied me to her bed with some rope, it was kinda weird at first but really kinky..

ahaah

[4N6 science]

ahaah

since you're coming up this weekend, I'll be planning something special with you..

[hellogorgeous]

since you're coming up this weekend, I'll be planning something special with you..


i hope it involves a safeword.

[sputniksignals]

On topic... god some of you women are just heartless. And members of my fellow gender really are fucking stupid too

[4N6 science]

i hope it involves a safeword.

Oh it most certainly does, just like in Eurotrip.. I'll make it so hard to pronounce that the pleasure will never end...

[hellogorgeous]

On topic... god some of you women are just heartless. And members of my fellow gender really are fucking stupid too


who is being heartless? we are not allowed to joke around?

[concernedparent]

You're a cunt and I hope every single one of the 6 marriages you're bound to have end in the girl leaving because you think you are superior.
I'm actually a very nice/friendly guy. But there's a difference between being nice and being a pussy, and all the guys who complain that they're "too nice" are really just being "too pussy."

[sputniksignals]

who is being heartless? we are not allowed to joke around?

No, it was not directed to you. It was directed to my current events. If I didn't have faith in myself, I'd swear off relationships for good.

[4N6 science]

who is being heartless? we are not allowed to joke around?

I wasn't joking Jen. I'm always serious and you know that!

[hellogorgeous]

No, it was not directed to you. It was directed to my current events. If I didn't have faith in myself, I'd swear off relationships for good.

Oh, okay. Well, just don't be so quick to show off your good side.

[sputniksignals]

Oh, okay. Well, just don't be so quick to show off your good side.

Oh yeah apparent I need to be hard as fuq and assert my male dominance, because I'm trying to mate not have a relationship.



Not.

[hellogorgeous]

Oh yeah apparent I need to be hard as fuq and assert my male dominance, because I'm trying to mate not have a relationship.



Not.


hahah I didn't mean it that way but I assume you're talking about other comments. Putting 110% into a relationship is great but not at first, you just have to wait and see if she's even worth it. The second she knows how far she can push you she's going to keep pushing you. Yeah, it sucks, but most girls are pretty immature.

[4N6 science]

good advice Jen

[Getup and Dance]

who is down for an orgy.

[hellogorgeous]

who is down for an orgy.

I was looking at "best of craigslist" earlier and found this: http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/nyc/589072628.html (http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/nyc/589072628.html)

seems suitable for your needs.

[JJJ]

I was looking at "best of craigslist" earlier and found this: http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/nyc/589072628.html (http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/nyc/589072628.html)

seems suitable for your needs.

wow, ten bucks she isnt hot.

[4N6 science]

I was looking at "best of craigslist" earlier and found this: http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/nyc/589072628.html (http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/nyc/589072628.html)

seems suitable for your needs.


hahahahahahahahah

[Getup and Dance]

I was looking at "best of craigslist" earlier and found this: http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/nyc/589072628.html (http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/nyc/589072628.html)

seems suitable for your needs.

I will check this link out when I get home. I dont know if my IT staff at work will like me looking up orgies.

[argg_xo]

sounds like that ladies got everything covered!

[4N6 science]

sounds like that ladies got everything covered!

yeah she does.. I love reading the craigslist stuff..

[argg_xo]

yeah she does.. I love reading the craigslist stuff..
my best friend was in a crappy mood last night so she came over and i read stuff posted on craiglist to her. many lolz were had.

[4N6 science]

my best friend was in a crappy mood last night so she came over and i read stuff posted on craiglist to her. many lolz were had.


hahaha thats so nice of you.. ttyl!

[Renee]

I will check this link out when I get home. I dont know if my IT staff at work will like me looking up orgies.
I think it's Mary.

[4N6 science]

I think it's Mary.

It was Mary's post but don't let her know we know...

or maybe it's your post...?!?

[sputniksignals]

Damn, all this talk about orgies is going to get my internet access restricted

[Willy McFurgle]

I was looking at "best of craigslist" earlier and found this: http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/nyc/589072628.html (http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/nyc/589072628.html)

seems suitable for your needs.

Haha, Best line out of that...

"WANTED: a guy to pull out his big, thick cock within five seconds of our first meeting."

[Renee]

It was Mary's post but don't let her know we know...

or maybe it's your post...?!?

you'll just have to respond to the ad to find out

[4N6 science]

you'll just have to respond to the ad to find out


no because you and ken have something going and Mary is too young.

[kwsqd]

I have something going on with Reneeeeeee. and Mary.. and Kassie.

[hellogorgeous]

yikes!!!!!

[kwsqd]

you want in?

[4N6 science]

screw you ken.. you enough girls already..

[kwsqd]

sorry :shrug:

[4N6 science]

haha its ok..

it'd be nice if i could type a sentence out.

[sputniksignals]

Well I went to a luncheon. Free slinky. Pretty sweet. I exercised my male dominance when I had to introduce myself and said "I'm hard as fuq. Let's mate" because you know, this thread is about me complaining how I can't mate.

[4N6 science]

thats a pretty funny line..I might use it..

[Renee]

I have something going on with Reneeeeeee. and Mary.. and Kassie.

whore

[kwsqd]

If I see you irl first, I can be persuaded otherwise.

[lovely864md]

I just glanced in this thread to find myself being talked about...

[kwsqd]

o hai

[Renee]

SORRY!
if you read the link, you'd understand. i hope..

[lovely864md]

I'm reading it but it's really long

[4N6 science]

you need to stop posting ads in craigslist mary.

[lovely864md]

I know sriously...how did you find that? I thought my anonymity was perfect!

[4N6 science]

well Jen (hellogorgeous) stumbled upon it. We were reading ads last night..

[Renee]

the boob size was a dead give away.

[4N6 science]

yeah.. I saw huge boobs, I was like it has to be mary..

[lovely864md]

Getting a little lonely?

[lovely864md]

Ian knows my bra size hahahaha

[4N6 science]

Getting a little lonely?


no, I'm not lonely at all, I just like to read the ridiculousness that is craigslist, you must be though to post an ad like that one.

[Renee]

i saw that thread too. 34D?

[4N6 science]

thanks, now I know your bra size..

[lovely864md]

Incorrect, Renee. It's actually two different sizes, I'm between.

[Renee]

well, that was a guess..

[Renee]

Dd?

[4N6 science]

Incorrect, Renee. It's actually two different sizes, I'm between.

how do you dance with huge boobs?!

[Renee]

how do you dance with huge boobs?!
duct tape!



jk

[lovely864md]

Sports bras and leotards do wonders, I actually look pretty average sized when I'm all strapped down

[4N6 science]

hahaha cause I can only imagine them bouncing up and down occasionally hitting you in the face.

[4N6 science]

the dancer I dated in hs, had no boobs..

[Getup and Dance]

Sports bras and leotards do wonders, I actually look pretty average sized when I'm all strapped down


Pics or its not true.

[framebyframe]

I love nice guys and hate assholes. All you nice guys better not start being an asshole or I am going to cry. There are hardly any nice guys out there anymore.

[hellogorgeous]

I love nice guys and hate assholes. All you nice guys better not start being an asshole or I am going to cry. There are hardly any nice guys out there anymore.

Yes but there's a difference between a nice guy and a pushover.

[sputniksignals]

Man. Bitches be heartless. But it's okay, my parents got the go ahead on their land in Hilton Head, so theyre going there this weekend... without ME! BRYCEAPALOOZA IS GO. THUNDERCATS ARE GO. WOO

[Biliard]

Well I went to a luncheon. Free slinky. Pretty sweet. I exercised my male dominance when I had to introduce myself and said "I'm hard as fuq. Let's mate" because you know, this thread is about me complaining how I can't mate.

Sometimes you have grab life (or, as we have learned here, women) by the haunches and hump it into submission.

[sputniksignals]

Someone asked me how I was feeling today and I replied "GOOD ENOUGH TO FUCK YOUR MOTHER". I hope they weren't offended and caught the reference