real life versus not

[resrchmnkygrl6]

i made this friend. and our friendship is honestly probably going to be a lasting one. she's trying to set me up with her best friend, jak (not spelled incorrectly). we haven't met in person yet, but we've been talking via myspace for a couple days now, and we get along famously. he's not the scorpio i've been looking for (lol), but we work just fine. haha
anyway, he said he's going to try to get off work next week so he can visit us in PE and try pass off as student. but he's like six-five in a class of freshmen.. he's not going to pull it off.

anyway, besides the point. question: i'm already giddy and i look forward to talking to him every night, but technically haven't met him yet. is this reasonable? and how different should i expect him to be irl?

[I'm DC]

you sounds- no offense- way too attached already. It maybe hard, but don't try to get too far into this before you even meet him.

You could be setting yourself up way too high, that means it's a lot harder fall.

also, some guys get freaked out by girls who are too into him.

[Smash Adams]

he's going to pick you up in school? I'd pick a more reasonable meeting point, maybe like a park or a mall or something

[alice+interiors]

or a bed

[CountMeOut923]

you sounds- no offense- way too attached already. It maybe hard, but don't try to get too far into this before you even meet him.

You could be setting yourself up way too high, that means it's a lot harder fall.

also, some guys get freaked out by girls who are too into him.

100% correct.

[TheSkyline]

Not to mention a lot of people act different on the computer than in real life.
He may be cool online, but in real life he may be some shy loser, or maybe not, who knows?
Just sayin'.

[PadraicPrincess]

Yeah wouldn't meet him at school, in fact i'd take a friend along with me to some public place like a coffee shop or other sociable area.

[DaveZeroZero]

I'll bet anybody here that Jak is 40 and fat.

[DickfaceChillah]

http://blogs.guardian.co.uk/film/candy460.jpg

[resrchmnkygrl6]

i may agree with the attached theory. that's why i asked. i feel things are moving fast.

he's not 40 or fat. he's my friend's best friend.

i don't get what you mean by picking me up at school... he's just gonna hang with us in class. pretty "sociable", and they'll be like 80 other people around.

since i can't multi quote, i think i got everybody's posts.

[The_kok]

you should surprise him by fucking him in the ass with a broken gottle

[resrchmnkygrl6]

you should surprise him by fucking him in the ass with a broken gottle
bahaha. i'll be sure to do that.

[thespearkid]

How old is this dude? Pedophile, much?

[lovely864md]

Yeah, how old is he if he's not in school with you?

[allhourcymbals]

http://blogs.guardian.co.uk/film/candy460.jpg
I think about this movie every time someone mentions meeting anyone from the internet.

[DickfaceChillah]

I think about this movie every time someone mentions meeting anyone from the internet.

And that you always should...





So Hey what's up grrl? :-D

[allhourcymbals]

:popo:

[Chancetobe]

I wouldn't get too excited. Even though you maybe have compatible personalities, you may not have chemistry and physical attraction when you meet in person. So, just keep that in mind that you don't get too dissapointed.

[resrchmnkygrl6]

i'm in summer school. he's not. he's 17.

and you all make sense, so thanks. :-)

and the physical attraction thing... i'm kind of worried about that too. but i'm not completely shallow. so i'm hoping everything works out. my friend says he's awesome.

[Willy McFurgle]

I bet he's really chris hansen.

[DaveZeroZero]

I bet he's hot but then you'll get in his pants and find a mere golf pencil.

THEN WHERE WILL YOU BE? Huh? HUH?

[Fallinto_rhythm]

you sounds- no offense- way too attached already. It maybe hard, but don't try to get too far into this before you even meet him.

You could be setting yourself up way too high, that means it's a lot harder fall.

also, some guys get freaked out by girls who are too into him.

100% agreed.

[The_kok]

i'm in summer school. he's not. he's 17.

and you all make sense, so thanks. :-)

and the physical attraction thing... i'm kind of worried about that too. but i'm not completely shallow. so i'm hoping everything works out. my friend says he's awesome.

he's not some kind of lazy bum, is he?

[Fallinto_rhythm]

i'm in summer school. he's not. he's 17.

and you all make sense, so thanks. :-)

and the physical attraction thing... i'm kind of worried about that too. but i'm not completely shallow. so i'm hoping everything works out. my friend says he's awesome.

so he's 17 so he's not in summer school? Aparently you're 17 and youre in summer school....

[resrchmnkygrl6]

he's not some kind of lazy bum, is he?
haha. no. he works at zumies.

to fallinto... that's exactly correct.

i guess i didn't make his she clear in the original post. i got a few pedophile jokes. lol

[The_kok]

does he have some kind of education, or is he gonna be assistant floor manager for life?

[resrchmnkygrl6]

does he have some kind of education, or is he gonna be assistant floor manager for life?
lmao. wth are you talking about? it's not he dropped out or anything. lol

[Kassie09]

http://blogs.guardian.co.uk/film/candy460.jpg

perfect. best movie ever.

[resrchmnkygrl6]

i don't even know what movie that's from...
:shrug:

[DickfaceChillah]

perfect. best movie ever.

really? the best?

[4N6 science]

meeting people online first is the best.. you guys sound perfect for each other..

[One and Only!]

meeting people online first is the best.. you guys sound perfect for each other..

Haha.. yes sometimes meeting people online first is the best :-p

[4N6 science]

Haha.. yes sometimes meeting people online first is the best :-p
i do it all the time.

[DickfaceChillah]

i don't even know what movie that's from...
:shrug:

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0424136/

[One and Only!]

i do it all the time.

Haha yeah I caught that :-)

[resrchmnkygrl6]

meeting people online first is the best.. you guys sound perfect for each other..

i'm on medication. this is sarcasm, right?

[resrchmnkygrl6]

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0424136/

yeah. i've never seen that...

[Gumbyjag]

i want to see that movie now.

[Kassie09]

really? the best?
Welll...it's one of my favorites so yes.

[Getup and Dance]

Welll...it's one of my favorites so yes.

I will be the best for you dont worry.

[DickfaceChillah]

Welll...it's one of my favorites so yes.

When I saw it... I enjoyed it, but it was such a chore to watch. Not in the way that it is long or too disturbing, it just has this really bleak feeling. I'm glad I watched it but I don't think I will again.

[resrchmnkygrl6]

now i dont wanna watch it at all now if it's gonna make me feel like committing suicide like crash did.

but on topic: i discovered he's a horrendous speller. and it's not "internet" spelling. i'm distraght. i dont know what to do.lol

[4N6 science]

i'm on medication. this is sarcasm, right?

yeah that equates to sarcasm...

[breaking news!]

Okay. My advice: don't try and meet a guy who 1. Needs to take off of work to visit a student, 2. Could be anyone--an honest looking Myspace profile is no certificate that he isn't a pedophile. 3. Is aware that you're a minor, and feels quite dandy about it.

I would not recommend this. Ask your parents how they feel, then reevaluate the situation if needed.