my long distance relationship

[^hoppus^]

i got a problem and im open to suggestions
im in this long distance relationship with a girl i met a little over a month ago, and im really in love with her
we keep in touch through the internet, but i normally have to go on really late in order to talk to her
so recently my mom put a password on the internet so i cant talk to her whenever i want, which brings me to the problem that i havnt talked to her in ages and i feel that she is slowly slipping away
ive constantly emailed her and ive found a way in which i can talk to her again, but she hasnt emailed me in a week and i dont know if ill get to talk to her again
what do u think is gonna happen?

[mirtizzle]

maybe she's just busy
but that's the thing about long distance relationships, you get caught up in your own life and communication starts lacking... why don't you talk to her on the phone?

[aurora]

... why don't you talk to her on the phone?
My thoughts exactly... much more personal and easier as well.

[Mercy Medical]

That's what I was going to suggest...I don't understand why you guys are just communicating online...do you have a phone? j/k

[worldstheory]

Dude, don't be so quick to say that you're "in love" with her. The best thing for a teenager is to not even waste your time pondering whether or not you are "in love". Because at that age, it doesn't really matter.

As for the rest of it, I know exactly how you feel. I've gone through the same thing. If I were you, I would tone down the infatuation, because you could really easily get hurt if you don't. What happened to me was that she actually knew a guy (who lives FARTHER AWAY from her than me!!!) and decided that she felt closer to being in a relationship with him than me, so she ended up going with him, and DIDN'T TELL ME until I flat-out asked her how things were between us month later.

Anyways, if you really need to talk to her and she's not replying to your email, call her. I am probably the most phone-shy person you'll ever meet, but if you want results, you have to get over it.

[Coronary Parasite]

i think your too young to be in love first of all and second of all long distance relationships especially when your young are pretty difficult to keep up.

i think you should call her and see what's going on but remember she isn't the end of the world for you if you break up, you will move on.

[^hoppus^]

thanks for the help, keep on psting if u want, anyway i still dont know whats gonna happenbut ill keep on taking your advice
ill try to see if phoning her would work but i dont know if she'd want to cos sometimes she doesn't want to bother cos she's probably busy like u guys said
keep the replies comin

[Lueda Alia]

well you never know until you try, right? good luck! :)

i think your too young to be in love first of all


oh my god. that's one of the things I hate hearing the most. please quit saying that crap. Everyone can fall in love; young, old, whoever. Its simple really: Love is a human emotion. Teenagers are human, therefore, they can fall in love. Period.

[richter915]

well you never know until you try, right? good luck! :)



oh my god. that's one of the things I hate hearing the most. please quit saying that crap. Everyone can fall in love; young, old, whoever. Its simple really: Love is a human emotion. Teenagers are human, therefore, they can fall in love. Period.
agreed

[Coronary Parasite]

oh my god. that's one of the things I hate hearing the most. please quit saying that crap. Everyone can fall in love; young, old, whoever. Its simple really: Love is a human emotion. Teenagers are human, therefore, they can fall in love. Period.
i assumed that he was like 13...i am still a teenager and yes we do indeed fall in love but there is no reason at 13, 14 to stop your life very rarely do those relationships last...

[Lueda Alia]

i assumed that he was like 13...i am still a teenager and yes we do indeed fall in love but there is no reason at 13, 14 to stop your life very rarely do those relationships last...

I'm not sure I understand what you're saying.... but okay if its what I think it is you're saying (lol if that makes any sense)... then I agree... there's no reason to stop living your life cause of a relationship. but that's different... because you said that he couldn't fall in love... which I think is totally different.. to stop living your life... but anyway...

[Coronary Parasite]

oh sorry i said it wrong the first time then...

[Ellie_]

Man, long distance sucks. I've ended up on two long distance relationships and I'm still not over the last one, we broke up in August 2003... Chances are you're going to end up heartbroken unless you are old enough to easily get there to see her on a regular basis. Otherwise it all just fucks up and you really fucking feel the pain. You said you've known her for just over a month, and love her? Maybe that's why she isn't replying to your emails? I don't wanna be a bitch here but that to me is a little suffocating. My last boyfriend loved me after a week, he constantly told me, hell, he probably had marriage plans all sorted out. Note that's he's now my ex... If you keep chasing her you're going to scare her away. But then if you don't you may lose her. its a tough situation, I know. But if there's truly something there then it shouldn't matter if you lose her for a while coz she'll sure as hell come back if it's love. Trust me, i've witnessed this shit first hand. The guy I broke up with in August... we broke up due to distance, we still love each other. We haven't lost each other, we've seen other people since then but the loves still there and it wont go away until there's a real reason to brake up. chin up, kid.

[Coronary Parasite]

^^i agree with you on everything. and by the way that is a bitchin avatar

[Here to stay]

I've had long distance relationships before. Best thing to do is not get into one. As for communication, I'd have to go with the phone like some other people stated already. Thats how I communicated in my long distance relationship.

[Albino_Virgin]

Dude, if she's to busy to talk on the phone, there's no way you can have a relationship, long-distance or not. I just went through one. He's from Jersey, I'm in San Diego) It started long-distance, for over a year, then we finally were together for a year when he decided to come out to San Diego State. I fell in love. He just broke up with me because he realized he wants to go home. I now realize I was to emotionally involved with something that I truly was to young to get involved in. I was (and am) still truly in love with him, but I shouldn't have jumped into it. It hurts when you try hard to make it work from far away, and it doesn't.
From how it sounds, it won't work for you guys. Try being friends, and if the chance arises later for a real relationship, go for it. For now, date kids near you. You only got that chance once.

[vikingstrike182]

I have heard of exisiting couples becoming long distance for a certain period of time and it working out fine, but on the other hand I have not heard of too many long distance relationships from the the beginning working out. Not to discourage you, but you could talk on the phone that would probably be your best option. If not see her on the weekends? Don't listen to the people that talk about love. It isnt their place to speak on stuff like that. Only you know how you feel, and if your feelings are strong enough and you believe in the relationship things will work out fine, and I wouldnt worry.

[MaybeOneDay]

well you never know until you try, right? good luck! :)



oh my god. that's one of the things I hate hearing the most. please quit saying that crap. Everyone can fall in love; young, old, whoever. Its simple really: Love is a human emotion. Teenagers are human, therefore, they can fall in love. Period.
Exactly.

I'm 15, and i'm currently in love with one of my best friends. And I KNOW this is love.

[Sureshot182]

well you never know until you try, right? good luck! :)



oh my god. that's one of the things I hate hearing the most. please quit saying that crap. Everyone can fall in love; young, old, whoever. Its simple really: Love is a human emotion. Teenagers are human, therefore, they can fall in love. Period.

exactly what i think. thank you.

[Love As Arson]

You're not in love. You're in love with the idea of being in love. From your posts I can tell you aren't even mature enough to know what love is. Do yourself a favor and find someone that actually lives near you because this relationship is going to end in a matter of months. You will both lose interest and chances are you are already looking at other girls that you would rather be with that live near you. Get over the puppy love thing and embrace the reality that this relationship will fail so you might as well end it now.

[In2MyHurricaine]

well then....Long distance relationships I'm sure would be hard, I've never been in one. But I got sad when my boyfriend went on vacation for 2 weeks, so I'd never be able to handle that...You will be okay, try calling her, and if it doesn't work out...move on, and spend time with your friends...I found that always takes my attention off of things I'd rather not be thinking about... :lol2:

[The Bled 13]

Anything can work if you make it...

[MISZKARAOX]

HEY i DUNT KN0 WAT GUNA HAPPEN BETWEEN YA`LL TW0.Y0U SH0ULD TRY CALLiN HER M0RE. BUT DUNT LiSSiN T0 ALL THESE 0THER PPL SAYiN THAT Y0UR T00 Y0UNG T0 BE iN L0VE. iM 16 && CURRENTLY iN A L0NG DiSTANCE RELATi0NSHiP AND i AM iN L0VE.iTS BEEN 9 M0NTHS. S0 iF Y0U KN0 UR iN L0VE,DUNT N0 WUN TELL Y0U Y0UR N0T. THE 0NLY THiNG i CAN SAY iS TRY T0 KEEP EMAiLiNG HER && JUST TRYNA GET iN T0UCH WiTH HER. SHE C0ULD BE BUSY. 0R HER iNTERNET C0ULD BE D0WN. WH0 KN0WS. JUST KEEP TRYiN AND i H0PE THiNGS W0RK 0UT THA BEST.:-)

[mogley]

HEY i DUNT KN0 WAT GUNA HAPPEN BETWEEN YA`LL TW0.Y0U SH0ULD TRY CALLiN HER M0RE. BUT DUNT LiSSiN T0 ALL THESE 0THER PPL SAYiN THAT Y0UR T00 Y0UNG T0 BE iN L0VE. iM 16 && CURRENTLY iN A L0NG DiSTANCE RELATi0NSHiP AND i AM iN L0VE.iTS BEEN 9 M0NTHS. S0 iF Y0U KN0 UR iN L0VE,DUNT N0 WUN TELL Y0U Y0UR N0T. THE 0NLY THiNG i CAN SAY iS TRY T0 KEEP EMAiLiNG HER && JUST TRYNA GET iN T0UCH WiTH HER. SHE C0ULD BE BUSY. 0R HER iNTERNET C0ULD BE D0WN. WH0 KN0WS. JUST KEEP TRYiN AND i H0PE THiNGS W0RK 0UT THA BEST.:-)

2 and a half year, first post bump that is barely legible. you have no future on AP.

[ForeverInADay]

iM 16
Oh, it wasn't noticeable.

[notoaststereo]

i refuse to believe that anyone who has only know someone for a little over a month can be in love with them.

[ForeverInADay]

i refuse to believe that anyone who has only know someone for a little over a month can be in love with them.

thats what i was going to say, before i noticed that this thread is two years old.

[notoaststereo]

thats what i was going to say, before i noticed that this thread is two years old.

hahaha. i didnt realize

[Juliet R Delta]

maybe we can keep it going with another two years of mindless comments [this being the first!]

[notoaststereo]

maybe we can keep it going with another two years of mindless comments [this being the first!]

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[TheTrooth]

i like soup
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[ForeverInADay]

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[TheTrooth]

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